be kind to everyone you meet

anonymous asked:

jas i just spent an hour watching this middle aged man's younow where he talked about meeting dan and phil. he's saying other things but retold their missed flight story and he was saying how they were clearly tired but very kind to everyone they met and he was talking about how everyone in line was young and he said "yes i'm your oldest fan" and apparently they laughed and he said it was nice they give actual hugs and they're genuinely nice lmao. he kept saying it was the highlight of his day

middle aged man on younow update: he hugged phil first and he said “i know you’re dead” (tired) and phil was like “yeah we are”

honestly this just made my day that’s so cute. it’s so nice he was so considerate to dan and phil i’m happy for him :(

SKAM 2015-2017

Season One
Eva’s season taught us about individual identity. It taught us that it is important to love ourselves first and to surround ourselves with people who remind us of who we are.

“I have to find out what my opinion is. And I have to do it on my own.”

Season Two
Noora’s season taught us about feminism, sexual assault and eating disorders. It showed us the importance of friends and female solidarity.

“Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind. Always.”

Season Three
Isak’s season taught us about sexual identity, mental illness and prejudice. It showed us the importance of friends, communication and self-acceptance.

“Whether you believe in Allah or Jesus or evolution or parallel universes, there’s only one thing we know for sure. That life is now.”

Season Four
Sana’s season taught us about religion, prejudice, cultural identity and belonging. It showed us the importance of friendship, kindness, love and tolerance.

“Because even though it sometimes feels like it, no one’s ever alone. … Fear spreads, but fortunately, love does too.”

Thank you, Skam. For coving important issues like religion, sexuality, and mental illness without the cliches and not sugar coating the subjects. Turning an overused plot into an interesting and entertaining concept. Having a diverse cast and characters that weren’t stereotyped. Beating all American shows and delivering the best coming out/acceptance storyline. And for teaching the lesson of, “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.” I’m gonna miss Skam.  

“Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind. Always.”

I think, that quote sums up Skam for me. In reality, we assume that someone is just mean or grumpy because it is who they are. Well, it is not. It is because of the way they choose to deal with their problems. I analyzed the characters of Skam, I especially analyzed the four mains and also two extra characters who were supposed to have their own season if it went accordingly to the original plan.

  • Eva seemed like an insecure and quiet girl who was isolated. Then, it was revealed that she was not as innocent as she looked. The guilt she felt was what made her isolate herself from anyone. Because she was afraid of facing the truth about herself. She learned that avoiding and running from was not the answer she needed. Facing her own mistakes and owning them was the real answer she needed.
  • Noora seemed like a strong and independent girl. Then, we all thought she changed and became someone else when she fell in love. But it wasn’t the case. She finally felt that she was loved and she could love so she let her guard down. Because Noora’s parents are neglecting parents so Noora was trying to be strong to prove that she didn’t need anyone. She learned that people need people. When her boyfriend was thinking of leaving, she reminded him that people need people. She understood that having other people that love you is what made her strong, not being alone on her own. 
  • Isak seemed like a careless, immature, sarcastic and snaky boy. However, it was just a mask he chose to wear as a coping mechanism. Because he was afraid of discovering who he was so he was faking everything all along. He was acting in a way that wasn’t him so others wouldn’t realize who he was. Then, he realized this faking process has been exhausting him and turned him into someone else. He was worried about future but then he realized what is important is right now. When he owned who he was and started to live the moment, he had a character development. He still has his insecurities that make him aggressive, jealous, overprotective and paranoid but at least, now he knows how to embrace love and appreciate others and himself. 
  • Sana seemed like such a tough, sassy and independent girl. It was like she was invulnerable. Then, we found out how vulnerable she actually was. She was trying too hard to hide her soft side so people wouldn’t see her weak. She didn’t talk about her feelings because she expected others to understand her since she understands others without them telling anything. She learned that not everyone is as observant as her. By making her own mistakes, Sana realized she had to communicate with others so others can understand her. She understood that sharing her own feelings was what made her strong, not hiding them.
  • Chris seemed like one of those girls who give 0 fucks. She also stayed away from drama. She looked like a fun person. However, it wasn’t who she was. She chose to stay away from drama because conflicts were scaring her. She thought she wasn’t a good friend even though she always helped her friends when they were in a bad place. Then, she learned that she had to tackle conflicts because she is more than a good friend and she can help her friends. Finding out that she had to power of resolving conflicts made her quit running from conflicts.
  • Vilde seemed like an ignorant girl who tried too hard to fit in. Then, we found out Vilde is struggling in her personal life trying to take care of her mother and her house. Ignoring problems has been her coping mechanism. That was why she seemed so ignorant most of the time. Also, Vilde misses being taken care of. That is why she makes an effort to take care of her friends after they take care of her.

Thank you Skam.

Takk for introducing me to all these amazing actors, who are beautiful individuals inside and out. 

Takk for showing me that no one is perfect and everyone makes mistakes sometimes.

Takk for speaking out on important topics and issues and for representing so many communities.

Takk for brightening up my life week after week, even if I discovered you later on.

Takk for showing me that nobody is alone.

Takk for teaching me that you should be kind to everyone you meet because you never know what somebody could be going through.

Takk for everything.

And even though Skam is now over, I will stay a part of this amazing community. I will carry the lessons I have learned from Skam with me forever. I will hold onto this show and my love for it.

Alt er love <3

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I’m..Ten?!😅

the signs introverted vs. extroverted

Aries:
 introverted: shy but bubbly and really nice, likes to spend a lot of time with those they know and love, doesn’t like to leave the house too much, might be lazy
 extroverted: loud, might seem rude, but really they’re just honest, isn’t afraid to speak up for themselves ot those they love, alway doing something, loves adventures

Taurus:
 introverted: very reserved, will want to you to do the first step, generally just doesn’t like meeting new people and likes to spend time indoors, most likely a music lover
 extroverted: optimistic fluff balls, friends with EVERYONE, emotional but positive thinkers, love to go out a lot, especially near nature

Gemini:
 introverted: might seem kind of distant, doesn’t like to talk about their emotions even when they’re sad, emotional, but really good with children
 extroverted: very intelligent and quick thinking, comes up with the best ideas and solutions to problems, talks to many people and has a lot of friends, likes to be busy, work on something

Cancer:
 introverted: shy, but smiles quite a lot, still able to make friends easily, but uses earbuds a lot and likes to have someone they know around them most of the time
 extroverted: liked by everyone, makes people laugh, likes to spend time with children (and children love them), natural story teller

Leo:
 introverted: resting bitch face, actually cares a lot though, might not have problems with going outside or anything but doesn’t talk to many people
 extroverted: talks to pretty much ANYONE, big and kind heart, buys gifts for friends, does the ebst sleepovers/ parties

Virgo:
 introverted: doesn’t like to go outside too often, probably looks like they don’t even want to talk to you, actually cares though, seems busy, always working on something, perfectionist
 extroverted:
kind of weird, talks a lot, but often it’s also about some serious topics, curious person and likes to learn, judgemental, but can appreceate things as well

Libra:
 introverted: thinks a lot, home oriented, sensitive, will be nice to you even if they don’t like you, super shy, usually good at playing musical instrument
 extroverted: fearless (except spiders), isn’t afraid to do pretty much anything, nothing can stop them, likes to flirt, probably really popular among their friends, kind to everyone

Scorpio:
 introverted: talkative, uses sarcasm or has offensive sense of humour, really confident in themselves, isn’t afraid to speak up, actually very intelligent most of the time
 extroverted: v reserved, quiet, looks tough, actually cares a lot, might complain often, home anf family oriented, sometimes tends to overthink

Sagittarius:
 introverted: looks serious and professional, hardworking person, cares a lot about their appereance and the way they show themselves, nervous easily
 extroverted: very competitive, loud, they’re ‘everywhere’, looks confident, is confident, being in love with them is one huge adventure

Capricorn:
 introverted: the very definition of socially awkward, really doesn’t talk much, usually passionate about something and they spend a lot of time doing it, the biggest ovethinkers you’ll ever meet
 extroverted: might look mean or selfish, but they’re literally the funniest people ever, pays for food, loves to go to parties, cares about their appereance a lot

Aquarius:
 introverted: most likely good at math, really doesn’t talk much, doesn’t like to leave the house too much, has their own world, might tend to  be a bit naive, confused 25/8
 extroverted: one of the most talkative people you’ll ever meet, super curious, likes to go on adventures and hang out with their friends a lot, kind of nerds, but really sweet

Pisces:
 introverted: people still love them, looks tough but is very emotional and sensitive, hardworking, 98% of the time, they have something with themselves that reminds them of home
 extroverted: leader material, likes to be the centre of the attention, amazing acting skills, makes friends easily, smiles a lot

7 Ways to be Great

1. Be gentle and kind

2. Show respect to everyone you meet (whether you think they deserve it or not)

3. Pay attention to the little things (often that makes you stand out from the crowd)

4. Do everything wholeheartedly, with passion and love

5. Be flexible, adaptable, and open to change

6. Don’t complicate your life with lots of oughts, musts and shoulds

7. Encourage other people to be all that they can be.

I love BNHA a lot in general but one of my highest praises is for how they handle Bakugou.

Like, the “cool, angry, top-of-his-game rival character who hates the protagonist” is dime-a-dozen in shonen series. That’s who Bakugou is. And its real common to toss a set of rose-tinted glasses on every other character so they all see Rival Guy as cool and amazing and admirable. That way the protagonist has to work extra hard to beat his rival AND prove himself to everyone else, who all just blindly adore Rival Guy.

And BNHA…doesn’t do that. BNHA lets everyone understand that Bakugou is an asshole. He’s strong. He’s talented. He’s a force of nature. The other kids know this, but theyre not blinded by it. They understand he’s unfairly cruel to Deku. They know his ego is a problem. They’re not scared of him or dazzled by him. They take notice when he’s being a problem. They call him out. They tease him.

There’s the bus scene in early season 1 where Deku’s cowering in shock because Good god, these kids have the nerve to mock Bakugou. Because the kids in Deku and Bakugou’s old school were a lot more like the typical shonen characters. They let Bakugou get away with his awfulness because he was Bakugou. The UA kids are a different cut though. They don’t care Bakugou was #1 in the exam. They don’t care that he’s Bakugou.

And heck, half of Bakugo’s character arcs involve him hopping from one angry existential crisis to another, because he’s not always the best, because he can’t win everyone over to his side with confidence, because he can’t accomplish every single thing his inflated ego says he should be accomplishing. The audience witnesses him meet resistance and hardship and consequence for being an egotistical, hot-headed bully. He faces real-world honest consequences for being that kind of terrible person.

Bakugo hasn’t had one definite character-redeeming moment–no “oh you talked sense into me and now im Good™ “. But as the manga goes on, he’s become less volatile, less cocky, less eager to harass Deku. He still is an asshole, but he’s changed. I have a lot of respect for how it’s been handled. Slowly, progressively. His ego has been chiseled down by personal failures, by witnessing how his cocky confidence does harm to himself and others. 

I love that BNHA doesn’t let the cool, powerful, rival character just have his way. I love that BNHA doesnt just whack Bakugo with a single character-redemption arc and pull him through the other side. I love that BNHA shows us what things are whittling down Bakugo, that they take a metaphorical spray bottle to him again and again, pushing him into something less cruel than he was.

And it’s really good.

i saw wonder woman and i’m going to talk about nothing else for the next three months

spoilers

  • steve explains that a couple is holding hands bc they’re “together” and diana tries to hold his hand 
  • diana’s delighted exclamation when she sees a baby
  • upon tasting ice cream: “it’s wonderful. you should be very proud”
  • the amazons have twelve volumes on sex and concluded that men are unnecessary for pleasure
  • diana not understanding why steve is making a Thing of not sleeping next to her and steve explains you’re supposed to be married to sleep together
  • every second of etta candy and her fisticuffs
  • diana to charlie: “but who would sing for us?”
  • “you mean you were lying?”
  • “do i not look like a man”
  • diana’s scream when she realizes what steve did
  • S T E V E
  • A N T I O P E
  • little diana!! so cute
  • THE WOMEN
  • SO MANY WOMEN
  • FIT BADASS STRONG WOMEN WHO AREN’T SEXUALIZED
  • diana isn’t sexualized at all, not even by steve. not of that Male Lead Makes Subtle Creepy Comments Or Pretends Not To Look While She Changes
  • steve and his squad
  • “what’s a secretary?”
  • “really you put glasses on her as if she’s still not the most beautiful woman in the world”
  • diana not understanding why everyone thinks her outfit is inappropriate
  • diana busting into a private war meeting and demanding answers and truth
  • remus lupin
  • tbh the only really cheesy part was ares’ fight scene BUT it wasn’t terrible
  • diana is the embodiment of kindness and love while being brave and badass and a fighter
  • she literally tries to save everyone she walks by
  • “i’ll save today, you save the world”
  • DIANA IS NOT SEXUALIZED
  • steve explaining that the rest of the world is not as inherently good as diana and the amazons
  • steve is delighted at the lighted water
help you forget.

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derek hale x reader (smut)

warnings: smut, some dirty talk, oral. (male receiving)

prompt: you’re pining over scott while derek pines over you. he helps you forget scott in his own way.

AN: let’s just pretend derek is still in teen wolf and he never lost his alpha title.  i’m such a sucker for alpha hale right now. 

beacon hills was a beautiful town, strange but beautiful none the less. you’d lived here your whole life, fortunately you’d managed to go most of your life without knowing what truly lurked in the dark but in the end, you were exposed to it all and fighting things nightmares were made of was a daily occurrence now.

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Dating Draco Malfoy Would Include...

Originally posted by excusemefangirlhere

- meeting in third period charms and bonding over how stupid some of the other students were

- a lot of kisses on the forehead with a arm around your waist at all times

- forcing you to take his jacket

- im not kidding

- you two could be walking out of the library at 11 pm after studying for the potions exam the next morning and he’d come up behind you and just wrap his robes around your body

- ‘draco i already have my own’

- ‘oh shush i know your cold y/n’

- being a perfect gentleman around you

- but when he mouths off to potter and his friends you put him in his place

- not being a really big fan of how rude he is to the younger students

- SILENT TREATMENT

- yule ball was almost to most cutest thing in the world

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First selfies I’ve taken since November, I really like my new outfit n_n

You can see the ivy I’ve been working on killing behind me in the photos. Some of the roots are twice the size of my arm!