i’m guessing this is about london anon, in which case it’s very sweet of you to think of me, but i don’t live there, and i’m so so lucky and incredibly thankful tonight that all of my friends and family who do live or work in the city are safe. i think my brain is still in a state of shock and i can’t really put it into words that don’t sound completely stupid right now but there are individuals and families out there tonight who aren’t as lucky and all i can think of rn is everyone who has been affected by this. ❤
Gold star lesbian is kinda not a good thing, it's dismissive of Bisexual girls and lesbians who have been with guys, like they're less then other lesbians just because of that which is stupid
I think so, that fact that i never had sex with a boy and don’t want to don’t make me more sapphic than other lesbians. I honestly think that all those names and categories aren’t worth a thing. I also think girls who are not “gold star lesbians” shouldn’t even mind bc its dumb that this thing defines is girl has true feelings for girls or not. its not a fault to not to be like that, it doesnt make you a good or a bad person tho
what rlly baffles me is that some people can be like. 100% sure others like them, h ow?? you could be my friend for 10 years, give me all of you, share all your secrets with me, help with get through my bs life and I’d still think you secretly hate me and that I’m a burden tbh??