Today, the person I have had feelings for but are just friends with, bluntly told me they don't ever see us working out in the future. I knew this but actually reading those texts hurt more than anything ever has. I don't want to have these feelings for them, and they don't understand I don't want to be with them, i just want them in my life but they don't want to be friends bc of this. They're in a relationship which is why they don't want a friendship right now, but it still sucks
of course that sucks! of course it does. but here’s my question to you, why would you want someone in your life that doesn’t want to be there? don’t leave yourself hung up on toxic people, it may hurt now, but you’ll feel a lot better when it’s not so fresh and you can have a clear mind to look back on things.
I still have people that i still think about and hope are doing well. but that doesn’t mean they belong in my life.