basically my feelings towards everyone all the time

anonymous asked:

Have y'all heard about Pristin's Kyla temporarily leaving the group? Her brother claims she's been dealing with a concussion since the group shot their m/v for "we like" and is getting treatment back in the US but I'm not buying it. Especially since concussions are dealt w/ immediately. Many think she's feeling mentally exhausted from all of the bullying towards her weight. Some think she's gonna go on a diet and come back skinny. It's all sad TBH.

Yes and I’m mortified. Never in my seven years of being into Kpop have I seen people go so hard after a little girl about her weight… Like it’s not even just netizens this time, it’s everyone who feels like their opinion matters and it’s sad. Especially because I heard her brother’s been commenting on videos on YT basically asking people to leave her alone.

The concussion thing seems unlikely, as you mentioned unless she had a lasting injury? Either way, I hope she’s doing fine and resting away from everything :/

-Admin Kim 

anonymous asked:

im starting uni soon too (T▽T) im really bad at interacting and getting to know people in general so at my orientation camp i didnt talk to anyone and was by myself the whole time ally do you have any tips for approaching people easily

hmmm….i’m quite a sociable/noisy person irl but i used to be really introverted and awkward too, and what really helped me break out of it was just, the simple belief that everyone is just like me? everyone at orientation camp is confused, new, probably scared and excited! everyone appreciates a new, friendly face, confessing that they’re just as confused and tired as i am! (i practically made friends with everyone in my group over mutual complaining lmfao)

another thinking that helped is repeatedly telling yourself that you’re not someone in the spotlight. you’re just a new random person in someone else’s eyes and have the power to shape a brand new image of yourself right then and there. and how would you like a new friend to approach you? using a very casual approach worked all the time for me at camp!

seeing everyone as potential future friends and thinking up of simple questions like “hey, yknow what the facilitator is saying? didn’t catch it..” (even if you DID hear it) could be the very first step towards making new wonderful ties!

anonymous asked:

Dean just breaks my heart. There's lots of fanfic, meta, canon, etc about his lack of childhood but he had a lack of any life. Like at all. Tbh we all regret things, I wish I'd travelled more, wish I'd maybe cloud seeded more before getting married but ultimately my simple life is awesome. He hasn't had any choice at all. I know you're the first person to know this but it just hit me while reading a college AU. College shouldn't be an AU for smarty pants Dean. I made myself sad. Fix it please!

Aw! I know exactly what you mean, tbh I have these feelings about all of TFW, plus now Mary (and John too) and even Crowley and… well everyone in the show, they just all have such a super hard time?!

But yeah, I mean, Dean *humanity* Winchester definitely takes a huge portion of this…the plus side is that, in my opinion, the show is leading towards positive things for most of them (and by this I mean basically for TFW).

We have had so many things set up over the years as things that they want, that they’ve suppressed due to the mission, putting the world and other people first, and now finally they are ALL starting to think about themselves on different levels, at different points (Dean is relatively done, Sam is midway and Cas has just had his darkest point), thinking about what they want, feeling that they deserve this and thinking how they can begin to achieve them.

Season 12 was so Dean focused and the whole season was a Dean metaphor ending in the positive climax of 12x22, after season 11 exposed that:

Originally posted by casclaire

Season 12 gave us so much exposition for what Dean does want, what he’s been holding back from, 12x11 showed us some key obvious aspects but throughout the season of course we saw more, all leading to him feeling that he DESERVES more (from Mary, but in this metaphor, from life in general, because Mary is an extension of Amara, the person she knew Dean NEEDED to see this).

So moving forwards now, if Dean doesn’t take a backstep, if he continues this journey, he should start really un-repressing these things, pushing away the things that stop him from having it all, going after those things… going after his own happiness.

And honestly I don’t like to say anything is going to happen sooner than endgame, especially with the fact that we don’t know for sure when endgame is, but I hope that we see at least some of this in season 13, that season 13 shows us a lot more of what Dean has under the facade, that it builds on the fact that he pulled those walls down…

Basically imo it should be all up from here for Dean due to his s11/12 arc ending in the climax of 12x22 (with the odd backstepping of course, for example I fully expect and indeed hope for the complete opposite of this in 01-03 whilst he is in shock and mourning, until he moves forwards in a climactic  breakdown / moving forwards moment).

BUT I am in no way saying “hey, no more pain for Dean! It’s all gonna be awesome!” because well it’s still Supernatural ;)

anonymous asked:

What do you think about the drama with simpliciaty and lumy sims?

Not gonna get to involved cause this will bring me back to their friend as well, you know the one(s) that left the community some time ago spilling T and drooping receipts (bs) and back than I decided not to get involved as well cause so many things where being said already and I was like just let it be and move one with your life even tho they did me and some others wrong. Having that in mind I cant say I’m to surprised about this, they all did the same thing basically. I will say that I think its absolutely wrong and disrespectful to do what they did and everyone following me already knows my feelings towards stuff like this. Now ppl can get really really nasty sometimes and I don’t think anyone deserves shit that they probably received already we can all still be civil about it, they did something that is morally really wrong and the best thing they can do is apologize and remove all the content that they took or the one they are not 100% sure they have permission to be posting and really important thing making money off of cause even if an artist lets you edit their stuff you still need to make it very clear that you will be selling it and see if they will be ok with that as well. So that’s pretty much it I really hope they chose to do the right thing after this and not go the other way.


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“Can you do a first kiss with Niall and make it really sweet?“ 

 Warnings: None/ fluff! 

 *i do not own this gif* 


 I parked on the tarmac once I checked in with security and hurriedly clambered out of my car. I brush my hair behind my ears as the wind whips it over my face. I spot him as he walks down the stairs of his private jet, I smile as my eyes scan his familiar blonde hair in its usual quiff and his sunglasses concealing the blue eyes I was so familiar with and his pillow tucked underneath his arm. The person who I had been in love with since I was seven years old, my best friend. 

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Headcanon of the Day #3

Oliver used to be a stereotypical hardcore Christian boys (and still is). He has the seven middle names and goes to church whenever he can. He was also homophobic. Then one day, Allen came out to him. Oliver could tell Allen was struggling to tell him because he knew Ollie was against it. He just told the typical dad joke and hugged him, thanking him.

Ollie asked himself this simple thing: Why would God create gays if he was against them? The answer: He wouldn’t. So Oliver became more and more accepting, treating each of Allen’s partners with the same level of ‘Hurt him and I’ll make you into cupcakes, teehee.’

One day Ollie went into mass for a gay couple’s wedding. It was a beautiful wedding. However, this one guy that was there started cursing out the couple at the after party, telling them how this was wrong.

Oliver went up to him and slapped him. 'Cursing’ him out with 'gosh diddly’s and 'mother-father’s. The couple thanked him when the man left.

A mysterious man with a cigarette walked up to him. He introduced himself with a 'I’m Louie,’ and then the two of them sat at a bar drinking, water and wine respectively. Louie talked about how he admired how Ollie did that for the two newly weds. But he soon got drunk and asked if Ollie could take him home.

Oliver instead brought him back to his own place with Allen. Oliver soon realized his feelings towards Louie and started dating him. He asked Louie to move in and he did; along with his son, James. But everyone called him 'Matt’ because of his middle name. Allen and Matt treated each other like brothers and fought all the time.

Somehow, they became a sort of messed up family.