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Agender Chowder Headcanons
  • uses he and they pronouns equally
    • hates gendered nouns tho
    • just bc someone’s a ‘he’ doesn’t mean he’s a boy!!!!!!
  • doesn’t id as transmasc or transfem bc they’re not?? masc or fem???
  • doesn’t really id as trans until they get close to nursey 
    • the trans community’s not always great to nb people and chowder doesn’t experience a shitton of dysphoria so???
    • they just kinda think gender doesn’t matter
  • won’t wear makeup because having stuff on their face is sensory hell but chowder loves wearing leggings and flowy shirts and crop tops and impractical but fashionable layers and boots
    • they can walk in heels better than half of the SWV team and farmer’s teammates are super jealous
    • also they love glitter. so much.
  • has precisely 0 plans to come out to his extended family ever
    • his sister knows and his parents hear enough stories to suspect, but that’s as far as that’s going
  • has a lot of issues with traditional views of androgyny
  • he and nursey bond a LOT over being nb
    • like they were already close but nursey’s the only person chowder’s ever really related to abt this
    • “you don’t like the trans community?”
    • “well i’m not a white binary trans person so….”
    • “that’s fair.”
  • farmer’s bi af so coming out to her wasn’t that big of a deal
    • they are The Cutest Queer couple and everyone is super jealous
    • everytime someone (at pride or queer club or whatever) goes “this isn’t for straight people” they are ready to Fight
    • (chowder’s a goalie y’all they’ve got mad reflexes and a fair amount of anger why is everyone surprised that they give as good as they get?)