b: b.a.p

Idols will gain weight
Idols will get acne
Idols will get angry
Idols will cry
Idols will get sick
Idols will make mistakes
Idols will sometimes say stupid things
Idols can have depression or anxiety
Idols can have eating disorders
Idols have feelings
Idols can find love
Idols can get hurt
Idols aren’t perfect angels
They aren’t gods or goddesses
They aren’t elements of perfection that are there to be objectified
They aren’t there to be worshipped
They aren’t pure and innocent
They are all just extremely hard working human beings who are just trying to make a living. Always keep this in mind.

Do you know what’s the scariest thing about kpop?

Is when an artist/group catches your eye and you like one of their songs..then start listening to more songs..watch more videos..

Then you start looking up some information about them (age, position…etc)..and start watching their interviews

Before you know it, you are reading fanfics and reactions about them, blogging and tweeting their photos and your playlist is FILLED with their music

You know what I mean…

Originally posted by sandbacon

My list of things that need to be left in 2016

Asking idols to speak in English. Doesn’t matter Whether they can or they can’t.

Asking for your bias when they are not the ones broadcasting and/or are clearly not present.

Spamming comments asking for them to do/say something for you. They are not a performing monkey. Once or twice ok, but stop copying and pasting the same thing 400 times.

Asking people who have left idol groups why they left or to talk about the group/members.

Fan wars.

“Any army here? XD”

Bringing up other idols/groups on broadcasts/videos/posts not relevant to them.

Asking “who is this?/who are you?” When it’s been answered already mUlTipLe times and is in the tiTLe/DescriptiOn OF THE VIDEO/BROADCAST.

Referring to any idol sibling as “sibling of -insert name of more famous sibling-” instead of their own name.

Boy groups Vs Girl groups

Sexy Vs Cute

Saying inappropriate or sexual things DIRECTLY to idols.

Stanning strictly because of looks then Unstanning when they change up.

Private messaging idols, especially with nude photos.

Spreading leaked videos or photos.

“OMG THEY LOOK LIKE -insert Bangtan member-”

Trying to force people to believe your group is superior

KHipHop rappers VS Idol rappers

Annoying Sungoh of 24K cause you think he looks like V

Annoying Haewon of L.A.U because you saw his photo being used in a smutty Jin imagine.

“Daddy.”

Tagging THIS as BTS members. It’s B:ETA and J:ETA from ALPHABAT.

Trying to make them conform to your standards and way of thinking.

Perving on underage idols. Particularly if you are over 18.

Criticizing their bodies. Too fat, too skinny, no abs etc.

Attacking any girl within a 50 mile radius of oppa. Hate all you want to your friends and on your personal media but do not go to these girls (or guys cause I’ve seen that too) accounts and rage against them. You have no fucking right ok?

HanJoo and shoving ships into idols faces even after they’ve expressed their dislike for it. Again, keep it private.

Assuming Idol’s sexuality and/or asking them about it.

Seriously telling other fans to stay away from your bias as If you own them.

Koreaboos and random Korean that you learned from google.

“I only care about ‘x’ member.”

Putting down and/or disrespecting older or lesser known groups.

Calling members who leave groups traitors and treating them like they’ve done something wrong

Not letting idols be human

Not giving them the basic respect and courtesy every human deserves

“ X group copied X group.”

Whitewashing

Ent VS Ent

By reblogging this post, it means that you have promised yourself that you will NEVER call an idol “daddy” on their SNS or to their face, because you have understood why it is wrong, and why it should not be done. Either keep these thoughts and other kinks in your head or away from the eyes of the person you are referring to. Let’s all try to be a little bit more mature about this. It’s more serious than we all think it is.

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY JIN you’re 26 now wow the time flew… If I wrote how much I love you this post would turn in to a MLA format essay so I’ll keep it simple… I love you more than life itself 💚😭

I find it really sad, how most of the time, the leader of the group is the least appreciated and underrated among fans. I mean, you would think that the member who keeps everything in order and has the most responsibilities would have more fans but that that doesn’t seem to be the case for the most part. Anyways, my point is, please appreciate the leaders of the groups. They deserve so much more love and appreciation for everything they do.