aurora victim

I’ve never seen the TCC commemorate victims. Here.

Never forgotten. Always remembered

  - Ted Bundy’s victims-

 Donna Gail Manson, age 19. 

 Susan Elaine Rancourt, age 18. 

 Roberta Kathleen Parks, age 22

 Brenda Carol Ball, age 22. 

Georgeann Hawkins, age 18. 

 Janice Ann Ott, age 23. 

Denise Marie Naslund, age 19. 

Nancy Wilcox, age 16. .

 Melissa Anne Smith, age 17. .

 Laura Aime, age 17. 

 Debra Kent age, 17. 

 Caryn Campbell, age 23. 

Julie Cunningham, age 26. 

 Denise Oliverson, age 25. 

 Lynette Culver, age 12. 

 Susan Curtis, age 15. 

 Margaret Bowman, age 21. 

 Lisa Levy, age 20. 

 Karen Chandler, age 21.

 Kathy Kleiner, age 21. .

 Kimberly Leach, age 12. 

     - Jeffrey Dahmer’s victims-

         Steven Hicks, 19 

        Steven Tuomi, 26 

      Anthony Lee Sears, 26 

James Doxtator, 14 

      Richard Guerrero, 22

    Raymond Lamont Smith, 33 

     Ricky Beeks, 27 

     Ernest Miller, 22 

     David C. Thomas, 23 

     Curtis Straughter, 19 

     Errol Lindsey, 19 

    Tony Hughes, 31

    Konerak Sinthasomphone, 14 

     Matt Turner, 20 

     Jeremiah Weinberger, 23 

    Oliver Lacy, 23

    Joseph Bradehoft, 25 

   -   Richard Ramirez’s victims-

           Mei Leung, 9 

Jennie Vincow, 79 

          Christina and Mary Caldwell 

            Vincent and Maxine Zazzara:

            William Doi       

            Mable Bell

            Mary Louise Cannon, 75

            Chitat Assawahem

           Peter Pan 

           Tsia-Lian Yu, 30

           Dayle Yoshie Okazaki, 34

         Lela and Max Kneidings 

      Elyas Yakub Abowath, 35


             - Charleston Shooting victims -

        Cynthia Marie Graham Hurd (54).

       Susie Jackson (87)

       Ethel Lee Lance (70) 

        Depayne Middleton-Doctor (49)

        Clementa C. Pinckney (41) 

         Tywanza Sanders (26)

      Daniel Simmons (74)

       Sharonda Coleman-Singleton (45)Singleton.

       Myra Thompson (59)

  - Columbine Massacre victims-

       Rachel Scott (17)

      Steven Curnow (14)

       Corey DePooter (17)

       Kelly Ann Fleming (16)

        Matt Ketcher (16)

       Daniel Mauser (15)

       Daniel  Rohrbough (15)

       Cassie Bernall (17)

       Isaiah Shoels (18)

       John Tomlin (16)

      Lauren Townsend (18)

       Kyle Velasquez (16)

      Dave Sanders (47)

  -  John Wayne Gacy’s victims-

  • Timothy McCoy (16)
  • John Butkovitch (17)
  • Darrell Sampson (18)
  • Randall Reffett (15)
  • Samuel Stapleton (14)
  • Michael Bonnin (17)
  • William Carroll (16)
  • James Haakenson (16)
  • Rick Johnston (17)
  • Kenneth Parker (16)
  • William Bundy (19)
  • Gregory Godzik (17)
  • John Szyc (19)
  • Jon Prestidge (20)
  • Matthew Bowman (19).
  • Robert Gilroy (18)
  • John Mowery (19)
  • Russell Nelson (21)
  • Robert Winch (16)
  • Tommy Boling (20)
  • David Talsma (19)
  • .William Kindred (19)
  • Timothy O'Rourke (20)
  • Frank Landingin (19)
  • James Mazzara (21)
  • Robert Piest (15)

         also rest in peace and hope you are found:              

           Body 28. Backyard. Male aged 14-18.

  • Body 26. Crawl space. Male aged 22-30
  • .Body 13. Crawl space. Male aged 17-21.
  • Body 21. Crawl space. Male aged 15-24.
  • March 15, 1977. Body 5. Crawl space. Male aged 22-32.
  • Body 10. Crawl space. Male aged 17-21

             - Ed Gein’s victims-

            Bernice Worden   

             Mary Hogan 

        - Edmund Kemper’s victims-

         Maude Kemper               

       Edmund Emil Kemper I

      Mary Ann Pesce and Anita Luchessa (18)

      Aiko Koo (15)

     Cindy Schall (18)

     Rosalind Thorpe (23) and Allison Liu (20)

     Clarnell Strandberg and Sally Hallett


-    Dennis Nilsen’s victims-

   Stephen Dean Holmes (14)

   Kenneth Ockendon (19)

    Billy Sutherland (27)            

    Martyn Duffey (16)   

   Malcolm Barlow (24)    

    John Howlett       

   Archibald Graham Allan

    Steve Sinclair (20)

 Also rest in peace to the unidentified victims! Hope you are found!

      -Sandy Hook shooting victims-

        Rachel D'Avino, 29

  • Dawn Hochsprung, 47 
  • Anne Marie Murphy, 52,
  • Lauren Rousseau, 30
  • Mary Sherlach, 56
  • Victoria Leigh Soto, 27
  • Charlotte Bacon, 6
  • Daniel Barden, 7
  • Olivia Engel, 6
  • Josephine Gay, 7
  • Dylan Hockley, 6
  • Madeleine Hsu, 6
  • Catherine Hubbard, 6
  • Chase Kowalski, 7
  • Jesse Lewis, 6
  • Ana Marquez-Greene, 6
  • James Mattioli, 6
  • Grace McDonnell, 7
  • Emilie Parker, 6
  • Jack Pinto, 6
  • Noah Pozner, 6
  • Caroline Previdi, 6
  • Jessica Rekos, 6
  • Avielle Richman, 6
  • Benjamin Wheeler, 6
  • Allison Wyatt, 6

   -Chardon High School shooting victims-

     Daniel Parmertor (16)

     Russel King Jr (17)

     Demetrius Hewlin (16)

-The Manson Murders-

    Steven Parent

    Sharon Tate

   Jay Sebring

   Gary Hinman

   Abigail Folger

   Leno LaBianca

  Rosemary LaBianca

  Donald Shea

  Wojciech Frykowski        

           -Aurora Shooting victims-

  • Jonathan Blunk, age 26, 
  • Alexander J. Boik, age 18, 
  • Jesse Childress, age 29, 
  • Gordon Cowden, age 51, 
  • Jessica Ghawi (a.k.a. Jessica Redfield), age 24,
  • John Larimer, age 27, )
  • Matt McQuinn, age 27, 
  • Micayla Medek, age 23, 
  • Veronica Moser-Sullivan, age 6, 
  • Alex Sullivan, age 27,
  • Alexander C. Teves, age 24,
  • Rebecca Wingo, age 31

       -Boston Marathon Bombing victims-

      Krystle Campbell (29)

      Martin Richard  (8)

       Lu Lingzi (23)

Rest in peace to every one of them and also every murder victim!

Never forgotten, always remembered.

May your souls rest in peace!

The Victims of the Aurora Shooting

On July 20, 2012, a deadly shooting transpired at a Cinema 16 theatre in Aurora, Colorado. This tragedy happened during a midnight screening of The Dark Knight Rises. A devastating total of 82 casualties were reported. 58 people received non-fatal injuries from gunfire, 4 from tear gas, and an additional 8 people were injured whilst fleeing the theatre. 12 people were killed. This post is a tribute to the fallen victims. 

Jonathan Blunk, 26, pictured with his daughter. Jonathan Blunk was a father of two, as well as a Navy veteran. Between 2004 and 2009, Blunk had served three tours in the Persian Gulf and North Arabian Sea. Blunk was killed while protecting his girlfriend, Chantel, pushing her beneath the theater seats.  According to family and friends, Blunk had wanted, if able to choose, to die as a hero. And indeed he did. 

Alexander Boik, 18. Boik’s dream was to become an art teacher. He had been accepted at the Rocky Mountain College of Art and Design, where he would have attended classes in the fall of 2012. Boik enjoyed baseball, music, and making pottery. His family had said that Boik was dating a young woman who was also present at the shooting. She fortunately survived. Boik’s family specified that Alexander was “loved by all who knew him”, and that he was “a wonderful, handsome, and loving 18-year-old young man, with a warm and loving heart”. 

Jesse Childress, 29. Described by Air Force Captain Andrew Williams as knowledgeable, experienced, and respectful, Childress had been an Air Force cyber-systems operator. Childress had been based at the Buckley Air Force Base in Colorado. Tech Sergeant Alejandro Sanchez, a co-worker and bowling teammate of Childress, said “He would help anyone and always was great for our Air Force Unit”. Ashley Wassinger, another co-worker, said that Childress “was a great person, fun to be with, always positive and laughing. Really just an amazing person, and I am so lucky to have been his friend”. 

Gordon Cowden, 51. Cowden, a “true Texas gentleman”, was with his two teenage children the night of the Aurora tragedy. Thankfully his children survived the shooting, ultimately escaping unharmed. Cowden had his own business and also loved the outdoors. He was, as described by his family, “a quick witted world traveler with a keen sense of humor”. Cowden’s family went on to say that he “will be remembered for his devotion to his children and for always trying to do the right thing, no matter the obstacle”. Cowden was the eldest victim of the Aurora shooting. 

Jessica Ghawi, 24. Jessica Ghawi, also known as Jessica Redfield, had only just prior to the shooting, written about surviving a mall shooting in Toronto. The beloved sports writer’s death came as an absolute shock to her brother, Jordan Ghawi. Jessica has been described by friends and colleagues as smart, outgoing, and witty. Hockey player Jay Meloff, Ghawi’s boyfriend, was hit very hard by her death. “140 characters could never do you justice nor could all the words in this world. Never wanted to fall asleep because it meant missing time with you”. Meloff had tweeted the previous words shortly after Ghawi’s death. 

John Larimer, 27. Larimer was a Navy petty officer and the youngest of five siblings. When the shooting began, Larimer immediately rushed to shield his girlfriend, Julia Vojtsek, his life being taken soon thereafter. He had once told his brother Noel that the best way to die was in the process of saving someone else’s life. John Larimer had immense pride for his country and will continue to be loved by his girlfriend, friends, and family. Adam Kavalauskas, a former friend and college roommate of Larimer, expressed that Larimer was “never selfish” and was “always serving others”. 

Matt McQuinn, 27. On the night of the shootings, Matt McQuinn was with his girlfriend, Samantha Yowler, and her brother, Nick Yowler. When the shooting commenced, McQuinn and Nick Yowler attempted to shield Samantha with their bodies. The young woman was unfortunately shot in the leg, but was able to escape with her unharmed brother. McQuinn, however, did not survive. His stepfather, David Jackson, stated “I know he’s a hero. He and Sam were very much in love and planning their life together. I am sure they were thinking very seriously about getting married soon.” 

Micayla Medek, 23. Medek was out with a group of about ten friends to see “The Dark Knight Rises” on July 20. She was an avid fan of the Green Bay Packers and loved to hang out with friends. Medek’s aunt, Jenny Zakovich, described her as an independent-minded and sweet girl who rarely asked her family for anything. “This shouldn’t have happened to somebody like her,” Zakovich said. Anita Bush, the cousin of Medek’s father, has said that she hopes “this evil act…doesn’t shake people’s faith in God”. 

Veronica Moser-Sullivan, 6. Veronica was the youngest victim of the Aurora shooting. “She was excited about life as she should be. She’s a 6-year-old girl,” said her great-aunt. Veronica, an only child, tragically died on the operating table at a local hospital. 

Alex Sullivan, 27. Sullivan was celebrating his 27th birthday with friends on the night of the shooting. His first wedding anniversary with his wife Cassie would have been just two days later. Sullivan was cherished by his family and friends, and was described as “just a big teddy bear” who gave great hugs. He was smart and funny, with a great smile, according to his loved ones. Sullivan was an enormous movie fan and a comic book geek, as well as a fan of the New York Mets. “He was a very, very good young man,” said Joe Loewenguth, Sullivan’s uncle. 

Alexander Teves, 24. “Alex was a very wonderful, kind, caring person,” said Teves’ aunt, Barbara Slivinske, “He had a great sense of humor. At one point he grew his hair ten or twelve inches long so that he could cut it off and donate it to Locks of Love”. Teves died while protecting his girlfriend as the gunman attacked several movie-goers. He had a master’s degree in counseling psychology from the University of Denver and was aspiring to become a psychiatrist. Alexander Teves is survived in part by his two younger brothers, ages 16 and 17. 

Rebecca Wingo, 31. Wingo was working towards an associates of arts degree at the Community College of Aurora. She had joined the Air Force after graduating from high school. Wingo became fluent in Mandarin Chinese and served as a translator. Her father, Steve Hernandez, posted a FaceBook post saying, “I lost my daughter yesterday to a mad man. My grief right now is inconsolable. I hear she died instantly, without pain, however the pain is unbearable”. A friend of Wingo, Hal Wallace, said that she had “the sweetest smile you’ve ever seen. She got prettier as she grew older”. 

Other victims who survived, but received extensive lifelong injuries. 

Ashley Moser, the mother of Veronica Moser-Sullivan, suffered a miscarriage not long after the shooting. She also lost her ability to walk as a result of many critical gunshot wounds. Moser will remain in a wheelchair for the remainder of her life. 

Caleb Medley has serious brain damage as well as an eye injury due to a shotgun wound to the head. He requires a feeding tube and has severely impaired movement. Medley can no longer speak. After the completion of three brain surgeries, he was the last victim of the Aurora shooting to be discharged from the hospital. 

The Community First Foundation collected over $5 million for a fund for the Aurora victims and their families. The Aurora Victim Relief Fund announced on November 16, 2012, that each claimant would recieve $220,000. On July 25, 2012, three out of the five hospitals treating Aurora victims announced that they would either limit medical bills or forgive them entirely. 

 Arrange marriage, requested by Anonymous

 Stefan Rose, actor turned businessman, made one more mistake that is starting to make his empire fall apart. Called a playboy and womanizer by the media, accused of being homophobic and racist, he needs a miracle to redeem himself, so a miracle he will create. 

 Aurora is his perfect twenty-year-old daughter, enjoying her life in New York until her father makes an unbelievable proposition to save their family’s power. To marry her to Ms. Moore, the CEO of a big company who also happen to be his high school sweetheart, so he can pretend to be happy and accepting of his daughter’s relationship to another woman.

 What Aurora never expected, was for this Ms. Moore to be so charming. Or to be charmed by the older woman so quickly.

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This is defense for Aurora is split up into three basic points:

1. Aurora did not choose to fall asleep
2. Aurora slept against her will
3. Aurora couldn’t counter magic


1. Aurora did not choose to fall asleep

Assuming that Aurora was in the right mind to choose to touch the spindle, she did not choose to fall asleep. (Btw, in my third part I’ll explain why this assumption is wrong)

From Aurora’s viewpoint, she had no way of knowing what was going to happen. What did she know about spindles? spinning wheels? Maleficent? or the curse? King Stefan had ordered that all spinning wheels be burned and The Good Fairies (TGF) not only didn’t seem to tell Aurora anything about the curse but they also didn’t even suspect Maleficent would try anything and so left Aurora alone.

Comparison: TGF put the entire kingdom to sleep without asking and so those people didn’t choose to fall asleep.

I can’t blame Aurora for having something done to her without their consent.


2. Aurora slept against her will

Aurora’s sleeping as Sleeping Beauty is no more her will than a person who is put into an induced coma and is unable to wake up. Now consider that this coma was done upon the person without their knowledge and against their wishes. 

Comparison: The kingdom was sleeping and couldn’t wake up because of TGF, not because they were lazy and wanted sleep nor because they were tired and needed sleep. For example, King Hubert is struggling to continue his discussion to King Stefan and even complete his answer to Flora. First thing he does when he wakes up is continue talking: he clearly didn’t want to sleep.

I can’t blame Aurora for having something she wouldn’t like done to her without her knowledge


3. Aurora couldn’t counter magic 

Aurora was able to resist the trance for a split second, probably because of her own willpower and TGF’s shouts as a distraction, but considering that TGF couldn’t counter Maleficient’s curse (=“Maleficent’s powers are far too great”) it’s reasonable to think that Aurora couldn’t have resisted any more than she did.

Comparison: The mortals of the kingdom couldn’t counter TGF’s sleeping spell. Even if they suspected it or knew it was coming, what could they possibly have done? They were simply overpowered.

Previously mentioned, Aurora was not in the right mind: she was already under Maleficient’s magic before she touched the spindle. Maleficent came into the room as a glowing green “will-o-the-wisp” and trances Aurora. Aurora’s mannerisms - her body language and facial expression, primarily - are uncharacteristically stiff and straight when she is being lured her up a magically hidden secret stairway. Maleficient then creates an spinning wheel and hypnotizes her with, “Touch the spindle. Touch it, I say!”… All this is magical manipulation.



When Aurora is asleep she is a passive character, like everyone when they’re asleep, but her passivity is because she was a victim of Maleficient’s curse and not because she, herself, is an inherently passive character; in fact, un-cursed, Aurora is an active character - very much so.


CPR analogy is for sake of argument. Not to be taken literally. I’m only relating "true love’s kiss" to “mouth-to-mouth”; omitting “chest compressions” because then his hands would be near her breasts and, well, that would probably be another “can of worms”.


1) Since Aurora is unconscious, her consent is implied.

Aurora is a victim of a magic sleeping curse, she couldn’t possibly give her permission to receive care from anyone. However, her three aunt fairies were there; particularly the one who had originally said, “from this slumber you shall wake when true love’s kiss the spell shall break.” Thus, they would have given consent on her behalf.


2) Phillip was reasonably careful.

As Maleficent says to Phillip, “to wake his love with love’s first kiss.” Even if he had forgotten, the fairies would have told him. And thus he walks slowly up to Aurora and gives her a faint kiss on her lips.

He was respectful over her body.


3) Phillip was acting in good faith.

Disregarding the fact that Aurora and Phillip actually met, were in love, and became separated, Phillip was trying to SAVE Aurora’s LIFE from the sleeping death, and, in turn, all sleeping subjects of both kingdoms.

Regarding saving Aurora’s life, actually saving her life by kissing her is more important than waiting in vain for consent for a kiss to save her life.


4) Phillip stopped once he did what was necessary.

Phillip only did what he was supposed to do and, once he did, he stopped and waited by her side till… she woke up! :D

He didn’t do anything more than what was expected of him.



- p.s. related post on Snow White’s kiss


“I’m glad that Disney movies are changing their messages. During the 90s it was all about the prince saving the princess. Now it is all about the girl, finding her own self-confidence and her making her own path”

As for “prince saving the princess”, although not directed at the classics, I’d argue “princess saving herself” for Snow White and Cinderella because without her own skills or through the help of friends through friendships that she created, she might not have been successful.

  • Snow White, rather than scaring off animals, befriends them and help her find shelter.
  • Then, Snow decides to clean (and later, keep) house in exchange for shelter.
  • Cinderella, keeps faith despite being enslaved and joke in her family home, and thus her Fairy Godmother materializes
  • Later, literally has to run herself away from her dream day-off before the spell wears off and gets identified by step-family.
  • Then, Cindy remembers Bruno when she’s locked in her room and needs the key.
  • (both are survivors of prolonged abuse where every day is survival)

Yes, Snow White and Aurora did need to be kissed but that was to undo a powerful spell of which they were victims. It wasn’t as if “princes saving the princess” was the story.

  • Snow White’s prince only existed at the story’s beginning and end so he could come and kiss her
  • Aurora was a complete victim (link) who couldn’t possibly have known about the danger she was in.


Having self-confidence is definitely important yet sometimes the story isn’t about this since the heroine already has that. Same reasoning goes with making her own path: sometimes she already knows it

As for princesses and princes, sometimes a princess chooses to walk that path with someone else. As there’s nothing wrong with a girl who wants to be and ends up single, nothing wrong with a girl who wants to be and ends up in a relationship. As long as the path the girl makes is her own, it shouldn’t matter if she walks it alone or shared. 

And, just to point out, especially for the classics, although princes did play a part in their stories, it wasn’t like the princess stories revolved about them. Romance is a normal and natural desire, in itself, and the Classic girls expressed this desire in a healthy and moderate way - never do they obsess on a man or romance to the point of being sad or being unable to function.