honestly truly if you hate lydia martin we’re just not going to get along I wish I was kidding but legitimately our friendship will not work out if you hate her you hate me we’re a package deal that’s just the tea I’m sorry
So a week ago, I asked for suggestions for my name, because it was causing me (a lot) of dysphoria and I was struggling, and I have come to the conclusion for my name: Nathan (Nate as a nickname). I appreciate all the names sent in, but I had to go with my gut, which was Nathan, also I, over the past couple of months, have come to another conclusion. I will be now using he/him pronouns, as well as they/them pronouns. If you wish to unfollow me, because I am no longer a sapphic blog, I understand, but my blog is still a safe space where nb people, gender questioning people, queer people, literally anyone, can come, ask questions, and feel valid, safe and welcome.
so……AYEEE I’M NATE, YOUR FAVE PROBLEMATIC TRANSMASCULINE NB ASSHOLE, YEEEEEEET
Thank you all so much for your kind words and messages. :’) I needed to step away from the negativity. I wanted to return sooner but I was without power for 3 days and slowly dying without AC lol. If I ever decide to delete my blog it will be on my own accord. Receiving hate doesn’t bother me as much mostly because I generally don’t care. It stings but it’s whatever. Unfortunately, my whole week has been messed up so I haven’t been able to draw. Hopefully I will upload something soon. Thank you all again though. Really means a lot. <3
i don’t know why i’m so anxious for work tomorrow but maybe it’s because i’ll be expected to do more and if anybody asks me anything i’m going to be so nervous and i won’t know everything and i hate asking people things!!!!!!
I really didn’t want to start the year by saying this but I had to say it sooner or later. I’m not okay with it anymore and dealing with it is really stressing me out. please, please don’t repost my things.
I’m really glad that you like it and want to share it or put it on your account or whatever reason you have, but please don’t repost it, even if you give credit. Don’t crop it and put a filter on it and put it on Instagram, YouTube, anywhere for that matter. I hate saying no to people but I’ve been ignored so many times when I try to speak with reposters and it really hurts to know that people care so little for my feelings on this matter.
I’m okay with dubs and translations but please ask me first.
that bpd feel when ur ex vagues abt u on twitter and u wanna message them like “hey do u hate me” but u can’t do that bc that’s weird but u also can’t let it go bc u don’t know why they might hate u and its killing u and u just need to know!!!!!
*attempts to write a normal post despite lack of chill*
I can promise two things tomorrow. 1- There will be posts analyzing the crap out of *that* scene. (Maybe in the form of answering asks if I get any overnight. Oh and don’t bother sending me hate ones because I’m not in the mood to give any attention to that sort of idiocy.) And 2- THERE WILL BE AN AFTERMATH SHERLOLLY ONE SHOT FROM ME. Is everyone prob gonna be writing the same stuff? Yeah maybe. But I don’t care. I’M GONNA BE WRITING IT TOO.