ask me to take it down and i will

moowsi  asked:

*Curtsies* Dear Duke, I'm actually having a quarter-life crisis. I just finished undergrad and am completly lost to what to do now. I'm not even sure in what area I really want to work and whenever someone asks me about my future I get depressed and sad and anxious. I considered taking a year off but have no idea what I would do with my free time. Do you have any advice for this situation? I'm just very lost. Thanks for your time.

*Curtsies* I think your instinct to take a year off is probably the right one, because the last thing you want to do is throw yourself into a career or a graduate degree you’re not even sure you want to pursue. It’s okay if you don’t have a plan nailed down for that gap year. That then just becomes the first thing you sit down and iron out. The first concern is probably going to be getting some sort of job so you can feed and clothe yourself. And here’s the thing: it doesn’t have to be a stepping stone to your dream career. All work experience is good and there’s nothing at all wrong with taking a job (or two) with hourly wages. The year after I graduated I worked three and sometimes four of those jobs, and not at any point did I feel like I was wasting my time, partly because I tried to find jobs doing things I was at least interested in. I worked in a bookstore, a wine bar, and for two different theatre companies. Those were all things I enjoyed and jobs I learned a lot from. So that’s the first thing. Don’t expect to be making $60,000 a year, but find a job that’ll keep you engaged and afloat so you can pursue other stuff without starving. 

That’s part two, the pursuing other stuff. If you’re feeling lost and like what you don’t know what to do, take the pressure off yourself for a year and experiment. Figure it out. Research career options for someone with your degree. Take a stab at artistic interests you haven’t had the time to explore. Look into different grad school options if that’s something that appeals to you. Do some volunteering. I don’t know. All I know is that a gap year is only a good thing if you do something with it. I’m not saying you have to solve world hunger or paint a masterpiece, but a year down the line you don’t want to look back on it and feel like you just wasted a year of your life. So brainstorm. Talk to friends and family who know you well. Do some soul-searching, and when you find yourself saying, “Maybe I’d like to do that,” learn more. Go try it. 

Here’s the last thing I’d say to you: Nobody knows what the fuck they’re doing at age 22, so don’t freak out thinking you’re a failure or any of that, because you’re not. Everybody has some sort of identity crisis in their twenties. It’s scary, yes, but it’s also totally normal. Chin up. You’ll be fine. 

“She’s so beautiful.” You whispered. You nuzzled her tiny rose nose and squeezed her tiny hands. Your boyfriend Dean was crouching besides you, tears strolling down his chin, staining his shirt.”Oh she’ll be a heart breaker, just like her mother.” Dean joked, playing with her grain size fingers.”Can I hold her?” Dean asked after holding y/d/n for an eternity. You laid her gently in his arms, trying to avoid another crying session.”Hi little y/n, I’m your daddy. I’m new to this whole screaming, daddy thing so please have patience on me. In return, I promise that I’ll love you and take care of and make you my number one priority. And who knows, maybe give you a little brother or sister too.” You watched as Dean bonded with your daughter.

anonymous asked:

can you just stop acting like you care about trans women considering you do the same violently transmisogynist taako designs literally half the fucking taz fandom does

????? would you mind explaining what you mean by this anon? don’t attack me on anon without telling me what you see wrong with these designs, please. i’m willing to apologize and change but i need to see your pov first? also i’m not sure what you mean by trans women when taako is a man

anonymous asked:

RTMI: One time when I was like 11 I tried to run away from home but didn't quite know how so I just took a shovel from the garage and went into the woods behind the house and just started digging a hole. Like I was out there for a good 5-6 hours just digging straight down and then I just took off my shirt and just... ripped it to pieces to make it look like I was a wildman and just laid down in the hole. I think I was there half naked for about an hour before my mom found me. (1/2)

(2/2) She asked what I was doing. I told her I didn’t know. She just said okay and then went back inside. I stayed in the hole until sundown. Then I went back inside with my dirt-covered everything looking like I had been half-maulled by a bear. My dad just asks “have fun?” I said not really. He just nods and says to take a shower. I do. I continue digging the hole the next day. I do this for about a week. Best fucking time ever. Hole is still there 9 years later.

I’M DYING

What I dreamed about last

I deliberately did not answer this in the anon ask, because it’s funny as fuck.

Ambien makes me forget things (most of you probably know this).

I have vivid, vivid dreams, and I’ve always made a point to write them down. 

Since I’ve been taking the ambien, I will often wake up with a new note in my phone, and no idea why I wrote it, or what it’s referring to.

Two days ago, this is what I found.

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“Long day at work?” you asked, dropping down on the couch next to your girlfriend. 

Thea nodded, nuzzling her head into your chest. Her fingers wrapped around your hand. “Take a nap with me?” She pressed a kiss against your knuckles.

You smiled lightly, staring down at her. “How could I say no to you?” you said as you brought her into arms, draping a blanket across your laps. You placed a kiss on her forehead and drifted off to sleep, thinking of how madly in love you are with Thea Queen.

anonymous asked:

Jesus, you've really become the resident MM blogger. This place used to be fun...Please Wretched give us somethig else to read and not just stuff about irrelevant people!

Take a breath, calm yerself down. I’m merely answering what comes into my box. People wanna talk about it. We are just making conversation.

I have 26 messages in the box.
15 of those are MM related…. After I deleted 10 when I woke up this morn.
5 are Ireland asks.
The other 6 are general nonsense questions including one about Prince Harry and his lady friend. No fucking way I’m going down that road of fuckery! Ha!

If you want to discuss something else, ask me about something else. I have proven many times over that I’m willing to discuss most any topic. 👉🏻FEEL FREE TO ASK A BOOK QUESTION! 👈🏻 JS

✨ UPDATE on reposted art ✨

Thank you all for the support and offers to help on reporting on the reposted art.I asked that user about 7 months ago to take down the art. A friend and I even reported the post to tumblr at that time,and nothing happened.We waited to hear something back at all from either them or tumblr but nothing happened.Since that other post blew up though,they reached out to me, apologized and have taken down the repost!
tl;dr the repost is taken down. So thank you all very much to everyone for your support,I appreciate all of your help and just can’t thank you all enough.

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Hello, Witcher fandom.

I was informed by someone, who shall remain anonymous, that my photoedit has been stolen by a Facebook group called “The Witcher’s Lair”. I don’t have a Facebook, so I don’t know if I can do anything about it. The Witcher’s Lair is a semi-private group that only allows members to join with approval from them. I hate to ask this, but if anyone follows this group, could you please send them a message on my behalf telling them to take down my stolen photoedit? It would really mean a lot to me. If you can’t message them for some reason, please at least reblog this post so that someone who could might see this.

Also, if they refuse to take down my photoedit, please send me a screenshot of their reply and report them. I hope they simply take down my photoedit and leave it at that, but I don’t want random people stealing my stuff.

Here’s the URL of my original post:

https://daovihi.tumblr.com/post/158904943177/heres-another-shitty-contribution-to-this-fandom

And here’s the URL of the post that has my stolen photoedit:

https://m.facebook.com/login/?next=https%3A%2F%2Fm.facebook.com%2Fgroups%2F327785374051178%3Fview%3Dpermalink%26id%3D755474714615573&refsrc=https%3A%2F%2Fm.facebook.com%2Fgroups%2F327785374051178&_rdr

anonymous asked:

So I'm thinking about seeing one of the counselors on my college campus but I'm really nervous. I get anxious talking about my problems to strangers and I am just really scared. I don't know what to expect. My normal doctor is to expensive to see a lot so school ones are free. Do you have any tips? Like I don't know what to expect TBH. Am I just gonna sit down and have to talk or will they ask me questions. I'll take any body's personal experiences for advice at this point.

In my experience, counsellors are trained to make you comfortable and to draw you out with questions if you aren’t sure what to say. My current counsellor is working with me on my anxiety and is really observant, so she sees when I start to get anxious. (That’s important because I need to work on recognizing the signs myself. So she tells me what she sees and I can try and notice it myself.) Sometimes they might push something, but if you say you don’t want to talk about it right now, they should leave the topic alone. You can also tell the counsellor that you’re nervous.

-J

jakei and youmna collab animation

hello ^u^

as the announcement said me and @jakei95 are going to do an animation collab! :D

so we had three ideas we couldn’t choose from and they are:

1. cross!sans vs color!sans

2. X!gaster vs othertale undyne

3. vg!jakei vs vg!youmna

and i’ll be asking you guys to choose from them three :D

to choose you can comment down in the comments and we’ll take the most requested and it’ll be turned into an animation collab!! >:D

good luck.

also here is vg!jakei’s design if you’re wondering~~

(170323) ink_nkkkk’s Instagram update: During the MV filming there was a scene that involved typing and even during his break time he (Wonho) kept typing stuff down. After the filming ended I asked him “What did you type?” and he said he was shy so he didn’t give me an answer. Afterwards I went to see and it was all #Monbebe 🐰

BROTHER SU’S REPLY:
Wonho’s a fool, a fool who doesn’t know anything else except for Monbebes.. ⭐️

translated by kinghyungwon ϟ take out with full credit.

So I know like 90% of the fandom is against black paladin Keith and like for the most part, I’m kinda iffy about it myself. But hear me out. Black paladin Keith… whose right-hand man is Lance. Lance acts as an advisor of sorts, whom Keith trusts, no questions asked. If Shiro isn’t going to listen to Lance, Keith will. Keith already knows Lance is capable and takes the mission seriously (even though he seems to take little else seriously. That’s not to say he isn’t serious, just he copes differently). They have already experienced first hand that working together yields success. And already we can see that when it gets down the nitty gritty, they fall into a harmonious efficiency, despite the air of competitiveness between them. Keith is the drive and the passion and Lance, the patience and positivity. Together they make an unstoppable force. A good team, if you will. 

  • Jay: if you need me, I'll be in the hospital bar
  • Mini: uh you know there isn't a hospital bar, Jay
  • Jay: well this is why people hate hospitals

I recoloured this ages ago and never got around to releasing it. In the time since then the original download link has gone down and the last post on @sim4ny‘s blog was two years ago, so I’ve included the mesh with this recolour. I’ll take it down if sim4ny asks me to.

  • Mesh included
  • Available for feminine-framed sims from Teen to Elder - the mesh is a bit glitchy on masc-frame sims so I disabled it for them
  • 28 swatches with custom thumbnails and full colour tagging
  • Enabled for Everyday and Party as well as being enabled for random

Download under the cut:

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Sharing a Bed Sentence Starters

  • “If you tell me one more pun, I’m shoving you off of this bed.”
  • “Quit hogging the blanket.”
  • “You pushed me out of bed in your sleep.”
  • “I woke up in the middle of the night without any blankets and your foot digging into my spine.”
  • “You said the cutest thing in your sleep last night.”
  • “You say the scariest stuff in your sleep.”
  • “When I have a bad dream, just listening to you breathe calms me down.”
  • “Your feet are freezing.”
  • “The dog takes up more of the bed than I do.”
  • “It’s lonely without you in the bed.”
  • “I’m not kidding, you really do snore.”
  • “Can I sleep with you tonight?”
  • “Apparently you’re a sleepwalker.”
  • “I don’t think we need anymore stuffed animals in the bed.”
  • “Can you make the bed today?”
  • “If you have a nightmare, I’m going to be right here for you.”
  • “I miss sleeping with you.”
  • “I love cuddling with you first thing in the morning.”
  • “You’re so beautiful when you’re just waking up.”
  • “Where are you going? It’s late.”
  • “Please come back to bed.”
Some non-Love Square ML aus

Because as much as I adore the love square, there are lots of other miraculous ships that deserve more au goodness <3

Juleka/Rose: 

  • Greaser and Pink Lady au
  • friends with benefits except the benefits are weekly cuddling sessions au
  • college roommates au 
    • requires LOTS of mutual pining

Kim/Alix:

  • handcuffed together after a prank gone wrong au
  • “I’m going to hunt down and slaughter whoever keeps leaving their sweaty towel draped across my favorite treadmi- oh no they’re hot” au
  • forced to take ballet lessons to increase their athletic prowess au

Kim/Max: 

  • “I dont understand half of the words you said but I think you just asked me out???” au
  • kissing practice/ making out for the sake of science au
  • “I just watched you ingest a borderline lethal amount of caffeine so im going to babysit you to make sure you dont die” au

Bonus ot3 (Kim/Alix/Max):

  • paired up to do a semester-long project together au 
  • evil mastermind and his two (bickering) superhero nemesises au
  • “oh would you look at that, the bottle landed in between you two. guess I’ll just have to spend seven minutes in heaven with you both” au

Ivan/Mylene:

  • we both sit at the same desk in chemistry class and leave each other anonymous notes tucked inside au
  • musician and muse (not-so) au
  • tattooist and flower shop owner au

Chloe/Sabrina:

  • Princess and the Frog au 
    • bonus points if Chloe is the frog
  • met while on vacation au
  • SUGAR DATING AU 

Chloe/Marinette (most could work for Chloe/Alya too):

  • personal shopper (Marinette) or publicist (Alya) and the client from hell au
  • “every year we get sent to the same summer camp and we’re always camp rivals except wow puberty really hit you hard since last year wtf??!?!?” au
  • Wicked au

Nino/Alya:

  • rival radio hosts whom everyone in Paris ships au
  • Ladynino and Alya Noir au
  • “the optometrist accidentally switched our prescriptions so now I have to hunt you down while basically blind” au

Alya/Marinette: 

  • underpaid fabric store clerk only keeps her job because of the cute seamstress who comes in every day and overworked seamstress only visits the fabric store every day to see the gorgeous store clerk au
  • fan fic writer and fan artist who everyone in the fandom ships au
  • “hey so I hear our college grants more financial aid to married people… wanna elope?” au

Nino/Adrien:

  • RAPUNZEL AU
  • deaf!Adrien and musician!Nino au 
    • basically blind spots au but gayer
  • (NSFW) “Accidentally sent a dick pic to the wrong number but got an even better one back” au

Alya/Adrien:

  • rich kids playing pranks at society functions au (Alya’s mom is a world-renowned chef dont tell me this isn’t plausible)
  • “we’ve been yelling at each via reddit thread for weeks now and at this point I’ve kinnda forgotten what we were even fighting about wanna go grab coffee?” au
  • pen pals from childhood au

Nino/Marinette:

  • “Our families own rival businesses and technically we cant be friends but we still secretly trade macaroons for couscous on the DL” au 
  • street musician and street artist au
  • “I seriously didn’t mean to wander in to the women’s locker room but I heard you singing in the shower and I NEED to record music with you” au

Bonus OT4 (Alya/Adrien/Marinette/Nino):

  • “we’re in a famous band and our fans fight relentlessly over who to ship but jokes on them because we are all dating” au
  • stranded au
    • you could make this “overnight at the mall” or full-blown “shipwrecked on an island” I just wanna see these four snuggle STRUGGLE TOGETHER
  • “this dnd campaign started seriously but now it’s just devolved into us all flirting with one another behind the thin guises of our characters” au