heya! Hope your day is going well! :) if you don't mind me asking, how did you know you were bi? i am unsure if I'm bi or just still learning about stuff. thanks! :)
it was actually a coincidence, tbh! i realized i was bi in my freshman year of high school (which was about 6? years ago omf). but basically i had a big crush on my best friend and i was so confused because i never felt so strongly towards another girl before.
turns out, that same year, she came out as being bi. and that made me discover just what bisexuality was. i have her to thank for helping me realize that i was.
i never told her that i had a crush on her, and i still haven’t. she’s been in a loving relationship with her high school sweetheart who’s a guy since then. but we’re still really good friends!
but hey, you can say that you’re bi but have a preference! being bi doesn’t mean you have to 50% like girls and 50% like guys. you can have a more of a preference for one or the other! if you like guys more, that’s great! if you like girls more, that’s nice too! i think that’s the best thing about being bi because you can like either no matter what. 💜