ask for new one

anonymous asked:

from a therapist's perspective, is it ok or is it annoying if a client comes in one week and really just isn't in the mood to handle any deep work? sometimes i want to say "can we do this work next week, i need a light conversation because this week has been hard" but i can never get myself to actually say it and then i just get in a really bad mood because i'm talking about stuff i don't want to talk about and ugh :/ i just wanna know if my therapist would hate me if i'm feeling ~unwilling~

Nope. You need both - heavy and light. If it’s heavy all the time, it can be really overwhelming. I will often ask for more information - what about this week was hard? Are you feeling okay? But then move onto lighter subjects.  Therapy is a place to figure yourself out and to practice new skills. Asking for space is often one of those skills. Asking for what you need isn’t being unwilling!

I do this in therapy too. For a variety of reasons but most commonly if I’m dealing with a ton of pain stuff, I don’t have the energy to do deep stuff about me but I can usually get some help working through some work counter transference. 

anonymous asked:

You nentioned you take a powder for your water. May u ask which one and what it does exactly? Lol sorry im new to this whole fitness thing 😭

I dont do that anymore but i used to take a powder from GNC i cant remember the name but when I can ask my mom i will let you know. I am going to start taking vitamins to gain weight we will see what happens in next 3 months

About the ask box

I’m not sure if I’m going to be posting today or tomorrow. I have a lot of asks that I’ve started on, but I’m so tired that I’m not even sure if I’m going to make it through the end of the day without passing out.

 I’m also thinking of closing the ask box for a week or so. I have A LOT of asks in it. And I get new ones every day and there’s just no way that I can stay on top of it like this, it’s almost not worth trying. Every time I post I get 4 or 5 new ones, I’m up in over 40 unfinished asks right now.

 I’m not complaining! It’s awesome and it makes me happy to know that people enjoy what I do!! It’s just I need to narrow it down a little because the stress is making it hard to focus on other things in my life as well as writing for this blog.

Tagged by @schaychan Thank you so much! I feel remembered

Rules: Answer the questions asked, then write ten new ones. Tag ten people to answer your questions.

  1. Animal you like that other people often don’t? I’m not quite sure about this… but I’m fascinated with reptiles… and dinosaurs… and other ancient/extinct species. I bet there are other people who like them too
  2. How old are you and when is your Birthday? I’m 24 years old! And my birthday is on August 19.
  3. Place you would wish to go to someday? I wish I could go to Japan… New Zealand… and London.
  4. Memory you never want to forget? Memories with my family… and friends. Too many to mention. I’m so sorry /3. But the most recent memory that I do not want to forget, is when I first get to celebrate SNS Week, and the movie date my family had last Saturday.
  5. Favorite Movie or series? This is quite difficult too. I tend to like a lot of movies…. OwO But the top movies on my list would always be The Lord of the Rings, The Hobbit, Harry Potter, Pacific Rim, and Jurassic Park/World.
  6. Your very first fictional crush? Probably Kaoru Kogenei of Recca no Honoo. Hahaha. I was like… 7-ish that time??
  7. Three things you appreciate the most? People liking and reblogging my art. Seeing that people thinks that my art is cool and cute.
  8. What do you wish for the future? Uhmmm… hoping that I’ll be successful in my career…?
  9. What is your deepest belief? I’m actually a religious person. In fact… I’m a Roman Catholic. So… my deepest belief would be Him. 
  10. What is your biggest fictional and real life Idol? For fictional… SasNar of course (don’t make me choose between them… it will hurt), For Real life… it’s Kimura Tatsunari

    Awwww… I’m too shy to tag people thooooo???

famous artists ask

picasso: would you rather sleep on the moon with a stardust dress or on a tiny flower with a sunflower dress?
van gogh: where is your go-to positive place when you’re feeling down/sad and what do you usually do?
warhol: what is something that you possess that you’ll never give away/sell despite how much the cost?
da vinci: describe your dream wedding.
monet: where will you take your significant other in a date?
kahlo: what is a pro-tip/lesson that you learned from your past?
michelangelo: do you show your teeth when you smile? do you squint your eyes?
matisse: how do you express your love to your friends/family/significant other?
kandinsky: would you rather be a silky angel or a lacy princess… or a princess angel?
degas: in a garden full of all sorts of flowers, which one will you pick?
klee: in a library full of books, which five will you never get sick of rereading?
klimt: how many languages do you speak? what is/are it/they?
seurat: if you can wear only one color with different shades for the rest of your life, which one is it, and why?
vermeer: which of your qualities make you a dream girl?
harring: what is your all-time favorite band, movie, and painting?
munch: what is your medium in art? is that medium your first love?
renoir: is you heart occupied right now? describe him/her/them.
gauguin: what is one thing that reminds you of childhood?
manet: describe your ultimate summer get-away!
botticelli: what is that one moment in your life that makes you feel proud?
cézanne: what is your favorite christmas cookie?


1. Favourite Star Wars movie? (Episode 1-R1).
2. Favourite Star Wars era?
3 Favourite Star Wars trilogy? (Originals, Prequels, Sequels).
4. Jedi or Sith?
5. Empire or Rebellion?
6. Bounty Hunter or Clone/Strom/First order Trooper?
7. Rebels or Clone wars?
8. Favourite Star Wars book?
9. Favourite Star Wars Comic?
10. Favourite Star Wars game?
11. Top 5 favourite female Jedi?
12. Top 5 favourite male Jedi?
13. Top 5 favourite Bounty Hunters?
14. Top 5 favourite Sith?
15. Top 5 favourite Droids?
16. Top 5 favourite Troopers?
17. Top 5 favourite Senators?
18. Top 5 favourite Republic/Rebellion ships.
19. Top 5 favourite Separatist/Imperial ships.
20. Top 5 favourite planets?
21. Where would you live in the Star Wars universe?
22. Who would you be in the Star Wars universe?
23. What ship would you own?
24. What Droid would you own?
25. Would you have a team, or would you work alone?
26. If you where a Jedi, would you be a Knight or a Master?
27. If you where a Jedi Master, would you have a Padawan?
28. If you where a Sith, would you be the Master or Apprentice?
29. If you where a Sith Lord, would you have an Apprentice?
30. Married, in a relationship, or single?
31. Top 5 favourite species?
32. What species would you be?
33. What species is your type?
34. Who would your best friend be?
35. Would you customise your ship?
36. Would you customise your Droid?
37. What colour skin/eyes would you have?
38. If male, beard or no beard?
39. 1 lightsaber, 2 lightsabers, double lightsaber, or 2 double lightsabers?
40. What colour would your lightsaber(s) be?
41. If you’re a Bounty Hunter, what armour would you have?
42. Would you customise your armour?
43. What colour scheme would your armour/robes be?
44. If you where a Droid, what Droid would you be?
45. What colour would your droid self be?
46. Pod racing or ship racing?
47. Space battle or ground battle??
48. Would you have survived order 66?
49. Where would you go after order 66?
50. What would you do after order 66?
51. Do you have any Star Wars Pop Vinyls?
52. Do you have any Star Wars collections?
53. Do you have any Star Wars art?
54. Do you create any Star Wars art?
55. Do you like/read any Legends/non canon stuff?
56. Top 5 favourite Legends character?
57. Who is your Star Wars role model?
58. Top 5 saddest Star Wars deaths?
59. If you could bring any Star Wars character back to life who would it be?
60. If you found out the Star Wars universe was real, would you move there or stay here?
61. On a scale of 1-10 (1 being very little, 10 being an absolute know it all) how well do you know the Star Wars universe?

Here we go people, just a little ask post i created. Enjoy, reblog, ask me, get people to ask you!!! Have fun!!!

Fallout OC Questionnaire

Whether your OC is a Lone Wanderer or Sole Survivor, these questions can be asked by others to know more about them! Or simply be used as a guide to further develop your character. Ask away, luv!

  1. Which Fallout game are they from?
  2. Which faction(s) did they join and which did they destroy? Why?
  3. What is their S.P.E.C.I.A.L.?
  4. Give us a summary of their backstory.
  5. What’s their full name and does it have a meaning? Do they have any nicknames and how did they get em?
  6. What’s their sexual, romantic, and gender orientation? Do they feel comfortable telling other people?
  7. Do they have any mental illnesses? How do they cope?
  8. Do they have any medical conditions? Is medicine/ treatment available for them?
  9. How much do they care about their outer appearance? What’s their “beauty routine”? How often do they shower/ bathe?
  10. What do they fear the most?
  11. They’re biggest flaw? Do they recognize it as a flaw?
  12. What are they most insecure about?
  13. What Wasteland threat do they fear the most? (ex. Deathclaws, super mutants, raiders)
  14. What’s their zodiac sign or which one do you think they relate to the most? What are their placements (if you know them)? (ex. Aries sun, Taurus moon, Aquarius Venus)
  15. What’s their Myers–Briggs Type? (ex. ENTP, ISFJ)
  16. What Harry Potter house would they be in? (ex. Gryffindor, Ravenclaw)
  17. Which Pokemon Go team would they choose? (ex. Instinct, Valor, Mystic)
  18. Out of the nine forms of intelligence (rhythmic, spatial, linguistic, mathematical, kinesthetic, interpersonal, intrapersonal, naturalistic, and existential) which one(s) are they really good at and which one(s) is(are) their weakest?
  19. What natural alignment are they? (ex. Lawful Good, Chaotic Evil)
  20. Do they have any hobbies? What are they?
  21. Do they have a favorite holiday? How do they celebrate it?
  22. What’s their favorite season?
  23. Do they have a temper or are they level headed?
  24. Do they express their emotions freely or hide their true feelings?
  25. Are they a leader or a follower?
  26. How do they come off to others? What first impression do they usually make?
  27. Do they prefer to travel alone or with company? Who have they traveled with if any? Current companion if any?
  28. Would you describe them as selfless or selfish? Does it depend on the situation?
  29. What do they find most attractive in others? Name at least one psychological and physical trait. (doesn’t have to be romantic attraction)
  30. Do they flirt often? How easily do they fall in love?
  31. What’s their love life like? Are they interested in anyone or in a relationship?
  32. Do they prefer to solve things diplomatically or using violence?
  33. What is their combat style? What range do they prefer? Do they sneak?
  34. What weapon(s) do they always carry with them?
  35. Their most prized possession?
  36. Their thoughts on power armor?
  37. Favorite armor/ outfit?
  38. How’s their aim? Do their hands shake while pointing a gun?
  39. What are their thoughts on having to kill on a daily bases in order to survive? Does it take a toll on them? Or do they shake it off rather easily?
  40. Thoughts on death if any? (ex. Fear it, accept it)
  41. Do they move around a lot or prefer to have a place to call home?
  42. What’s their favorite location?
  43. Their opinions on ghouls, feral and not feral?
  44. Do they scavenge for their supplies or simply buy them?
  45. Are they the type to get distracted and go off to an unknown nearby location or do they stay on track?
  46. How do they sleep? Are they picky about where and how or can they sleep basically anywhere?
  47. What’s their favorite radio station and song? (post-apocalypse)
  48. What’s their favorite post-apocalyptic food? Are they a picky eater? Do they know how to cook?
  49. What’s their favorite beverage? Do they drink alcohol?
  50. Do they have any tag skills?
  51. Anything they like to collect? (ex. Unique weapons, Bobbleheads)
  52. Are they good at disarming traps or do they constantly miss them?

(Add other questions you want to be asked if I missed any)