anonymous asked:

uh can u recommend any chinese songs or singers/bands (i like punk or indie songs but any catchy songs will do) im chinese diaspora and want to listen to more chinese songs but i have no idea where to start looking?

华晨宇 《卡西莫多的礼物》《烟火的尘埃》《微光》
苏打绿 《小情歌》《故事》《燕窝》
林俊杰 《江南》《一千年以后》《被风吹股的夏天》《新世纪》
陈绮贞 《旅行的意义》
朴树 《平凡之路》
许茹芸 《独角戏》
胡夏 《那些年》《替我照顾她》
萨顶顶 《爱在2012》《剑雨浮生》《万物生》
陈楚生 《山楂树》《隐》
许嵩 《素颜》《山水之间》《惊鸿一面》
魏晨 《帽子戏法》
左其铂 《偷走我两年的时光》
王力宏 《天翻地覆》《大城小爱》《春雨里洗过的太阳》《你不知道的事》
满文军 《满满的爱》
井柏然 《不过情人节》*
孙子涵 《巴黎夜雨》
李治廷 《岁月轻狂》

other popular artists include 周杰伦,张杰,罗志祥,阿妹,王菲,孙艳芝,邓紫棋,方大同,李宇春,蔡依林,郁可唯,尚雯婕,羽泉,阿兰,凤凰传奇,胡彦斌,毕书尽,倪安东

and ofc the classics 邓丽君,刘欢,韩红,费玉清,费翔,罗大佑,张学友,张国荣,刘德华,莫文蔚,张雨生,崔健,周传伟

mod n: ooo i have some to add!

i’m assuming you mean chinese language so i’ve included some taiwanese artists. these are mostly underground indie rock but also some pop and hip hop

香料 (Spice)
邱比 (Chiu-Pi)
刺蝟 (Hedgehog)
The Gar
后海大鯊魚 (Queen Sea Big Shark)
Tang Dynasty
Hang on the Box
冷酷仙境 (Cold Fairyland)
Carsick Cars
魏如萱 (Waa)
蛋堡 (Soft Lipa)

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2. Are you outgoing or shy?
3. Who are you looking forward to seeing?
4. Are you easy to get along with?
5. If you were drunk would the person you like take care of you?
6. What kind of people are you attracted to?
7. Do you think you’ll be in a relationship two months from now?
8. Who from the opposite gender is on your mind?
9. Does talking about sex make you uncomfortable?
10. Who was the last person you had a deep conversation with?
11. What does the most recent text that you sent say?
12. What are your 5 favorite songs right now?
13. Do you like it when people play with your hair?
14. Do you believe in luck and miracles?
15. What good thing happened this summer?
16. Would you kiss the last person you kissed again?
17. Do you think there is life on other planets?
18. Do you still talk to your first crush?
19. Do you like bubble baths?
20. Do you like your neighbors?
21. What are you bad habits?
22. Where would you like to travel?
23. Do you have trust issues?
24. Favorite part of your daily routine?
25. What part of your body are you most uncomfortable with?
26. What do you do when you wake up?
27. Do you wish your skin was lighter or darker?
28. Who are you most comfortable around?
29. Have any of your ex’s told you they regret breaking up?
30. Do you ever want to get married?
31. If your hair long enough for a pony tail?
32. Which celebrities would you have a threesome with?
33. Spell your name with your chin.
34. Do you play sports? What sports?
35. Would you rather live without TV or music?
36. Have you ever liked someone and never told them?
37. What do you say during awkward silences?
38. Describe your dream girl/guy?
39. What are your favorite stores to shop in?
40. What do you want to do after high school?
41. Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?
42. If your being extremely quiet what does it mean?
43. Do you smile at strangers?
44. Trip to outer space or bottom of the ocean?
45. What makes you get out of bed in the morning?
46. What are you paranoid about?
47. Have you ever been high?
48. Have you ever been drunk?
49. Have you done anything recently that you hope nobody finds out about?
50. What was the colour of the last hoodie you wore?
51. Ever wished you were someone else?
52. One thing you wish you could change about yourself?
53. Favourite makeup brand?
54. Favourite store?
55. Favourite blog?
56. Favourite colour?
57. Favourite food?
58. Last thing you ate?
59. First thing you ate this morning?
60. Ever won a competition? For what?
61. Been suspended/expelled? For what?
62. Been arrested? For what?
63. Ever been in love?
64. Tell us the story of your first kiss?
65. Are you hungry right now?
66. Do you like your tumblr friends more than your real friends?
67. Facebook or Twitter?
68. Twitter or Tumblr?
69. Are you watching tv right now?
70. Names of your bestfriends?
71. Craving something? What?
72. What colour are your towels?
72. How many pillows do you sleep with?
73. Do you sleep with stuffed animals?
74. How many stuffed animals do you think you have?
75. Favourite animal?
76. What colour is your underwear?
77. Chocolate or Vanilla?
78. Favourite ice cream flavour?
79. What colour shirt are you wearing?
80. What colour pants?
81. Favourite tv show?
82. Favourite movie?
83. Mean Girls or Mean Girls 2?
84. Mean Girls or 21 Jump Street?
85. Favourite character from Mean Girls?
86. Favourite character from Finding Nemo?
87. First person you talked to today?
88. Last person you talked to today?
89. Name a person you hate?
90. Name a person you love?
91. Is there anyone you want to punch in the face right now?
92. In a fight with someone?
93. How many sweatpants do you have?
94. How many sweaters/hoodies do you have?
95. Last movie you watched?
96. Favourite actress?
97. Favourite actor?
98. Do you tan a lot?
99. Have any pets?
100. How are you feeling?
101. Do you type fast?
102. Do you regret anything from your past?
103. Can you spell well?
104. Do you miss anyone from your past?
105. Ever been to a bonfire party?
106. Ever broken someone’s heart?
107. Have you ever been on a horse?
108. What should you be doing?
109. Is something irritating you right now?
110. Have you ever liked someone so much it hurt?
111. Do you have trust issues?
112. Who was the last person you cried in front of?
113. What was your childhood nickname?
114. Have you ever been out of your province/state?
115. Do you play the Wii?
116. Are you listening to music right now?
117. Do you like chicken noodle soup?
118. Do you like Chinese food?
119. Favourite book?
120. Are you afraid of the dark?
121. Are you mean?
122. Is cheating ever okay?
123. Can you keep white shoes clean?
124. Do you believe in love at first sight?
125. Do you believe in true love?
126. Are you currently bored?
127. What makes you happy?
128. Would you change your name?
129. What your zodiac sign?
130. Do you like subway?
131. Your bestfriend of the opposite sex likes you, what do you do?
132. Who’s the last person you had a deep conversation with?
133. Favourite lyrics right now?
134. Can you count to one million?
135. Dumbest lie you ever told?
136. Do you sleep with your doors open or closed?
137. How tall are you?
138. Curly or Straight hair?
139. Brunette or Blonde?
140. Summer or Winter?
141. Night or Day?
142. Favourite month?
143. Are you a vegetarian?
144. Dark, milk or white chocolate?
145. Tea or Coffee?
146. Was today a good day?
147. Mars or Snickers?
148. What’s your favourite quote?
149. Do you believe in ghosts?
150. Get the closest book next to you, open it to page 42, what’s the first line on that page?

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1. Are looks important in a relationship?
2. Are relationships ever worth it?
3. Are you a virgin?
4. Are you in a relationship?
5. Are you in love?
6. Are you single this year?
7. Can you commit to one person?
8. Describe your crush
9. Describe your perfect mate
10. Do you believe in love at first sight?
11. Do you ever want to get married?
12. Do you forgive betrayal?
13. Do you get jealous easily?
14. Do you have a crush on anyone?
15. Do you have any piercings?
16. Do you have any tattoos?
17. Do you like kissing in public?
20. Do you shower every day?
21. Do you think someone has feelings for you?
22. Do you think someone is thinking about you right now?
23. Do you think you can last in a relationship for 6 months and not cheat?
24. Do you think you’ll be married in 5 years?
25. Do you want to be in a relationship this year?
26. Has anyone told you they don’t want to ever lose you?
27. Has someone ever written a song or poem for you?
28. Have you ever been cheated on?
29. Have you ever cheated on someone?
30. Have you ever considered plastic surgery? If so, what would you change about your body?
31. Have you ever cried over a guy/girl?
32. Have you ever experienced unrequited love?
33. Have you ever had sex with a man?
34. Have you ever had sex with a woman?
35. Have you ever kissed someone older than you?
36. Have you ever liked one of your best friends?
37. Have you ever liked someone who your friends hated?
38. Have you ever liked someone you didn’t expect to?
39. Have you ever wanted someone you couldn’t have?
40. Have you ever written a song or poem for someone?
41. Have you had sex so far this year?
42. How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander?
43. How long was your longest relationship?
44. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had?
45. How many people did you kiss in 2012/2013?
46. How many times did you have sex last year?
47. How old are you?
48. If the person you like says they like someone else, what would you say?
49. If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, what is your favorite thing about him/her?
50. If your first true love knocked on your door with apology and presents, would you accept?
51. Is there a boy/girl who you would do absolutely everything for?
52. Is there anyone you’ve given up on? Why?
53. Is there someone mad because you’re dating/talking to the person you are?
54. Is there someone you will never forget?
55. Share a relationship story.
56. State 8 facts about your body
57. Things you want to say to an ex
58. What are five ways to win your heart?
59. What do you look like? (Post a picture!)
60. What is the biggest age difference between you and any of your partners?
61. What is the first thing you notice in someone?
62. What is the sexiest thing someone could ever do for/to you?
63. What is your definition of “having sex”?
64. What is your definition of cheating?
65. What is your favourite foreplay routine?
66. What is your favourite roleplay?
67. What is your idea of the perfect date?
68. What is your sexual orientation?
69. What turns you off?
70. What turns you on?
71. What was your kinkiest wet dream?
72. What words do you like to hear during sex?
73. What’s something sweet you’d like someone to do for you?
74. What’s the most superficial characteristic you look for?
75. What’s the sweetest thing anyone’s ever done for you?
76. What’s the sweetest thing you’ve ever done for someone?
77. What’s your opinion on age differences in relationships?
78. What’s your dirtiest secret?
79. When was the last time you felt jealous? Why?
80. When was the last time you told someone you loved them?
81. Who are five people you find attractive?
82. Who is the last person you hugged?
83. Who was your first kiss with?
84. Why did your last relationship fail?
85. Would you ever date someone off of the Internet?

Louis confirming babygate...

Firstly if it wasn’t obvious already then what Louis said in that GMA interview about the baby was basically similar to what Liam said in the audio of the fake confirmation. Even though we now know that Liam’s was indeed fake, what is similar about these two happenings is that neither of them mention ‘baby’, 'pregnancy’, 'Briana’, 'dad’ etc.

Louis’ answer was extremely vague for someone who is apparently 'very excited’ and the reason for this is because eventually when a forced denial happens, nothing will fall back on Louis or Modest because they can simply say that 'Louis never actually confirmed anything’ since he actually didn’t confirm anything at all.

'Its very exciting’, 'I’m buzzing thankyou’ - this sounds familiar to the whole 'they GENUINELY believe’ where it is neither confirming nor denying anything and instead is just playing along with the interviewers questions.

GMA was live. If Louis wasn’t allowed to deny Babygate then he obviously had to say something vague enough that it can still be classed as an answer but not actually confirm anything and instead just make us more confused than ever. Since it was live it meant that if Louis fucked up and said something wrong then it couldn’t be edited so he had to be simple about what he said. Not only that but with it being live and it being on a show as well known and as well watched as GMA everyone is obviously going to see it. Considering after the show they did two more pre recorded interviews and apparently the baby was never mentioned in either so why only on the live interview was the baby mentioned (even if it was in the most forced and crap way possible).

I also want to mention that Louis’ reaction was awkward and irritated, almost like he didn’t want to say anything but had no choice but to have to say something. And the other boys were clearly not excited at all and if you watch it carefully, just as Louis is asked about the baby Liam looks at Louis as if to say 'should i say something’ and Louis gives him a quick look in return as if to say 'theres no point, ill just do it’. All of the boys moods instantly change afterwards especially Louis’ and when they asked sweet Harry why he wasn’t talking much and if he was okay, he said 'yeah’ but his face said 'fuck you’.

I also want to point out that Harry, who loves babies so much that he congratulates every single pregnant woman and basically wants to be pregnant himself, looked less excited than any of the others about this 'new 1D baby’. That really says something.

Also none of Louis’ family have said anything about the baby and neither have any of the boys despite how much they support Louis, they have said nothing, zero, zilch. If thats not even the slightest bit suspicious then i don’t even know anymore.

Now i could be wrong and i could just be being 'a delusional Larrie who wont except the truth’ but if people are actually believing 'very excited’ Louis confirmed that baby on GMA then this fandom has indeed hit rock bottom. There is nothing that has been said that actually makes sense and now i have reached a point where I’m not even sure if Niall is even Irish anymore because of how much this bands management makes them lie to us.

Anyways theres my opinion and anyone is welcome go and say anything to me about what i think as long as its reasonable and not rude because we have reached a point where we cant afford to argue with each amymore.

anonymous asked:

Hi! I just came back from a semester in Shanghai. I was studying fashion, so for a souvenir I bought a qipao. I don't plan on wearing it of course, but I was hoping to hang it in a visible place, like you would a painting. Is that weird? Or bad?



1: Could you go the rest of your life without smoking a cigarette?
2: Are you single/taken/heartbroken/confused?
3: What if I told you that you were pretty?
4: Ever been told “it’s not you, it’s me”?
5: Are you interested in anyone right now?
6: What are you looking forward to in the next week?
7: Do you want to be single?
8: Did you go out or stay in last night?
9: How late did you stay up last night?
10: Can you recall the last time you realized you liked someone a lot?
11: Last three things you had to drink?
12: Have you pretended to like someone?
13: Have you ever told somebody you loved them and not actually meant it?
14: Honestly, has anyone seen you in your underwear in the past 3 months?
15: Is it hard for you to get over someone?
16: Think back five months ago, were you single?
17: What were you doing at 12:30 this afternoon?
18: Hold hands with anyone this week?
19: Could you go for the rest of your life without drinking alcohol?
20: What would you name your future daughter?
21: Do you miss anyone?
22: Have you kissed three or more people in one night?
23: Did your last kiss take place in/on a bed?
24: Are you good at hiding your feelings?
25: Have you ever cried from being so mad?
26: Who did you last see in person?
27: Are you listening to music right now?
28: What is something you currently want right now?
29: What is the last thing you said out lot?
30: How is your heart lately?
31: Do you wear the hood on your hoodie?
32: Are you wearing socks?
33: What do people call you?
34: Will you talk to the person you like tonight?
35: Are there any stressful situations in your life?
36: Who did you last share a bed with?
37: Did you do something bad today?
38: When was the last time a member of the opposite sex hugged you?
39: Do you get stressed out easily?
40: Will you sing today?
41: Have you ever wanted to tell someone something but didn’t?
42: Who do you go to when you need to talk to someone?
43: Have you ever been taken to the emergency room in an ambulance?
44: What are you listening to right now?
45: What is wrong with you right now?
46: What is on your wrists right now?
47: Where did you get the shirt/sweatshirt you’re wea
48: What do you like better: hot chocolate or hot apple cider?
49: Do you make wishes at 11:11?
50: Are you a good artist?
51: Love really is a beautiful thing huh?
52: Do you miss the way things were six months ago?
53: Ever been on a golf cart?
54: Do you have trust issues?
55: Ever stayed up all night on the phone, with who?
56: Do you own something from Hot Topic?
57: Do you use chap stick?
58: Have you ever slapped someone in the face?
59: Do you have a little sister?
60: Have you ever been to New York?
61: Think of the last person who said I love you, do you think they meant it?
62: Have you hugged someone within the last week?
63: What were you doing at midnight last night?
64: Have you ever regretted kissing someone?
65: Is there one person in your life that can always make you smile?
66: Were your last three kisses from the same person?
67: Have you kissed anyone in the last five days?
68: Would you rather sleep with someone else or alone?
69: Will next Friday be a good one?

anonymous asked:

Hi! I was talking with two of my friends, one Han Chinese and one Chinese/Malaysian, and I'm white American (but I speak some Mandarin, so we were using both that and English). The second was talking about her ethnicity, and referring to herself as 混血. The Han Chinese friend then started asking me about my ethnic background, and so I told her that my family comes from a few different European countries, mainly Germany and England. She then said I'm 混血 too (1/2)

(2/2) I wasn’t sure 混血 was really an accurate description of me? I didn’t correct her because obviously she knows the language better than I do, and knows of the connotations of the word, but I’m just not too sure.

i think some of the confusion is coming from sort of the attempt to translate the term 混血 into the western ‘mixed race’ which often do mean the same things (like, anthony neely/倪安东, who is taiwanese/white, is considered 混血)

but then takeshi kaneshiro/金城武, who is taiwanese/japanese, is also considered to be 混血, even though both taiwan and japan are within the boundaries of the constructed race of east asian, as is pil seo-jin/毕书尽, who is taiwanese/korean

though ofc the dynamic here i think is a little bit different than having german and english ancestry, vs. having parents who come immediately from two different ethnicities

it’s not an inaccurate description, but it’s not necessarily the most accurate description either

- a

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2. Top favorite 3 songs as of now?
3. First kiss experience?
4. Who do you look up to most and why?
5. In your opinion, cutest way to be asked out?
6. Favorite season?
7. Favorite candy?
8. Dark or milk chocolate?
9. Last time you cried?
10. Has someone ever changed you significantly and how?
11. Do you believe in kiss on first date?
12. Left handed or right handed?
13. Favorite thing you like about yourself?
14. Whose your best friend and how long have you been friends?
15. Is there anyone you like and why?
16. What are some of your pet peeves?
17. Favorite and least favorite subjects in school?
18. Plans for the future?
19. Sweaters or hoodies?
20. Snow or rain?
21. What celebrity do you look up to?
22. Who makes you smile regardless?
23. What would you want your name to be if you were the opposite sex?
24. Would you die for the ones you love?
25. Favorite song lyrics?
26. Have you ever self harmed?
27. Sex before or after marriage and why?
28. A book you could read over and over again?
29. At what age did you have your first kiss?
30. What is the worst thing someone could do to you?
31. What pets do you have/want to have?
32. Describe your day today?
33. Night owl or morning bird?
34. A band/artist you want to see in concert?
35. Post a picture of you
36. List ten favorites
37. What do you fear most and why?
38. Describe your life story so far in 5 words or less
39. How old are you?
40. Do you ever want to get married? Have kids?
41. Ever gotten your heart broken, how?
42. Daily morning routine?
43. A few things on your bucket list?
44. Where do you want to travel if you could go anywhere and why?
45. How often do you wear a fake smile?
46. Favorite thing about Tumblr?
47. Do you sing in the shower?
48. What did you want to be when you were a kid?
49. Most hurtful thing someone has said to you?
50. [Ask me any question you want]

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I feel like these things are always so similar, so I made my own. Feel free to reblog it, but send me some asks first, homies! Let’s be friends!

Best Friends (Tag your homies!)

1. Which celebrities or characters best represent you and your best friend?

2. How long have you known your best friend?

3. What do you typically fight with your best friend about?

4. Where is you and your best friend’s favorite hang out spot?

5.  Why do you consider your best friend to be your best friend?


6. What is your favorite scary movie?

7. What are your favorite pizza toppings?

8. Where is your favorite place to sleep?

9. Describe your favorite pair of shoes.

10. Who is your favorite author/poet?

There’s a First For Everything

11. What was your first kiss like?

12. Who was the first person to hold your hand?

13. What is something you recently tried for the first time?

14. What is the first thing you think about in the morning?

15. Describe your first driving experience.


16. Honestly, why are you so bad at relationships?

17. Honestly, why are you so good at relationships?

18. Think about the person you hurt the most. Text them “hey.” It’ll brighten their day and you just might realize you miss them. Always worth a shot.

19. Who hurt you the most? What do you wish you could say to them?

20. Are you on good terms with most of your exes?

Oooh Sexy Time

21. Do you own any sex toys?

22. What’s the craziest place you’ve had sex?

23. What’s the craziest place you’d like to have sex?

24. If you had to be called something other than your name in bed, what would it be?

25. Describe your most recent time having sex. Be as detailed or vague as you’d like.


26. Do you feel like you’ve already met the person you’ll marry, or whom you want to marry?

27. What would you name your future daughter? Son?

28. Money is no object. Where would you like to live?

29. What is your dream job?

30. What is one thing you want your future spouse to know?

anonymous asked:

Me and my friend were discussing about a game (Lovelive) and the girls in the game are wearing cheongsams. Is it okay for Japanese anime characters to be wearing it ? Is it appropriation. I did read the FAQ about this but it is like they were using the dress as fanservice and it seemed like fetishizing Chinese culture. Can i get ur opinion on this?

rape cw//sexual slavery cw

there are a plethora of different issues that go into this tbh

  1. in the anime that i’ve watched (which, granted, i don’t rly watch that much anime), cheongsam is often a shorthand denotation for chineseness, which would be ok imo except for the fact that they are often highly sexualised and they often engage in heavy stereotyping of chinese people
  2. the sexualisation of cheongsam by japanese people in particular leaves a very nasty taste in my mouth because i feel like it engages very much with the erotification + sexualisation of the chinese body that, during the second sino japanese war, culminated in the sexual slavery and rape of thousands of chinese women (particularly bc in this period in time cheongsam was daily wear) and in this context i don’t think the sexualisation of chinese women + chinese garb is not influenced by that at all
  3. tbh i don’t think it’s appropriation, but appropriation is not the only harmful way of engaging with someone else’s culture, and i do think that this depiction of cheongsam is harmful