After reading “GIRL WONDER”, i think its safe to say we all have that one friend we trusted with every ounce of our being and then WHAM they screw you over. The screwing over part is the worst you’ve ever felt and it makes it hard to give your friendship to anyone who tries. I have huge trust issues, huge part of the reason why i keep such a close knit group of friends. I’ve been fucked over countless times not to care anymore. I don’t stick around long enough to try to make it work either. I mean do you blame me? Fool me once shame on you..fool me twice..shame on me. There’s no such thing as a third try with me. But sometimes in life , second chances are a rarity, you only get one chance. No master backs.
Don't ever change yourself to impress someone, because they should be impressed that you don't change to please others
In order for a person to truly care about who you are as a person they must be willing to accept who you are at your heart’s deepest levels. It is easy to love someone that tries to please everyone else, whereas it is much more difficult to love someone who is only his or her self at all times. This in no way should stop anyone from being or acting as themselves because one should only want love or someone to care about them if it is a genuine love.
“SHOW EM” the good the bad the ugly..there’s no telling em" if they going love you"
I’d never change myself for someone to love. It’s not me that they love..but who they wish for me to be to love. If you loved me..you wouldn’t want/ask for me to change. Flaws and all..take me as i am or not at all.
I REMEMBER this day. Mormon temple at Laie. It kind of felt sacrilegious doing this. BUT i did it. OHYA YA.I like how i can look back at pictures and get a good laugh out f them. WTF was i thinking?!?!?! The best part about being a kid…no thinking involved. You just do..<3
I MIGHT NOT BE SOMEONES FIRST CHOICE, but I’m a great choice. I don’t pretend to be someone I’m not because I’m good at being me. I might not be proud of the things i did in the past, but I’m proud of who i am today. I may not be perfect but i don’t need to be. I do me just perfectly <3
OUTFIT DIARIES: IT always starts with the shoes..we walk almost everywhere in Hawaii ( or at least i do..). So comfort is a must and IT being cute is an added plus. Lightwear options is a must during this time of the yr. Even though Hawaii seems like summer yr round, it does get hotter during the summer.
If my hairstylist (Mae) permitted it..i would by this time have cropped shoulder length hair. This Hawaiian heat is killing me and all this hair just poofs with a vengeance to make me want to pull out my hair.
OUTFIT DIARIES: Its definitely been a long time since i’ve done one of these. Out of pure laziness and an individual commenting how they thought my post were a bit “full of my self” why? Because i like sharing where i get stuff and how people can look a million without spending it? OK. But its not at all. I just like sharing.