as you all know people don't normally do that

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Hey anon, I’m like. SUPER fond of this crossover ok?? I actually drew it a little already! It’s actually BECAUSE of a Mob Psychonauts crossover that I discovered Psychonauts! If I never reblogged that art way back when, and if Xi didn’t explain it more to me, I would have probably never played this wonderful game! ;v; 

That crossover was a “what if Psychonauts came to Mob’s world”, which I do love, but I wanted to try it in the opposite direction here :’D I tried real hard not to draw stuff for it coz HECK I HAVE ALOT OF AUS BUT here are some short dumb comics and my attempt at Black Velvetopia! Raz and Mob ;7;

I HAVE IDEAS. HERE ARE SOME. 

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little things about avpd that i don’t talk about often:

  • since you’re afraid of people disliking you you apologize constantly, for everything and anything, even when it’s not needed
  • you read any negative interaction (even minor ones) with someone as though they hate you afterwards, even if they don’t
  • never being comfortable interacting with people you don’t know well so you have a very limited circle of friends
  • when you act any sort of outgoing or deviate from how you normally act you become so worried you embarrassed yourself / made the other person hate you 
  • feeling shitty because you feel weird about making first moves or saying ‘i love you’ first to your partner
  • being unable to open up to anyone about your personal life and when you do it feels unnatural and weird
  • feeling isolated and like you’re in a fishbowl all the time
Making friends

*first day of class and two strangers sit next to each other*

oh look we just happened to sit next to each other on the first day we’re friends now yay

and the next thing you know they’re hanging out and heading everywhere together and doing normal friend and social stuff all through the semester…

…how?

Did I miss a handbook or something?

anonymous asked:

Ship who we want, every couple on tv is shipped irl, so shut the fuck up, because your making earpers look ridiculous when it's such a normal thing to do

No it’s not fucking normal. You ship the characters for goodness sake. Nobody is denying that Dom and Kat have chemistry when they interact, but people are SEXUALIZING their interactions. That’s gross, and wrong and a fucking infringment of their privacy. And fucking disrespectful - y’all get mad when people deliberately ignore your sexual orientation then turn around and ship real people together cause it’s cute (when they are/may want to be/ may be just friends. And I don’t claim to know what Kat and Dom’s orientation is, but wouldn’t it be decent to allow them to interact with each other at cons and such, without SEXUALIZING everything they do?)

Are you allowed to think they look cute together? For sure. But people should keep it to themselves. Do we really want to make them uncomfortable? I think they are so open with us, and it’s such a gift, but then there are people kinda bitching that Kat is engaged to someone else when she should be engaged to Dom or looks better with Dom anyway or whatever. Or sexualizing when they hug, or hang out (of course they do, they are fucking friends.)

If you don’t have the decency to understand boundaries, to me you are not an Earper. Of course it’s my opinion but the fact that you think this kind of behavious is normal…fucking hell, try to put yourself in their shoes. Say you have a gf/bf and people you don’t know gloss over that fact to ship you with a coworker you are friends with. Would you be ok with that? Would your partner be ok with that? 

It baffles me how people have no basic decency and can’t separate characters from real people. And we all bitch about how it’s wrong when men sexualize everything women do, but if it’s wlw doing it then it’s ok? 

I started in fandom when I was 15, so exactly 16 years ago and perhaps because we had less social media, no fan worth their salt would think it ok to force imagined relationships onto real people. I am not talking about Wayhaught here. I am talking about people with lives outside the show, with private lives we should respect

You guys go all out oversexualizing a genuine, wholesome friendship between two women then wonder why wlw are considered predatory by straight women when all you want to do is be friends.

Give me a fucking break. 

anonymous asked:

so when you say 'because not feeling sexual attraction doesn’t mean not feeling sexual arousal' and 'sex is fun' - that's why nobody takes ace seriously. that's not a sexual orientation, is just having a low sex drive. some people love sex, for others it depends on the partners or moments, and others don't need it all that much. why do we need to label everything? just accept you're a normal person and move on.

OK.

first of all, I’m going to answer the issues you raised in good faith. I just want you to know that I’m not trying to convince you of anything, anon, I just want to put my perspective on these issues out there, since you’ve sent them my way.

yes, asexual people can feel sexual arousal. I’d like to refer you back to the analogy I gave in my original post about being ace - the one where you’re hungry, but can’t find anything you want to eat. wanting to eat something and being hungry for it are different experiences, right? sometimes it’s the other way round, and you really want to eat something even though you aren’t hungry at all (see: me at the end of a meal, considering getting a dessert). arousal and attraction are as different as that. linked, but not the same.

and yes, sex can be fun for an asexual person. is it fun in the same way as it is for an allosexual person? no, of course not. having sex with someone you’re not attracted to isn’t the same as having sex with someone you are attracted to - but it happens all the time, outside the ace community, too. straight friends of mine have experimented with girls, and then realised it’s not for them, they’re not attracted to girls - but they don’t regret their sexual experimentation, and found it fun. likewise, a biromantic lesbian acquaintance of mine is currently in a relationship with a guy. she’s not sexually attracted to him, but they have sex and she finds it fun because she loves him; she finds the relationship completely fulfilling. I feel that to define the fun one can have during sex purely by the level of attraction you feel to your partner isn’t taking into account the wide variety of factors that go into the experience; it’s too narrow a view.

as for why we choose to use a label - that “no need for labels” thing is old as the hills, anon. let me lay something out here. categorisation - i.e. the grouping of objects into a class, based on shared traits - is a fundamental tenet of western thought dating back to Plato and Aristotle (source), and it’s been put forward that our brains are literally wired to require the labelling and categorising of the things around us (source, source, for example). at the very least, we can all agree that when we see something we don’t understand, we feel uncomfortable. if you see a puddle of unidentifiable black goo on your floor/a strange shape flying through the sky/a loud sound in the middle of the night, likely the first question you will ask is “what is that?!”. your first instinct is to label, to understand through naming and categorising. you seek a word for it; from it, you seek to know good/bad, safe/unsafe, normal/abnormal.

and so to ask asexual people to exist without their label is asking us to cut ourselves off from one of the most basic aspects of our cultural philosophy, and is also asking us to live constantly and closely with something we would have no name for, something about our very bodies that we therefore couldn’t categorise. you want to make our own physicality an enigma to us. good or bad, safe or not safe, normal or abnormal - how do we decide, if we don’t know what we are? labels help us to group ourselves; when we group, we can make those decisions together. good or bad - well, together we can be good. safe or not safe - together, we can be safe. normal or abnormal - together, we can feel normal. what you’re demanding when you try to enforce a lack of label is a lack of visibility, a lack of community, a lack of safety, a lack of self-knowledge. in my opinion, that’s not OK.

you seem to think asexual people are trying to set themselves apart, or above, anon… you say that we should accept we’re “normal” like it’s an insult, a comedown. like we’re all snowflakes trying to make ourselves special. that hasn’t been my experience at all. almost every asexual person I’ve met has been frankly hungry for normality, sincerely wanting to feel at home and at ease and typical and among peers. it’s why we often group together like big flocks of ace penguins.

finally, at the end of this post that got a lot longer than I intended, I’d just like to point out that there are one or two people I know who do take asexuality seriously. just one or two.

  • Barbara : Did you know about this? Girls being dropped from 20 feet, it's unbelievable.
  • Batman: I know right. 20 feet, walk it off.
  • Barbara: Batman, you do know that normal people just don't "walk off" a 20 foot fall, right?
  • Batman: So, all those times I pushed Robin off a building, and he was all AAAHHHHHH, he wasn't just being funny?
  • Joker: I thought it was funny, Batman.

So in light of me recently getting a gym membership, get ready for me to be a Bro and occasionally post progress pictures of myself.

While I don’t have a bad body by any means (I’m very lucky to have a fast metabolism), it’s not where I’d like it to be, so here we go.

I also think it’s important for people to see (especially on here) that the majority of folks aren’t chiseled and/or incredibly skinny.

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ok but what if

Musing over my loneliness led me back to myself, and showed me that I hold onto the shadows of mere memories better than I do to the people in my life.
—  # I know that the day when everyone leaves is inevitable, so I choose to simply let them go.
  • Joel: Did you know about this? Girls being dropped from 20 feet, it's unbelievable.
  • Wednesday: I know right. 20 feet, walk it off.
  • Joel: ...Wednesday, you do know that normal people just don't "walk off" a 20 foot fall, right?
  • Wednesday: So... all those times I pushed Pubert off a building, and he was all AAAHHHHHH, he wasn't just being funny?
  • Pugsley: I thought it was funny, Wednesday.

anonymous asked:

Thank you so much for drawing trans people the way you do. Normalizing all trans bodies is something you excel at, and I don't know how to express how much it means to see bodies like mine on your artwork. Your blog is a place I don't feel like I need to physically transition to be loved, appreciated and respected. I've been following you for 6 years now and you've been nothing but sweet and compassionate. Keep it up, I'm really proud to see the things you're creating!!

horgh…ilu so much thank you for this message idek how to express what it means 2 me.  im dead..

anonymous asked:

Kristen's gay and dating Stella Maxwell, Robert's dating FKA Twigs, no need to tell conspiracy theories and lies to create some false hope of a former couple secretly being back together, even married with children; having completely false fantasies of two people you don't even know is just not normal and makes you come across as crazy and unhinged, please get help because it's not normal to be deeply invested in the lives of people you don't know and then tell lies about them that you post.

Did Kristen or Rob tell you all these? Or you came to these “conclusions” from reading tabloids and watching too much “entertainment news” online?  Do YOU know them personally? Or you came up with these fantasies with that tiny pea sized brained of yours from paparazzi photos and manipulated fan made images or videos?

“I’ve always wanted to keep what was mine and private, mine, because I didn’t want to be a part of an industry that was just making money off of it.

“I have never been interested to sell my personal life. And that is the only reason people are bringing it up. The reason you go on TV is to promote movies. You know, that is the way to do it.” 

- Robert Pattinson *Cosmopolitan promo with ABC “Good Morning America”, Aug 2012

While you are happily making money for the industry who created those fantasies to sell you, they will always keep what is theirs private and be constantly selling THEIR MOVIES. You need to get help in understanding satire such as SNL, and decipher lies and half truths from print interviews with publishers and writers with their own agendas. Because it’s not normal to be this stupid to make so much money for the industry and making the lives of these two actors so miserable with paparazzis and fake news outlets hounding them.

Oh…I normally don’t reply anonymous mail and send them to immediate blocking. Since I have time, and they are so gutless to come at me at my own blog for spewing BS. Well I will just post it first THEN block.

anonymous asked:

That tweet from Chad makes it seem like he knows where Louis is so I'm curious how often they talk. It also makes me wonder how many other celeb friends he has that we don't really know about because celeb friends don't really match his "lad" image. As much as I would love to know who he really hangs out with I'm also glad he has people in his life that are separate from all the stunts.

It’s clear Louis has a career and a professional life away from the crap his team forces him to do with various Nasty. He is friends with a lot of people from the industry, we already know that, and the fact that you don’t see any of this hang outs is completely normal cause these are friendships or work relationship from his real life whereas when you see him walking down the street with a nobody is a staged publicity stunt. Also he and Harry are a couple and I am sure they know mostly everyone that works with one another. For example, Chad has been friend with Louis (or knows him at least) for ages and Harry knows him too since the first time they met Harry was with him and nobody knew. This is how real connections and work stuff works in famous-land, artists often meet at parties and events and everywhere relatively private and if its not for publicity you never see them walking together in the street in front of paps. One thing is what you want to sell, another is working or being actual friend with someone. Like we all know Harry has a lot of friends in LA, but you only see him with Jeff, Tommy or Glenne literally every time he’s papped. You see him at Cafe Habana when one of his friends has something to promote, with Kendall too etc. No doubt he’s friend with these people but they are used for promo as well. Louis according to the narrative lives and works in LA but only knows his two friends Oli and Calvin and Nasty. We all know it’s not the case but as I said one thing is the real life, one thing is publicity. And yes, i am glad he knows these people privately and they probably genuinely like each other and see each other privately rather than being leeches attached to Louis’ neck for an article on The Sun.

BTS Reaction: They find out their S/O has a chronic illness when she/he has a bad episode.
  • I hope you like it @little-miss-sherlock Lots of lub to youu 💕💕
  • Smol Warning: This involves certain health issues that.. Well, I don't know if it would offend anyone that I'm writing about chronic illnesses I don't understand fully. I looked up the symptoms of all these and I'm going with that, if you know you'll get mad or your sensitive to this material please don't read.
  • ———————
  • ~ Kim Seokjin/Prince Jin:
  • Jin always heard you talking to yourself but he felt it was normal for people to do so and he found it cute. Until one day you forgot to take your medication. Your mind was everywhere you kept telling the wall to "Shut up" then-
  • Jin: Y/n? Are you okay? What's wrong? Look at me.
  • You: Who are you? Where am I? Where's mom?
  • Jin: What? Y/n. It's Jin.
  • You: Jin? Like... Gin?
  • Jin: No with a J.
  • He decided to take you to the doctors and surprisingly he found the one you go to for medication. Everyone seemed to know you, know what was going on and he found out you had schizophrenia.
  • Your personality was all over the place, you heard voices, and sometimes short losses of memory. When he found out he was extremely confused and mad. Why would you hide something so serious from him?
  • Jin: Explain.
  • You: I was ashamed.. Embarrassed. Who would want to date someone like me? I didn't want you to leave me..
  • You: I'm sorry..
  • Jin: -Holds you and kisses your forehead- I've told you. I'll love you till the day I die no matter how cheesy that sounds, it's true.
  • Jin: We'll work together, and I'll take care of you. You'll never have to deal with this alone.
  • Jin: I love you.
  • ~ Suga/Min Yoongi:
  • While you and Yoongi were going out to get grocery's you had fainted. Immediately he dropped everything to get you to a hospital.
  • Yoongi: What happened?
  • Doctor: Have they not told you? They've been here a few times.
  • Yoongi: For what?
  • Doctor: Their medication. We have them on two at the moment. They have GAD. Which stands for Generalized Anxiety Disorder. They fainted for lack of sleep. Their anxiety is very bad, she/he has horrid thoughts of her/himself, she/he has told us about her/his troubles sleeping, she/he has had thoughts of death, now that you know please do take care of her/him.
  • He was furious that you didn't tell him. He wanted you to trust him with everything and it definitely seemed like you did but to know you hid something involving your health he questioned how much trust you actually had in him.
  • Yoongi: Why didn't you tell me?
  • You: It's always made people back of from me.
  • You: It has ruined so many past relationships and I just don't want to lose you. I love and care about you so much Min Yoongi, I couldn't risk it.
  • Yoongi: But you could risk your health?
  • Yoongi: You know everything about me and after hearing you didn't leave me. What makes you think that THIS would want to make me leave you?
  • Yoongi: Anything you need just ask. Your health is the most important thing because you are important to to me.
  • ~ J-hope/Jung Hoseok:
  • You both were about to go to bed, at the time Hobi stayed over and when he went to go ask you something he saw you scrambling to find something.
  • Hobi: Y/n?
  • You: -You jump slightly- Yes?
  • Hobi: What are you looking for? Can I help you?
  • You: No. It's nothing, just needed a sleeping pill so I can sleep well.
  • Hobi: If you don't find them there's many ways I could help you sleep.
  • You: Today. I think I just want to cuddle with you Hoseok.
  • Later while he had fallen asleep, you went back to look for your medication. Then you started tantrum-ing, sobbing. getting emotional, you broke glass, and you weren't yourself. Of course Hoseok heard and ran out to see if you were okay or what was going on. He saw you sobbing on the ground, your hands bleeding from shards of glass that were on the floor.
  • Hobi: Oh my god. Y/n? Come with me. I'm taking you to a doctor.
  • You: Leave me alone, Go away! I don't need your help.
  • Hobi: Yes you do. Come here. -slowly approaching you-
  • You: I'm warning you to get away!
  • Once he manages to grab you and semi calm you down he takes you to a doctor and he found out you have a extreme Bipolar disorder, He was frustrated and heart broken that you never told him, and that he had to find out like this. When he saw you, you were going to talk but he didn't want to hear you.
  • Hobi: Don't you talk. Listen.
  • Hobi: Don't ever hide anything like this from me again. Do you understand? I thought that I took care of you well and to know that I wasn't able to help you for this, wasn't able to take care of you better is the worst thing I have ever felt.
  • Hobi: Understand that I love and care for you and I want to take care of you till the end.
  • You: I was just worried you wouldn't be able to handle it. And you would leave, just like everyone else.
  • Hobi: Then I'm offended that I'm just "Everyone else" to you. I am your boyfriend, your lover, and someone who wants to take care of you like you take care of me.
  • Hobi: So let me.
  • ~ Rap Monster/Namjoon:
  • You: Do you what an Inhaler looks like?
  • Nams: I guess I do, why?
  • You: Random thought.
  • You and Namjoon took walks around beautiful areas a lot and walked to your house a lot. You looked through your bag to check if you had your inhaler and for some reason it was gone. You know you had taken it and you were worried because you might need it.
  • Nams: Y/n why do you have this? -He holds up your inhaler which you take from him immediately-
  • You: I'm taking it to someone later.
  • Nams: Don't lie to me.
  • You: I don't lie.
  • Nams: That was a lie. Do you have asthma?
  • You:
  • Nams: Answer me, Y/n.
  • You: Yes, I have asthma!
  • Nams: Why didn't you tell me?
  • You: Because I was embarrassed. It's embarrassing to breathe from a tube in public or in front of you.
  • You: And I figured you wanted to date someone normal. Someone who isn't bothersome and you won't have to worry about so much.
  • Nams: Baby, You don't ever need to feel embarrassed, I still love you, I'm falling in love with your personality. I love you just as you are and I will take care of you, alright?
  • Nams: From now on, tell me everything and anything. Nothing can change how I feel about you.
  • Park Jimin/Chimichanga:
  • You liked asking Jimin to teach you dance whether you were good or not didn't matter, it was just fun to move around to the beat of music, but today you forgot your pain killers so you were limping and falling a lot. .
  • Jimin: Are you okay? You're very off.
  • You: Just dandy.
  • Jimin: What's wrong?
  • You: Nothing.
  • Jimin: What's. Wrong?
  • You: I have Chronic pain, which is basically forever pain in the same place... I have it in my knee.
  • You: anddd oh my gkkdbd it's cramping up. Can you go get my pain killers please??
  • Jimin: Why didn't you tell me??
  • You: Because knowing you, You wouldn't let me out the damn house.
  • You: Even if we don't live together. I know you'd somehow watch me.
  • Jimin: I would let you out..
  • You: 1 step out the door would be too far for you.
  • Jimin: I just care about you.
  • You: I know but what you CAN do is help me with the medicine and take me to my doctors appointments.
  • Jimin: I can't drive...
  • You: You can accompany me to my doctors appointments.
  • V/Kim Taehyung:
  • When Tae came over to hang out with you, he opened the door with the spare key you gave him.
  • Tae: Honey!!! I'm hommee!
  • You guys had this joke where you acted like a married couple. You usually replied with something funny as well but you couldn't.
  • Taehyung went to the kitchen only to find you crouched, leaning against the wall behind you, and holding your head.
  • Tae: Y/n! Are you alright?
  • You: Medicine. Please. -You point to a cabinet- Get a white and blue bottle.
  • After he gave you the medicine and you were feeling a bit better you guys started talking.
  • You: Why are you here so early?
  • Tae: I wanted to surprise you but you surprised me. Are you okay?
  • You: I'm fine now. I mean, it'll happen tomorrow, the next day, the next, and after that, then so on.
  • Tae: That's impossible.
  • You: Not if you have a Migraine.
  • Tae: How come I didn't know?
  • You: I was embarrassed, I'm pretty sure you didn't want to date someone who was forever sick so it was nice knowing you—
  • Tae: Shhhtsh I'm staying and caring for you, and cuddling you, and being with you until the day I die.
  • Jeon Jungkook/Kookie:
  • You didn't hide it from Jungkook but you also haven't told him.
  • You'll take your medicine in front him and when he asks you say your sick.
  • But you've been sick for the whole year you guys have been dating so of course he is going to get suspicious.
  • You: I read a new book~
  • JK: Yeah you told me about it. You're on page 289, It's interesting, and you would like to find more from that author.
  • You: When did I.. You know I probably have bed memory.
  • JK: You told me about this book four times.
  • You: I have? Oh wow.
  • JK: How'd you forget after four times?
  • You: Ah hmm, I have ADHD, bad memory, bad at paying attention. um um oh wow suddenly I'm bored. Did I bring my pills??
  • JK: I don't think so, let's go home alright?
  • You: Yeah, sorry I didn't tell you. I just, it's not attractive. Yeah.
  • JK: I'd still love you with any sickness, how you talk to me, treat me, take care of me, love me, and your personality is what made me fall in love with you.
  • You: Thanks Bunny boy.
  • JK: Let's eat at Wagwan after alright?
  • You: I heard they give out Snickers now. I don't know why but I'm down.
  • JK: You're adorable.

anonymous asked:

hi! I have a question about morphs, but I couldn't find anything on it in your resources so I hope this isn't a question you've already answered. can you talk about the ethics of breeding for morphs in general? like.. is it really ethical to breed just for looks? do morphs always have worse health than a normal ball python? (please don't take offense; I genuinely don't know much about breeding and just want your thoughts!) thank you so much, and I hope you and all your snakes have a good day!!

It’s going to vary case by case in what people consider ethical and what they don’t. Is breeding for nothing more than color considered ethical? I’m not entirely sure myself. There are however a number of questionable things involved in ball python breeding.
Tons of people value color over health of the animal. Spider morphs and others with the same neurological disorders are still bred because “they’re pretty” as the main excuse. With other species we don’t even consider color morphs with brain issues for breeding, but it continues on with ball pythons.
Similar story with super black pastels, super cinnamons, caramel albino. People will still breed these animals despite the risk of linking and duckbilling.
The common practice of keeping ball pythons is definitely unethical. Most breeders keep them in small enclosures that dont allow them to move from their own waste or provide opportunities to express natural behaviors.

anonymous asked:

“Taylor and Joe are desperate to keep their relationship under wraps and by acting like a normal couple they’re managing to achieve it. “ So, in the last year being a normal couple has gone from traveling, visiting family and going out to dinner to hiding for months at a time and wearing disguises? I don't understand this PR angle at all. There's an undercurrent of blame on TH in these articles that I find pretty crappy and really shortsighted. Taylor can do better than this.

firstly, nothing about taylor is normal.  You know this, I know this, she knows this, the world knows this. 

Traveling the world in 3 weeks: Not normal. 

Wearing wigs? Military like efforts to hide? also not normal. 

2nd, There is no undercurrent of blame to tom presently, imo, in quoted and not obviously-trash statements (what the journalists narrate is on them, not her-something many people in tom’s fandom seemed to forget), unless that is want one wants to see (again, IMO). Taylor dated Tom on her own terms, on her own free will and is just as responsible as him in the choice to travel and do all they did. the media backlash is on them both. 

Did she realize that the media fallout (no one can deny it was pure insanity) was too much? hurtful? not something she wanted? Maybe. Did she realize she can’t “have” a normal rs like that? Maybe. 

Did she realize that it didnt work for her, one of the most famous people in the world, to have a “normal” rs? Maybe. 

Did she realize that a rs in its infancy maybe can’t handle the media scrutiny she will get? Maybe.

Did she want to try a different approach this time? Maybe.

Look, being super private isnt something new to taylor’s brain. She literally wrote a song 4 years ago about how, if she needed to protect a relationship by hiding from the paparazzi and the public, that she would do it.

“I had this idea of like, you know, when you’re in love – along the lines of ‘Out of the Woods’ – it’s very precious, it’s fragile. As soon as the world gets ahold of it, whether it’s your friends or people around town hear about it … it’s kind of like the first thing people want to do when they hear that people are in love is just kind of try to ruin it, if they’re not the greatest human beings,” she says.

“I kind of was in a place where I was like, ‘No one is gonna sign up for this. There are just too many cameras pointed at me. There are too many ridiculous elaborations on my life. It’s just not ever gonna work,’” Swift admits. “But I decided to write a love song, just kind of like, ‘What would I say if I met someone really awesome and they were like, hey, I’m worried about all this attention you get?’ So I wrote this song called ‘I Know Places’ about, like, ‘Hey, I know places we can hide. We could outrun them.’” (x)

and so she did.

Again, she was not held at gunpoint to date Tom or go on vacation with him and bears half the responsibility. Taking a new approach with Joe is not blaming tom for anything.  People are saying that is blaming Tom because they want to make it seem like that, because some people like to have someone to blame for things not going a certain way. Or, because in a break up, they want to blame one person for it not working out. Truth is, any adult should know, that a relationship failing falls on the shoulders of both people. I will say this about Tom/Taylor, and i will say this about CH/TS. It always takes two to work and two to fail, even if one person is the pure devil, there are still two people involved. Maybe sometimes one person becomes less invested, maybe one person is a bigger punk, but there are always reasons why a rs goes from good to bad that both parties bear some of the responsibility of, even if it is as simple as, they just werent right for e/o. They both still got involved in the first place. 

If the above is in any way true about taylors change in approach (which i have no idea if it is), that is not Taylor blaming Tom. 

That is something called learning from the past and using that information moving forward. 

lucifer ( season 1 ) starters
  • ( ep 7-13 )
  • You're not busy, are you?
  • Actually, shocker, I am busy.
  • Now, I'm one not to get into the feels, usually, but... you seem genuinely distressed. You okay?
  • Do you want to--I don't know--chat about it or something?
  • Sex is always on the table.
  • You sure you don't want to chase after her?
  • We brought you a birthday gift.
  • You're supposed to be on my side, you know.
  • What's bothering you right now?
  • Well... right now I'm experiencing a very odd feeling. It's--it's like a fat man sitting on my chest. But not in a fun way.
  • You're really in therapy?
  • Why is that so surprising?
  • You're the least reflective person I know.
  • I have layers. I'm like an onion. An irresistible one.
  • You don't save a marriage by sleeping with other people
  • It can't hurt to try.
  • Have you ever considered that all of this excessive partying may be your attempt to fill a void?
  • The most evil of people have the most normal names, I've experienced. Beware anyone named Keith
  • We all have demons inside.
  • It's okay. I'm not afraid of dying.
  • We might not always understand it, but God has a plan.
  • You get to eat chocolate cake in bed tonight.
  • You don't care who you piss off, do you?
  • I made a friend today.
  • I can't believe that I would let myself care for him again
  • You're a kind person who puts the needs of others before your own
  • You can't be mad at me forever.
  • Oh, God, what have I done?
  • Don't worry, my father's the forgiving sort
  • Only you could turn a tragic death into an excuse to talk about you.
  • Where have you been?
  • Deviant foreplay is so time-consuming.
  • Come on, you can't say this isn't the best sex you've ever had
  • If that's supposed to be an offering to me, I decline on grounds of salmonella.
  • Step one, travel back in time and not make such a mess of things.
  • You know, I'm suddenly reminded of why I wanted you dead in the first place.
  • Look, I know you think I'm a bad guy
  • I need a favor

imrozadoma  asked:

I seriously do not understand parents sometimes, they're all like not wanting to think about their 'babies' virtue and innocence be "taken" but then when their kid comes out as ace they're like but? why? don't? you? like? the? thing? Like what do you want me to have sex or not? Also the "but you've just not met the rig-" nO IT DoESNt woRK LIkE ThaT Anyway I hope you feel better soon and remember that you know yourself better than anyone, don't let people tell you your feelings aren't normal x

tell me about it dude

my mom was all “my job is to help you navigate through these issues!!1!” when she told me that i didn’t have enough life experience & i was like: no, your job as a parent is to love & accept your child for who they are no matter what they do or want to do. you don’t know your child as well as you do so let them do their own fuckin thing & need to help them!!!!!!!!!

-kai

serendipity--goddess  asked:

"I don't deserve to be loved" with either sprace or jackcrutchie

Whew. So I decided on Jack/Crutchie and this is a modern AU. Snyder was an abusive foster parent and Crutchie (as in that headcanon post I made.) Has a prosthetic leg which is why his crutch isn’t mentioned.

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I run out of the gym because I can’t take it. That goddamn Delancy. “You know you gotta stop fidgeting with the ball before you throw it, then again you’re just an artsy piece of shit who knows nothing about sports so what should I expect” How was he supposed to know? He couldn’t have. I reach a bathroom, the one where no one goes because everyone thinks it’s haunted. I sink to the ground and put my hands over my ears. They won’t shut up. “No, no, no.” I keep breathing but I feel like I can’t. ‘You’re awful you know, stealing from those people.’ ‘Stop fidgeting Jack you look fucking stupid’ “STOP IT STOP IT” I yell. I can’t make it stop. I start to rock back and forth to try and calm myself. But this isn’t a normal panic attack. ‘Now that I think about it you’re pretty ugly’ ‘Who would ever love you? I certainly don't’ Why-why did he have to bring back all the things Snyder said. I can’t do anything so I just continue to sit while I wait for it to be over. I listen to the voices. I start to think that he was right. “Jack? Oh Jack.” I hear his voice but iI'munable to respond. It’s Crutchie. Crutchie he’s your friend he likes you it’s alright. But what if he just feels sorry for me? What if he secretly hates me? Of course he does I’m awful. I’m pathetic. I’m ugly. “Jack, if you can hear me I need you to breath with me okay?” I try to nod but I fear it doesn’t come across. “In, 1,2,3,4, hold, 1,2,3,4, release, 1,2,3,4.” I try to comply but the voices are loud and I can’t, I can’t, I can’t.

It’s been… I don’t know how long. I’m kinda going along with Crutchie’s words. “In, hold and out” I begin to mutter. The voices are still there, spouting their truths but they keep getting more and more quiet. “Hey Jack, if you can speak right now can you tell me what’s wrong or how I can help?” I’m still swaying back and forth and an unstoppable reply comes out of my mouth.“I don’t, I don’t des,deser, deserve to be, t-to be loved.” I gasp and begin sobbing.

“Oh, Jack, oh no , that’s not true.” I keep sobbing

“I’m, I’m, I’m, I’m, I’m, I’m”

“Jack, if you can, listen to me.” He takes my hand and I squeeze it. His touch helps bring me back.

“You are beautiful and kind and amazing. You never fail to make me laugh; Which is a difficult feat, you should be proud. You give so much. You give to your art, to me to the whole gang, to those kids at the home. You have such an amazing smile.” My breathing slows. The voices are now barely a murmur. I lift my head and wrap my arms around his waist and cry quietly into his shirt. “You’re safe.” He starts to comb through my hair with his fingers. I move away and wipe my eyes.I’m fine now, the voices are gone. “Crutch i’m sorry”
“What for? Don’t be sorry there’s nothing to be sorry about.You have helped me through many panic attacks.” He frowns with concern. He cares I breath a sigh of relief. If he didn’t he would have left right?

“I know, I just, my brain and…. yeah.” He begins to shift uncomfortably and he won’t meet my eyes. What did I do?

“Jack I love you.” Oh

“What?” I say with disbelief. “Like in a friends kind of way?” He looks up and blushes. He’s real cute like that.

“Um well, um no. Inamorethatfriendskindofway. But maybe I shouldn’t have brought this up, you just had a panic attack and I was trying to let you know that you were loved and I’m sorry.” I smile. Crutchie loves me! He loves me, and I love him and–Oh. “Hey Crutch?”

“Uh yeah, Jack?” He meets me eyes.

“I love ya too.” He smiles and I think he knows where this is going.

“In a more than friends kind of way?” I nod.

“Yeah.”

“Oh.” I lean forward and put me hands on his shoulders.

“Can I kiss you now.” He blushes again. Can he try to be less adorable .

“Yes!”  Our lips meet and his mouth is warm. I move my hands to his cheeks. He has such soft skin. “Jack?” he mumbles against my lips.

“Mmm yeah” We pull apart.

“As much as I love this. We probably need to get back to gym the period is going to end.

“Oh! Sorry, how long have we been here?”

“About forty minutes.”

“Oh shit.” I stand up and grab his hand to help him up.

“You have nice hands you know that?”

“Sounds like you have a crush.” Crutchie sings and pokes my stomach.

“How could I not, you’re adorable and the literal ray of sunshine in my life.” I wrap my arm around his shoulder as we walk back to the gym.

“You’re such a sap.”

“What can I say? I write poems under only the light of the moon about how amazing you are.”

“You’re kidding.”

“Yeah.” I’m nod joking but he doesn’t need to know that. We’re suddenly faced with the gym door.
“Hey, how about we just grab our stuff from the locker room and leave?” I day with a bit of a tremble.

“Yeah okay.” Crutchie smiles but I can still see a lingering amount of concern. So I turn towards him and say; “Hey, I’ll be okay. Let’s just get through this day, alright?”

“Alright.”

imagining-hogwarts  asked:

Hey, can I get a ship from the marauders era? I'm a straight hufflepuff girl. Appearence in pic + 171cm tall and curvy. I'm pretty shy but once I'm comfortable with you I can take alot of space. My friends are super important to me. One of my fears are that all of my friends will get tired of me and leave me. I hate the fact that I'm shy and don't want people to think I'm boring. I play the bass, and love vinyls and concerts and watching movies and tv-series. Your blog is amazing btw! x

ok so you’re definitely adored by:

Sirius Black

  • he would love your collection of vinyls and movies
  • most because of the #Aesthetic
  • and we know Sirius is the most likely to do anything for the aesthetic
  • dates would normally include sprawling out in the common room or your bedroom (during the holidays) and watching an old movie
  • even if he wasn’t really into it, he’d watch it for you
  • he is pretty much in love with you, and would never ever call you boring
  • you’re the most interesting person he’s ever met
  • you’re always cheering him on at quidditch games, even though you’re technically supposed to be supporting hufflepuff
  • he’d always kiss you before a game, it was kind of a good luck type of thing
  • sirius said he was superstitious but james told you that he really just enjoyed snogging you
  • when gryffindor plays hufflepuff, you’d avoid and run away from him so he couldnt complete his ‘pre-game ritual’ (which mostly just consisted of: not showering and then making out with you) for good luck
  • but since he was faster than you, he’d always catch you
  • he’d steal your glasses in the mornings and make fun of how blind you were
  • he’d try them on and ask everyone for their opinion, saying things like “don’t I look much better in them than Y/N?”
  • and then forgetting you’re not wearing your glasses when he’d ask you “what do you think?”
  • he was totally a blusher around you
  • he’d pretend he was cool and collected but james and remus would always tease him about his flushed face

hope you enjoyed x