as long as they have a happy and equal relationship

Venus Signs

Aries

Believes love should happen at first sight; likes independent, go-getters; enjoys chasing and being chased

Arguing and friendly competition is an aphrodisiac

Attracts love by inspiring/encouraging suitors to pursue and “win” her/him

Flirts by teasing and picking fights; 

Wants to be #1 in the relationship (and in her/his partner’s life) or will lose interest quickly

Taurus

Believes love should come after a lot of long-term consideration; likes (and is impressed by) wealthy people

Rich, comfort foods, receiving massages, listening to music, and fragrances that smell like something edible (mmm vanilla!) are aphrodisiacs

Attracts love by being emotionally stable and having consistent habits

Flirts by providing physical comfort

Wants to feel secure in relationships and “know where this is going”

Gemini

Believes love should mean never having to say, “I’m bored”; likes quotable, multifaceted people who have lots of diverse interests

Verbal/written expressions of love are aphrodisiacs

Attracts love by being infinitely entertaining

Flirts by sharing thoughts & feelings and assigning pet names

Wants 24/7 communication accessibility in relationships; variety, unpredictability

Cancer

Believes love should be nurturing; likes people who need mothering (or who are mothering) and are appreciative of her efforts

Emotional bonding and cuddling are aphrodisiacs

Attracts love by making people feel cozy and sheltered; 

Flirts by feeding and/or cooking for someone, remembering preferences, giving thoughtful tokens of affection

Wants interdependence in relationships

Leo

Believes love should ALWAYS consist of romance, drama, fun, and loyalty; likes people who stand out in socially acceptable ways 

Receiving awe-inspiring gifts and positive, focused attention from an audience are aphrodisiacs

Attracts love by playing up strengths and downplaying weaknesses, and inspiring chivalry

Flirts by complimenting

Wants emotionally-moving displays of appreciation and gratitude in relationships

Virgo

Believes love should involve making a commitment to take care of someone else; likes hard-workers who pay attention to details (conversely, is also attracted to flawed, disorganized partners that need fixing)

good hygiene, a neat appearance, and an orderly environment are aphrodisiacs 

Attracts love by handling all of the “dirty work” in a partner’s life

Flirts by making analytical observations, self-deprecating humor, or offering self-improvement advice

Wants to feel needed and useful in relationships

Libra

Believes love should = 50/50 partnership + 24/7 romance; likes attractive, intelligent, and sociable people

The usual romantic clichés (such as rose petals on the bed and long, moonlit walks on the beach) are aphrodisiacs

Attracts love by being charming company, understanding and attentive

Flirts indiscriminately for attention and popularity

Wants equality, romance, and lots of attention in relationships; beauty, making plans as a couple 

Scorpio

Believes love should be passionate, intense, and life-altering; likes to associate with powerful people whose sexuality comes in contradictory layers

A strong sex drive, instant chemistry, intensity, and loyalty are aphrodisiacs

Attracts love by keeping a mate’s secrets, developing an emotional bond, and not wanting to share the partner’s affection

Flirts through seduction

Wants to have control and trust in a relationship

Sagittarius

Believes love should bring happiness, great times, and good luck; likes outgoing, intelligent, independent, adventurous people

Visiting exotic places, meeting foreign people, exploring foreign cultures, and different accents are aphrodisiacs

Attracts love by being friendly, fun-loving, generous, and free-spirited

Flirts through friendly conversation and making someone laugh

Wants freedom, honesty, few expectations, and undefined commitment in a relationship

Capricorn

Believes love should make people keep their word; likes responsible, successful people who can help with achieving aspirations

Knowing what’s coming next is an aphrodisiac

Attracts love by being dependable and loyal; shows affection by honoring commitments and not leaving the relationship; 

Flirts by getting straight to the point, assessing a potential mate’s value, and showing off their dry wit as they feel more comfortable

Wants a solid commitment from the right person in relationships

Aquarius

Believes love should be dessert with friendship as the main entrée; likes free-spirited, eccentric people who aren’t afraid to go against the status quo

Discussing new, inventive ways to have sex is an aphrodisiac

Attracts love by being friendly to everyone

Flirts by sharing unusual ideas and opinions

Wants a best friend, intellectually stimulating company and emotional detachment in relationships

Pisces

Believes love should be a perfect blend of an intuitive, spiritual bond and romance; likes nonjudgmental, creative people who think and communicate in imaginative ways

Dreamy kisses that cause tingles, foot massages, bubble baths, and mind-altering substances or practices are aphrodisiacs

Attracts love by being infinitely compassionate and seeing the best in people

Flirts by developing and acknowledging a special connection

Wants empathy, kindness, and sensitivity in relationships

  • me: [just chilling]
  • me: [starts thinking about how for over 10+ years yuri was constantly pushing himself to grow up faster and to exceed others' expectations like when he was a literal infant he just kept telling his grandpa he could do better and he was fine without his mom and as a teenager he told lilia he would give her his entire soul and body to win but even that required him doing routines that he didn't necessarily enjoy and otabek is the only person who's never made him feel like he has to prove himself or be anyone other than who he is bc from the very start he's always viewed him as an equal and fully respected him so yuri can finally act his age and do what he wants to do and canonically otabek and yuri have a loving, supportive friendship that could one day set the grounds for a healthy relationship]
  • me: [choking back tears] n-nice..........
Karamel/Supergirl Rant.

A few weeks ago I’d promised myself that I wouldn’t respond to Karamel hate on Tumblr, but I’ve had enough. I’ve seen so many posts about Mon-El being a misogynist, abusive, and toxic (like, WHAT THE HELL???), and recently I’ve seen people pop up here and there and saying that Kara being with Mon-El somehow went against the show’s “feminism”. This even goes to the point of saying that Kara shouldn’t be with Mon-El, a guy she seems to genuinely like, and instead be with Lena when she is obviously straight.

But we’ll come to that later. First, let’s look at what feminism is. Here are the couple of definitions I’ve found online:

the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes
-Merriam Webster

a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social rights for women. This includes seeking to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment.
-
Wikipedia

any ideology that seeks total equality in rights for women and people who self-identify as women, usually through improving the status of females. Feminism is rooted in ending men’s historical power over women
-Rational Wiki

As you see, feminism isn’t about demonizing men, it is about getting men and women to the same level in terms of rights. Men and women, and all other genders, should be equal in what they are and they aren’t allowed to do/feel/say etc. That in no way means women can’t be with men, that they need to be single if they want to be strong and independent (or be with other women) or being with a man undermines their strength and makes them weak. No. Just no. And that is a really, really unhealthy message to the young girls of the generation.

So, let me make a list of misconceptions about feminism, and let’s go through why it’s wrong to think that:

Women should be single in order to be strong and independent. 
Um, no. Just no. I don’t know what you think strength means, but it certainly doesn’t mean not ever loving someone and being in a relationship. You can still be with a man and be strong and independent. One doesn’t exclude the other. This is such a wrong message to give to girls, making them feel bad for loving someone, making them think that somehow that love is wrong and makes them weak. It doesn’t. Being with a man doesn’t make you dependent on them. You choose to be dependent on them or not. As long as you’re treated equally, as long as you have the say in the relationship as much as your boyfriend/husband does, as long as you want the relationship and you’re happy, it’s more than okay, it’s great

Now how does this ties to Karamel? Well, as far as I can see, Kara is more than happy with Mon-El. I haven’t watched season 1 in a very long time, but I can assure you that I haven’t seen her laugh this much around anyone. It’s seen in her face, you can see it in the way she smiles at/around him. Now how is that a bad thing? Would you really rather Kara feel sad instead of being with Mon-El? HOW IS THAT FEMINISM??? Women have the right to do the things that make them happy, be with people that make them happy, and if Mon-El is that person for her then WHY THE HELL SHOULD SHE NOT BE WITH HIM??? She chose him, right? We saw it in the last two episodes. She wanted to be with him. If she didn’t want Mon-El, the poor boy given her a lot of chances to back down, from accepting just being partners with her to stepping back when he thought she didn’t think they would be a good match. If she truly wanted that, you can bet that Kara would back down, just like she did with Winn, just like she did with James. Are you really so blind to realize that saying that Mon-El forced the relationship on Kara actually UNDERMINES HER CHARACTER? HER CHOICES? You are all obsessed on Kara being a feminism icon, how is her doing WHAT SHE WANTS is going against that? Her actions actually teach girls to be brave about their feelings, to go for what they want. 

Women shouldn’t be with men, they’re bad (but that only extends to white and straight men and not POC/LGBT+, because somehow those things exclude you from that “men” category).
Okay, why? Why shouldn’t women be with men if they want to be with men? Isn’t that, I don’t know, taking away their right? Isn’t feminism about giving women right, allowing them to do what they want? What if I’m straight? What if I want to be with men? Am I not allowed? I just don’t understand this, because as far as I can see, not all men are bad. There are some bad men that you should stay away, that’s true, but that doesn’t extend to everyone. I have many guy friends that respect me, support me, love me for who I am. I don’t have a boyfriend or a girlfriend, but that’s merely because I don’t really like someone right now (that’s a choice as well. If I liked someone, I’d definitely want to be with them). So if Kara likes Mon-El, why shouldn’t she be with her? Just because he’s white and straight? How does that equal to bad? I’m a very pragmatic person, and I can’t really see the logic there. Racism was bad because all humans should be equal, regardless of their skin color, beliefs, etc. Saying that Mon-El is abusive and toxic just because he’s white is also racism. It’s a different kind, but it’s still a prejudice against a certain race. That’s what racism is, right? Here’s the definition:

prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one’s own race is superior

Now that doesn’t mean that I think Mon-El is perfect. He’s not, not by far. But again, which one of us is perfect? Think about your best friends/boyfriends/girlfriends/family. Are all of them perfect? I’m gonna bet that they’re not. I love my best friend to the moon and back and do anything for her, yet that doesn’t mean I think her every action is right, that she can’t make a mistake. She does make mistakes. But I forgive her, because at the end of the day anyone can make mistakes. I might be angry at what she did, I might not approve it, but that doesn’t mean I’m just gonna leave her for it. I’ll point out that maybe she should’ve done it differently, and she’ll listen to me because she’ll know I want the best with her. Same happens when I make a mistake. I’m saying this because, as I’ve said, Mon-El isn’t perfect. He wasn’t a good person in the past, that is true. He even said it several times. That doesn’t mean he can’t change for good. M’gann had fought for White Martians, slaughtered Green Martians, yet I don’t see anyone accusing her for that, because she’s changed. Why can’t we extend the same courtesy to Mon-El? Why can’t we forgive him as well? It doesn’t make sense. Yes, he’s made mistakes. Yes, I don’t approve all of his actions. I was pretty mad at him when Kara found out he was beating people up for money. I was mad at him when he went after Mxy to fight and kill him. But I forgave him, because he was only human. Had feelings like a human, at least. He was jealous of Mxy. Can you blame him? If you were dating someone, and suddenly this beautiful, talented, and generally perfect person showed up and claimed they wanted to be with your lover, wouldn’t you be jealous? I would be. And it was pretty big of Mon-El to admit that he was jealous because he thought he couldn’t give Kara what Mxy could give her. 

All in all, yes, Mon-El made mistakes. But that doesn’t make him a bad person, just like the mistakes Kara made, the mistakes Barry made or Oliver made doesn’t make them bad people. Barry went back in time and really messed history up, yet I’m sure many people that hate on Mon-El forgave him. Oliver killed many people in the past, yet no one judges him for that. Why is Mon-El so different? 

And also, related to this point about not being with men, should I remind you that in the show Kara is straight? Is that too hard to understand? She never once showed interest to any women, not in a sexual way, except in some people’s dreams maybe? As a bisexual I know what it looks like to be attracted to women. I don’t see that in Kara. Is that a wrong thing? HELL NO! Why the hell being straight the wrong thing? Why the hell is that when people yell “WE SHOULD RESPECT LGBT+ PEOPLE” it’s right & honorable, but when us Karamel shippers point out that Kara is straight (so far) and we should respect her choices as well that we get roasted? Or branded homophobics? Do you people know what you’re talking about? I’m all for LGBT+ couples being represented in TV shows, but not by making an obviously straight character suddenly homosexual, or bisexual. No. Just no. That’s beyond forced. If you want to have a LGBT+ character on your show, then build up to it. Don’t force it down our throats. I don’t see writers taking that road with Kara. And frankly, that’s okay. Being straight is okay, it doesn’t make you a devil incarnate. It’s normal, just as being LGBT+ is normal. It’s not so different.

As a last point, I want to say to all of the people spreading hate and saying that Karamel is racist/homophobic, why are you doing that instead of supporting couples that are LGBT+ or POC? Spreading hate to straight white couples doesn’t earn you anything. Aren’t Iris&Barry dating in the Flash? Isn’t Sara bisexual? Isn’t Alex lesbian? And there’s also the thing between Nate and Amaya in LoT. Why don’t you go support those couples to show your love? Is it so hard to understand that hating on white&straight people actually undermine your cause? We should not promote LGBT+ and POC couples by hating straight and white couples, we should do that by supporting LGBT+ and POC couples. We shouldn’t promote feminism by hating men, we should promote it by supporting strong, independent women. Kara is a strong, independent woman, just like Alex, just like Maggie, just like Sara and Amaya and Caitlin and Iris and Felicity and Thea and more and more people in the DCTV universe. These are women that decide for themselves, that don’t take shit from anyone, that is open to love and relationships but don’t let men control them, that aren’t afraid to say no to the things they don’t want and pursue the things they want… We should support that. 

VIRGO - Dating

WOMAN:

A Virgo woman is earthly and she may seem cold and detached, but underneath the timid, reserved surface lies the real woman, a strong, passionate woman with a great capacity for strong devoted love. She will play hard to get, she is hard to get for she is worried about exposing her emotional vulnerabilities and getting hurt. She requires patience and you will have to court her and work hard to impress her. Once she is in love, it is for the long term. She will be devoted, loyal and make you very happy and even put a little order in your life. Virgo woman is conservative and old-fashioned, a typical woman who is perfect for the man who loves a challenge and likes to take a relationship slowly.


MAN:

The Virgo man has a cool exterior with a sensitive interior. He has tremendous respect for a woman and will treat her like and equal. He likes women who stir his emotions because he is reluctant to express his own emotions, which he tries and this often causes conflict not just inside himself, but it spills out into the relationship. This man takes patience and understanding. He will not get extremely close so do not try to enter his psyche and become closely entangled, this will make him feel threatened. He needs a classy woman who is not impulsive or unconventional. He leads a predictable life and a predictable woman will make him feel safe. He is perfect for the down to earth, conventional woman. He won’t be romantic and sweep you off your feet, but he will be by your side and be very loyal. This man’s sensuality comes out with time. For the woman who wants a stable, solid relationship with a visible, smooth sailing future is perfect for the Virgo man.

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“I know I say this every time I have a project due but I’m so tempted to just say fuck it and drop out.”

Across the table, Wonwoo rolls his eyes and flips a page in his textbook. “For someone who wants to drop out every other day, you care a hell of a lot about your grades,” he hums, his eyes never lifting from the page. “You know you care too much to drop out. Take a break, go get some snacks to smuggle in.”

“Or we could go make out in the stacks,” Mingyu hums as he shifts in his seat and leans a little closer to you. “But, I do agree that you should take a break. I’m cool with whatever you decide to do. If you choose the snack run, though, can you bring me back a coffee?”

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anonymous asked:

( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) could you do first kiss with chocobros and ravus headcanons?

Heck yes I can, Nonny! If you’ve had your first kiss and remember it–you know we’re in for a wild ride.

Noctis

  • He’s a late bloomer and his first kiss is somewhere between graduating high school and going off on the boyband’s world tour
  • He also probably wouldn’t make the first move
  • You’d have to be the one to break “the touch barrier” and hold his hand, also the first to flirt with him, tell him you like him, everything
  • I sound like a damn Cosmopolitan article
  • So of course you’re the one that leans in and kisses him
  • He doesn’t pull away because damn he wanted this for a while and he’s not going to do anything that might stop it now because this is awesome
  • As it turns out, Noctis really likes kissing you. Now that you’ve kissed him, he’s going to find excuses to kiss you literally all the time. You’re welcome

Ignis

  • Ignis is a very clean kisser. He likes things short and sweet and, dare I say, gentle
  • Is anyone surprised? Kissing is a very emotional thing for Ignis; he sees it as being very important in a relationship, but the transition into kissing someone is even more important
  • A kiss from Ignis means comfort and trust that he can’t put into words, thus necessitating the kiss
  • You two would just be spending time together and you’ve fallen into a comfortable silence. You’re probably sitting close together and he’s holding your hand
  • Then he’ll just lean over and kiss you. It’s slow and soft and doesn’t last long, but he’s certain that he means it when he does it

Gladiolus

  • Is a kissing expert, don’t even try to argue with me on this one
  • He knows how to use his lips and tongue and even teeth to get the reaction he wants out of a person, to make a person feel something
  • That said, the first time he kisses you isn’t going to be as intense as he knows how to kiss. It’s better to work up to that, right?
  • So the first time he kisses you is probably ridiculously casual. You’re both probably in your pajamas and the two of you are just talking at the end of the day
  • You notice his eyes kind of glaze over while you’re in the middle of a sentence and you think he isn’t listening–which he’s not
  • When you accuse him of that? He’s going to lean over and give you the slowest, sweetest kiss ever

Prompto

  • Kissing is awesome and fun and he loves to do it! 
  • That said, he hasn’t kissed much. But he likes to experiment and see what he likes and what you like
  • Kissing isn’t just a mouth-to-mouth activity for Prompto, either
  • Before he kisses you “on the lips” as those teen magazines, he’s already kissed your hands and cheeks and forehead
  • Most of these kisses are playful in nature, so the first time he kisses your lips will be equally as such
  • Like, I can see him playfully kissing all over your face before slowing down and pressing this long, completely adoring kiss on your lips
  • And he’d pull away with this smile like he’s so proud and so happy with himself–before he laughs and does it again

Ravus

  • Think Ignis but more reserved. Ravus honestly enjoys kissing, enjoys having feelings and relationships, but he shuts a lot of his emotions off because he thinks he has to
  • So when you get far enough under his skin that he’s comfortable enough to touch you–that’s your moment to strike, so to speak, and kiss him
  • Because, like Noctis, you’ll have to initiate almost everything with him in order to help him bring down the walls he built up
  • He’ll be talking about something, maybe even his feelings for you, in these hushed and frightened whispers because that’s how he feels about his own emotions
  • And you’ll just feel so much warmth in your chest–from love and sympathy and so many other things–that you’re the one who ends up leaning over to kiss him
  • He stares at you, kind of freaked out, but ultimately decides to kiss you again
ARIES - Dating

WOMAN

Dating an Aries never lacks excitement. She is hot-blooded and forceful, so you had better be able to handle the heat! The Aries woman is for the person who likes an independent self-driven woman who can fend for herself and is not clingy and needy. An Aries woman requires freedom. For the Aries woman, the best part of the relationship is the beginning, then the spark is there and she is trying to catch you to be hers.

She will find happiness in a long-term relationship because she enjoys sharing everything with her partner. She will not only have a romantic partner but a best friend too. She has a great need for love and passion but she will never let a man become the master, she considers her partner to be equal. Aries women are not for domineering men. She will be faithful but she expects the same in return.

She can be jealous because she wants a man to give her all of his attention, “all or nothing”, so her jealousy is rooted in her possessiveness, she has to be number one in his eyes. She will always encourage and give strength to her partner so an Aries woman is great to have in times of despair or need, she will always be there for you. In order to have this happy ending, she needs to feel appreciated and loved.


MAN

An Aries man has a lust for adventure so if you are thinking about having a relationship with an Aries man, be prepared for fast-paced adventure, novelty and excitement. He is always eager to try new things - including relationships. That is not to say that every Aries man will only provide an exciting and short-lived relationship, but this is usually the case. He might stick around if you are the type of woman that enjoys having the man take the lead and basking in his glory.

He enjoys challenge so if you are the woman to offer challenges to him - like playing hard to get - he might stick around longer. Remember, this man is all about the thrill of the chase. Do not however, act as if you don’t care about him. He needs you to be “swept off your feet” by him. Appear innocent- hard-to-get and he will be wrapped around your little finger. Never take advantage of the Aries man because his short temper will turn into a fury of anger and he will leave and never look back.

rose-of-yonezawa  asked:

Scenario. Modern AU. MC is a National Security and Intelligence adviser. SLBP lords; retainers; side fellas and ninjas reactions and how they would work with her on a high profile risky case, taking into consideration she loves risks.

THIS IS SO COOL. Main lords + 5 ninjas (sorry, Kyoichiro).

Also, disclaimer: I’m not 100% clear on what national security/intelligence advisors actually do, but I’m under the impression that it’s a supervisory position that doesn’t involve much (if any?) legwork.

Nobunaga

  • Nobunaga is an up-and-coming political party leader who may or may not be trying to set a record for the highest number of death threats received per individual
  • MC advises him about security issues and safety measures, supervises his security detail
  • Nobu is confused and a little annoyed that some petite woman is trying to tell him what to do, eventually realises that she does know what she’s talking about, is a lot more interested after that
  • Tries to ask her out, gets rejected flatly, tries to cop a feel, gets decked
  • Plays fast and loose with his bodyguards and occasionally does reckless stuff if he feels that the situation calls for it (e.g. stopping to talk to constituents in an unsafe environment while his guards scream internally)
  • Partially does it so that MC will come and yell at him because she’s cute when she’s angry but he genuinely tries to take (most of) her recommendations seriously

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purequeenoftheimpure  asked:

Hello! I love your blog. I was creeping around your blog and I saw that Ieyasu character analysis. It was perfect. I was wondering if you could do something similar for Saizo? I feel that his attitude towards his MC would drive her away in the long run. Like sure, she loves him and wants to be there for him, but he leaves her alone for considerable amounts of time, and idk he just feels so closed off. Their relationship has a lack of communication that could cause them to drift apart. Thoughts?

Hello, there! Thank you so much! I’m so glad that you enjoyed it! 

These are really fun to do! Ieyasu’s can be found here

Saizō is the king of lies, and tells them as easily as the wind blows. As much as he tries to outsmart everyone else, even he becomes ensnared by his failure to tell the truth.

He’ll say that he won’t lift a finger to help, and the next thing you know, he’s been skulking in the shadows, making sure that everything is all right, ready to swoop in and assist at the drop of a hat.

Even other people notice it:

He gets annoyed when you or Yukimura don’t do things right, saying that it’s not his problem and that he doesn’t care, only to turn around and help you through until the end, despite what he said.

For as much as he declares that he does not care about love or family, and shows his annoyance outwardly, Saizō will do anything and everything that he can to protect the ones that he cares about, no matter the cost.

Hotaru even outs him:

MC: “What do you do when you get lost?”

Hotaru: “My older brother will come and pick me up.”

So in other words, he’ll stop everything to rescue his little bro from the elements.

Keep pretending to be annoyed, Saizō. It’s totally working! You’ve fooled us all!

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WINNER’s Seunghoon as your Boyfriend
  • Having a relationship with Hoon would be the greatest thing ever~
  • Because Hoon is a mature kind of guy but also he’s very silly
  • Seunghoon is a gentleman and he wouldn’t do anything that you didn’t like~
  • He would put your hands around his torso because he likes your hugs very much!
  • Has legs for days, so expect him to pull you in and letting you sit on his lap 
  • Will most likely sit on your lap as well~
  • When you’re cuddling he’ll intertwine his legs with yours or wrap you around it.
  • Loves to tickle the heck out of you, even when he gets a punch or two from you, he loves it when he sees you laughing!
  • Discretely throws in a pun every now and then and you don’t know if you should laugh because it’s funny or laugh because it’s ridiculous and he needs to catch your fists.
  • The type of guy to peel fruits for you to eat. Like you wouldn’t even ask him to peel an orange, but he’s already peeling one for you and he would even feed you some! (TvT)
  • Loves physical activities, so yes, going on hikes or going to the gym and even biking, he’ll make you do all of that.
  • But walking around the city is alright as well, especially when you guys stop by the park to play in the playground.
  • Couple Sweats <– he’ll make it into a thing
  • Seunghoon would help you out with your wardrobe and would even let you borrow his clothes because fashion 
  • He loves it whenever you’re around to see him practice and make up choreography because he gets to show off his cool side to you
  • He would even ask you for your opinion and comment if there was anything lacking or if he should improve something.
  • Is a very caring person!
  • He’d check up on you 3 times a day whenever he’s busy with work. He would call you in the morning, in the afternoon and lastly at night.
  • If he couldn’t reach you or if his schedule was hectic, he would write a long ass message about his day and he hopes that you are fine and well.
  • In some point, he’ll guide your hand just to feel his abs~ bless you 
  • Not the jealous type, instead, he would even joke about it
  • But if he was really jealous he would be passive-aggressive and would just pass it off as a “comment”
  • When he’s excited or really happy, he kisses you alot on your lips and forehead out of habit.
  • Is lowkey checking you out whenever you guys go to the gym 
  • Is highkey checking you out when you’re at home, wearing his shirt
  • Which leads to a lot of passionate kissing and lifting you up~
  • Which leads to sexy time everywhere in the house
  • He loves to put an arm around you whenever the two of you go out
  • His singing voice is so nice, so sometimes you get to hear it in the morning whenever he sings in the shower!
  • Is an early riser, you’d wake up with breakfast on the table~
  • Since he’s more mature, he’d be a bit timid about his woes, but he’ll try to voice out his problems to be open to you.
  • Gets really snuggly and sometimes quiet when he’s sad, so you have to give him cuddles and long warm hugs
  • The type to talk about your future together~
  • The type to randomly surprise you with presents like
  • “I think you should look for another top on your closet, it goes well with your jeans..”
  • And then you see a shopping bag in there.
  • Also the type to take you to new and interesting places to eat
  • Loves to carry you on his back or shoulders~
  • Seunghoon would be very happy with you, you’ll be the source of comfort and happiness for him, especially when he’s tired. He would make your relationship as fair and equal as possible.

anonymous asked:

You're going to have to explain this to me please. How does favoring toplock mean that someone supports rape and pedophilia? Who cares what positions/preferences two equal consenting adults have in a relationship? One has to be top, one has to be bottom. What's the damn difference?

I don’t know, I didn’t make that rule, I personally see Sherlock as bottom but that’s just my personal preference, i don’t care what others like as long as they’re happy then that’s good y'know. I have friends who likes toplock and just because of that those people label me as being a “rape apologist” and “supporting abusive relationship” so idk, I’m just as confused as you nonny 😅 I mean, these are the same people who ordered doujins from sh2jw, paid for it, then burnt the books, took a photo of themselves burning the books, and then posting it very proudly on tumblr. So like….idk what else to say aside from: you can make your own conclusions from it I suppose

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I like Jaal’s mom. She seems to know that her son cares about Sara very much, and she is not against their relationship as long as Jaal is happy. I think he spoke about Sara a lot with his mom. And he looked so embarrassed when she praised him before Sara! It was just magical and awesome and cute.
In general, I like the attitude towards women in Jaal’s race. No all human stereotypes, women have equal rights with men there, judging by the fact that they occupy the same high positions and no one is oppressed.
And yet, I wonder how humen can be attractive for his race. Anyway, this scene with his mother was just divine) I understand why women like him so much, he is almost perfect, but so alive!

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Leo + Capricorn

A partnership that has big chances in the long run, Leo and Capricorn are incredible lovers, both sweet and caring for their partner. Leo is sponateous and may sometimes act based on their feelings, while Capricorn is more balanced and prefers having a routine, which will make this relationship equally fun and grounded. A very important aspect for Leo is having their ego fed and Capricorn can and will compliment them for mostly everything as they’ll be utterly fascinated by the way this person moves in their life. All in all, they make a mature, happy relationship!

anonymous asked:

That last chapter was just gorgeous!!! I wasn't sure if I wanted to read it or just wait til the piece was finished but I'm so glad I did! Broken Victor tore my heart out but I am surprisingly content.. I like that Yuuri will get the time to think & a chance to see his role in the miscommunication & hurt so that they can build their real relationship on totally equal and honest ground. Otherwise I feel like if he hadn't walked away Victor might be apologizing forever..

Yes, they both definitely needed time. There were a lot of things for them both to figure out which is one of the reasons Yuuri spent so long in Hasetsu in umfb&mha healing and having some serious conversations to come to some important realisations and decide what to do next. While Viktor was pretty close to getting his happy ending he was still in a very unhealthy mindset in obs&bh chapter 7 and he needs the time same as Yuuri to do some soul searching and come to some very important decisions before they can come back together and work out how to go from there and not make the same mistakes again

If You Could See Me

After 1.06 what if Betty and Jughead decided to keep their relationship a secret, or rather attempted to.

A fic about Betty and Jughead working out the facts of their new relationship and cute, fluffy moments… also how the group finds out about bughead.

Slight AU does not follow the events of 1.07 onward

————————————- Chapter 3 ——————————————

As the three sat in Pop’s, Veronica starred the young couple down for a good five minutes as the awkwardly ate their food across from her, almost as if she was waiting for them to talk first. Betty and Jughead just kept shooting each other disgruntled looks, trying to communicate with their eyes alone. Betty was the one who broke first. “Veronica, I’m sorry for not telling you. I wanted to, I swear, but—”

“But you just wanted to live your relationship without any outside opinions,” Veronica finished Betty’s statement. “I get it; am I hurt that you didn’t tell me, sure, but I get it. That’s not why you’re both here,” she stated taking a quick drink from her chocolate milkshake.

“If you’re not here to scold us, why are we here?” Jughead asked perplexed. He was used to being one step ahead, knowing what was going to happen before it did.

“Well, since you too so kindly kept me in the dark, I need intel,” Veronica smiles leaning back against the hard backing of the booth.

“On one condition,” Betty started, “you tell no one. Not even Kev,” Betty states, sticking her hand out to seal the deal. Jughead, on the other hand, looked stunned. He had been half expecting her to tell Veronica that she would find out when they told the others. He believed she would want others to know now that Veronica opened the gates. As Veronica shook Betty’s outstretched hand he was brought back to reality.

“So, what did you want to know?” Jughead asked, preparing himself for the downpour that awaits.

“How long?” Veronica asks.

“Just over two weeks,” Jughead replied.

“Who initiated?” She followed.

“Jughead,” Betty told her, smiling at the boy next to her.

“Really?” Veronica asked stunned.

“Don’t look so surprised Ronnie,” Jughead replied taking a large bite out of his burger.

“Just didn’t think you had that in you,” Veronica replies. Betty urged them to move on, she wanted to get this over with so she could just enjoy the evening.

Veronica’s list of questions took at least half an hour to work through, but finally, the three friends could just enjoy their night. Neither Jughead nor Betty wanted to admit that it was nice not having to hide around one of their friends. It didn’t change the fact that every moment together alone was that much sweeter after having to hide in plain sight all day.

Unfortunately, their fun came to a halt after a rushing text came through Betty’s phone from her mother. “Well I guess that’s my cue,” Betty sulked, there was no arguing with her mother over curfew.

“You guys go, I’ll pick up the check,” Veronica states before Betty can argue she started again. “Call it a gift, a celebratory dinner courtesy of Veronica Lodge to celebrate her bestie’s first official boyfriend.

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anonymous asked:

I really enjoyed yoir in depth answers to the asks about Presbyterians and Baptists, and was wondering if you could do something similar about Quakers?

Hi! Happy to help, and sorry it took me so long to answer! Outside of dating a lapsed Quaker once, I don’t have a lot of personal experience with the tradition, but I’d be happy to give you a brief overview of what I know and pull together some resources for you!

Quakers, or members of the Religious Society of friends, began as a reform movement within the Church of England in the 17th century stressing the “priesthood of all believers” (a concept that all Christians have equal access to God and equal authority to minister), self-led of scripture, and a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. They tended to reject sacraments (communion, baptism) and stress that holiness was found in every aspect of life instead of in days, times, or places set apart. Initially they were very evangelical and prophetic, and even had a reputation for being boisterous, counter-cultural, and zealous. Women preached and prophesied and we viewed by many as spiritual equals to men, although as time progressed and the Quakers split into orthodox, evangelical, liberal, and conservative branches, women’s roles shifted, but female Quakers tended to retain a large amount of community sway and spiritual authority. Over the years Quakers have been heavily involved in various social reform movements such as the abolition of slavery, teetotaler movements, prison reform, and anti-war campaigns. 

As mentioned above, there’s a breadth of different viewpoints in the Quaker tradition; evangelical Quakers might stress world missions and a personal relationship with Jesus more than liberal Quakers, who focus on by following the example of the Inner Light of Christ through social justice ministries. There are universalist Quakers, who affirm that one can reach towards God through a variety of religious traditions, and even non-theistic Quakers, association of agnostic or atheistic humanists who may admire the life of Christ but do not worship any God. Here’s a cool video that touches on some of the main points of Quaker theology and Quaker experience.

As far as what to expect in a service, Quaker friends meetings tend to be quiet, casual, and reflective. The church house (meetings are very often held in community spaces or people’s homes instead of in traditional sanctuary) will be plain and simple, encouraging you to look inward to perceive how God is moving in your heart. They will be a lot of silent time for prayer and reflection, and maybe some scripture reading or hymn singing. Maybe people will share insights they’ve received from the Holy Spirit, or revelations they’ve come to during their quiet time, and sometimes they will just enjoy being in the presence of God. Quaker meeting may be the most unstructured Christian service you will take part in; it’s entirely community led and will never be the same from week to week. There’s virtually no hierarchy, and it may very well feel more like an AA meeting or a meditation session than a church service to you. 

Essentially, Quakers promote unmitigated access to God, empowerment of every member of the community regardless of age or gender to minister, simplicity of worship and simplicity of life, finding God within and holiness around you, and engaging with the world in a meaningful way in order to make one’s community more loving, kind, and just. Here’s the FAQ page from the Quaker website if you’re interested in learning more!

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B.A.P What Would Attract Them

anon asked: potential reaction request: BAP and a quality of yours that initially attracts them to you? ♡

A/N: Attraction is a mysterious thing. We all may have our types but sometimes we meet an individual outside those parameters whose existence strikes us like lightening. So who really knows, right? ^_~

Yongguk – Principled/Independent/Kind - He’s said he wants a person with morals and I don’t think that has changed. One of his biggest turn offs would be a partner he couldn’t trust. Someone who played games and lied to him. Also an independent individual who doesn’t need his attention all the time and would understand his workaholic schedule. And while he wouldn’t want this person to be abrasive he’d LOVE it if they had some backbone to face challenges. They would also need to have an open, giving heart as he would love to do volunteer work with them. And of course they’d need to be ok with having a gaggle of children.  

Himchan – Classy/Intelligent/Accepting - Someone elegant and witty would really grab his attention. A person he could have long conversations with but also appreciate the lighter side of life. I could see him being happy just the two of them, no kids, but maybe a dog or two. A person who makes him strive to be the best he could be but also not feel like he had to impress. An accepting individual who loves him for who he is in the moment, every moment. Channie’d want the relationship to be about equality. He’d be their shelter from the storm but also need the same thing in return.

Daehyun – Affectionate/Grounded/Funny - First thing he’d be drawn to would be someone incredibly affectionate, both physically and emotionally. Dae needs to feel needed. A person generous with their touch and loving words just for him. Someone with an independent streak who needed space on occasion would make him feel insecure in the relationship. While he thinks he’d want someone spontaneous he’d be drawn to a person that could balance him out. Rein him in when he gets carried away and be his voice of reason. Having said that, they’d have to have a sense of humor to amuse him as well as avoid the urge to kill him.

Youngjae – Demure/Intelligent/Sentimental - Would be attracted to someone a little on the delicate side. He’d want very much to feel like he was looking after them. Not that he’d be controlling or domineering at all, it’s just how he shows his love. He’d want to be the rock in the relationship. Also an intelligent person who could match wits with him in playful debates would really get him going too. As with most people, looks might get his attention initially but the mind would be what makes him stay. He’d love to do a lot of the couple’s things and have little romantic events so if his partner got embarrassed by those kind of things it’d spoil a lot of his fun.

Jongup – Independent/Accepting/Open Minded - Someone independent and secure enough to not be clingy would catch his eye right away. Throw in laid back enough to accept him for who he is and there’d be some chemistry going on. The quickest way to get Uppie to disengage from the relationship would be to nitpick over insignificant details or try and mold him into something he’s not. Not that he’d be lazy in a relationship. He’d give you the best Jongup he could, but you’d have to be ok with the Jongup he is, not who you want him to be. And he’d love someone who could geek out with him over fandom stuff, not just someone who tolerated it.  

Zelo – Artistic/Nonconformist/Silly - He’d gravitate toward someone who had their own artistic flare and unconventional thinking. Someone who worked their way around society’s norms to forge their own path would practically have him in thrall. Also a person who supported his own various endeavors and passions would be very appealing to him.​ When not caught up in their mutual desire to make their mark on the world they’d have fun being goofy from time to time. Junhong’s on his way to being an adult but still has a lot of kid left in him so he’d need a person who could be serious at times yet let everything go and play around when the mood strikes.

Cherik VS Xavierine

Hi Gerec ! I was talking about the movie Cherik relationship to a friend who has basically no knowledge of X-men, and he was adamant it sounded abusive to him - I never really saw it as abusive, despite Charles'trust being time and time again betrayed, cause I also know Erik’s deep love and devotion to Charles…but he did raise interesting points. Do you see Logan’s relationship with Charles as inherently more healthy for him? Also, how interesting that Logan fell for Jean, who is basically a female version of Charles, especially in X-men Apocalypse…


Boy oh boy this is one issue that’s sure to get the Cherik fans in an uproar LOL. Since your friend doesn’t have any knowledge of X-Men then I would say he is likely making a judgement call based on pretty broad strokes, without really knowing any of the intricacies/complications inherent in that particular relationship. :D

As with you, I personally don’t see their relationship as being abusive (no opinion on their comic counterparts - I don’t know enough about them) because to me, a large part of abuse comes from an imbalance of power, and often with one partner enforcing some form of control over the other. So while I do think they can/have been bad TO each other…no, I don’t think I quite agree with your friend about their relationship being abusive. That isn’t to say that I haven’t seen it portrayed that way in fic because there’s been a LOT of that (and I’m not a fan, at ALL).

Second question - Do I think a relationship between Charles and Logan would be a healthier one (than Charles and Erik) for Charles? Short answer - 100%. 

Long answer - The fan and the fic writer in me love both relationships as being equally beautiful but completely different things. Charles and Erik have combustible chemistry, tragic history, compelling personalities and a connection with each other that’s incredibly attractive as a pairing (to ship and to explore in fic!) But sometimes that kind of thing isn’t sustainable in the long term, for exactly those same reasons. Charles and Logan have a relationship built on mutual trust and affection, a deep abiding friendship and common goals/outlook; nothing to sneeze at if you want a solid foundation for something strong and long lasting. Relationships are hard, and love should make you HAPPY, at least more often than leaving you with a broken heart…

So I guess both is good in fic! Though something closer to Charles/Logan’s would be more ideal for real life in my humble opinion lol.

I don’t think I’ve ever been a fan of the Logan/Jean pairing (I’m a Scott/Jean fan myself) so I can’t really comment on it lol. And I think we can love the same qualities in different people so it wouldn’t be too much of a leap to say Logan admires similar qualities in both Jean and Charles, though I don’t find them to be necessarily carbon copies of each other :D :D :D

anonymous asked:

I remember there was a old pre 52 interview that said Bruce was jealous of how close Dick and Damian are. It hit me that it could be in two ways. Damian is of course his son, one he didn't know how to bond with or help until after Dick raised Dami in his absence. Now he's back and trying better Damian but that doesn't erase that patental/child dynamic between Dick and Damian nor that Dick will always have a special relationship w/Damian he won't. Flipside Dick is now (easily) arguably shares a-

2 closer bond to Damian then to Bruce. Bruce used to be Dick’s partner/greatest partner. THE DYNAMIC DUO. But now Dick is the greatest with Damian. Obviously its not like Bruce is left out in the cold. Both boys still love/cherish him a lot. But I imagine it must have been a really big adjustment for Bruce to experience such change in Both his boys.

I think for sure it was hella awkward for him, and probably for like 50 different emotional reasons. Did he force this on Dick? Do they like each other better? Did he fail Damian compeltely? Will he ever have that same relationship with Damian or Dick again? 

I think overall he’s happy for the bond they have, for an equal amount of reasons, but yeah. There was definitely some awkward adjustment that he went through, that I’m guessing took a long ass while to get over, if he even is at all.

Jon/Dany AU’s - Family [6/20]

Daenerys had never known what it meant to have a family, to belong somewhere. She grew up an orphan with only her brother to give her company and to say that their relationship hadn’t been a good one would be the understatement of the year. Jon had grown up a bastard, never known the name of his birthmother while his stepmom resented him. He had longed for recognition and appreciation all his life. His siblings have had an equally rough path for different reasons and moved away soon after college to forget about it all while Jon stayed in touch with his fraternity brothers (a mistake he grew to regret big time).

When you have given up on happiness for yourself you’re all the more surprised once you wake up and realize that you have everything you ever wanted. Falling in love with Daenerys had happened so fast - Jon had been head over heels for her from the moment she accused him of disregarding women’s rights when he stumbled into her and instead of apologizing stared like an idiot. Falling in love with their daughter was instant. It was the moment he swore to himself, that he would never risk this, never let anyone or anything take this away from him. Those two are the most important people in his life, they are his family, his everything.