as complete as its gonna get

anonymous asked:

Is it Common for people with ADHD to have trouble keeping their room/flat/whatever Clean?

I know I sure as heck do, lol 

I think in general actually, in this regard (and many others) ppl with ADHD are known to inhabit either one end of the clean/messy (or organized/chaotic) spectrum rather than anywhere in between, so like. someone with ADHD is gonna either have their room constantly perfectly spotless and tidy, or a complete disaster zone, with no in between; same with say notes for class its either 100% organized or 100% anarchy 

I suspect it boils down to the fact that ADHD tends to make creatures of habit, so you either get into the habit of keeping everything perfectly tidy, or things just end up being a mess! 

and anyway who has time for cleaning when im busy focusing on one spot on the wall for two hours right 

Mod HappiKatt

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she’s a handsome woman // panic! at the disco

You might think that you’ll never gonna fall in love again, and you keep on wondering when is it gonna stop hurting. Or perhaps it’ll never gonna stop. You never thought that it would be this damaging, that its going to affect you so badly; mentally and physically. You probably feel sick and tired. Tired of love, tired of having feelings. You’ll think that being alone is probably better than having to feel like this. And for a moment, you lost hope. As well as your faith in love. But my dear, let me tell you one thing; it is completely normal to feel like this few weeks after you got your heart broken. The thing is, you will get through this. Without realizing it, It’ll pass. Life goes on. Someday it’ll all make sense. You’ll know why it had to happen, you’ll know why you need to go through all of this. To all the broken-hearted people out there, here’s my message to you; whether it has been a month, a year, two years, or even ten years, believe me, one day it’s not going to hurt anymore. That day will come, the day where you finally moved on. Where you can finally leave the past and ready to start again. So don’t lose hope, you are stronger than this.
—  Excerpt from a book I will never write #1211 // @bynoire on instagram
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Vax'ildan is Vax'il-DONE (ha)
Honestly I’m super excited to have him completed and totally pumped to wear him to Youmacon this weekend! Watching Critical Role makes me want to get back into a dungeons and dragons campaign (which is in the works!).
Special shoutout to @qunaributts for introducing me to the series as well as watching me put the whole thing together!!
See you Critters this weekend! ♡

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Well, it would make your husband very happy. Like a kid on Christmas morning.

Good luck trying to get that in without making noise. There has to be one adult in the family at least. Ain’t gonna be me. Not on Christmas morning.

Tom Holland Imagine: City of Stars

Summary: You complain to Tom about how people don’t really go dancing anymore and how planetariums are your favorite place in the world. Tom decides to plan a perfect date for your anniversary.

A/N: I saw La La Land last night and it was incredible and while I was watching it I got really angry about how people don’t go like dancing anymore the way the used to its always grinding and twerking now and I hate it and it also reminded me about how much I love planetariums and that’s how this was born okay bye

Warnings: Cussing

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“No, you don’t get it, Tom! I know people go dancing still but it’s like ‘oh you’re hot so I’m gonna rub my ass on your crotch and then we’ll go and fuck.’ And its stupid. Completely stupid and I hate it! Why can’t people still go dancing like the did in the '40s or something.”

“Because it’s 2017, that’s why.”

“Fine. Then we’ll build a space ship and fly far away.”

“And how do you plan on doing that?”

“I don’t know. Maybe I’ll just go to the planetarium and pretend that one of those tiny stars is a planet where there’s a girl just like me going dancing with her famous boyfriend who plays Bee-Man and is having the time of her life!”

“Bee-Man? Really?”

“Well I was gonna say Ant-Man but he actually exists so I had to think fast!”

Tom chuckled and pulled me into his chest. One of his hands ran through my hair while the other was being held by my two smaller ones.

“Can you believe it’s almost Valentine’s Day?”

“Yeah… that’d make it, what? 3 years? Cause you’re a cheeseball and made me wait 3 months before you made it official on Valentine’s Day?”

“Hey! I was trying to be romantic!”

“If we had started seeing each other in late January, then yes, it would have been reasonable to wait till Valentine’s Day but we started dating in November, honey. You were lucky you’re cute or else I would’ve been long gone.”

Tom laughed and kissed the top of my head.

“At one point I thought about asking you at 11:59 on February 13th as a joke but then Harrison informed that that would result in me with an ice cream in my face.”

“Yeah, you got that right.”

Tom and I turned our attention back to the TV that was playing Endless Love. We both disliked this movie but it was the one he had taken me to see when he asked me to be his girlfriend so we made an exception to watch it only when it was on TV… until Harrison thought that we actually liked it and bought it for us. Now we watch it on February 4th. Exactly 10 days before our anniversary because 10 is Tom’s lucky number.

I snuggled into his chest and closed me eyes, drifting off into a peaceful sleep.

—Tom’s POV—

“So do you know what you’re gonna do for her on Valentine’s Day?” Zendaya asked over brunch with her, Jacob, Harrison and Laura.

“Yeah, I think I do…”

“Well, spill!”

“Okay, she kinda spilled a lot to me while we were cuddling the other night and I kinda wanna do it all for her but I don’t exactly know how…”

“Well, what did she say?”

“That she misses dancing… like, not clubbing, but actual dancing the way the did in the '40s and '50s. And she also said that she loves planetariums because she likes to look at the stars and imagine what’s going on over there.”

“So, take her to the planetarium and then take her dancing!” Harrison suggested.

“No, this needs to be more magical. I mean it is their 3 year anniversary.” Laura said.

“Yeah… OH! I’ve got it! So, I’m really good friends with the owner of the planetarium in LA! He’s an old family friend! I’ll call him up! He’s usually closed on Valentine’s Day to spend time with his wife and so maybe I can get him to let you and Y/N use it for the night! You can take her dancing IN the stars!” Zendaya yelled.

“Oh my god, that’s perfect! Please call him!”

“Doing it right now!”

—Your POV—

I was humming while dancing around in the kitchen of Tom and I’s apartment. I jumped when I felt a pair of arms slide around my waist and lift me up.

“Good morning, beautiful.” Tom whispered in my ear.

“Good morning to you, too, sleepy head.”

Tom smiled before he leaned down and kissed me.

“Go pack a bag for 1 day and 2 nights. We leave in a few hours.”

“What? What do you mean? Our anniversary is tomorrow we can’t be leaving town! What about our reservations!?”

“Yes we can. I already cancelled them. This is your present. Now run along and get packed.”

“Where are we going?”

“It’s a surprise. Pack stuff to sleep in, clothes for warm weather and a nice dress.”

“Okay…”

—Time Skip—

“LA, Tom?! You’ve taken me to LA!?”

“Yes… is that okay?”

“More than okay! The cold weather was driving me insane! Now come on, we have to get to our hotel!”

Tom had called an Uber to pick us up from the airport and it drove us to a beautiful hotel.

“Oh, Tom! This is amazing!”

“Thank you, beautiful. Now let’s go inside, order room service and then cuddle for the rest of the night. Tomorrow is a big day!”

Tom and I spent the night shoving our faces with pizza and watching Friends on TV. I eventually fell sleep while laying in his lap. I was briefly brought back into consciousness when I felt arms pick me up and place me onto our bed. I felt Tom slide in next to me and press a kiss to my temple.

“I do hope tomorrow goes as planned.” I hear him whisper before he snuggles his face in the crook of my neck and falls asleep.

—Time Skip—

“Tom, this food is delicious! How did you even get reservations to this place on Valentine’s Day!? And so quickly!?”

“Uh, hello? I’m Spider-Man. Far better and superior to Bee-Man.”

I laughed and felt Tom grab my hand across the table.

“We better hurry up and finish. I still have one surprise left for you.”

I smiled over at Tom as he pointed to his watch that I had given him this morning. He had been wanting it for a while. His parents told me they were getting it for him for Christmas so I didn’t buy it for him but then they accidentally ordered the wrong one. So, I bought him the right one for our anniversary.

Tom paid the bill and grabbed my hand. He drug me out the door and down the street.

“Where are we going!?”

“You’ll see!”

After about 20 minutes of walking, we were met with a cab at the bottom of a giant hill. Tom opened the door for me and I got inside. Tom came in next to me and the cab began to drive. The drive up the hill was beautiful.

When we reached the top, I was met with a beautiful white building.

“Tom, what is this place?”

“You ask too many questions. Just follow me.”

Tom held my hand as he walked up to the door.

“And this is where I blindfold you.”

“Wha-”

I was cut off by Tom shushing me and placing a piece of cloth over my eyes and tying it. Tom grabbed my hand and led me inside. He guided me through the building very well but still managed to bump into a few things causing both of us to laugh. Finally, I heard a door open and close.

“You can take it off, now.”

I slid the blindfold off my eyes and gasped at what I saw.

Tom and I were standing in a giant black room, surrounded by stars and tiny planets.

“Welcome to the City of Stars.” Tom whispered in my ear before a soft piano sound started playing. Tom circled around me and held his hand out.

As soon as I took it, he pulled me into his chest and placed my hand on his shoulder before he placed his on my lower back.

Tom began to lead me around the the floor, spinning me, dipping me, and lifting me to the sound of the music.

As we danced, I looked around at all the stars and planets that seemed to be dancing with us. I was so caught up in my thoughts that I hadn’t even noticed that Tom had stopped dancing.

“Which one do you think Bee-Man and his slightly less beautiful version of you live on?”

I smiled at Tom and left his side to walk around the planetarium. I scanned over every star before one in particular stood out.

“That one.” I said, as I pointed to it.

I felt Tom slide his arms around my waist from behind as we looked at the star.

“Well, then that one’s yours.” Tom said as he held a certificate out to me.

“What?”

“Yup. All we have to do is right down its location, give it a name and sign this document and then it’s yours. So, what do you want to name this shinning star in the Pegasus constellation?”

“The City of Stars.”

Tom smiled and pulled me into a passionate kiss as the piano music came to and end around us.

“I think I want it to stay…”

Kelley was never combative, but he seemed drawn to passionate souls…. Something in him liked a fighter, and he enjoyed the role of counselor that gave these heroes strength and rest.
—  1/∞ reasons why DeForest Kelley is actually Leonard McCoy (From Sawdust to Stardust)
Done Chapter 2: Chin up

Alright its time for chapter two! Thank you to everyone who has liked, reblogged, commented and given kudos to this fic. I read all of your tags and comments and it gave me so much joy and inspiration to get this chapter completed. Anyways I know the last chapter was really short even for a sort of prologue, but this chapter is much longer which hopefully you’ll enjoy.

Also a quick shout out to c00kieneko who is the whole reason I started writing in the first place, mostly because we started throwing head canons at each other. Go look at her art! she’d so good! 

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Chapter 1/Prologue


Lance woke up clutching his pillow in a tight grip hours earlier than he intended to. Closing his eyes again tightly he attempted to force himself back into unconsciousness, but he knew it wasn’t going to happen. Giving up the losing battle for sleep he rolled onto has back and tried his best not to think.

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hoseok when you’re sick

- spending a whole week with you just to make sure you are completely better “hoseok its just a cold” “oR IS IT???”

- harassing you when you’re walking around the house by wrapping you in three blankets and hugging you from behind “you must keep warm” “i’m sweating” “because you’re so hot i know”

- calling jin over to make you soup and huddling like penguins whenever you walk around the house

- hugging and kissing you all over to the point where you’re swatting him away and telling him repeatedly that he’s gonna get sick “impossible im immune” (and proceeding to kiss you more)

- feeding you soup and treating you like you have no arms and legs bc you’re sick “hoseok i can eat by myself” “no no no” “but–” “no”

- eventually getting better because of his constant pampering but then realizing he got sick “hoseok are you sick” “i’m not– aHCHOO” “hoseok” “oops”

bellamy getting flustered when teaching clarke how to shoot a gun before they were even proper friends is proof enough to me that they were always meant to be more than Platonic

Ladies, Gentlemen, and Variations Thereof, I, Mod AJ, am proud to announce that my Unitale Mod, The Seraph’s Realm, is complete! 

Features:

  • You get to play as Frisk the determined human!
  • All new healing patterns!
  • Brand new dialogue!
  • Brand new sprites and animations!
  • New, bell-like music!
  • PAIN
  • Pretty colors!

It will be released on Christmas Eve, at 11 pm EST/GMT-5. 

After the Jingle Ball/Fallon run I’m gonna head home and chill out as its been hectic the last few months. Looking forward to getting home home at Christmas. I haven’t been home since last Christmas so I miss everyone and hopefully this year I’ll get to spend some quality time with family and friends. I really do wish I could spend more time at home but with Ireland as small as it is I sometimes struggle to completely relax. So fingers crossed coz I miss that place alot.
—  Niall being passive aggressive in his email about leaving him alone.

About two months ago I applied to an internship working with plants at NASA. I didn’t tell many people here ( or irl tbh) because it was literally one shot in a thousand I would get it.

But today I got an email beginning with “ On behalf of the National Aeronautics and Space Administration (NASA), we are pleased to inform you that you have been selected….”……

I GOT THE INTERNSHIP!

I’m gonna be growin’ plants for the International Space Station youns!

I still can’t completely believe that its for real - half of me thinks that something is going to go wrong and it somehow will fall through.

And the other half is screaming NASA NASA NASA PLAAAAAAANNNNTTTTTSSSSS!!

Any advice on what sort of weather I should expect in central Florida in winter/spring would be highly appreciated bc I have never been farther south than Atlanta.

ALRIGHT TEA TIME

THIS HAS BEEN BOTHERING THE HELL OUT OF ME! As literally all of you know cultural appropriation is and has been a huge problem in kpop. HUGE. Its to the point where some people are just leaving the fandom all together. But thats not what this is about. THIS is about the reactions. Mainly the people reacting to the people who get offended. The other day i was legit screaming at the fact that Youngbae had the nerve to say that he wanted to experience the black struggle in order to make better music. Boy. How you gonna use another persons culture and struggle to benefit yourself? And someone told me to get over it. Its not that big of a deal. Same with Jimin from AOA when she said the N word and i was told i shouldnt be offended its just a word. Like how are you to tell me a black kpop fan that someone using a racial slur isnt bad and i shouldnt be offended? Now i mention this because its completely different when it comes to k fans. No tea. No shade. Buttttt every time something happens to k fans yall are quick to defend. “We shouldnt tell them how to feel since we cant relate to why its offensive!” AND YET YALL LEGIT KNOW WHY THE N WORD IS OFFENSIVE AND WILLINGLY CHOOSE TO TELL US “Get over it. Its just a word” or yall throw the “Theyre korean they dont know its a bad word.” Lee Hi legit said it on a broadcast and immediately apologized and said that it was a bad word and she shouldnt say it. They know. Some of them dont know and i acknowledge that but alot of them do. That being said 1: STOP DEFENDING IDOLS WHEN THEY DO SOMETHING PROBLEMATIC “oh he just wants to relate to black people thats it” i should slap some sense into yo ignorant ass 2: STOP TELLING BLACK KPOP FANS AND OTHER NON BLACK POC KPOP FANS THAT THEY SHOULDNT BE OFFENDED WHEN THEIR CULTURE IS APPROPRIATED. You have NO SAY in what offends and what does not offend another person 3: STOP ONLY SIDING WITH K FANS AND TREATING THEM LIKE THEYRE BABIES THAT NEED TO BE PROTECTED. Its legit the same situation except theyre korean and were not. and finally 4: Stop being ignorant. Shit. I know its not easy but damn. Yall needs all the sense knocked smooth into ya skull. NEVER MIND ONE MORE! CAN YALL STOP USING AAVE WRONG?! YALL MAKIN US NOT WANT TO USE IT ANYMORE LIKE DAMN Anyway thats all for tea time. Tune in next time when i literally try to eradicate the koreaboo population from the earth

Originally posted by myuux2

BOSTON VALENTINE’S DAY

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, everyone! Some love it, some hate it, but we’re gonna make sure you all enjoy it regardless you want to spend the night with your significant other or ignore its existence, because we’ll be giving you blind dates this February 14th!

To particiate, all you need to do is like this post! You’ll be assigned a partner and given a date idea, which will be selected through a randomizer. We’re not promising that you’ll get anyone from the opposite gender, so be prepared for anything! You can have a romantic night out or turn your dates into complete disasters, it’s all up to you, but make sure you like this post until February 12th! Don’t forget to tag your date paras with the #boston.valentine tag!

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