aro-ace

aro ace fact of the day: aces and aros are naturally suited to ranged weaponry like bows and arrows, sniper rifles, slingshots, etc.. scientists aren’t quite sure why this is true, but they believe it relates to the goddess artemis and to the rumored “aro ace arrow ace”

all aces and aros possess this skill, but it is especially potent in aro aces

💜Aces who are Sex-Repulsed are amazing, you aren’t broken💜

💜Aces who aren’t Sex-Repulsed are beautiful, it’s okay, you’re still ace.💜

💚Aros who hate romance, it’s a-okay. Thats completely valid.💚

💚Aros who love romance, that’s great! You’re awesome!💚

Hi I want everyone to know that

I also want everyone to know that

Do you know who else I love?

but wait there is more!

And please don’t forget that

you guessed it

and most importantly of all

I love every single one of you! You don’t even have to know who I am but know that I love and support you and wish for your happiness. You are going to be amazing no matter what.

As an ace/aro person I feel like I’m never allowed to talk about the fear and pain associated with being ace/aro.
Almost every conversation I have about aceness starts with telling people what asexuality is. If they get that then I’m often stuck convincing them it’s a real thing. Pass that step and now I’m on to telling them I’m not broken. Pass that and I get to explain I’m not something to be pitied.
I feel like I have to spend all my time talking about it convincing people’s it’s real, not a broken state and not something to be pitied that I never get to actually talk about being ace.
I don’t feel like I can talk about how my aceness makes every person who might be into me seen threatening. I don’t get to talk about how almost any form of sex would be traumatic for me. I don’t get to talk about how terrified I am that I actually am broken, or something to be pitied. I dont get to talk about how i doubt every interaction I have because I’ve been told my understanding is impossible for so long. I don’t get to talk about how I don’t know what the future looks like for me, if family is even a possibility, if there’s any future where I’m not alone.
That’s real to me. All of that is part of my aceness. But I can’t talk about it without reinforcing people’s ideas that will only hurt ace people more.

you’re relationships are not less because they’re not romantic

your friendships and other platonic relationships are just as important 

you are not less to someone because you are just their friend

your relationships as an aroace are valid and important and so are you

Trans guys? They’re heckin amazing. 

Religious trans guys? They’re wonderful

Atheist/agnostic trans guys? They’re stars 

Big chested trans guys? The’re amazing and manly af 

Trans guys that can’t afford binders? They’re also manly af 

Feminine trans guys? They’re such great guys

Chubby trans guys? They’re the Best™

Straight trans boys? They deserve the best girl(s) in the world

Mlm trans boys? They deserve the best boy(s) in the world 

Aro ace trans boys? They deserve to pet a kitten

Trans guys of color? They deserve all the best things 

All trans boys deserve to have happy lives and ice cream

@ all boys/men who are coming to terms with the fact that maybe they’re not completely straight: i see you and i love you more than i can say. your attraction to other boys/men is not inherently gross or dirty or bad, and i promise that you’ll find safe places and people. you are amazing and valid and deserve all the good in this world.