I find it really interesting that you're linking those who are willing to forgive mr min too easily to being potential victims in an abusive relationship bc that's what jk rowling was afraid of as well when she saw how many people sympathized with draco. I can't remember what I read exactly, but I think she said something about glorying his character and not necessarily admiring the actor who played him and there's an obvious difference between the two. It's actually a little scary
This turned into a really long rant and there’s quite a bit of dissecting Mr. Min’s character and the story in here so I’m just gonna put a break here to save people’s dashes. This discussion isn’t everyone’s cup of tea.