So today i just came out to my whole family (at least the part that lives here) as a lesbian -because they wouldn’t understand what pansexual means- and boy oh boy
We were having our casual sunday meeting so we can all have lunch together and since my uncle was being a huge homophobic piece of shit to his own son (making stupid jokes because we was playing a game with a pink gun) i decided that i had enough and that i would use that opportunity. We were all eating together and once my aunt asked me why i believed part of my family was prejudiced to some things i did, i just… said everything.
we had quite the discussion because both my aunts said they didn’t agree with homosexuality but that they supposedly respected, but my uncle was such an a-hole, it was pretty visible that he was uncomfortable with the whole situation and angry by the fact that i was calling him out on his bullshit. That didnt last long tho because i started to cry, a lot hahahah and my grandma came quickly to my side to hug me, and my dad was getting super pissed at everyone for not understanding something so simple as “love is love, no matter what”, my grandpa also came and started to almost yell at everyone to shup up while protectively covering my ears because they were hurting my feelings and after that i had to go with my dad for a car ride because man i was crying but my dad was angry, like, seriously pissed off, he was about to punch my uncle in the face. After a quick 15 minutes time-out i got back (not my dad tho, he decided to stay out because otherwise there would be a real fight) and was greeted by my grandparents and i was so relieved because i was worried about them (i couldnt possibly care less about my uncle) even my nephews -both around 10 ~ 12 years old- came to give me a hug and say that theyll love me no matter what, as long as i was their friend (needless to say i started to cry again) and yeah everything was fine after that. I came home and thanked my parents again and my eyes are sensitive from all those tears but i feel a lot better
sorry for the long personal text, i just felt like sharing this with you guys ;u; (also i apologize for all my mistakes, english is far off from my first language, i hope it still made some sense)