apologies in case this offended anyone

Necessary Secrets || Peter Parker x Reader [[request]]

[[request prompt: Can you do an asexual!reader x peter parker?? :)]]

I’m determined to get through as many requests as possible ೕ(•̀ᴗ•́)

I’ve got about 30 requests, all for Peter Parker imagines and like I’m still in awe that you readers are actually counting on me to make your requests come true, so thank you (/ω\)

for this story, as a general disclaimer, I don’t mean to offend anyone who identifies as asexual and will do my best to incorporate what I’ve learned into this specific story (since it was requested ;w;). So please, if you feel as though you need to correct me on what it really means to be an ace, then please do so! I don’t mind at all and am willing to learn!!

**I apologize for any grammatical errors since this was all written on my phone. When it’s posted then I’ll make sure to edit it a few more times just in case!**

warnings: none just pure fluff and a hella understanding Peter Parker

tags: {anonymous}

{{request status: open}}

**dont repost/plagiarize this story! Reblogs are fine!!

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Peter Parker was hiding something from you.

And you knew that he was hiding something from you because you were hiding something from him as well.

He had to have an explanation for the numerous times he had cancelled past dates on you, and you (in return) had to explain something immensely important to him pertaining to your sexuality.

Your heart wouldn’t stop hammering as you made your way toward Peter’s apartment. You had been dating the boy for a few weeks now and had just had a recent discussion with him on how building a relationship on honesty was the key to a successful one.

Peter (shakily) agreed with you, which was what prompted you to go to his place to finally tell him one of your well kept secrets: that you were asexual.

Now, this wasn’t to say that you didn’t feel romantic love (even though you knew a few other aces who rarely felt romantic love), it was just the thought of having any sexual relations made you cringe. You didn’t mind physical affections, however, the moment someone mentioned how they wanted to get in your pants, you immediately shied away from them.

You just never felt the same desires everyone else seemed to have when it came to being physically intimate in a relationship.

This was why you had to tell Peter the truth before he broke it off with you too soon. You didn’t want your relationship to end tragically like your past relationships, because Peter was someone who was incredibly special to you. A part of you knew that Peter would be understanding and accept you fully-

But the other part of you was terrified of losing him because of this.

You stop walking while in the middle of the street, taking in deep breaths as you tried to calm your racing heart at what was to come, “It’s okay. You can do this, you have to do this.”

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Peter was home alone when he lets you into the apartment, “May’s out working right now, s-so it’s just us.”

“That’s uh, that’s okay.” When Peter leads you into his room, you felt a dash of anxiety as your heart beat faster, looking down at Peter’s bed when he gestures at you to sit beside him, “Sorry, my bed is small, b-but it’s really comfortable.”

You nod, clearing your throat when you settle your backpack to the corner of his room. Feeling your palms begin to sweat at what was to come, you sit beside Peter with your hands clasped together on your lap. Wanting to be closer to you, Peter scoots himself toward you so that your shoulders were practically touching, “So….”

“O-Okay, so we both agree that honesty is important, right?”

“A-Absolutely!”

“And nothing is more important than being truthful when you’re with the person you l-love and care about. That’s why, I have to say-”

“That’s why I need to tell you-”

You and Peter were both rambling now, none of you getting to the whole heart of the matter. With a deep breath, you settle on a compromise and tell him, “How about you and I just say what we want to say at the same time?”

Peter runs a hand through his hair before agreeing, “Yeah, okay.”

You and Peter give each other nervous glances, waiting for a full minute before stating at the same time.

“I’m asexual.”

“I’m Spider-Man.”

“Wait, what? No, there’s no way.” His words shocked you greatly, making you poke his arm in response, “Are you serious? But Spider-Man is so…buff. And you’re…not?”

Peter looked like he wanted to die, the blush never leaving his face when he turned his gaze away from you, “H-Hey, that’s not true. I just-” he sighs and stands up, lifting up his hoodie as he began taking off his clothes.

“Whoa whoa whoa! Stop Peter, don’t-!!” But he doesn’t stop until he was left with a single black t-shirt on, the sleeves not covering the length of his arms when you saw the defined muscles on them, finally realizing what he had wanted to tell you, “O-Oh, then that means-”

“I’m sorry, b-but when you said that a strong relationship was built on honesty, I knew that I had to tell you the truth, despite how much I didn’t want to.” He looks down at you with his lips pursed, “It’s just…I like you a lot [Name], and I don’t want to mess up my first ever relationship with you.”

You stand, feeling all of the love and adoration you had for this young superhero as the puzzle pieces began to fall into place. The reason why he seemed to disappear each day after school, the many times he had to cancel the plans he made with you-

it wasn’t because he was avoiding you, it was because he had an obligation as a hero to protect Queens from danger.

Wanting to show a tiny bit of your affections to him, you continue to make your way toward Peter before giving him a hug. It takes Peter a few seconds to respond before he carefully wraps his arms around your back. “So, you’re not mad at me for being Spider-Man?”

You shake your head, “No, I’m not mad, just hella amazed at the fact that I’m dating Spider-Man.” You turn your face so that your cheek was pressed against his chest, “Are you mad at me for being asexual?”

“I don’t think so?” Peter laughs nervously as he delved his fingers into your hair, running through them when he asked, “B-But just in case, so that I don’t offend you, what does it mean to be asexual?”

You giggle and turn your face to look up at him, “Being asexual means that I don’t have a sex drive. Like, I’m not interested in sex at all.”

He pouts at your answer, and you felt your heart sink when he loosens his grip against your hair, “Does that m-mean I-I can’t kiss or cuddle with you?”

“You dork.” You laugh, hugging him again, “I adore physical contact as a form of affection, I just don’t like the thought of sex. Kisses are fine, and I’m a sucker for cuddles!”

Peter lets out a laugh, evident of his relief when he wraps his arms around your back again, “That’s great, and to be honest with you, I’m grateful that you’re not with me for sex.” He plays with your hair again, and you smile at how nice it felt to have him massage your scalp, “I really don’t like being pressured to do something I’m not ready to do, so…”

Your smile couldn’t have been wider when you hugged Peter even tighter, “Peter Parker, you have just proven to me that you are the best boyfriend ever.”

You had been nervous for no reason, and you were so proud at the fact that you captured this golden boy’s heart.

[end]

Originally posted by arachnidiot

dorowot  asked:

Please don't whitewash Connie in your art

I’m sorry!! I didn’t mean to, but I tend to edit my pictures to be a lot brighter than they are actually drawn. You can see in every other instance that I drew her digitally, she’s not white-washed. (This is no excuse though.)

Thank you for politely pointing this out! It’s a lot more constructive than “omfg what a bitch stop erasing PoC.” I will definitely be more careful in the future and I apologize again if Connie’s lightness offended anyone. She’s honestly one of my favorite characters in the show and I didn’t do her justice in this case.

EXO Reaction to you wanting to die (ALERT)

So this topic is really hard for me and I’m doing this because I know there are people who go through really hard things. I just want you to know that giving up is not an option. Believe in yourselves and I’m here for you, even if it’s not much, I do care. Also if you are susceptible to this kind of thing, please do not continue reading. Please remember that we don’t intend to offend anyone and I apologize if that’s the case. This is an important thing so I’ll try to make is as serious as I can. Love, Admin A~

/I don’t own any of the gifs used, unless stated otherwise/ 

Chanyeol: “Jagi!! Stop!!! What are you doing?! Please… come here with me… We’ll talk about it.. please don’t do this!” *Really worried*

Kris: “Y/N? What it this? Can’t I make you happy?” *Grabs your hand and takes you to a safer place so you two can talk about it*

Sehun: *In a lot of pain* Why didn’t you tell me about this before Y/N… We could have looked for a solution… You know you have me and I’ll always stand by your side. Please don’t do this, I beg you. I can’t live without you”

Tao: *He took you to a safer place stayed next to you until you calmed down. You finally decided to tell him what was going on and that you felt so lonely even if you actually weren’t. He can’t stop worrying and blaming himself for this*

Kai: *After a few days after finding you trying to do something “stupid”, he can’t be strong anymore and cries all the time. He feels so bad because he didn’t notice your suffering earlier and wants to make you feel better, but he doesn’t know how”

Xiumin: “Please Y/N… don’t jump… I won’t be able to live with that. I love you. We can find a solution together… I’ll make you happy. Please…”

Baekhyun: *He is really nervous and scared that you might do it* “Jagi… please look at me and hold my hand. I’m here, you don’t have to be scared. I love you” *Takes your hand*

Luhan: *After saving you he took you to his house and laid next to you until you fell asleep. Then he watched you in your sleep and started to cry because he wouldn’t bare losing you*

Chen: *He was just in time before something bad happened to you. You got some injuries due to the knife you were holding but you will survive. He waits until you wake up, but he feels desperate, he feels his heart is about to stop*

Kyungsoo: *Heals your little cuts and takes away the pills you were about to take* “Look at me Y/N.. Life without you has no meaning. I can’t imagine it. But no matter how hard it is for you, I’ll be by our side and never leave you alone. You have me here for you, don’t forget that” *Hugs you until you feel a little bit better*

Lay: *Thinks about it for days. The way he found you and the look in your eyes. He knows you are safe now but he can’t stop thinking about the causes. He wants you to feel happy but he feels he is not helping at all*

Suho: *Falls on his knees when he sees what you are about to do* “Don’t…. please … don’t Y/N… I beg you…. I need you… This is not the end…” *Really really suffering* 

So this is apparently a thing. In case you can’t read it, it goes as follows:

I want to begin by apologizing to anyone who has been offended by my jokes or comments. I am truly and deeply sorry.  I have learned that I need to be more respectful and pick my words more carefully whenever I talk to anyone on any medium.   To those who were offended by anything I said in the past, I apologize.  

I also want to address the allegations that have been made about me.  I have never sexually touched a minor and I categorically deny any such allegation.

Looking forward, I have deactivated my social media, and my .coms point to nothing. I have cancelled all my con appearances and now take my leave.

It is my sincerest hope that you will accept my apology.  I am truly and deeply sorry.

Basically, what it boils down to is this: “I’m sorry that I got caught and my words are coming back to bite me in the ass.”

I love it. Nothing about being sorry for being an abusive, manipulative manchild. Just sorry that he got caught and now he’s going to disappear, because apparently the threat of lawyers didn’t fucking work. I have to wonder if his uncle laughed in his face again. Or maybe it was his copyright lawyers. Either way, absolutely no balls to admit to the shit he’s done.

Oh, and also, considering the evidence against him, he’s decided to go out on a lie, talking about having never sexually touched a minor.

Once again, a typical showing from Bryon Beaubien. Take as little responsibility as possible, try and save as much face as you can to your fanbase, who still blindly defends you, then run away when the heat becomes too much to handle. Fuck you. Your words, as always, amount to little more than shit on a napkin.

Get out. Stay out. And I hope to God that the next human interaction you have will be with the boys in blue.

Monosexism, colonialism and trans women: an apology

A note I posted yesterday (and have since erased) regarding the above topic has come under much criticism. As written, it was understood by many people as making colonialism and transmisogyny about bisexuality and monosexism. This was not my intention, and is certainly not the case, historically or otherwise. I apologize to anyone whom my post has hurt or offended. I will not post about this subject again.

anonymous asked:

liam gets hated on for being so problematic but yet he is the only one that owns up to many of his mistakes instead of completely ignoring them. not once has any member besides liam written paragraphs to apologize or in this case talk about helping other people. so admirable, people should be talking more about this:))

honestly the only thing bigger than liam’s dick is his heart. he really does try and i think coming from a place of being bullied constantly when he was younger he never actively tries to offend anyone. like yeah he does fuck up sometimes but he really does try to apologize i love him

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In case anyone is interested, here’s a very rare case of well executed apology from a celebrity. Chris Hemsworth is apologising over something happened almost a year ago that caused him no major negative attention if not a fair reprimand from attentive fans at the time. He’s not coming off as condescending, he’s not hiding behind the annoying but always present I don’t think it was that bad but since it looks like you’re greatly offended… attitude and the outcome is a commendable sense of humble genuineness.

It wouldn’t be that hard, would it? And it definitely feels good.