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EXO Reaction to Seeing You After A One Night Stand

“Hello! Can I get an EXO reaction to seeing you in public after having a one night stand with you when you were both semi-drunk at a bar, and they haven’t seen you since then? This is my first time requesting something:) thank you!”

Ooh yay! A new requester,, I hope you like this and continue to request~ (REPOST)


Baekhyun:-

I think Baek would be really shy and nervous seeing you, hoping that you didn’t remember what he looked like out of embarrassment

Originally posted by ethereal-baek

Jongin:-

Jongin would see you and immediately come up to you. He would apologize to you about not contacting you sooner. I think that he would give you his contact information and ask if he could see you again sometime, going on an ACTUAL date this time

Originally posted by exoturnback

Chanyeol:-

Chanyeol would be completely shocked seeing you so unexpectedly. He would rush to you to see how you were doing, and to check and see if you were alright

Originally posted by yeollovemebaek

Yixing:-

I think Yixing would do the same as Jongin and apologize to you. Also like Jongin he would make sure that he saw you again someway, somehow

Originally posted by captivatesme

Xuimin:-

Being the cute little puppy he is, I think Xuimin would be a little shocked at first, but immediately get over it and go talk to you. He would be asking you a lot of questions, like how you were or what you were up to

Originally posted by kyungderpsoo

Suho:-

Suho would completely ignore the fact that it was a one night stand and talk to you like he has known you for years. He would make sure to get your phone number so he could contact you again

Originally posted by suhomysuho

Sehun:-

Sehun would be really shy when he first saw you, But as soon as he collected the courage to talk to you, you guys would be best friends. He would crack corny jokes at you and make you laugh and he would slowly get to know you better than you know yourself

Originally posted by sehurn

Kyungsoo:-

I think Soo would be very quiet and conservative when he first saw you. But, you both would form a very good relationship, becoming really close

Originally posted by smileysoo

Chen:-

Dear Chennie would be very considerate when he saw you. He would approach you and ask if it was okay if he talked to you. You guys would sit and talk for hours and he would apologize for not trying to find you after your one night stand

Originally posted by dayafterdae

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anonymous asked:

i'm the louis telling lottie that elounor was fake on their anniversary anon from earlier - basically what had happened was that it was on their second or third year anniversary and lottie tweeted trying to be cute and was like "same feelings all these years later" and then she came back like five hours later and tweeted something about how apologies don't fix everything and don't always cut it and from that day forward she had dropped eleanor and for a few weeks after that went hard with larry

Oh thank you! @anons that asked, here it is :)

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Everyone’s congratulating PBG for his upset outburst towards Jontron, but nobody’s congratulating him for apologizing for it after and showing political disagreements shouldn’t be what destroys friendships.
I have a lot more respect for him because of this and he deserves more credit for it imo.

“Don’t move! Yes, yes. That’s perfect, Nico. Hold that pose.”

Older Nico di Angelo commission for KelseyAh! I’m so happy I got to draw my boy, The Underworld Prince. Look at him, so clueless lol. Redbubble

“I’m just trying to look out for him!”


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@thatsthat24 has a potentially angst ridden character so here I am with an amazing song from his Ultimate Storytime album!! I think it fits him. I don’t know why I like this character exactly? It’s fun seeing him interact with the other parts of Thomas’ personality (*coughcough*ThePrince*coughcough*). But I like his character and honestly? I might be projecting but he also just seems like the type who would hide his own anxiety and fears and sadness and just feeling in general? I know he has them because you can’t be the embodiment of someone anxiety and not. So I mean. 
Anyways, I hope you like your little gift Thomas!!

Jack Did Apologize To Bitty

A lot of people seem to think that Jack didn’t apologize about his asshole behavior to Bitty in Year 1, but he did!! He apologized!! In his gruff, well meaning, Jack-ish way that Bitty nevertheless understood.

In “Goodbye for the Summer,” he apologizes to Bitty for the hit, but he’s also apologizing for “everything that happened this year”

Jack’s stuttering, he’s not really sure what to say, but he wants to say sorry. This is more than the hit that Bitty took, it’s an apology on how Jack treated him this year, and also a thank you to Bitty who not only didn’t hold it against Jack but treated him with a lot more respect than he probably deserved.

And Bitty accepts the apology! By this point, Jack hasn’t been an asshole to him for a long while and you can obviously tell that Bitty’s already got a crush. And of course Jack knows that their relationship is better than before, but he’s still taking the time to make sure that Bitty knows that Jack understands that he was wrong, and that it was an honor for Jack that Bitty voted for him in spite of all that. 

This is the last comic of Bitty’s freshman year, and it’s jack apologizing for his behavior and Bitty accepting it, and the two of them turning over a new leaf. I feel that a lot of people might have missed it because they wanted Jack to say outright “I was an asshole this year, I’m sorry,” but dude’s an awkward guy and emotions are hard. In any case, they both understand what their conversation is really about. The last two panels are then about a new dynamic between Jack and Bitty, where “Eat more protein” becomes less a dismissive command from a jerk captain and more of an inside joke between the two. 

tldr in the last comic from Bitty’s Year One, Jack and Bitty have a conversation wherein Jack apologizes and Bitty accepts his apology and the two of them turn a new leaf and change the dynamic of their relationship. 

*inhales deeply* EVERY SINGLE MAJOR CHARACTER IN THE FINDING NEMO AND FINDING DORY MOVIES HAS SOME SORT OF MENTAL OR PHYSICAL DISABILITY AND IT TOOK ME 12 YEARS TO REALIZE IT BECAUSE PIXAR NEVER PAT THEMSELVES ON THE BACK ABOUT IT THEY JUST DID IT

NEMO HAS HIS FIN AND DORY HAS HER MEMORY LOSS AND MARLIN HAS SOME MAD PTSD FROM WHAT HAPPENED TO CORAL AND DESTINY IS LEGALLY BLIND AND HANK IS MISSING A TENTACLE ALONG WITH MAJOR SOCIAL ANXIETY AND GILL ALSO HAS HIS FIN AND HOLLYWOOD DON’T GIVE ME CRAP ABOUT BEING HARD TO INCLUDE DIFFERENTLY ABLED CHARACTERS IN YOUR STORIES WHEN ONE OF THE WORLD’S BIGGEST FRANCHISES DOESN’T HAVE ENOUGH “NORMALLY” ABLED CHARACTERS TO COUNT ON ONE HAND

the thing that impresses me most about the mental health storytelling on One Day at a Time isn’t just that it exists, it’s that so much of it is dependent on Penelope’s own agency. I can’t think of many (any???) other shows where someone goes to therapy because they WANT to, because they personally make that decision based on available information and curiosity and not in some kind of state of crisis or needing an intervention from a healthy character. She does it, she likes it, she continues to go because she’s getting something personally out of it, which in itself is remarkable because of the narrative of mental health treatment being a tournament of suffering before you’re allowed any kind of relief. She even finds community and connection with the women in her group!!!! 

It is just beyond refreshing to see a character who takes medication (again, because she’s like, maybe I want to do this, and decides to), whose mental health struggles are explicitly a part of her life, but who is also a stubborn goofy beautiful brave weirdo who enjoys her life and has so much else going on in it

that’s not even getting into the fact that this character is a woman of color, a woman with chronic pain, a woman who is consistently portrayed as a extremely competent at her job and a great mom and a great daughter and friend and person

I see your “If they ever met, Cassandra would make one perpetual disgusted noise every time she’s around Zevran”

and instead offer you “Cassandra and Zevran would bond over smutty literature and practice sparring. Cass kicks his ass every time and Zev would probably thank her for it” 

EDIT/OP’s NOTE: Thank you to everyone who has received my post well. Just before you decide you have an argument/point to discuss, check here, here, here and here. Or it might simply interest you to read. :)

As someone who grew up in a country with a diversity of different cultures (including the Indian culture), I just want to say that Jonghyun did not mock them - that’s almost how all Bollywood movies are like, and if you’re someone who isn’t exposed to them, then maybe you’re just being butthurt and/or self-righteous by making a huge deal out of this - but yes, he still shouldn’t have, in the words on people nowadays, ‘appropriated’ that culture in any way.

That aside (and no, I am not saying Jonghyun is right or fine to do that at all, that is a different discussion), he has already issued an apology.

This was pretty much the first thing he addressed since his concert ended. He didn’t wait and decide to speak up after the series ended. He didn’t let SM or his managers speak for him. He could have easily done all that - let SM represent him or talk about this AFTER everything, but no. He took it to his Twitter on the first night of the concerts and apologised himself. He realised he’s wrong and even assured that that bit will be taken out of the video. What more do you want from the man?

Okay, maybe someone found it really offensive or insensitive, and you have every right to be upset. You can point it out and tell him about it, but you have no right to bash him after he’s publicly apologised. You don’t get to put him on a pedestal and destroy him when he took the time to explain that he knew he was wrong and he would not make such a mistake again.

We are all humans. He is as much a human as you are. You are, by no means, superior to him just because you’re socially aware of such issues. Not everyone gets the same exposure. Everyone is ignorant in some way, and different races/countries/cultures perceive things differently. For example, in America, because of its history and racial diversity, you might learn that joking about skin colour is wrong, but in some parts of Asia, it’s perfectly normal to joke about it. 

For Jonghyun, he grew up in Korea. Maybe this wasn’t something he learned while growing up. I don’t know, but maybe. I certainly wouldn’t if I didn’t grow up in a racially diverse country and didn’t have Indian friends. Yes, the world is global, but everyone grew up with certain ideals and beliefs, and you need to be aware that just because it applies to you doesn’t mean it applies to someone else. 

You preach about the need to educate and to fight for what’s right. Yes, you’ve done that. He is aware and has admits that he’s wrong. Just because he’s an idol doesn’t mean you can go on and on about how he intends to hurt people or etc. He’s an idol, yes, but it doesn’t mean he naturally knows about everything and everyone.

To those who are hurt by what he did, you have every right to be upset. If you feel like his apology isn’t good enough, I’m sorry, but what do you expect him to do? Go down on his knees and beg until you forgive him?

He’s an idol and an adult, and I think the fact that he spoke up about his mistakes himself, at the first moment possible, is commendable. It speaks a lot about who he is as a person. He’s a human, like all of us. Everyone makes mistakes. Can you honestly say that you have never been accidentally/unintentionally ‘racist’ at some point in your life? How would you like if people bash on you even if you gave a sincere apology about a mistake you did not intend to commit?

We all know him. He’s a sensitive soul. Do you honestly believe he’s done this on purpose? He apologised. Give him a freaking break. He’s a human with feelings. Don’t be a jerk just because he’s an idol whom you expect to be a ‘PERFECT’ role model. Nobody is. People learn and change.