anyone else know what i'm talking about

so to sum up, keith…

  • refuses to call himself the black paladin
  • is painfully self-aware and analytical about his own flaws and apologizes for them repeatedly
  • is aware he can’t connect with his teammates and remembers examples of that happening even months later
  • knows he has anger issues, is ashamed of that, and thinks it’s intrinsic because he’s galra
  • knows he has trust issues and identifies his mom leaving him as the reason he’s afraid of rejection
  • knew he would cry if he talked about it?? what the fuck

and keith:

  • was called a loner by the people he’s been living with for months
  • identifies shiro as the only person who never gave up on him and canonically connects with him on a level separate from anyone else in his life
  • has lost shiro twice so far

Here is the problem: the new Doctor being a woman is not like casting a female James Bond. It is not like gender bending or gender swapping a character. The Doctor regenerating as a woman is a TRANS NARRATIVE. To write it as anything else you have to either erase the realities of transition from one gender to another (or existence as no gender or multiple genders, which is also feasible given that the doctor can apparently regenerate as any gender) OR, more likely, you have to turn it into a joke. While I realize this is almost certainly what will happen from the BBC perspective, I can’t believe that I haven’t seen a single person say anything about it? 

I am frankly disappointed in people I know to consider themselves cis allies to the trans community jumping up and down like this is a win for women and never once mentioning the word trans or questioning if it will deal with trans themes or address trans narratives? 

Obviously the BBC isn’t going to bill it as a trans narrative. But the fact that so much of a community of people who claim to be allies to the trans community haven’t spoken up and said “So the doctor is trans or nonbinary or genderfluid then?”. Haven’t put that label on it, and celebrated the reality of a trans lead (because however you may want to try to pretend that’s not the case that’s what this is) in a major scifi franchise is….kind of disappointing?

Not that I expect everyone to constantly consider things the way trans people would, but I’m sort of amazed that I’ve seen four threads about WOC being excluded, but no threads except my own asking why this is a win for women and not a win for trans people? 

i know no one cares but i’ve just recently started stimming wholeheartedly after years of repressing it, even while alone, and it feels so good i could cry

I wanna talk something about Itori (Hide too)

WARNING: Thing you’re about to read is huge crack-pot written in very bad English with user who doesn’t know how to get to actual point and drags things on. Also this user is slightly under influence of alcohol. You have been warned.


I have been thinking about this for quite a while now but didn’t saw anyone else having this thought as well so might be one to pull officially trigger first.

What if Itori is “the witch”. What if Hide is child of Itori.

For a very bad start, they’re lot alike to each other in lot of ways. But I shall give one example:

Tokyo Ghoul has quite a bunch of parallels to Ishida’s other work The Penisman and guess who is ‘mama’ in The Penisman to Hide-looking character:

Ok this all hints on her being possibly related to Hide. But what does this have to do with her being “witch”? Well…. her mask.

Tell me something, does this mask reminds you on anything in particular? Anything at all? Look at it. Doesn’t it reminds you on …. witch? Isn’t this how witches often are described to look in fairy tales usually? 

Not to mention that Hide’s witch’s servant costume looks awfully clownish as well.

Other thing noted about witches in fairy tales is that they tend to be quite old. Usually taking form of beautiful young women to disguise themselves. And Itori is hinted to be perhaps grandma with her introduction

And with referring to Roma as her younger protegee. (And Roma was 51+ year old lady if I might remind on it). So makes you wonder about Itori even further.

But who would be father of Hide? Taking into account that Itori might be way older then she appears (older then Roma) and that Hide-looking character from The Penisman has Itori-looking character (normal human) as mother and giant penis (mutant) as father then…. Nagaraj might be his dad.

Other thing that would make me suspect Hide being possibly related to Underground King (if Itori is truly his mother) are three dots he has on his shirt as Scarecrow as well as in Ishida’s art of him that we have seen kids from underground having as well.

This makes me further believe that Hide has some sort of connection with 24th Ward. One of which him being possibly related to infamous Underground King.

Last small thing to make me think of Nagaraj and Hide being related is “Naga” part as Hide’s last name consists of Nagachika.

(As for identity of possible 100 year one eye, I suggest giving a read to this theory.)

Back onto my own crack-pot thing.

Biggest questions with this would be “But Hide is a human. He ate human food. Wouldn’t half-ghoul and ghoul have ghoul child?” -for human food we already saw Eto who is half ghoul consuming human food and as for “human” thing in general since we’re talking about Hide possibly coming from 24th Ward then lets all remember one little thing about residents of said 24th Ward:

… they don’t consider themselves as ghouls and they truly very well might not be “ghouls” but some sort of hybrids. In remake chapter Ishida even teases us with possibility of Hide not being exactly human per say.

“But Hide is wearing mask because his face is most likely scarred from Kaneki. So shouldn’t this shoot down possibility of him possibly being ¾ ghoul?” -considering we had ghouls with scars, then it would not be that unusual thing. We have to keep in mind that there is limit to ghoul’s regeneration (as seen with Noro), so perhaps if that limit has been breached it results in more permanent damage. 

Too long to cut it short: This is huge crack-pot. I do believe in Itori and Hide being related but I’m not that certain in “dad” thing. 

In end we shall see.

anonymous asked:

Do I really have ADHD or am I just trying to excuse my laziness? I'm constantly confused and afraid that I'm capable of keeping up with everyone But I just don't. My guilt and sense of worthlessness is weighing really heavy. I don't know how to talk about it with anyone when I don't seem visually distressed. I've been assessed with a 90% of inattentive type but I still don't know. No one else has noticed so maybe I'm lying to myself that I'm struggling? I don't know what to do

This is a pretty common feeling, especially for those who have (or lean) Inattentive, partly because Inattentive symptoms aren’t as noticeable by other people since people who have Inattentive ADHD are often quiet and non-disruptive and stuff. I want to reassure you that if you feel that you’re struggling, you are.

Something that often happens with ADHD is that we know we’re capable of more than we’re doing. Like, we know that we can do better; we just don’t, for some reason. We struggle because we know that we aren’t reaching our full potential, but we don’t really know how to make that happen.

This is because of the way our symptoms impact us. They make it difficult for us to identify our goals sometimes, and then if we know what we want we have trouble breaking down the steps we need to take to get there, and even if we know the steps we have trouble actually following through and completing the steps. Executive dysfunction screws us over a lot.

An example: I really like organizing and planning things. I’m actually pretty good at it. But I have ADHD, so can I actually maintain organization and follow through on my plans? Of course not! The day I realized that if I didn’t have ADHD I’d probably be a really organized person was the day I really began to take in just how much ADHD impacts my life.

See, I’m capable of organizing my stuff. I’m also capable of keeping it that way… if ADHD doesn’t interfere. Which it always does. I have the skills needed to do the organizing and so on, but I don’t necessarily have the ability to use those skills all the time.

It’s a really exhausting disconnect between what we know we could be and do, and what we actually end up being and doing.

So, that’s all kind of discouraging, but here are a few thoughts that I hope help you feel a bit more positive about things.

First, recognizing that you have skills but that your ability to use those skills is inconsistent is actually pretty empowering. Now that I know that I’m good at organizing but struggle to maintain it, I can work on systems that will help me maintain that organization once I’ve got it in place.

Second, if you struggle, you struggle. Your struggles might be different from other people’s struggles, but that doesn’t make them less valid or less real. Period.

Third, no matter what you struggle with, you matter. You are worth people’s time and energy, including your own. Because you are here, and that makes you important.

-J

  • What she says: I'm fine.
  • What she means: In Hollywood A.D. movie Mulder and Scully reference the bee incident and real Mulder and Scully look at each other horrified. How did anyone else know about the bee? Were they interviewed for the movie and one of them told? Did they interview neighbors and one saw? Or have Mulder and Scully talked about it and it came up when they were being followed around? How did they know?!
‪Knowing that "all you did will be undone" is the most calming thought for me.

No matter what I do, no matter how good or bad, it will all even out. ‬
‪The bad will undo the good, the good will undo the bad. ‬
‪No matter how my life goes, I have that one, singular, balance. ‬

anonymous asked:

Leo. Leo theres's some poetic irony in that the Keith heartbreak happens on a /desert/ planet. I'm hurt ;__;

oh. Well I mean, yeah it’s a desert so I’d see why you’d relate it back to Keith’s shack. That really is melancholy. But you know, it’s also pretty industrial? There’s a city. And in fact in both screenshots, it looks like the same city. Wherever they are, it looks like Keith is just having a really bad time the whole trip

And you know what else? I haven’t seen anyone else talk about this, but–judging by the scenery, it looks like they’re back with the olkari! That’ll make Pidge happy at least 

blushyalec  asked:

Congrats on 6k, cuddle buddy!! 💜 I adore you and I wouldn't wanna be this in sync with anyone else. Prompt: "Stop trying to make me laugh when I'm mad at you!" + Malec. 👀

bub!!! thank u so very much :’) im honoured to be your cuddle buddy, and i wouldn’t wanna be in sync with anyone else either! love you!!

“Magnus!”

Magnus was looking at Alec with an innocent look on his face. A small pout to his lips that said I don’t know what you’re talking about. The mischievous glint in his eyes, however, let Alec know that Magnus knew damn well what he had done, and not only that, he was amused by it. Alec could see Magnus trying not to laugh, the corners of his lips twitching as Alec glared at him.

With egg yolk dripping from his head.

Magnus had decided that instead of cracking the egg into the bowl, he would crack it on his boyfriends head. From the outside, seeing Alec with egg yolk slowly falling down his face, with the shell clinging to his hair, was hilarious. But Alec just continued to scowl.

“Whatever is the matter, my dear?” Alec didn’t think his glare could get even harder but Magnus was always one to surprise him and show him things about himself that he never knew. Alec reached for a towel to wipe his face, which in hindsight seemed like a good idea. But taking his eyes off Magnus when surrounded by baking supplies was never a good idea. As soon as Alec pulled the cloth away from his face, a puff of flour was blown in his face, sticking to the last remnants of egg.

“Don’t look at me like that, my precious little flour.” And oh, Magnus was really about to test his strength. Magnus’ eyebrows quirked, he’d noticed that Alec had wanted to laugh, but Alec was determined not to break his resolve. He wasn’t about to break and let Magnus win this one, not when he was covered in egg and flour.

And now sugar.

“You, my darling, are the sweetest.”

“Stop trying to make me laugh when I’m mad at you!” Magnus was grinning from where he stood, holding the bag of now empty sugar in his hand. Alec could tell that he had plenty more puns, and he knew he wasn’t going to last.

“But Alexander,” Magnus stopped to pick up a jar of raspberry jam, “I love you berry much.”

Alec broke. Laughter bubbled out of him, and then like a dam breaking, he couldn’t stop the happiness from pouring out from him. As he managed to calm down, he heard his boyfriend laughing along with him, both with glee of seeing Alec laugh and from knowing he had won. Or so he thought. Two can play at that game, Alec thought.

“You didn’t even try on that one.”

“Then why did you laugh, hmm?” Alec smirked as he stepped closer to Magnus, his boyfriend matching his expression, tilting his head to invite Alec in. Alec crowded into Magnus’ personal space, and just before their lips reached, he smashed an egg against Magnus’ hair. Magnus gasped in shock, looking up at his grinning boyfriend with wide eyes and eyebrows furrowed with confusion. 

“Why, Magnus, I thought it was egg-cellent.”


jodie’s 6k prompt extravaganza 

anonymous asked:

What do we know about Fukunaga so far.? I feel like I'm forgetting things.

LIKE… NEXT TO NOTHING???

He has good receiving skills and is a very precise player, personality wise all we know is that he doesn’t talk much (His current concern is that Yamamoto tells him “c’mon, talk more!”) and, according to his wiki, “He’s fond of comedy and often thinks up of funny things to say but never tells anyone else so instead just laughs covertly to himself.“ WHAT A DORK

THIS IS WHY (IF YOU’RE FOLLOWING ME ON MY MAIN BLOG) I’VE BEEN FREAKING OUT ALL MORNING BECAUSE HE’S TALKING AND HE’S FUNNY AND HE’S KEEPING KENMA AND TORA IN CHECK MY BOY IS HAVING HIS DAY FINALLY I’M SO HAPPY

anonymous asked:

I need some advice. For the 4 years I've been working there, there has been a lovely man who has Down syndrome come in all the time with a carer. A few weeks ago, he's started coming in without a carer and he's acting completely different. Before he was polite, made conversation, told you about his hotwheels card etc. now he's yelling at people, throwing things, he's been caught twice trying to steal and I'm not sure what to do. I don't know his carer or anyone else to talk to about this

  • Friend: What are you thinking about?
  • Me: oh, nothing
  • Me in my head: YO!!!!!GARRY!!!! I'M COMIN' I'M COMIN. OH MY GOD IT'S GARRY COLEMAN! YES I AM! I'M GARRY COLEMAN FROM TV'S DIFF'RENT STROKES. I MADE A LOT OF MONEY THAT GOT STOLEN BY MY FOLKS. NOW I'M BROKE AND I'M THE BUTT OF EVERYONE'S JOKES. BUT NOW I'M HERE THE SUPERINTENDENT OF AVENUE Q!!!!! IT SUCKS TO BE YOOOOOU! YOU WIN! IT SUCKS TO BE YOOOOOU! I FEEL BETTER NOW! TRY HAVING PEOPLE STOPPING YOU TO ASK YOU "WHAT YOU TALKIN' 'BOUT, WILLIS?" It,,,, gets,,,,old,,,,,,,,
DC fanartists safe list

You probably know why I’m doing this list. Many of the most popular fanarts in the DC fandom are made by people who ship or support people who ship pedophilia or incest. So, instead of a blocklist, I decided to make a safe list! 

These are artists who don’t ship or defend gross ships, especially related to the batfam (consult the list i linked if you wanna know what I’m talking about).

Please tell me if you know about more blogs!


I think that Anti’s losing control. In all of the previous videos, he doesn’t swear or get angry as much as in today’s Bio Inc. He’s always laughing and talking about how we’re just watching, but now he’s insisting that we can’t stop him. Before, it seemed to be gloating, but now he’s trying to scare and discourage us.

He’s afraid. He knows he’s losing. 

Just a friendly reminder to be on guard for sexual predators online.

It literally almost happened to me JUST 10 MINUTES AGO and I want to remind as many minors as possible that there are bad people like this, not necessarily everyone, but they are definitely out there. Here are some signs of sexual predators that I noticed from my recent experience. Please add onto the list of warning signs if you can.

WARNING SIGNS (That I should have noticed but since I’m oblivious asf I didn’t):

-If the blog is a porn blog/inappropriate blog

-If they ask you right away where you live and what you look like

-If they ask for a picture of you right after meeting/formally talking to you

I DIDN’T SEE ANYTHING ELSE OUT OF THE ORDINARY AND I CAN’T REALLY ADD ANYTHING SINCE I DON’T KNOW A LOT ABOUT THIS TOPIC WHEN REALLY EVERYONE SHOULD BE INFORMED

 @bestthingintheuniverse @shittyselfieteam @EVERYONE ELSE I CARE ABOUT BUT AM TOO LAZY TO TAG

BLOCK ANYONE WHO SEEMS SUSPICIOUS IN ANY WAY

I DONT FRICKING CARE IF YOU’VE KNOWN THEM FOR MERE SECONDS OR IF YOU’VE KNOWN THEM FOR MONTHS

PLEASE BE SAFE GUYS AND THINK BEFORE YOU ACT

I LOVE ALL OF YOU <3

  • Rabastan: [to Barty] Listen man, if you go down to the store and pick me up some "ja-lap-ano" chips and 2 galleons worth of pepperoni, I'll hang out with you for a bit.
  • Barty: Does anyone else want anything while I'm down there?
  • Augustus: [pronouncing Jalapeño correctly] Yeah, pick me up a bag of Jalapeño chips.
  • Rabastan: Jalapeño? What flavor is that?
  • Rodolphus: Rab, the J is silent. You're saying it wrong.
  • Barty: The J is like an H, Rab. "Hal-a-peeno", not "ja-lap-ano".
  • Rabastan: What in the fuck are you guys talking about?
  • Augustus: "Hal-a-peeno". That's how you pronounce it.
  • Rabastan: I know how to pronounce it! I ordered fuckin' ja-lap-ano!

anonymous asked:

The past month I came out to my parents as a trans boy, and since they didn't accept me I want to talk about this again with them but I'm scared they'll say "It's just a phase" again (since I'm 13) or be angrier with me for talking about this subject, but at the same time I'm getting more frustated each time they talk to me with my birthname and she/her pronouns, I don't really know what to do at this point...

Lee says:

I’m sorry they didn’t accept you. That must feel really awful. I think you’ve brave for going to try to talk to them again! It’s possible they’ll say it’s just a phase, but you know that isn’t true, so even if they say it, try to remember that you know yourself better than anyone else because they aren’t in your head, so they aren’t more knowledgeable about how you’re feeling than you are. You could also try writing them a letter about how you feel and seeing if that helps as well.

You can try to ask that they use your chosen name and pronouns, and remind them that even if it’s a phase, which is unlikely, it’s not like them calling you by a different name could hurt you in any way. You aren’t looking to legally change it yet, so in the worst case scenario where it’s a phase, no permanent damage has been done, and they have made you feel better and happier while the phase was happening, and you can always switch back to the old name and pronouns. If they do it just to humor you, hey, at least they’re doing it!

However, their initial reaction may not be their permanent feelings on this. From your point of view, you just told them something that you’ve known for a while, something you always were, something that you probably had to grapple to come to terms with at some point before it became a part of your self-perception. From their perception, something they always thought was true has changed. All this time they’ve seen you as one thing, and now you’re saying that you never were that thing. It’s a big shift to take in, and a lot of the time parents aren’t prepared for it and they don’t know how to react so they try to deny that it’s real. But over time, they can grow to accept you, even if they didn’t initially.

My parents started out being unaccepting. They said some awful things to me then, but three years later they’re willing to pay for my top surgery. People can grow. But it’ll take time. It might take months, even a year or longer until they’re fully on board. In that time, you need to take care of yourself. Their rejection hurts, but it isn’t your fault. You shouldn’t have to feel bad just because they doesn’t understand you yet. Make sure you take some space when you need it, talk to people who will support you, and do things to make you feel better.

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