All ideological quibbling aside, the fact of the matter is that, being bisexual, I know a great deal about being told by self-appointed guardians of the community that I’m not permitted to discuss my own lived experiences under any circumstances whatsoever because the words to describe those experiences don’t “belong” to me - and on that basis alone I’m going to be very suspicious indeed when I see similar arguments turned against anybody else, regardless of the putative authenticity of the experiences in question.
Would it be too much to ask at this point for a picture of the back? No rush or any thing. I know you've done so much, and gosh dang I couldn't even find your tutorial when you tagged me in it. I even want to ask about the paints and the paint style you used because the blue shading is brilliant, and you should know that.