Okay, this is about to be a long list but I hope it helps someone. Being genderfluid myself, I just showered for the first time in several days because of my disabling dysphoria. I always see tons of tips about clothing, hair, behavior, and even makeup, but I don’t see a lot of tips on here about dealing with shower dysphoria. Some of this is going to be aimed at trans*, genderfluid, and genderqueer individuals specifically, and some of these tips are for agender and other nonbinary individuals, but most can be applied to all of the above. Let’s get started!
- If possible, listen to music. Whether it’s on a phone, laptop, or portable radio, listen to music you enjoy, and listen to it as loudly as you’re able. It helps me to have something else to focus on while I go through the motions of showering, even if it’s my own horrible singing.
- Use shower products marketed towards the gender you identify with. Since I’m genderfluid, I keep both “male” and “female” bodywashes, shampoos, and face washes in my shower so that however I’m feeling, I’ve got the products available to reduce dysphoria as much as I’m able.
- Have your clothes ready inside the bathroom with you. I always make sure that my clothes are completely prepared for me to throw them on as quickly as possible after my shower. My dysphoria is increased significantly when I’m undressed, so not wasting time turning my clothes right-side out, or searching for clothes helps.
- Keep a mental list of the steps you need to complete during your shower. 1. Prepare clothes 2. Turn on water 3. Get in shower 4. Shampoo hair; ect. Having a mental list of specific steps you need to complete helps break the process down so it isn’t so overwhelming, and you’ll be able to keep track of how close you are to being done.
- Use genderless shower products. Unfortunately, it’s pretty hard to find shampoos and body wash that aren’t marketed a specific way. The best brand that I’ve found is Lush products. Almost all of their products aren’t targeted to any gender at all. Unfortunately, if you don’t live close to a store (the closest one to me is over two hours away) it can get pricey buying online once shipping and taxes are applied. One that has been suggested a couple times is Trader Joe’s brand, but I’ve been told it mainly pertains to the west coast. Also, a more widespread brand is Head and Shoulders! If anyone knows of any more common, genderless brands, feel free to add on or message me and I’ll edit it in!
Unfortunately, for those of us with dysphoria, showering is probably always going to suck at least a little bit. If anyone else has helpful tips, feel free to reblog with your additions. If you’re not comfortable with that, message me on here and I can edit it in.
Crazy-Ex Girlfriend - ITS A COMEDY MUSICAL, GUYS, CREATED BY RACHEL BLOOM (who won a golden globe?? YES HER). get to the 3rd episode at least. there’s an OPENLY BISEXUAL CHARACTER (later on in the season) and its such a good representation of love & what it actually is and growing up and letting go?? such a good show
BoJack Horseman - just a really, really good & cleverly written show about an anthropomorphic horse. 7000% animal puns. 5000% describes exactly how u feel about life and sadness.
Jane the Virgin - CUTE!! mock telenovela that deals with lots of social issues, like immigration, etc (the last episode i watched had the narrator checking every scene for the bechdel test omg) ALSO, arrested development level narration, fam, get on this. gina rodriguez will slay ur ass
Bob’s Burgers - such a good lil family show about a burger joint. watch this when you need to laugh or just to lift ur spirits. also, we are all either gene, louise, or tina. don’t lie
Lovesick (prev. Scrotal Recall) - adorable show prev. suffering from a truly tragic name. cute & british, about a man who finds out he has chlamydia and has to tell all of his previous sexual partners. you’ll fall in love with these characters by the end of s1, they’re all so dear to me
Master of None - aziz ansari’s show. each episode is basically a lil movie. the love story is ridiculously cute and it talks on some subjects rlly well
Jessica Jones - !!!!!!! if you haven’t seen this, GET ON IT. esp. if you’re a girl, cause this is SUCH A RELATABLE SHOW FOR WOMEN. grizzled neo-noir female detective? SIGN ME THE FUCK UP. also, watch daredevil if u wanna be caught up for Marvel’s Defenders, which is gonna be sofuckinggood
Sense8 - HOW HAS NOBODY SEEN THIS ONE? god, it’s so good. it’s got some problems but overall it does well @ showing other cultures and also some kickass sequences and wow main the characters interacting is just A1
It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia/The League - this is. so funny. get past the 1st season and its such a good garbage show. the characters are such assholes, dude. they’re horrible. super dark humor, only watch if ur into that/ funny show abt a fantasy football league. both garbage shows and i love them w all my heart
Arrested Development - just in case u haven’t seen the best show ever written. basis of basically every comedy show u love. watch.
The Office - how have u not binged the office?? binge the office.
Comedy Specials - comedy specials are an UNTAPPED GOLDMINE on netflix. some of my fave comedians are John Mulaney, Bo Burnham, Ali Wong, Chelsea Peretti, Donald Glover, Jim Gaffigan, and Aziz Ansari.
BONUS - non-netflix shows u should also be watching
You’re The Worst - messed up characters and darkkk dry humor, but the second season does such an EXCELLENT job at portraying depression!! also, a dysfunctional relationship that is not necessarily unhealthy (sometimes, tho, sometimes)
Community - ONE OF MY FAVORITE SHOWS. Gets emotional so quickly. S1-3 are some of the best moments on television. skip S4. S5-6 are good but S1-3 are amazing. characters will become all of ur faves
Westworld - my expectations for this show were sky-high and it has oNLY PROVED THEM RIGHT! half sci-fi, half western fantasy VR, all badass. i have no idea what’s going on and i love it. literally Robots With Anxiety #relatable
pls add to this if you have any great shows, and i’ll update this list whenever i find something else wonderful that i don’t hear people talking about
Once Upon a Time: First look at Emma's wedding dress in musical episode
Emma and Hook will soon tie the knot on Once Upon a Time — and EW has the exclusive first look.
During the highly anticipated musical episode, Emma (Jennifer Morrison) intends to marry Hook (Colin O’Donoghue), but her prophesied death and the ultimate showdown with the Black Fairy (Jaime Murray) also await.
“Emma knows the Final Battle is in front of her, but she, in this moment, is brave and is not going to let the troubles of whatever they’re dealing with get in the way of her happiness,” EP Edward Kitsis says of the photo below. “She’s truly following her mother’s advice to live her life.”
Or, well, maybe live what’s left of it? “She either dies, or she doesn’t die, or something else happens,” EP Adam Horowitz says coyly.
Will this wedding get interrupted much like Snow and Charming’s was? That remains to be seen, but it’s safe to say that the Final Battle looms large on their big day. “In our minds, the Final Battle is probably not what you think it is,” Kitsis says. “Like any good battle, sometimes it’s not a battle in the literal sense of a fight.” Horowitz adds: “It is a battle, it is different than the ones we’ve seen before, and it is very personal to Emma.”
Once Upon a Time airs Sundays at 8 p.m. ET on ABC. Stay tuned for much more scoop on the musical hour, as well as the two-hour season finale.
Everyone knew of the games that Jack and I played. We held competitions, on who could get the most numbers in one night, on who could get a boyfriend or girlfriend first. But the game that I decided I wanted to play would be one to remember.
It was a typical Monday night, all of the buttercreams were at Joe’s catching up on each other’s lives. The boys were waiting for the game of the week to be announced.
“So now the time you’ve all been waiting for,” I say standing up in front of the boys.
“Whats our game this week?” Jack asks taking a swig of his drink.
“Wait,” Joe begins, “Even you don’t know what this weeks game is?” Jack shakes his head in reply.
“Please, keep talking,” I roll my eyes, “Anyway, this week’s game won’t only be for a week. It will be until one of us loses.”
Jack looks at me skeptically. I laugh at his confusion.
“Now I shall explain, How long have you been single Maynard?”
“Fuck you,” He says laughing, “Four years.”
“Ditto,” I say making the boys gasp, “So let’s play a game, lets date, let’s hold hands, let’s kiss, let’s call each other pet names, let’s pretend to be a couple. The catch? Whoever falls in love first losses.”
Jack smirks, “Oh I don’t think you’ll be able to resist, love.”
“You up for the challenge?” I say confidently.
“Game on Y/L/N,” Jack says standing up, offer out my hand for him to shake. But instead, he places his lips on mine. Stepping away from me a few seconds later we each face the boys.
“Let’s lay down the rules.”
“Rule number one,” Jack begins, “You must tell the other when you fall.”
“Rule number two,” Joe say excitedly, “Social media can’t know that this is a game.”
Nodding my head, “Rule number three, this has to be a public relationship.”
“Rule number four, don’t flirt with anyone else,” Josh adds.
“Any more rules?” I ask the rest of the boys.
“Seems like a fair game, Girlfriend,” Jack jokes throwing an arm lazily around my shoulder.
“Wait,” Caspar says opening his phone, “Let’s get the ‘announcement photo’.”
Jack and I pose, neither of us facing the camera, my hair covering the majority of my face and my hand place on his cheek as our lips mend together. One of the boys takes the photo on each of our phones. We pull away.
“Not bad,” he jokes.
Later on that night the photos are posted with blank captions.
Or maybe you don’t want to call it compatibility. Compatibility has a negative connotation - people tend to talk about all the ways in which people are different based on their astrology charts. Here, we’re talking about the ways in which someone feels a positive, closebond to another person through astrology.
The best way to explain this is to use examples from my life. Let me preface this by saying that I’m a Gemini sun, Virgo moon, Cancer rising.
All of my best, closest friends have been either Virgo suns, Virgo risings, Gemini moons, Gemini risings, Cancer suns, or Cancer moons. There’s no denying it. Sometimes, they have two connections with me. For example, my absolute best friend is a Gemini moon AND Virgo rising. That’s even more powerful.
There’s something so powerful about having signs in common. You find that these people just get you in a way that no one else can.
This particularly applies to the sun, moon, and rising, since they are the most personal placements. But also having mercury, venus, or mars in the same sign as someone else’s placement(s) can add to the connection for sure. In addition, if any of these “connections” are close conjunctions (0-5 degrees away from the other person’s placement), then it will be even more powerful.
People seem to ignore the fact that this is a sure way to determine whether or not you have a “spark” with someone. Having the same “energy” based on your astrological placements makes for very similar people, and therefore more inclined to get along.
Sun-moon and sun-rising are the most common connections, in my opinion. Look at your chart. Look at your friends or partners, both past and present. Oh no! They’re a Scorpio! That’s so traditionally incompatible with your sun sign of Aquarius! But also, look - they have an Aquarius moon. Or maybe they have an Aquarius rising. Whatever the case is, having signs in common with someone goes beyond anyone’s traditional ideas about compatibility.
Of course, you can be friends with anyone and everyone depending on your own chart - or just how open and friendly of a person you are. But do you feel chemistry with every person you meet, whether platonic or romantic? No.
Sure, you could go into all the ways in which a Scorpio wouldn’t get along with an Aquarius - but in this relationship, the people seem to put all of that aside because of what they do have in common. These are the types of connections that make you feel comfortable with a person…as if you were meant to be close to them. It feels fated.
Since I’m having a hard time finding out what the names of rarepairs for Overwatch are, I decided to make a master-list of all the ship names I know. These aren’t official names by any means; just the ones that seem to yield the most results when you look for the ship. I’ll be updating this with any other ships I find, as well as anything that people add to it. If y’all would like me to add a ship, just send me the ship name and I’ll get it on here.
More under the cut, since this gets long. (I do repeat ships, but I want this to be organized so anyone else can search it by one hero.)
A/N: I’ve never actually written any Connor/Evan fics before, so expect bad characterization and worse plot.
Connor stood in the doorway, arms crossed over his chest as he watched Evan type frantically on his laptop, perhaps writing another letter to himself or maybe he was updating the anti-suicide page Alana mostly ran but that Evan would occasionally add to.
The other boy was so pretty, and Connor shifted as he mentally cursed himself, wishing it could have been anyone else he was thinking it about.
Except Jared. He would definitely get too much shit for that one.
Making a brash split-second decision, Connor walked into the room, sitting next to Evan, possibly leaning just a bit too close to the shorter boy as he took a look at the screen, calm smirk on his face.
Evan startled, abruptly stopped typing, nearly falling over, but Connor caught him quickly, rolling his eyes.
“Calm down, I just want to see what you’re typing. Make sure it’s nothing about me again,” he teased, enjoying the sight of a slight pink spread in Evan’s face.
“Oh, n-no, just wor-working on some of the pr- See Mom wante- I need some sch-”
His smirk slowly becoming more of a smile, Connor found himself listening to the rambling boy with a discerning amount of fondness, and, once again making a brash decision, found his lips pressed firmly against Evan’s.
Stunned, but quieted, Evan was unable to respond for a moment, heart pounding, before he quickly kissed Connor back, not wanting to miss out on his chance.
It was nothing like Evan had imagined, usually it went something a bit more like they were out at the orchard stargazing and Evan would say something suave and Connor would be flattered (-can Connor be flattered, Evan would then wonder) and then they’d embrace, or-
A hand wrapping around Evan’s neck to bring him closer disrupted his racing thoughts, and he came hurtling back to earth at an alarming yet somehow comforting rate.
He pulled away, instantly regretting it, to look into Connor’s eyes. Both of them were overwhelmed with various emotions, and Evan frantically searched Connor’s face for any kind of doubt or withdrawal, but found none. Finding something in himself that he could rarely reach, Evan pushed forward and kissed Connor again, unable to hold back.
"I’m glad to see I’m not the only one,” Connor mumbled between kisses, before trailing to mouth along Evan’s neck, possessively marking the skin there.
Evan shakily exhaled, one hand reaching up to tangle in Connor’s hair as he tried to catch up.
"I, I never thought that- I mean, you never seemed interested- not that I’d ever assume how you feel, that’s not what I meant, I just mean that-”
"Oh shut up and just kiss me, Evan,” Connor murmured, and Evan gladly did just such, for once ignoring the sound of his laptop hitting the floor, barely even noticing the thud as Connor’s arms wrapped around his waist.
And just like that, everything seemed just a little more okay.
hi! i’ve camped out for six of the seven twenty one pilots shows i’ve been to (ironically the one I didn’t camp out for was the last one), totaling 160 hours spent camping. for my first time camping i was twentieth in line, and for my most recent one, in new york, i was first. being first in line, it fell to me to organize the entire line for that show, so it was a good opportunity to master the practice of lining up. i’ve camped for shows in wisconsin, ohio, new york, and even for their saturday night live performance. i don’t mean to state this in a boastful way- i’ve gotten a few asks about camping out and figured i would put this experience to good use in making a guide for it. if you want to prepare for an upcoming show, or understand the line at your past show better, give it a read. i incorporated all of my experiences, my friends’ experiences, and things i’ve seen online (through an objective scope) into this guide, because no two shows have been the same, in terms of lining up. for the most part, camping comes down to luck: luck with the venue. it’s explained in detail under the readmore.
Why it’s the worst to say “surprise me” to an artist/writer/designer/anyone who does something creative
So, I get a lot of asks and requests, and I love it, but many of them are something like this:
“Love your blog (thanks), could you write something like this (now they add a rather vague scenario), or something else, I don’t know! Bye! (…yeah, bye)”
And some of my giveaway winners (Again, I apologize for taking so much time for it, but that is one of the reasons) do the same thing (or even worse):
“I don’t really have an idea, surprise me.”
And many of you think that this is what any creative person wants to read, but let me burst your bubble - it is NOT.
Many of you tell me they don’t want to limit or constrain my creativity, but as a student of graphic design (and casual writer), let me tell you: LIMIT IT! CONSTRAIN IT! PLEASE!
To help you understand, imagine this:
You got a customer, he wants a new logo for his company, and all he gives you is: “surprise me”. This is the worst. What colors does he like, or does he prefer black and white? Does he only want a logo or some text on it, too? Should it be playful or serious? There are so many possibilities to fuck it up and it takes so much more time to find the ‘right’ solution when the customer can’t pinpoint what he likes. In the worst case, he will annul the contract, because you took to much time guessing what he wants and failing miserably.
It’s not as dramatic when it comes to a hobby (especially when no money’s involved), but please understand that my goal is to please you when it comes to commissions or requests. And if you don’t give me anything to work with, chances are the result won’t satisfy you.
Still not convinced? Try it yourself. Write something for me (or draw me a picture), with this: I want Raphael to be in it. You don’t know anything else and now try to “make me happy”.
Difficult, isn’t it?
Of course, if you’re one of the more creative persons you will have thousands of ideas of what to do, but will I like it? Who knows. Present it to me and if I don’t like it, but still won’t tell you what displeases me, you will be at it forever and ever.
So next time you buy a commission or request something (from anyone, really, not just me), remember to tell them what you like and what you dislike. It takes creativity to work with the boundaries you give us, so don’t be afraid to “take away our fun or freedom”. You need to guide us in the direction of your choice to make it perfect for you.
Okay, but imagine Andrew squinting at his laptop screen, trying to decide whether or not to add a period. Should he capitalize? What about all caps?? Is there a printer in their dorm or does he need to send someone down to the library? He probably spends five minutes trying to get a decent shot without any shadow before deciding that this jives with his zero-shits-given aesthetic better. His password’s an impossible mix of 20 random letters that no one else can hope to figure out and he probably always stays on messaging apps so none of the Foxes can peek at his home screen over his shoulder.
OKAY: this was kinda short but I loved the request so, lemme know if y'all have anything you think I should add, any questions, concerns, requests, or if you just wanna talk. Ask is always open. Love ya 😉❤
Warning: not a thing(I mean it might be kinda dirty idk)
•Jeff being pleasantly surprised when he finds out you speak Spanish
•having conversations in the hallway that no one else can really understand
•sometimes getting weird looks because of it
•you drooling when he’s pissed off/ frustrated and is mumbling Spanish under his breath
•you drooling when he talks dirty in Spanish
•him drooling when YOU talk dirty in Spanish
•like him just completely losing his mind over it
•especially in public
•heated arguments in English laced with Spanish
•knowing the words and singing every Spanish song together at parties
•having delightfully Hispanic looking children
•yelling at those delightfully Hispanic looking children in Spanish
i need a reason to live. can you please give me one. thank you.
I can give you fifteen:
1. Sunsets: there is nothing more beautiful and unique than seeing a sunset on the drive home from somewhere
2. Looking out a car window at night and seeing all the city lights sparkling at night
3. The look a person gives to someone who they are deeply in love with, the kind of look that is stripped of all the many faces people put on, a genuine, soft look that says, “i couldn’t imagine a world without you.”
4. Meeting the love of your life for the first time
5. Meeting life-long friends for the first time
6. Fun moments you will never forget
7. Kisses; all kinds of kisses
8. The smell and taste of your favorite meal
9. You or someone else crying happy tears
10. Reading a new book or playing a new video game or watching a new movie/tv show
12. Acing a test you thought you failed
13. Being able to persevere even when it gets tough; being able to say, “I got through this and I survived it.”
14. Music. Hearing new songs and experiencing the emotion of new song or feeling the emotions behind an old song.
15. Just to see what tomorrow brings
And these aren’t ALL the reasons to live, there are so many more reasons to live. Everyone’s reason to live is different, so if anyone else has any more reasons of your own please add on! Live is worth living and there isn’t just one or a handful of reasons to live: the number of reasons to live is infinite.
Don’t ever think there is no reason to live, anon; there is always a reason to live.
Hi!! I was wondering if you had any advice for a newbie studyblr / bullet journalist ?
Hello there, lovely anon!! ♥ I actually joined the studyblr community pretty recently (just this month!) so I hope I can answer your question well /// !! Since I’m pretty new, there’s still quite a bit I have yet to learn myself!
➸ advice for a new studyblr
Don’t be afraid to just start.
Honestly! There’s no need to feel insecure about your posts, spreads, handwriting, picture quality, stationary - everyone in the studyblr community is so sweet and positive and helpful I begin to feel spoiled. I hope you do to!
Don’t feel self conscious about anything. You’re beautiful, wonderful, and perfect just the way you are. There is no better you than you!
Stop comparing your posts and blog to other people’s. There’s a lot for you to learn, and it won’t all come immediately. Notes, followers - it takes time.
Reach out to other studyblrs!!
Say hi, send asks, make friends! Make comments on other’s posts, send compliments or help where you can. Just being active in the community can help you get attention but also give you a wonderful time. A studyblr is to help you grow, and this is a great way to keep you motivated in doing so.
Along the same line, try to find ways to interact with your followers!
Tags, Tags, Tags!
A lot of studyblrs will track a tag and will often reblog your content if you tag your original posts with it! You can find out what tag to put by checking out a studyblr’s page (for example, I track #studyfeather). You can make a list for yourself if that helps! (: But try not to be too overwhelming or overuse it. Maybe switch up which tracked tags you use from post to post.
Make a tag for you to track! It would make sense that if you’re using tracked tags to make one for yourself to spread the love.
Have a tag that is specific to your original content (mine is #featherpost)!!! It will make it nice and easy for those who come across your blog to find what you’re posting about. Having original content helps others have more interest in your blog!
A lot of what you are reblogging can serve as a resource for yourself. I like to reblog posts that inspire me, or have spreads I might try, masterposts, etc. If its important for you to find what you’re reblogging for later, make a tag system for yourself. For example, heres @ / studypetals’ tags page or @ / studyquill’s navigation page if you need any ideas. This is a great idea if other people begin using your blog as a resource as well.
Take advantage of all the information you see.
There are so many posts that address procrastination, time management, stress, note taking, school - anything at all - that is made available to you. It’s one thing to see the information, but it’s another to make use of it. (And don’t be afraid to share your knowledge either!) You can even make posts about trying out different advice if that helps motivate you to try something out.
Make an introductory post!
Help others get to know you better by putting together an introductory post! It’s never too late to make one, so don’t worry about making one if your blog has been up for a bit.
From what I’ve discovered, introductory posts tend to have the following information (not every one has ALL of this, it’s up to you what you’d like to add): name, age, school year, why you started a studyblr, your classes, some of your favorite studyblrs, other blogs you have (and other sites you’re on), any anything else you’d like to say/add.
If you use tracked tags or tag studyblrs you love, it can help get your blog noticed! (:
Post original content!
I touched on this earlier, but this is so important. One of the best ways for your studyblr to succeed is posting your own work and sharing it to the community. You never know how many people will love it, be inspired by it, follow you from it, or contact you because of it.
Be fairly consistent in posting original content. I try to post at least once a week even though I’m pretty busy. It helps motivate me to keep my bujo and studyblr going! You can try out the 100 days of productivity or some studyblrs put together monthly study challenges you can keep up with. As an example, here’s a May Study Challenge I might try out!
In posting original content, make sure you link information you’re referencing to help others that much more!
Queue your posts!!
A great way to keep your blog active is to queue your posts. I have my posts queued at 10 each day and try to keep at least 20 posts in my queue at all times, in case a couple of busy days keep me from adding more. Some people unfollow inactive blogs - and this can be a way to prevent it.
The only thing I don’t queue are original posts and asks, but it’s up to you if you decide to use the queue system or not!
It’s designed to be quick and customizable way for you to keep information and tasks organized. A great way to make use of this (that I’ve found) is to make a key for each of your logs. You can see my key here. You can also search tumblr for bujo keys to see what others have come up with. If you do want to make a key, make it so that it works for you! It can be as simple or detailed as you want, with or without signifiers, etc. If you don’t like this system, that’s just fine!
Discover different journal options and where to find them.
There is no set journal to use, however there are popular choices among the studyblr community: Moleskine, Leuchtturm1917, and Muji journals - but it is NOT limited to these. Working with a regular notebook works just fine as well!
It’s one thing to find and purchase something online - but I like being able to find what I’m looking for in person. It saves shipping + handling costs, and I get to it immediately. And, sometimes, they can be cheaper too! I found my moleskine journal I’ve been using at Barnes and Noble, and have also seen Leuchtturm1917 journals at my school’s book store. (The temptation is real every time I walk past OTL)
Your bullet journal is for you, so let’s make it that way.
A big part of having a studyblr is to help yourself in becoming more productive in learning and improving a lifestyle (or this may just be how I see it). So! There is no set format for you to use a bullet journal. It’s up to you to figure out what works best for you.
You can take inspiration from other people’s post to help experiment with different spreads and layouts. (Be sure to credit/tag if you do! Just to be safe.)
You can find out different things that you can add to your bujo! Habit trackers, daily/weekly/monthly/yearly spreads, lists of things to keep track of (books to read, tv shows and episodes to watch, shopping/wish lists, bucket list, etc), anything you’re interested in. Depending on your interests and areas you wan’t to use a bujo to help you with, this can vary. If you want, you can test out different ideas to see if you like it or not. It will take time to find what you like, so don’t stress about it in the beginning. You’re just starting, after all!
There is always something for you to do, it’s just a matter of finding out what that is. If you need any help of finding something to do, feel free to message me! (As long as you don’t mind me asking a bunch of questions haha.)
Don’t be afraid to use pencil first when making your spreads.
Me being me, trusted myself to use pen right off the bat. Boy, do I regret that XD It got to the point where I purchased an erasable pen but I’m finding nothing can beat pencil before pen. But before you erase the pencil - make sure the pen has dried. I can’t stress this enough. I’ve gotten impatient multiple times and go ahead to erase, and instantly wished I hadn’t. You can try to find pens that prevent this from happening, but waiting is the best alternative. Something you can do is make a spread at night, and wait to erase when you wake up in the morning. You can keep your bujo open to the page you worked on for it to dry better.
You don’t need any fancy or expensive stationary.
Seeing the pastel highlighters, wide variety of pens and miscellaneous tools it’s easy to think you need to have it all but … you don’t have to have any of it. Especially if you are low on funds, don’t worry about getting anything new. Just work with what you have! I have been using pens I’ve owned for years and have hardly touched to see what I can do with them and am pleasantly surprised! I have a bunch of supplies that I have gotten for school that haven’t been used that I plan on finally putting to use.
Your basic school supplies with notebooks, highlighters, pens and pencils, post it notes, can take you as far as you wish!
Having a difficult time coming up with a spread? Here’s some ideas!
Try out different hand written fonts. This can include headers/titles and subheaders/subtitles. Try headers, banners, and dividers too! Here’s some different ideas: x | x | x | x
Give your spread a theme. Disney, movie, music, history, art, cartoon shows, books - anything at all! This can help with finding art to fill in blank spaces to give your spread some more interest. Here’s a post with a bunch of ideas you could use.
Colors! Try out different color combinations! Being an art student, I’m overly conscious of colors. They can help set a mood, evoke certain emotion, some colors work best with others (be smart when using complimentary colors), etc. Here’s a site that covers basic color theory. But … this is me being nerdy. This can take quite a bit of thought - but you honestly don’t have to (: !! It’s best if you stick to one or two colors within a page not to overwhelm what others are seeing, especially if you’re wanting to keep things minimal. If you want me to go deeper into this, and talk more about contrast and whatnot … I can make a separate post as not to clutter this one ♥
Make goals for yourself! This can be included in a habit tracker, but doesn’t need to be. They can be as small as going on a 20 minute walk each day during this week, being sure to stay hydrated, doing something with a family member or friend, completing or starting a big project or assignment, etc.
Find some quotes and add them! Here’s some quote masterposts I’ve come across: x | x | x | x
When taking pictures, be conscious of lighting.
The best kind of lighting is natural lighting. Taking pictures outside (or inside) during the day will help your image quality! I know before I said picture quality doesn’t matter much, but this can be a simple and easy way to help improve your posts.
If natural lighting isn’t helping you the way you want, you can take a look at different apps with photo editing capabilities or filters. I have a horrible app finding ability, and just use Photoshop (you can get PS CS2 for free here) or Clip Studio Paint to edit my photos. My favorite tool to use is the tone curve. However you can see this post to look at other options, like apps (it also links to other posts you can look at)!
Have a good time!
Honestly, I feel this is what it boils down to. As long as you are enjoying what you’re doing and continue to have a passion for studyblr related content, you’ll succeed. Don’t stress about it and take one post at a time.
I’ll start putting together a post of how I started my studyblr in case that may help as well! Thank you for asking, anon! Hopefully this helps, and that I was able to cover everything! T o T Sorry I kinda went on a bit of a tangent in some areas.
I’d like to post something before I forget to, so here goes.
One thing that I believe the MtG community can always use more of is music. Truly, the only mtg-related music producer that is on here that I know of is the truly amazing @visiblespectrummusic. Check out his music here if you haven’t already, his works are all really awesome and they cover different genres so it’s almost a given that you’ll adore at least some, if not all of them.
I will go first: there’s a youtube channel called Falconshield: The Band. Now, admittedly, their channel is dedicated mostly to music about League of Legends. Which is why I was very pleasantly surprised when, a while ago, they released two awesome tracks: “Khanfall”, a very upbeat rock (it’s rock, right?) song about Tarkir, and “Ignite the Spark” (in collaboration with Julia Westlin), a very emotional and powerful song about Chandra. Do check them out.
“Tom, put daddy’s guitar down, please!” Holy crap. “Wait, JJ, stop poking Odette!” Christ, these kids are acting like they’re on crack. Where’s the
goddamn food? Where’s Jared?? “Shep, stop trying to do flips off the couch!
You’re gonna break your neck!”
Jensen finally gave up on his attempt to run in six
different directions at once and stood up, surveying the pandemonium playing
out in front of him. He and Jared had all their kids for the weekend holiday,
and it had been great, really great,
but it was Sunday evening and they were absolutely wired. They’d been waiting for their food to be delivered for over
an hour, and as the kids had gotten hungrier they’d also gotten grumpier, so
Jared (and fine, maybe Jensen would
admit he was a willing participant in the horrible decision) finally broke down
and gave them all snacks. Unfortunately, the only snacks they’d had available
were, of course, candy. (The fact that the only edible things they had in their
entire kitchen were sweet tarts, rainbow ribbons, miniature Reese’s cups, four
bags of gummy bears, a twelve-pack of Coke, and eight beers was totally Jared’s
fault, Jensen decided.)
But Jared had disappeared a few minutes ago, leaving Jensen
all alone to try and make sure the six (were there really only six? it seemed
like twenty) kids didn’t set the apartment on fire…or worse.
“Jared!” Jensen bellowed, and Jared popped his head out of
their bedroom. Jensen just stood there and lifted his hands up casually,
inviting Jared to notice and perhaps help
control the mayhem.
“I was calling the delivery place,” Jared explained as he
stepped out of the bedroom and walked down the short hallway until he was
standing right in front of Jensen. “They fucking canceled our order and didn’t
even let us know!” Jared’s whisper was angry.
“Well, that would’ve been helpful to know,” Jensen growled,
but he was less angry and more just frustrated, resigned to the fact that it
would be at least another half hour
before they could get something else delivered, which meant another half hour
of acting not so much like a father as a freaking zookeeper. He loved and
adored every single one of their kids, but there was a reason the original plan
was to just have four. Because having six children all within five years of
each other was…something else. Bang-your-head-on-the-wall, cry-until-you-laugh
“Okay, well, what else could get here quick? That isn’t
pizza,” Jensen rushed to add, knowing exactly what Jared was about to say. And
any other night, pizza would have been perfectly satisfactory, but it was
Easter weekend and it was the first time that all eight of them had been
together. Together without any other…family.
Jared didn’t offer up any suggestions though; he was busy
ranting to himself under his breath. Jensen knew with a sudden clarity that
this was not going to be one of those times when Jared just let it go. Jensen
could practically see the gears whirring in his head as Jared stared intently
at his phone. Jensen knew Jared had decided on a course of action when his
hands stopped fidgeting and he let a large breath of air out of his body, deflating
like a balloon.
Jared looked up at Jensen with a crease between his eyebrows
and his teeth biting at his bottom lip. He stared at Jensen like he was waiting
for his permission or something. Jensen just raised his eyebrows; it was
Jared’s choice, but Jensen figured it probably wouldn’t hurt to point out the
“You’re gonna get a lot of flak if you do it,” he said. His
tone was light but still matter-of-fact. Jensen had expected Jared to hem and
haw, or to groan knowingly, or to roll his eyes in exasperation; what Jensen
wasn’t expecting was for Jared’s eyes to be glinting darkly like he was coming
up with some evil master plan.
“Yeah. But…I think I can make it worthwhile,” he said with a
shrug and a smirk.
“Umm…” Uncertainty flashed through Jensen’s mind as Jared’s
thumbs tapped quickly on his phone. “Whatever, I’m ordering pizza,” he muttered
to himself with a sigh as he brought out his own phone and scrolled through his
contacts, finding their go-to pizza place and calling in an order. It only took
a few minutes, and as Jensen ended the call a Twitter notification popped up on
He groaned; he knew this could only mean one thing. Jared
was already back in the living room, his attention fully on their kids, so
Jensen took a quick second to check and see what Jared had posted. It was a
picture—a screenshot, actually—and the caption read: .@jensenackles and I
waited over an hour for @Favor for 6 combined kids. No phone call or text to
let us know it got cancelled. #NeverAgain.
Jensen had to reread it four times before it completely sunk
in. He stood there speechless; maybe to a casual observer it didn’t seem
conspicuous, but Jared had just publicly stated that he and Jensen were
together with all their kids—and no wives—on Easter.
The tweet was already racking up likes and replies and retweets
or whatever, so Jensen quickly scrolled through the comments. As predicted,
some were rude or downright cruel; most were supportive; and a handful were
people freaking out over the exact thing that Jensen was kind of freaking out
Jared had soft-outed them.
That’s what Jensen had taken to calling moments like these,
when one (or both) of them said or did something that just seemed to make their
relationship so blatantly obvious to anyone who was willing to see. There had
been many of them over the years, but over the last two or three—probably since
Jensen had moved to Austin—it was like they were rapid-fire shooting them.
Little rocks and pebbles hurled at the constricting and
reviled glass closet they’d been forced into so many years ago. And boy, did
Jensen love the look of those cracks.
“Jay!” he called loud enough to be heard over the whines and
laughs and shrieks of six little ones. Jared looked up at him from where he was
wrestling on the ground with JJ. Jensen pulled up the camera on his phone and
took a quick video, wanting to remember everything about this moment. “I liked
your tweet!” he said, knowing that his comment could be heard in the recording.
“Hey babe, I was just making a statement about poor customer
service,” he said casually, tickling their daughter into a fit of laughter.
“Yeah, well…” Jensen trailed off as he walked over to them,
bending forward and drawing his arm back at the same time so that he could be
seen by the camera now too. He dropped onto the floor and leaned over JJ to
give Jared a kiss.
“Eww!” Shep squealed right before jumping onto Jensen’s
“Daddy and Jensen sittin’ in a tree,” Tom sang loudly and
off-key, “K-I-S-do-bo-me,” continued, changing the lyrics halfway through
because he didn’t know how to spell the word ‘kissing’ quite yet.
“Where’d he learn that?” Jared asked, mock-scandalized. He
looked into the camera. “Oh, right…I taught him.” He winked as Jensen cracked
up and planted another kiss on Jared, his mouth still open and laughing.
“So that’s how you
spend your time in Austin without me?”
“Well, I try to do all the important things while I’m
there,” Jared replied. Tom tumbled over Jared’s legs and joined the group on
the ground. Jensen stopped the recording and stuck his phone back in his pocket
before it got stepped on by tiny but surprisingly damage-inflicting feet. The
three babies were sitting in their little baby seat-things, not able to join in
with the roughhousing but providing a very substantial background track. The
commotion grew when the doorbell buzzed, probably the delivery guy with their
Jared hauled himself up, Shep clinging to one shin and JJ
the other, and shuffled over to the intercom to buzz the guy in. Minutes later,
there was knocking on the door and Jared opened it immediately. Jensen appeared
with his wallet and Tom hanging onto him in a piggyback ride.
“Looks like you’re having a fun evening,” the guy commented
as he handed the pizzas to Jared and took cash from Jensen. Jensen had seen him
enough over the last few years of him and Jared ordering pizza to know the
guy’s name—Chris—and to have spent a few minutes here and there chatting.
Jared said as he tried to balance the pizzas while walking towards the kitchen,
dragging the two kids who were still on his legs.
“Have a good night,” Jensen grinned at Chris, who chuckled
and waved before turning and heading back down the hall to the elevators.
“Okay, guys,” Jensen spoke loudly to get their children’s
attention, “if you keep hanging on to us you won’t get to eat pizza—“
“PIZZA!” JJ shrieked and immediately released her grip on
Jared, thumping down onto the floor. The others followed and Jared grabbed
paper plates and napkins while Jensen poured drinks and heated up milk for the
“You know,” Jared muttered to Jensen, “I’m kinda glad that
stupid app screwed up our order.”
“Yeah? And why’s that, Padalecki?”
“Because, Ackles, now I have a good excuse when my manager
calls me tomorrow to yell at me about saying I was with you and not Gen.”
“That won’t shut him up,” Jensen pointed out, internally
wincing at the thought of yet another of Spilo’s red-faced meltdowns.
“True,” Jared agreed, then slipped his hand inside Jensen’s
pocket and whipped out his phone. “Actually,” he said thoughtfully as he looked
through something on the phone, “if I’m gonna get yelled at anyways, why don’t
I just go ahead and post that video you just took?”
“Jay!” Jensen said in alarm, but there was no heat to it.
Frankly, he didn’t give a shit if they accidentally (or not-so-accidentally)
got outed, right here right now. However, he’d imagined the moment to be a bit
more romantic and, well, epic.
“Yeah, babe, I know. I’m just kidding,” Jared sighed before
handing the phone back. Jensen smiled sadly and ran his hand through Jared’s
hair a few times.
“Soon,” he promised.
Later that night, Jared snored softly beside him as Jensen
lay wide-awake in their bed; he’d been unable to fall asleep for hours now. He
plucked his phone off the nightstand and flicked through it. His fingers shook
as he composed a simple but sweet tweet and attached a video to it. He stared wistfully
at the screen, his thumb hovering over the ‘tweet’ button for several minutes.
He finally let out a long and slightly-pained sighed as he hit ‘X’ instead,
deleting his declaration of love before anyone got the chance to see it.
Hi! This blog looks so great I'm really excited by it. In a story I'm writing (it's fantasy), there are elves, and as well as being off folklore/mythological elves, they're also based off autistic people but I'm struggling to figure out what an only autistic society would be like, do you have any ideas?
First of all, having a whole, non-human race be autistic can be quite problematic in terms of representation. See Mod Aira’s thoughts on non-human autistic characters here.
Since elves look a lot like humans, and are usually positively described as a race equal or superior to humans, that might not be that much of a problem, but you should still give this issue some thought and make sure this is really something you want to do. This is not a decision I can make for you.
As for the specifics of an autistic-only society, this is where things get fun !
Here are some ideas in no particular order. Of course I can’t cover everything and other autistic peeps are encouraged to pitch in as always!
Everyone is stimming freely and openly. This is seen as a completely normal thing. I don’t know how modern your universe is, but people are allowed to stim in school or in their workplace. Shops have whole “stim toys” aisles. There are sensory rooms available throughout cities for everyone who might get overwhelmed.
Social norms are completely different. Making eye contact is seen as rude, people are expected to explain their jokes and sarcasm. Actually, communities might write down and edit regularly their social rules so they are explicit and available to all.
Kids are taught in schools strategies to cope with sensory overload or to get stuff done with executive dysfunction. They are encouraged to work on their special interests and it is used as a medium to teach them other things. There is highly individualized teaching and varied teaching styles since all kids have different needs. They would also be taught (either by caretakers or educators) many life skills, such as self-care, taking care of a home, taxes… more explicitely.
In our society, there are things that are seen as “basic needs” that everyone shares such as be well-fed, warm enough, not be in pain, have enough time to sleep… In a workplace or school for example, those needs are supposed to be met. The other needs, the ones not everyone has, are seen as “accomodations” when they are met, and are often more begrudgingly met. In an all-autistic society, meeting needs such as sensory needs or break time when you are overloaded wouldn’t be considered as making accomodations, but as meeting basic needs and as a normal thing.
Autistic people are very diverse and sometimes our needs are conflicting. For example, some might be hurt by loud noises, while some may need to stim and regulate themselves by making/ listening to loud noises. So it is probable that people with similar needs would gather in communities.
Since a lot of autistics are nonverbal at least some of the time, I think all verbal people would also know a nonverbal language such as a sign language they could use to communicate with nonverbal individuals or when they go nonverbal themselves. Communicating via AAC wouldn’t be seen as unusual or surprising.
Art and culture would probably be very different. Autistic people are often creative, but they create different things from what allistics create.
I feel like emergencies such as fires would be handled differently. I don’t think loud alarms and blinking lights would be the most efficient. I don’t have ideas for an alternative system though.
Lots of autistic people have trouble driving and I feel like it would have an impact on the most commonly used means of transportation. Either, for a more primitive setting, horse riding would be a huge thing - since horses are sentient they can take care of some of the “looking around to make sure we don’t run over someone or collide into something” - or, for a modern setting, automatized transportation means would have been developed sooner than in our world.
There would be more focus than in our society on precise planning and available information. Navigating administrations wouldn’t be so chaotic, or else no one could deal with it. There would be early on a need to get stuff organized in a very clear, explicit way.
That’s all I can think of for now. I hope this helps!
There are some great ideas here and I can think of a million more, but I will restrain myself! I just want to add a couple of things as food for thought:
Sign language isn’t speaking, but it is still verbal (the brain still processes it more or less the same as any other language), so many people (including me) are not able to sign when nonverbal despite being fluent in a sign language. However, many autistic people find signing more comfortable than speaking, so I definitely agree that more people would know how to sign, and it would likely be a second language requirement.
I have to be honest here… Although I have many autistic friends online, I don’t have many that I see regularly face to face. I think there is a reason that autistic people make up a minority of the human race, rather than the majority. For all our advantages, we often have conflicting needs, and we are not at all specialized for living in large groups the way allistic people are. Even though I like my autistic friends a lot, I don’t like spending a lot of time with them in person because they… get on my nerves. I mean in specific ways - for example, we have completely unrelated special interests, and they infodump about theirs for ages, and I have no interest whatsoever but don’t want to interrupt and seem rude (since I hate it when people do that to me). Or they stim and it bothers me. I’m extremely hypersensitive, including to movement, so if someone (besides me) is rocking back and forth or doing another repetitive motion near me, I can’t even open my eyes or I get overloaded. I love my autistic friends and I love the fact that I’m autistic, but I would not want to live in a completely autistic society - I’d have to hide away from other people and I’d become socially isolated even more than I am in this world. Note that this is my personal point of view and NOT true for all autistic people. But there WOULD be people like me who couldn’t deal with being around other people’s stimming, and we might not all get along as well as you might think.
On the positive side: all the things that are considered “disabilities” in this world with regards to autism would be seen as the norm. Not being able to speak some or all of the time would be considered a normal personality trait, like being good or bad at sports or drawing. Suddenly getting up and leaving a conversation due to overstimulation would be perfectly normal. It would be a given that normal respect for other people includes maintaining a quiet and calm environment as much as possible.
Another issue regards public spaces. There is something called “selective attention” which allows people to block out background sensory information and focus only on what is relevant to them at the moment (for example, listening to what one person is saying when there are other conversations happening nearby). In autistic people, this is usually very weak or completely nonexistent. It’s not possible for me to filter out background noise. If I need to meet someone for a conversation or work meeting, it MUST be in a quiet place. I am incapable of following a conversation when more than one person in the room is talking. I literally can’t unscramble their words from the words of other people and it just becomes a jumbled mess of gibberish that rapidly becomes painful. So how would things like restaurants work? Cafes? Parties? Assuming many or most people can’t hear what someone is saying when ANYONE else in the room is talking, how could you have spaces like that? Would they exist at all? Would their be some kind of magic (in a fantasy world) or tech (sci-fi) that can block out all sounds outside of the group you’re in?
Not trying to poke holes, but trying to point out possible issues that you should think about when creating your society. And as Cat mentioned, be very careful about painting a non-human race as “like humans but autistic”. Being autistic is not an inhuman state, and it can be very damaging to describe it as such, even if your intentions are good. I would be much more comfortable with a human all-autistic society than a non-human one. Maybe consider making the humans all autistic and code the elves as allistic. :P
If you keep all this in mind, I’d be interested to see what kind of society you might come up with. Good luck!
I am, along with SoM, a hardcore Harry Potter fan as well.
Holland shows many a Ravenclaw trait in the books, though it may be difficult to tell. The reason he could be hard to pin down is because in ADSOM we literally ONLY see the Holland that is controlled by Athos Dane. And that is far more a sign of Athos’s horribleness than anything Holland is as a person.
(As a side note, I would put Athos and Astrid in either Gryffindor or Slytherin, but we’d have to have V to conform to know for sure.)
In AGOS, however, we get to see more of who Holland really is. Even though he has Osaron in his head, Holland is in control of his actions for the majority of that book. He makes calculated risks, plans, and sacrifices to save his world.
He’s not doing it for the glory like a Gryffindor would, and he’s not doing it for the benefit to himself like a Slytherin would, or even for the benefit to others like a Hufflepuff would. He’s doing it, in my opinion, because it’s the logical, intelligent, best course of action.
He obviously loves his world, his London, but his motivations seem to have always been that he wants to do what is BEST. Not *right* necessarily, but *best*. Best for White London.
Now, since I’ve seen others (mostly on twitter) ask about the other three, let’s talk about them.
Lila is, I feel, pretty obvious. She has ambition coming out of her ears. She’s not always the most cunning, but she sure as hell wants to be. And she is more proactive and more competent than most main characters in almost any book you pick up. Delilah Bard does not wait for plot to happen to her. She goes out and she makes things happen.
When I saw that Rhy was Gryffindor I rolled my eyes and thought OF COURSE. I’m Gryffindor too, and I relate to Rhy in so many ways. He’s the life of the party when he wants and needs to be, and yet there’s an underlying fear of failure in his heart that I think most people don’t realize is very common for Gryffindors. He wants to be the very best, and he’s terrified he won’t be able to rise to the occasion. (But I believe he’ll make it. Don’t disappoint me, Schwab.)
Last of all, my dear Kell. I said I’m Gryffindor, which is true, but I have a lot of Hufflepuff in me as well. Kell’s loyalty is going to kill him someday (please not in ACOL). He owes everything to the Maresh crown, and he also knows they use him–which he feels is wrong. But he can’t justify walking away from the only family he’s ever known–even if it is problematic. Add Lila, flying into his life like a damn hurricane, and Kell finds someone else he could be loyal to, pulling him in multiple directions.
V said on twitter that Alucard opted out of Hogwarts, which makes sense all things considered. He would get cabin fever in that castle. So would Lila, to be fair. But if I had to guess where the Sorting Hat might put Alucard, I’d guess Ravenclaw. He’s a smart one, and he likes his wordplay. That’s a very Ravenclaw thing 😉
Any thoughts? Do you agree/disagree with my explanations? Let me know!
Punctuating Dialogue in English: A Fanfiction How-To
Punctuation in fiction can be tricky. There are some things we pick up really easily from reading, but who pays attention to how dialogue is punctuated? Not me! It’s one of those things you don’t think about until you find yourself constructing dialogue of your own, and you just do what seems rightish at the time.
When eager me first wrote and posted fanfiction online (back in 2001), the first thing that happened is that someone commented on it and told me how to punctuate my dialogue. Embarrassing, as I felt like I should have known better, but I am forever grateful to that person for steering me in the right direction. I learned a lot that day. This is me paying it forward.
Hi! I love all your posts, they are really useful, but I was wondering if you could do one about washing clothes. I'm moving out in a few weeks and the only thing I know is that you are supposed to separate you clothing according to colors... which colors? I have no idea. Help
Absolutely! Doing laundry on your own can be super stressful the first few times, but after you’ve gotten use to it, the routine becomes easy.
Washing Clothes 101
1. Don’t separate. In a perfect world, you would be color sorting your clothes to perserve the crispness of their colors. Unfortunately, this is not a perfect world and doing laundry is expensive! I don’t know a single college student who actually separates their whites from their colors, and I would advise you to follow our example and to wash everything together. If you have any pieces of clothing that are very fragile or delicate, set them aside in a bag. Wait until this bag is full, and do a separate wash for them on a delicate cycle.
2. Detergent. Buy whatever detergent is on sale at your local dollar store. Generally speaking, liquid detergent has more washes in it than pods do.
3. Making detergent. I’ve read some interesting arguments on Tumblr about how making your own detergent is more worthwhile than purchasing product. I actually found a post that broke down the pricing of everything. Based off of how much time/money they spent to put everything together and how many loads they got out of it, my fancy smancy 3-in-1 Tide Pods were 3x as cost effective. I would avoid making your own detergent, unless you know what you’re doing and really want to.
4. Cold vs Hot wash. Cold washes get stains out better and are more eco-friendly than hot washes. Period the end.
5. Do I need fabric softener? Fabric softener is not necessary at all! Its main purpose is supposedly to perserve the softness of your clothing’s fabric during its time in the washing/drying machines. And maybe it does, but not in a very noticeable way. What it does do is smell strongly, a smell that I happen to really enjoy, but not everyone does. That said, fabric softener is super inexpensive, and a bottle of it will last you a year because you only use a small amount per wash. So if you like the smell of it, absolutely- go for it!
6. Do I need dryer sheets? Once again, no you do not! Dryer sheets help keep your clothing from sticking together and getting staticky, which is something you will notice occasionally as you start doing laundry. That said, they are very similar to fabric softener in the way that they mostly act as a scenting agent. Unlike softener, they aren’t super inexpensive, but are supposedly reusable.
7. Card vs. Coins. Both of these are payment methods for washing machines. Some laundromats have both, most only offer one method. I personally prefer the card because it means that I don’t have to walk around with pockets full of quarters. But some laundromats will charge a small fee for the card and a larger fee if you loose it and need a new one.
Identifying Washing Machine Types
Unfortunately, there isn’t really a “once size fits all” method for operating washing machines. There are so many different brands of washing machines, all of them varying in age and efficiency. The best I can do is to break the machines into two different categories (pictured above).
The washing machine on the left is a newer model, the sort of machine that you will find in most laundromats. These machines are generally larger capacity, and are fully automatic.
On the right, we have the older model. These machines require more legwork and caution then their counterparts because they can overflow easily.
The Method (Washing)
How to Wash Clothes Using an Older Model
1. If you have liquid detergent, start by pouring it into the bottom of the washer. Generally one cap is enough for one full washer. If you’re using pods, see step 4.
2. Pile smaller items towards the bottom of the washer to avoid clogging the machine. If you have to place larger items like blankets on the bottom, make sure that they are situated loosely.
3. Be careful not to overload the machine! These machines are finicky and do not like to be overworked. Load clothes up to the top of the plastic tube that juts out from the center of the machine.
4. If you are using pods, now is the time to add them. Two detergent pods per normal laundry load.
Please note that the following two steps are interchangeable. It does not matter if you set the cycle first, or wait until adding your money before setting the cycle.
5. Set the machine to whatever type of cycle you have decided to use. For everyday clothes and blankets, use a normal, cold wash. Heavier washes will cost more money and take longer. Your average wash should only take a half hour.
6. Add your coins or use your payment card to start the machine.
7. If you want to add softener, you will need to wait until the “add softener” light turns on. This is about midway through your wash. You’ll pour the softener directly into the machine. You’ll notice how the machine stops running when you open the lid. It’s crazy what technology can do nowadays!
8. Wait until the washing machine finishes its cycle, otherwise the bottom will be filled with water and your clothes will be drenched.
9. Start moving your laundry into dryers.
How to Wash Clothes Using an Newer Model
1. Fill the machine with clothes, taking extra care to ensure that they aren’t packed tightly.
2. Locate and open the soap compartment located on either the side or top of the washer. Pour your detergent in the one marked “detergent”. If you are using pods, see step 5.
3. Add any softener you may wish to use into the compartment marked “fabric softener”.
4. Remember to close alls compartment, or else you might get hit with some water.
5. If you are using laundry pods, add them directly to the machine, dispersing them throughout the clothes. Two pods per normal laundry load.
Please note that the following two steps are interchangeable. It does not matter if you set the cycle first, or wait until adding your money before setting the cycle.
6. Set the machine to whatever type of cycle you have decided to use. For everyday clothes and blankets, use a normal, cold wash. Heavier washes will cost more money and take longer. Your average wash should only take a half hour.
7. Add your coins or use your payment card to start the machine.
8. This type of laundry machine has a security lock that activates after you have started the wash cycle. Nobody, not even you, will be able to access what is inside this washer until after it completes its cycle. Feel free to leave the laundromat and get some chores done in the meantime!
9. You will hear a distinct “click” after the washing machine has finished working. Start moving your wash into dryers!
The Method (Drying)
Unlike washers, all drying machines are essentially the same. They will all be oriented like the newer washer model.
1. Clean on the lint traps in the dryer before you even begin loading your clothing in. Find the lint trap and slide it open, use your hands to scrape the lint off the screen. Put this lint in the nearest receptacle.
2. Place the lint trap back in- the dryer will not run until it is fully secured.
3. Start loading clothes! It’s impossible to gage how powerful or efficient a dryer is until you try it. I recommend dividing your clothes between two dryers and running them for 30-45 minutes. If you want a more involved but faster method, divide your clothes between as many dryers as possible, and run them for the shortest amount of time.
4. Add your dryer sheets. The rule of thumb is two sheets per normal sized load.
5. Some machines have a one-size fits all cycle, which could be anywhere from 30-50 minutes. Other machines (most public machines) have a pricing system. My local laundromat has 15 minutes for 25¢, so I’ll put in a 75¢ for 45 minutes.
6. Select the cycle you would like to use on your machine. I aways recommend the hottest cycle to save money.
7. The first few times you do a load of laundry, you’ll have to keep checking your clothes for doneness. Dryers do not lock, so you can open them at any time to check your clothes. So can the creepy guy in the laundromat- so it’s best to keep an eye on them.
8. After your clothes are done, load them back into your laundry bin.
9. Remember to discard any dryer sheets, little shriveled up pieces of paper, etc from the inside of the dryer. I also like to be polite and to clean the lint trap for the next person.