anti-self harm

Charging Sigils

This is from sigilathenaeum’s page and I in no way claim it as my own. 

Earth: grounding, centering, nature, growth, life, creation, birth, fertility, health, the physical body, prosperity, money, savings, career, job, employment, business, maturity, age, boundaries, protection, home, family, trust, stability, reliability, practicality, strength, calm,

Air: voice, speech, eloquence, communication, intellect, memory, knowledge, information, education, school, song, music, youth, freedom, astral travel, mental power, divination, spirituality, finding lost things, happiness, joy, laughter, fairies, fae,

Fire: passion, desire, love, sex, sexuality, romance, protection (but with a kick), banishing, energy, inspiration, motivation, competition, athleticism, strength, empowerment,  ego, success, leadership, courage, bravery, anger, power, destruction, purification,

Water: fluidity, flexibility, change, adaptability, intuition, maturity, rebirth, renewal, mental health, emotions, sadness, dreams, sleep, psychic powers, travel, cleansing, beauty, appearance, healing, menstruation,

Sunlight: clarity, understanding, finding, truth, sight, vision, learning, school, education divination, confidence, happiness, mental health, anti-depressant, beauty, clear skin, perfection, talent, glory, prosperity, friendship,

Moonlight: dreams, sleep, astral travel, clairvoyance, potential, prophecy, mystery, secrets, love, menstruation,

Music: musical instruments, singing, dance, art, emotions, creativity, mix and match! (match the music to the intent: lullabies for sleep and dreams, love songs for relationships, etc.)

Personal Energy: confidence, anti-anxiety, self-love, self-harm, personal characteristics, anything personal,

My before you follow page for mobile users:

DO NOT INTERACT WITH ME IF

  • You are a minor that reblogs NSFW content, or has an NSFW blog
  • You are an//ti-c/gl (or any of it’s variants)
  • You are anti ANY age regression community (including chire, cglre, etc.)
  • You are a TERF
  • You are a MAP/MAP supporter/Pedophile
  • You post anti-recovery self harm/suicide or ANY photos of self harm (not including healed scars)
  • You do not support anyone in the LGBTQA+ community. This includes Asexual people.

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anonymous asked:

Lama ma tenteaza sa o incerc.

Arunc-o :) Si lasa-ti sentimentele sa curga prin moduri care nu te marcheaza. Ii sugerasem cuiva niste metode anti-self-harm, si o sa-ti dau si tie niste idei, sper sa ma asculti sa le pui in practica:

1. Ia un cub de gheata si freaca-l pe zona pe care ai vrea sa te ranesti

2. Ia o banda elastica (gen benzile pentru borcane) si ciupeste-te cu el pe zona respectiva

3. Deseneaza pe zona respectiva, cat sa acoperi zona (o sa te tina si ocupat/a)

4. La fel ca 1 si 2, insa foloseste o periuta de dinti

5. Stai cu zona respectiva sub apa rece (ca gheata)

6. Fa un dus sau o baie lunga

7. Ciupeste zona respectiva usor

Inafara de asta, poti incerca sa te descarci lovind o perna, poti sa te uiti la un film sau un serial ca sa-ti iei gandul pentru ceva timp, sa dormi (cel mai bun remediu), sa incerci retete noi de mancare (mie sincer imi ia gandul de la probleme, si ma ajuta sa ma relaxez), sau chiar sa faci yoga, de ce nu? Iti mai las aici o lista lunga de remedii si ajutor:

http://wrspc.ca/training-resources/alternatives-to-self-injury/

Cel mai important, fa-ti curaj sa-ti arunci lamele. Si nu mai lua altele.

#dee

anonymous asked:

Yeahhh shippers have also almost driven antis to self harm and suicide! There is no right or wrong there, there is no side to be taken when it comes to that. Neither shippers or antis should be driven out so far. Hate each other all you want, but death threats and that shit needs to stop! Both sides of this! This cannot be what our fandom has become!

I, for one have never sent hate in my life, I would never stoop so low. If I have something to say, I never go attacking, I just express how I feel and that’s that. I don’t go off my blog to go prodding people that don’t enjoy what I do, because there is no sense in it…in yet the antis can do what they wish to me and say they wish they could do physical harm to me. This was an ANON that lesbiananti got about me and all they could manage to do is call me pedophilic and that I deserve the hate basically. HOW IN THE HELL IS ANY OF THAT OKAY?

It’s okay not to ship something if it makes YOU uncomfortable, it’s okay to stay away from that side of the fandom or whatever, but these antis don’t do that. They make it a point to see out people that are just trying to enjoy something and call them everything in the book. The one I keep mentioning is KNOWN to toss the word pedophile at ACTUAL csa survivors that enjoy otayuri. 

There will be bad apples in every group and I am deeply ashamed of the shippers that condone doing such to people who don’t think the same as they do, but like you said, enough is enough. All this shit needs to stop…we need to agree to disagree–but I know antis won’t let it go, they never do. 

I was 11 when I found Onision’s channel, I loved those “abandoned by Disney” videos and guess who made those!
I quickly became obsessed with him and his crude humor and kinda just stopped functioning like a normal human being.
I’ve always hated myself and I guess he kinda upped that, all I learned from those “anti self harm” videos was that the only people who cut themselves were weak and disgusting and at that time I thought I was weak and disgusting and you can kinda guess what I started doing.
I saw it as some weird apology to him, like a “I’m gonna hurt myself because I can’t do these things” punishment(I just realized a lot of cults do that)
Eventually I stopped having the motivation to self harm and my suicidal thoughts controlled everything I did. Then when I started to feel a bit better I immediately thought “Onision helped me!” And stayed a fan until recently. After the Billie incident I kinda just, woke up.
I realized that he was horrifying and left the cult.

/I forgot to mention this, I tried to get help stopping my self harm from people but the only people I knew were onision fans from the internet who told me I was a weak disgusting cutter who’s been slitting their wrists in the wrong direction and should try the vertical way\

anonymous asked:

I understand this maybe a bad time as you have a family emergency which I hope works out, love. I am a self harmer and was wondering if you had any spells/chants/ritual/anything? I'm desperate, I wanna stop but I can't seem to. Thanks, love.

Hello hon, I also struggle with self harm. I have for a good five years now. Here are a few witchy things I do to combat it:

  • Lately, I’ve been wearing a clear quartz thing around my neck. When I was going through the tragedy my family and I experienced, and I began to feel like I couldn’t handle it anymore, I clutched the crystal. And I mean squeezed it. I felt all of the negative energy leave my chest and enter the crystal, and then I cleansed it every night in the shower. 
  • Anti-self harm sigils. 
  • I like to put glamour spells on my makeup, shampoo, facewash, moisturizer and toner to help me stay away from self destructive habits. Don’t destroy yourself, build yourself up. (that doesn’t necessarily mean wearing makeup every day or keeping a perfect skincare routine, but it means taking general good care of yourself and enchanting your products with glamours.) 
  • meditation. 
  • herbs and supplements that are scientifically proven to help with depression/anxiety such as vitamin D, St. John’s Wort, Valerian, Eucalyptus etc., and then enchanting those for an extra boost. 
  • I find that red crystals help a lot, specifically blood agate and carnelian. 
  • Spells that help overall depression, anxiety, self love etc. 
  • placing crystals with a calming energy on the areas of your body that you usually harm yourself on. 

An here are some non-witchy things: 

  • Therapy groups. I’ve been involved in several, including basic and advanced DBT, teen resource, and group family therapy. All of these taught me important skills and lessons, and if you have the insurance for it I highly suggest looking into these. 
  • Hospitalization. I was hospitalized two years ago for a suicide attempt and I cannot tell you how much being there changed my life for the better. 
  • Coping skills toolbox. 
  • listening to music
  • finding distractions like watching netflix, doing homework, cleaning, walking, etc. 
  • Talking with a close friend. About anything. It still helps regardless of whether or not you talk about the issue causing you to feel triggered. 
  • Talking about the issue with someone you trust, who is also not going to be triggered or overwhelmed. Ask them, “If I talk about this issue, will you be overwhelmed or unsafe?” 
  • Talking with a therapist or counselor
  • playing music
  • drawing on yourself. 

Best of luck, friend. I hope this helps.