anti lover

  • What I say: I love the 'enemies to lovers' trope
  • What people think I mean: I get off on violence. I think hate sex is the best, don't think healthy and stable relationships are 'interesting' enough, and I purposefully sabotage all my relationships. I frequently ship characters with their abusers and consider dragging someone along and domestic violence 'grey areas' because if you look at context it really just means they love each other.
  • What I actually mean: I love it when two people who hate each other, whether it be seemingly clashing personalities, or actual literal enemies (always enemies who balance each other out. Not 'anti-hero/villain guy constantly harasses heroine girl', but two people who are evenly matched and can hold their own against each other and even in hatred have somewhat respect for the other) who are fighting on opposite sides of a struggle, come together on equal ground and realize that they have more in common than they previously thought. When the two finally join the same side, whether it's due to the redemption of one character or what have you, they may not get along at first, but with time and effort the two eventually find themselves friends with the other. Only *after* they have an established trust and friendship do they then start to have romantic feelings for the other. The 'enemies to lovers' trope does not work if you cannot put 'friend' between the two.
💔 Unwanted Lover Spell 💔

a spell to repel unwanted lovers, and undo love spells

💔  gather: a rose burned to ash, and something representative of the person, a picture perhaps. burn it to ash

💔  if a love spell was performed prior to this, gather the pieces/ingredients you used for the original love spell. salt and burn what you can.

💔  mix these things together, then pour out into a little pile of ashes on the front or back step.

💔  chant these words over the ashes:

Get the fuck out of my life
I do not like you
You are causing me strife
Shove off, creep
.”

💔  sweep the ashes away into the wind with a broom, outdoors would be preferable. 

Rules of the Fangirls

These are important rules. Make sure to memorize all of them.

Warning for; A lot of sarcasm


  • Everything they say is correct. Everything you say is incorrect.
  • The mangaka is God, not a regular human who messes up every now and then. If you criticize anything the mangaka does, you’re a demon who should suffer.
  • If you criticize a character they adore, you deserve all the death threats you can get because harassing a real person and criticizing a fictional character are the same thing.
  • If you’re not happy with the ending of an anime or manga, you’re just salty because your ship didn’t become canon, even if your reason for being against it has nothing to do with shipping.
  • Whether you feel disgusted or get triggered because of an event in your past from seeing a certain pairing doesn’t matter. The fangirls are still allowed to try forcing their ship on you and eventually harass you if you refuse to bow down to their ship.
  • If they approach you with arguments and/or harassing comments and you give a good counter argument and/or a sassy reply, you’re the bully. 
  • Fake interviews are official because they consist of things the fangirls want to hear.
  • Headcanons are also official, even if there are canon evidence that proves otherwise.
  • Using headcanons as reference/source makes their arguments valid and strong enough to counter the official interviews and canon material you have.
  • Crosstagging is ok when the fangirls do it, but you’re not allowed to since you would be insulting them.
  • It’s forbidden to use moral and common sense. Pedophilia, incest, rape, sexual abuse and mental abuse are all fine in anime and roleplays. If you consider any of these things as disturbing, you’re delusional and shouldn’t even exist.
  • It’s also forbidden to use logic. Character development and romantic development aren’t necessary for a good story.
  • If their shipping doesn’t become canon or if something happens to the character they adore, it’s your fault, not the mangaka’s because - as previously mentioned - the mangaka is God.
  • You’re forbidden to have your own opinion. You need to have the exact same interest and dislikes as them otherwise there’s something wrong with you.


Those are the basic things you have to deal with in order to survive a fandom. I decided to write this after seeing a casual fan of an anime stating that they were afraid of telling others what ship they like since they were terrified of getting harassed by fangirls. This list consists of 14 reasons why you shouldn’t be afraid or take offense to their harassing comments and threats.There’s nothing wrong with not supporting a mangaka’s choice or having a different opinion, even if you’re a part of the minority. You shouldn’t feel upset just because the fangirls can’t accept how real life works.Have good day and good luck out there.

The one argument I can’t stand in Jily vs Snily thing is “People change”.

So, Snape can change but James can’t? Snape is a person but James is a…??

That’s what I thought. 

Yes people change. Yes Snape changed. No he didn’t change when he needed to, he changed when it was too late. I won’t be talking about the way he treated some of his students at the moment, no I won’t, that’s another story.

If you love Snily, okay whatever, your mind works differently than mine. Just stay out of Jily shippers’ blogs. Not that difficult to do. Just press block or unfollow, use tag blocker so many options y’know.

Boyfriend! Jin

(I’m sorry, I had to use this one because I’ve been thinking about it all day and laughing to myself im sorry)

Dating Jin would include:

  • so many backhugs
  • you’ll think you’re in the kitchen by yourself until he comes outta nowhere
  • and sNAKES his arms around your waist and kisses your cheek a million times until you’re giggling like a toddler
  • he literally hangs onto you as you move around the kitchen to finish cooking ramyeon
  • but right when you take the ramyeon from the stove, he shouts
  • “YAH Y/N I’LL JUST MAKE YOU SOMETHING”
  • “but jin i want ramyeon”
  • always goes ‘i’m-gonna-randomly-make-a-four-course-meal-for-you-right-now’ full force
  • jin has two modes
  • mom mode
  • and
  • cooking mode
  • and sometimes cuddly, lovey mode
  • and when he gets into his cuddly lovey mode, it lasts for hours and you love it
  • you’ll go to sleep at night and he’ll like when you lay your head and hand on his chest
  • and his arm will go around you and right as you’re drifting off to sleep he’ll kiss your forehead ajfdigbajg so cute
  • no fighting!!!
  • jin calls himself an anti-fighter
  • “i’m a lover y/n” 
  • he’ll say that whenever you pout about something and he’ll get all cute and touchy and pull you into his embrace and you’ll just MELT
  • you love him for his big heart
  • and you think he’s gonna be a great dad one day
  • when the two of you went to the grocery store, it was normal n stuff
  • you know, like
  • “jin what do you think about this lemon”
  • “how much is it”
  • “a dollar thirty-nine”
  • “if its not perfect dont get it”
  • (jin seems like a very frugal person)
  • BUT WHEN YOU HAD TO GO WITH ALL THE BOYS
  • jin’s mom mode really came out
  • you almost felt bad for him in between laughing attacks
  • jin had to dig jimin’s hand out from under a pile of watermelons that fell on him after looking for the best one
  • and had to punish taehyung and make him get in the cart for knocking an entire display down
  • when the two of you go on dates its hella romantic
  • jin seems like a plain-jane but when it comes to dates its single red roses and champagne and flower petals scattered around
  • and one time he took you on a boat he rented and ya’ll got it ON 
  • the sex is so sweet
  • jin’s the type to want to stay in his comfort zone
  • maybe try something new every once in awhile but he just enjoys getting to spend the time with you
  • always looking for ways to help you and comfort you
  • maths homework?
  • he’s got u
  • he’ll pull up a chair, put on some glasses and snatch the calculator from your hand
  • “jin do you even know what you’re doing”
  • “yes..actually can you explain it to me”
  • EVERYDAY you make fun of him by saying “stob it” when he does something like pull a chair out to sit down
  • he used to get mad but now he just laughs along with you
  • “i cant believe that was so long ago”
  • speaking of long ago you guys don’t really talk about the future
  • i feel like jin’s a very in the moment and somewhat spontaneous guy
  • like if there’s music and you’re at the studio watching dance practice he’ll purposely mess up so everyone will stop and he can go give you a lil kiss
  • or he’ll do the Dance Monster dance in the middle of the Blood Sweat & Tears rehearsal 
  • makes the choreographer sO angry but usually Namjoon joins in on the Dance Monster dance and you’re laughing so hard you can’t breathe
  • overall jin is just a sweetie and you love how big his heart is
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I think problematic ships are okay as long as you realize it’s problematic

As long as you don’t denied or down played the problematic aspect of it, it’s okay to ship it.

As long as you don’t try to sugar coated the problematic aspect of it, it’s okay to ship it.

As long as you try to addressed the problematic aspect of it in a healthy way, it’s okay to ship it.

Because not all aspect of problematic ships are bad, the same way that not all aspect of non-problematic ships are all good (ex: I know some non problematic ship that was portray in unhealthy and abusive way by its fandom but still played it as cute, personally for me THAT is even more problematic)

Interpretation are after all, what makes all of it matter in the end. 

“The feminist agenda is not about equal rights for women. It is about a socialist, anti-family political movement that encourages women to leave their husbands, kill their children, practice witchcraft, destroy capitalism and become lesbians.” - Pat Robertson

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