GoFundMe are anti-choice pieces of shit

They delete the accounts of people who raise money for abortions on the site, while they leave up campaigns to raise money for anti-choice organizations.

If you need to raise money for an abortion, use GiveForward, IndieGoGo Life, or FundAnything instead (actually, just use PayPal and list it as medical funds. This is your safest bet). Also, if you’re in the US, check out the National Network of Abortion Funds to see if they have funds in your area.

If you need to raise money for something else, consider this list of crowdfunding websites that are not GoFundMe. Don’t support anti-choice shitheads.

IMPORTANT UPDATE: YouCaring has also deleted someone’s fundraiser for an abortion. Do NOT use YouCaring to raise money for an abortion or other things.

Congrats anti-choice “pro-life” assholes who spread that “Planned Parenthood sells baby parts” bullshit that the Colorado shooter believed. Watch as they try to distance themselves from this, as though this fervor isn’t exactly what they try to create, as though they didn’t actively encourage these kinds of attitudes with hatred and gross misinformation. 

Prompted by Trump’s disturbing and horribly inaccurate statements about “partial birth abortions” in the last Presidential debate, this woman shared her experience with late-term abortion on Facebook.

Late term abortions are rare, but necessary procedures, done only when the parent’s health is at risk, or the fetus is non-viable. It’s a difficult decision to make, and the government should not be involved in it in any way.

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anti-choicers need to realize that instead of trying to make abortion illegal, they need to erradicate the need for abortion in the first place.

better sex education, easier access to birth control, a more efficient foster care system, etc. etc.

making abortion illegal isn’t going to solve any problems.  it’s only going to create more.


The Penalty That Working Moms Pay For Having A Kid Starts Right Here

When 118 countries are ahead of us on this, you know we’ve got work to do. And it’s not just moms — we dads could use some paid time off with the new arrival as well.

For a country that pretends to care about kids, we sure do suck at it.

I Am Pro-Choice

I am pro choice because 51% (6.6 million) of pregnancies in the US are unintended, and I have no right to tell women to just “stop having sex.” Neither do you.

I am pro choice because being a parent, especially a single parent, is extremely difficult. In 2009, only 41.2% of single parents were paid all of the child-support dues that they were owed. 29.2% of single parents received none of the child support payments that they were due. In other words, most people fail to fulfill child support requirements, making lives harder for the single parent, and the child.

I am pro choice because raising a child is expensive. In 2008, 65% of unintended pregnancies that resulted in births were paid for by public insurance programs. This is due to the fact that most unintended pregnancies happen to low-income and poor women.

I am pro choice because we do not have mandatory sex-education programs nationwide. Approximately 85% of high schools in the US teach abstinence more frequently than contraceptive use, which is proven to be ineffective. In fact, teen pregnancy rates in states that predominately use abstinence-only programs have much higher pregnancy rates than states that require actual sex education.

I am pro choice because 3/10 teenage women will face pregnancy in the US, and these adolescents who become mothers are destined for educational issues. Only 40% off teenage mothers will graduate high school, and only 2% will earn a college degree by the age of 30.

I am pro choice because, contrary to popular belief, abortion is not synonymous to killing a human being. 90% of abortions occur within the first twelve weeks of pregnancy. Not until after this point in pregnancy does a fetus have fully functioning lungs, a proper circulatory system, a urinary tract, etc. The fetus doesn’t even experience substantial sensory development until around 19 weeks. Also, fetal viability generally doesn’t occur until 24 weeks. It is very rare for a fetus to survive outside of the womb prior to that point, and those who are born significantly early, yet survive, are much more likely to develop illnesses and disorders.

I am pro choice because 1/6 women will experience an attempted or completed rape in her lifetime, and an estimated 5% of these women will become pregnant.While the percentage may seem low, it is still substantial. It is estimated that somewhere between 25,000 and 32,000 women become pregnant from rape annually in the US.

I am pro choice because there are currently over 153 million orphans in the world, yet there are people in the US hellbent on “saving” fetuses while completely ignoring the actual living children in need of saving.

I am pro choice because unsafe abortions are the number 5th leading cause of maternal death worldwide, out of the overall 287,000 maternal deaths per year. Restricting reproductive rights will only make it worse. Other women often suffer from hemorrhaging, ectopic pregnancies, toxemia, etc. Not to mention that many women must stop taking certain medications during pregnancy, such as many stimulants, for an example. For anyone who regularly requires a stimulant and forgets a dose, imagine doing that for 9 months.

I am pro choice because a child should be brought into this world only when it is able to be cared for and provided for, which many people are incapable of doing due to costs, health, age, and many other factors.

And most of all, 

I am pro choice because a woman’s body belongs to herself and no one else. 

It really bothers me when people say that abortion is “always a difficult choice”. 

What if it isn’t? What if the pregnant person always knew they would get an abortion if they got pregnant? What if they were relieved after the abortion? What if they were excited to sign the paperwork and get this over with? 

Normalize abortion. It’s a medical procedure. You don’t have to feel badly or tormented for getting one. 

I donated my aborted embryo.

A few years ago, I got pregnant.

After relationships exclusively with women for many years, I got rusty on birth control. So, when my cis male partner and I paired up, I made an appointment for an IUD. Sometime during that three month wait, a condom broke, and I got pregnant.

I took a test right around 4th of July, so Planned Parenthood was closed for the holiday. I made an appointment for the Monday following the 4th; I was about 4 weeks along. I considered going to my personal GYNO, but my insurance through a private catholic university did not cover birth control or abortion. So, I needed a place that offered income based reductions.

Because I was so early on, I went through several blood tests and ultrasounds to determine that I actually was pregnant. Everything was professional, except that one clumsy blood draw-but that’s to be expected one in a while. After the tests, I settled into the waiting room full of women in paper gowns for a few hours.

During my intake interview, the counselor asked if I wanted to participate in a research study that would result in my tissue being used in cultures. As an academic, I was thrilled to be able to participate in ongoing medical research, and I happily signed the form. I was very happy that my tissue would be used to help people in some small way.

During my procedure, they confirmed my decision to participate in the research study and moved through what I imagine is a normal abortion. None of the consent forms or follow up conversations with the researchers involved compensation. There was no mention of PP getting any funds or recognition for their participation. This was a legitimate case of medical professionals assisting one another in research.

That’s it.

No body parts. No coercion. No pay day. Just research.

Oh, and in case you’re thinking PP is only about abortions, I’d like to note that they offered me sliding scale contraception in my early 20s when I needed it for hormonal regulation, GYNO exams, and STD testing. Without PP, I would have never been able to afford to take control over my own health care.

I’m becoming more and more convinced that the anti-choice movement is less about “the sanctity of life” and more about control. Is this a new revelation? No, but it’s really starting to sink in.

You are not a bad person for having an abortion. You are not a “baby killer”, you are not going to Hell, you are not a monster.

You are also not a bad person if you don’t feel bad about your abortion. Be happy, be relieved! If that’s how you feel, that’s how you feel and there’s nothing wrong with that.

You made the choice that was best for you. You took care of yourself. Never let anyone give you shit for that.