another part of me

when i was like 14, i once wore contact lenses instead of glasses to school bc i had just learned how to put them on and i wanted to show them to my friends right, and this one guy goes and tells me “i thought girls were supposed to become beautiful when they stopped wearing glasses. something obviously went wrong with you” and that was??? so incredibly rude i wanted to cry but i just stood there not knowing what to say bc i honestly thought we were friends

but the girl sitting in front of him (who was also his crush, mind u) hears him and turns around with the most disgusted expression on her face, and calls him out on it like “omg i cant believe you said that have you even seen yourself in a mirror you have no right to tell her shit” and then she turns to me and says “dont listen to him, you look gorgeous with or without glasses” and she probably already forgot about that but i always remember it whenever i feel self-conscious about myself

so the moral of the story is: if u see someone being a jerk to someone else, dont laugh along and call them out on it. stick together and bring all the fuckboys down

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    ♪   vic’s anime jukebox (4/?)  ♬     ♪    
cardcaptor sakura openings (requested by @tachibana–chan)

I would have traded my A’s for his B’s and charisma in a heartbeat. I don’t say this to point out his flaws but to try and offer some perspective. Everything he does seemed to be effortless, even now; watching him leap around a stage in front of thousands of people, he seems untroubled and free from self-doubt. It’s easy to be jealous - he’s one of those people who are just good at things, we all know one - but to assume this means he takes it all for granted, or doesn’t worry, or try, would be oversimplifying him unfairly. His bundles of talent are a mixture of natural ability and intense heart.
—  Gemma Styles on Harry 
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random bromance moments for anon ☆

it bothers me how little people are aware of what boundaries are and why they are important. that people think real love or real intimacy means no boundaries, when for me, respecting another person’s autonomy is a part of a healthy loving relationship. being smothered in a relationship, assuming all access all the time, disregarding another person’s personal space or need for time apart, not respecting privacy or adjusting behavior to make sure the other person isn’t uncomfortable is disgusting to me.

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WHY NOBODY TALKS ABOUT THIS, THIS IS PERFECTION X’D