Solangelo is love, Solangelo is life. No sorry. I should stop now. I love you. You are amazing. Wait I really need to stop now. One more NICO DI ANGELO IN AN OVERLARGE HIDEOUS YELLOW HOODIE (that Will forced him into bc 'Nico you'll get frostbite!')
#imagine him and zoe getting new clothes for him ;___; IM SO HAPPY SOMEONE ELSE WANTS TRANS CONNOR AND SUPPORTIVE ZOE
okay buckle up my dude, because zoe would be so supportive of him??? she’s supportive, she just wants them to have a good relationship and him coming out as trans could help that like??? bruh imagine
Zoe suddenly finds her sister wants to be her brother, and as the transition happens slowly but surely, their relationship grows with connor’s happiness?? like it doesn’t solve everything but fuck, at least they’re talking now
Connor gives all his old clothes to her, unsure what to really do with them. She loves them and helps him buy new ones in return, im talkin target, im talkin old navy, im talkin late night shopping on amazon “You know what size binder you’d wear” “no fucking clue” “Alright, we’ll get two and return what doesn’t fit”
Zoe being there for connor when he changes his name??? being there when he tells his parents??? Being there while he finally accepts himself/?? just BEING THERE
Her being proud every time she notices his voice is a little deeper or he’s got some stubble
everytime he’s annoying she’s like “ugh you’re such a boy” and connor just??? smiles??? like yes, thank you, i am a boy and she doesnt even care she’s just like ??? my brother is annoying but he’s still my brother
in conclusion, zoe murphy would fight for trans connor even if their relationship was rough, thanks
is bisexuality transphobic? idk as a non binary person I feel nervous&confused exploring relationships w ppl who identify as bi (but express interest in me)
*Cracks knuckles* Alright Anon you just found a cornerstone of the bi discourse from, like, 2015, so I’m going to settle this.
Bisexuality is defined by the bi community* as attraction to two or more genders**. This can be confusing because of the existence of polysexuality (attraction to several genders) and pansexuality (attraction to all genders). Unfortunately a lot of people assume that bisexuality means you’re attracted to cis men and cis women, which is false and also inherently transphobic. Bisexuality is not inherently binarist or transphobic. In fact, I know a lot of nonbinary people, myself included, who identify as bisexual.
*Obviously not a monolith. Other definitions include attraction to one’s own gender and also other genders, which still doesn’t exclude trans people.
**Dividing up by genders seems kind of ridiculous to me bc of gender expression things but y’all get it.
Since I’m on Raven’s blog, I’ll mention those interactions in particular.
Raven’s heart-to-hearts with Valentino are always a treat to write. The two are so sweet and affectionate with each other that I can’t help but feel warm inside when I write with Jupiter. - @of-illusions-and-lies
Also, I have to say that Ace thinking Raven looked pretty during their Olive Garden thread was totally adorkable xDD Actually, so was Ace giving Raven those gummy bears for her potion I mean, jello shots. - @pxrtgasdace
Zack giving Raven a much-needed hand after getting into a fight was pretty sweet too! - @lanxhu
I also find it oddly cute that Aya and Raven are stuck in a closet and having a casual conversation while there’s a fight outside. - @theoceanslibrarian
I am a pansexual autistic. This ask isn't about my situation specifically but rather something I am having difficulty understanding. Why is having a genital preference considered transphobic? If you can have physical preference for a certain gender, why not for genitals? What if someone couldn't maintain arousal/has sensory issues with certain genitals? Dating isn't just be about the physical side but for some a fulfilling sex life is important for a healthy relationship.
Okay, so, the thing is that having a genital preference in and of itself isn’t the problem. Having a genital preference can occur for many reasons and the personal choice to not have sexual contact with a particular set of genitalia, for whatever reason, is perfectly acceptable.
The problem lies in subsequent generalizations. Refusing to date “men” because you hate dick is transphobic, and refusing to date “women” because you hate vaginas is also transphobic. There’s a big difference between “I don’t want to date trans men/women* because having sexual contact with their particular set of genitalia is not a comfortable experience” and “I don’t want to date trans men/women because they’re trans”.
The big bottom line about people, though, is that you can’t make huge, overarching generalizations, especially not about what people may or may not have in their pants. So the problem isn’t the preference itself, but the generalizations that you can get caught up in.
ok but what would u wear on ur date with namjoon? ;)))))
you say it like there is already one planned in the future ahah, I’m going to do a post on this because I got some notes.
so this is an outfit I actually have, except for the phone case, if I’d have a date with Namjoon I’d wear this, and maybe a leather/denim jacket if it’s fall/spring or a coat when winter, but I’d go with an easy mascara, no lipstick, maybe chapstick, and an easy white choker and my fav AC/DC t-shirt (I actually have this one I’m wearing it right now lololol) and I’d wear ripped jeans maybe not ripped jeans but at least black and skinny (I’m a sucker for skinny jeans) so yeah!
NOT that this is my current obsession or anything but definitely a J2 college AU with like classic shy-nerd-also-a-size queen Jensen and young, hung, sex-on-two-legs Jared who was popular in high school and likes to party. And they have a meet cute where Jared is drunk and he’s like rolling around in a big ol’ pile of classic American campus fall leaves because he fell probably, when Jensen comes across him and trips over his buried body and that’s how he loses a shoe, which they then have to spend a while digging around in the leaves for and they probably end up a little tangled up together. And that’s their first date. And Jared teaches Jensen to lighten up a little and Jensen teaches Jared to be quiet a little and they watch a lot of Netflix with fancy popcorn from the school’s cafe and it’s SOPPY BEAUTIFUL LOVE.
1. What’s one experience your character had that made them very afraid?
Her fiancé was murdered
5. Would they ever turn on someone they just met in order to save themselves?
10. What were the character’s parents like? What was the affect the parents had on the character?
Her biological parents died in a car accident when she was 8, but her adoptive parents have always been very supportive of her and even pushed her to pursue an artist career when she felt like giving up, so it’s affected her quite positively.
13. What does it take to make your character cry?
Give Reid a paper cut
20. What was something they struggled with greatly and how did they overcome it?
The loss of her parents/her fiancé, and you’ll have to read to find out ;)