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@ first comment yes just because they have intrusive thoughts about it doesnt /make/ them a pedophile but i was basically saying it as a way to like? show that i dont think intrusive thoughts are evil unless you act on them (coming from someone who sometimes has disturbing intrusive thoughts) its more to comfort ppl and say that i dont believe theyre a bad person for the intrusive thoughts.
<p> @ second comment honestly? i feel like that would still count as /offending/ pedophiles because theyre not actively steering away from doing that to kids. basically, if you touch or manipulate or hurt kids in anyway i dislike you and consider you a pedophile. </p>

anonymous asked:

ive been meaning to ask whats mogai hell? ive looked up the term mogai but i havent encountered mogai tumblr so im not sure what they are notorious for

its just like people who think that mogai is a better acronym and community than lgbt. ppl who believe that biphobia doesnt stem from homophobia, ppl who believe in monosexual privilege (ugly ugly ugly concept that puts lesbians and gay men with straight ppl lmao) ppl who think that cisheteromantic aces and cisheterosexual aros r inherently lgbt yada yada

notorious for saying shit like “at least yall HAVE nightclubs” in response to the pulse shooting that killed 49 lgbt latinxs, notorious for saying shit like “gay men brought aids upon themselves” and calling trans women and lesbians evil…. its a truly terrible place and i hate it.

anonymous asked:

hi i have a genuine question but i hope it doesnt come across as intrusive or rude :s im very curious about islam as a religion. ive always seen two very different stand points when it comes to islam, some people say its a very anti-women and bad religion for women and theyre forced to wear hijab (?), but then i know a bunch of rad feminists who preach that its lovely. im just a little confused and would love some clarification from someone who knows whats going on :) thanks so much!

You will find that people who say these things have no idea what they are talking about.

Quranic ayaat:

“Indeed, the Muslim men and Muslim women, the believing men and believing women, the obedient men and obedient women, the truthful men and truthful women, the patient men and patient women, the humble men and humble women, the charitable men and charitable women, the fasting men and fasting women, the men who guard their private parts and the women who do so, and the men who remember Allah often and the women who do so - for them Allah has prepared forgiveness and a great reward.” [33:35]

Their Lord responded to them: “I never fail to reward any worker among you for any work you do, be you male or female - you are equal to one another…” [3:195]

Hijab is prescribed to both men and women. They are to wear loose garments. Women cover their hair, Men wear trousers that must not cover their ankles, Men cannot wear a certain shade of red, Men must grow a beard, Men are not allowed to wear Gold jewellery but Women can, Men are advised to wear caps on their head etc. Both are to act modestly and with good character. 

Women do not have to cover their faces but some do for further modesty.

One of the most treasured and respectable scholars of Islam is a woman: Aisha (RA), the wife of the Prophet Muhammad (SA) All the men went to her for knowledge and as an expert in Islam. 

The Prophet Muhammad (SA) adamantly encouraged education for women and abhorred violence against women, especially the practice of burying alive female babies. 

Men and Women have different roles in Islam but all the responsibilities even out. 

Example: Women are not required to be responsible for children after they have weaned and are free to seek education and work. They do not technically have to look after their children and whatever money or property she has is hers alone. Men on the other hand, are obligated to share his belongs with his wife and family and be responsible for the children. 

Men and women have the right to refuse marriage. Islam encourages marriage and strong family units. It is not compulsory however. Marriage without consent is an illegal marriage. 

Sexual assault and rape has the severest punishment. 

it is haram to comment on the private and sexual life of men and women. 

Islam recognises that gender roles change over time and that context of Islamic rulings will change. 

The interpretations of Quran and hadith come with a lot of context. It requires a lot of understanding of Islamic history, Islamic ruling and of the original Arabic text. You can’t make ruling from the English translation because the English lacks a lot of the layered meaning. It is easy for someone with bigoted beliefs such as sexism and misogyny to stumble upon a verse and run with it. 

Islam has simple fundamentals of Belief in God, Salah-meditation/prayer, Fasting,  Zakah- Charity and Hajj- Pilgrimage- if you have the wealth and are abled to. But a lot of the religion needs a very educated and trained eye to decipher and interpret it.

Nearly all non-Muslims I come across barely know the very superficial, surface of Islam so I always find it comical when they comment on it. They tend to have the strangest misconceptions such as killing yourself for God when suicide is not condoned in Islam under any circumstances. 

i love when people call people with cluster B pds inherently abusive, as if they know everything that is to know about cluster B and they know everything about me as well, like yeah, you go you person who probably would hide behind anon just to argue with anyone.

and really, the only vaguely abusive behavior happening is coming from you! i love when people try to tell me how i feel and what i meant by something especially when i can’t remember myself. i love when people tell me what im doing and saying is manipulative on the basis of cluster B and leaving me confused and scaring me into thinking its my fault! doesnt that sound manipulative to you?

like do people forget the majority of the time cluster B, and more specifically the disorders I want to talk about, BPD and NPD, forms because of abuse? do they know NPD and BPD is a defense mechanism? ive talked about this months ago, how NPD usually forms because a person forms the mindset and symptoms to better themselves when theyre literally treated as if theyre nothing at all! its a coping mechanism first and foremost, does and can it affect relationships and the like afterwards? yeah, because its. a Disorder. disorders impair the person who has it and affects their life a lot. 

ill repeat that. Disorders impair the person who has it. Not the people around them, the PERSON. Because do people really think NPD is a joy ride which someone develops out of their own benefit to hurt people? Do they really forget that. I dont know. Its a mental illness and no matter what it hurts the person more than it does anyone else. 

In fact, if we want to go into what the dsm says, do people forget this, “My symptoms impair my personality and social functioning”

or even this whole section: 

  • I have cognition problems and difficulty perceiving myself, other people, and events.
  • I have affectivity problems and difficulty controlling the range and intensity of my emotional responses.
  • I have problems with interpersonal functioning and being aware of my own actions and feelings.
  • I have difficulty controlling my impulses.

God, it’s almost like its not fine and dandy!!!!

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To the anon-san who has been chewing me out saying aoinga had said she doesnt want her art reposted by anyone and how I steal art,me, er-chan and planetmilkthings managed to contact her .I asked her on both my accounts one in english and one in japanese on my official unisonraidd one and ironically she has yet replied to the English one which was a surprise.BUT as you see the artist has no problem with her art being reposted.Just wanted to put this here for anon to see :3 and all the other gruvia blogs who repost from her to know its alright^^

Okay can I just like talk about something.

Okay, so basically I’m here to set these fucking anons straight.

So this is @ any anon who basically sent/ or still sends hate.

1) Who are you? Why are you hiding behind an ugly ass circle? Oh that’s right you are a cowardly bitch who can’t hate on someone and actually say it to their face, but no, you have to hide behind a fucking circle.

2 ) “ Your blog isn’t even good ” from Anon : HEY BUDDY. THAT IS YOUR OPINION. MAYBE I LIKE HIS/HER BLOG. WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE. And even if I PERSONALLY DONT LIKE SOMEONES BLOG? I don’t fucking go in their ask box and say something to them. I just leave their blog and go about my day. How about you just not voice your opinion because it’s clearly irrelevant, like you.

3) “you are worthless ” from anon : UMM WHAT! OKAY IT DOESNT MATTER IF YOU SAID THIS TO A FRIEND OF MINE, A FAMILY MEMBER, OR MAYBE SOMEONE THAT I DONT EVEN KNOW. THAT PERSON IS NOT WORTHLESS. THEY ARE WORTH SO MUCH AND AO FUCKING IMPORTANT. DO YOU KNOW WHO IS WORTHLESS HERE?? ITS YOU YOU SCUL OF THE EARTH ASSHOLE.

4) “ ew your sexuality makes me wanna puke ” from anon : HEY BUDDY, ITS 2015. 20FUCKING15. First off, ITS LEGAL TO BE YOURSELF NOW. ITS ACCEPTED BY OVER HALF THE POPULATION. AND THERE IS A WHOLE GROUP OF PEOPLE THAT WILL EXEPT THE PERSON YOU SENT THIS TOO AND ISNT AFRAID TO TEAR YA ASS UP. Good day

5) “ kill yourself ” from anon : Do I really need to even go over how FUCKED up it is to say this to someone? Because if you don’t understand why it’s so FUCKED up, you need physiological help.

6) “ your ugly ” from anon : So is that circle you are hiding behind hunty. You need to realize that people are beautiful in their own way. Hey maybe that person just realized that she is beautiful or he is beautiful and an ugly ass circle just ruined their day. Congratulations fucktard you need fucking help. Oh and if you think that hiding behind a circle is gonna cover up your ugly face, then by all means go ahead. But you sir, are the scum of the fucking earth. Bye dicktard.

7) “ your fat ” from anon : LITERALLY WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU SAY SHIT LIKE THIS TO SOMEONE. Literally, this one makes me wanna puke. You cannot tell someone about their own fucking body. Okay. Are you a doctor? No. Are you an asshole? FUCKING YES. You need to understand that beauty comes in all shapes and sizes and you need to stop listening to the media on what you think “ pretty ” or “ accepted ” is. You really need a reality check hunny, and try and get it asap. Thank you.

And if you, reading this is getting anon hate, listen to me, because I’ve been there. These people just want to ruin your day. And you can’t let them win. They literally have no relevance because they are hiding behind a circle with some crusty ass glasses.

Just know that those people that send you anon hate are cowardly and deserve nothing.

Come to me if they are bothering you, just tag me and I’ll set their asses straight.

Peace out ✌🏼️

anonymous asked:

just because its your opinion doesnt mean it wont offend people though

yeah but this is the topic of religion, and i’m getting so many messages from speicifically angry christians, who apparently think their religion is the best and the only, and that’s why they’re offended. i literally didn’t say anything offensive in my original post, and i have every right to have my own religious opinions as does everyone else, at LEAST i’m not being an asshole about my agnosticism and trying to shove it down everyones throats like some of these anons are doing with me :///////