Before you say yes, get him angry. See him scared, see him wanting, see him sick. Stress changes a person. Find out if he drinks and if he does get him drunk - you’ll learn more about his sober thoughts. Discover his addictions. See if he puts you in front of them. You can’t change people. If they are made one way, it doesn’t just wear off and if you hate how he acts when he’s out of it, you’ll hate it much worse eight years down the road. You might love him to bits but it doesn’t change that some people just don’t fit.
—  Something my dad taught me

ok but i get so fucking frustrated when people point out that kpop idols “look like girls” because they wear make up like wtf does that define a person of being a girl are girls that don’t wear make up considered as boys i don’t think so why should paint you put on your face to highlight your features be considered as something that defines a gender that doesn’t make sense in every way