androgynous female

solidarity idea:

nb people who experience neither manhood nor womanhood + those who experience both manhood and womanhood

nb people who don’t feel like they are male- or female-aligned + nb people who feel like they’re both male-aligned and female-aligned

nb people who are neither mlm/achilleans nor wlw/sapphics + those who are both mlm/achilleans and wlw/sapphics

agender people, genderless people, maveriques and others + multigender people, genderfluid people, androgynes and others

Ok, people, let’s get this written because it seems that some of you can’t understand.


MAN is a gender.

STAR is not.

WOMAN is a gender.

MUSIC is not.

THIRD GENDER is a gender.

DOG is not.

AGENDER is a gender. (Genderness, sorry, my mistake)

AUTISM is not.

GENDERFLUID is a gender.

DARKNESS is not.

BIGENDER is a gender.

OCEAN is not.


Trans people are valid. Non binary people are valid. It’s ok if you can’t understand your gender and/or put a label in it. It’s also ok if you don’t want to label your gender. But, please, don’t make genders out of things that aren’t genders.

  • It’s ok if your gender is something that you can’t describe, but it isn’t “otherworldly”, it is on the earth with you right now… Galaxies, constellations, planets, stardust… They are not genders.
  • I love music. Many people do. You can really, really like music and get really, really happy whenever listening to a song, but that’s not a gender.
  • Some people are otherkin, it’s ok. But your kin can’t be your gender. Animals aren’t genders, get it? You can’t be “caninegender” and use dog/dogs/dogself.
  • If you have any mental issues, like anxiety, depression, anything, it’s ok, but that’s not your gender. Of course being neurodivergent may interfere in the connection and understanding of your gender, but… They are not genders.
  • Ground, plant, fire, water, steel, darkness, electric… This are pokémon types, not genders. I hope I don’t have to explain this one.
  • Your gender can be fluid, but not literally. I’ve seen a large amount of people saying that their gender is ocean. And it’s not.

Thank you for reading this. And, remember:

Some things are genders, and some things are not.


My Name is Matilda.

I am an actor/musician/singer/artist/feminist/vegan/gay 💁🏻‍♂️

I studied Drama for 3 years, since graduating I have gained an agent, attended many auditions, been offered a film role and gotten involved in a number of unpaid projects. This year I want to make even more progress, all I need is help from you lovely people! Please follow me or reblog this post, feel free to ask me any questions or if you have any valuable advice about breaking into the film industry (preferably the lgbt film industry) I’m all ears! THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE OF TUMBLR! Peace and love to everyone ✌🏽

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~My Gender Explination~

Everyone is born with a light that effects how each person sees the world and even how we feel. They vary in brightness and color. Most people have a light that is always the same. They get so use to it that they stop noticing how it colors their world. Mine light isn’t that simple.

I was born with a light that can change its color and brightness. Most of the time, my light is similar to magenta, only with a bit of blue mixed in. People call it pink and I’m okay with that. It’s close enough to magenta even if it isn’t an exact match.

Some days, my light turns completely magenta. It’s kinda rare for me. I’m usually fine with it, but sometimes it’s such a bright blinding magenta that it can get annoying. I can’t change my light myself though because it works on its own, so I accept the color and intensity and keep going.

There are days when the color of my light is made up of equal parts magenta and blue. It creates a pretty color, but the color is not pink. For years I didn’t understand why I didn’t like it when people looked at my light on those days and called it pink. Eventually I realized it was because the colors together created violet. My friends were happy to finally have a word to call my light on those days, but not everybody was so kind.

Some days, my light is turned off or is just barely on at all. On those days, I don’t care what color others call my light. Unlike violet days, the color that people call me doesn’t seem to matter when it’s like that. However, everybody is different and some people appreciate their absence of light acknowledged.

It’s weird that some people think I can chance my light if I try hard enough. I don’t pick a random color out of a hat just to frustrate others either. I was born with this light and even before I knew what to call its colors, it was always there.

The cool thing about having a light that changes colors and brightness is that it pushed me to learn about a bunch of different lights that I would have never learned about otherwise. I can only imagine what it’s like for people with a green light, white light, or a light that is always out, but I’m really happy they exist because they see the world differently than everybody else and there’s nothing wrong with that. ^_^


Light: gender

Brightness: how intensely you feel your gender

Magenta: female

Blue: male

Violet: androgyne or bigender (depending on the person and how they define the term)

Absence of light: agender

Green: third gender

White: pangender