Okay but have you considered the idea that Victor neglecting his two L’s - love and life for most of his life
may be connected to his falling in love with Yuuri on the night of the banquet?
I mean, this is just my assumption and I know it’s hard to believe but… what if Victor is actually a virgin/is really sexually inexperienced?
What if Victor himself didn’t understand love until he met Yuuri?
What if that’s why he wants to spend the rest of his life with him?