and you lose some

How did you lose her?”

“There are some people that you can’t just like. You have to love them with everything that you have. And she deserved more than what I could give.
—  L.A.L. || How You Lose Her

anonymous asked:

Queen, how do I get ready for a breakup? I believe my bf is going to breakup with me today since we had a fight and he posted on snapchat how he was "tired of putting up with bullshit" and now I'm kinda just waiting for the text to happen. I'm kinda just lost, angry, and upset all at once

Alrighty, I have some advice, don’t worry. First of all, you’re going to want to stick to logic with this. Don’t blame yourself for everything, don’t blame him for everything, keep it even. Second, take a deep breath and realize that it is going to hurt. When it does hurt, you don’t want to absolutely lose it. So get some stuff ready to cope.

Here are some ideas for you to help you cope and make it better if he does:

  • Keep yourself in mind. It’s now about your improvement. Whether on loving yourself, loving others, or just general improvements needed.
  • Buy yourself a teddy! Make it your happiness bear, the teddy you cuddle when you’re sad or hurt. I used to have an olaf (I miss him :( rip) that I cuddled when I needed happiness.
  • Clean your room and reorganize! Trust me, it will help.
  • Listen to 21st Century Girl by BTS for confidence. Trust queen, queen knows that this song will empower you. 30/10 makes me wanna throw my ass back and love myself.
  • Have two playlists set! A sad one for when you need to bawl your eyes out and a happy one for before and after the sad one, so you can feel better and happier.
  • Start working on good habits! You know your bad habits more than anyone, now is the time to take a deep breath and work on one.
  • Remember that it’s okay to be hurt! It happens, relax, cry a little.
  • Splurge yourself with some fancy something or clothes to help feel better.
  • Two options for this. If you come to the realizations of your problems in the relationship, you can either write a letter out (that you don’t send) or a text message. DON’T beg for forgiveness and to get back in the relationship. Your only goal here is to say “Hey, I messed up and you messed up. I don’t want us to be on bad terms, so I’m sorry for any stress I put you under!” THAT’S IT.
  • Realize that if you’re not together, that’s okay.

Love yourself, Love myself

You Never Walk Alone xoxoxoxoxo

SHINEE’s Jonghyun left us at 27.  SHAWOLS deserve a warm hug from every fandom right now.

You all know how we feel sad when our artist has the smallest bruise on their body or do not tweet for 2 days and we start missing them … imagine losing the one who gave you some hope and joy in life forever. 

Shawols, dear Shawols. beautiful Shawols who are as blue and impressive as the vast sea. As a BTS’ ARMY, I will stand by you. And as a human, I will cry with you. Even if you grieve, be proud you followed that man. I am another group’s fan but I knew all along how very respected, talented and loved he was. He also took care of BTS along with the other Shinee members. They are great and loving seniors.

He may have left this world but every artist who touches hearts lives forever. So bear him warmly is your core. And draw him smiling and happy in your memory.

Originally posted by herewegobebe

Shinee is a gem that needs to keep on shining like it always did. It’s at this time that you will need to stand by them the most. Stay strong and united. 

My deepest condolences go to his family, friends, fans, and Korea as a whole that just lost one of its immeasurable voices and souls. Rest in peace Jonghyun. You were so beaming, it will never dim.

Originally posted by dayumonew

Confirmed by his company SM HERE

some people make me feel so worthless, it hurts sometimes, I just wish to sleep for over a week without dealing with anything.

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I love that A) Cassandra has tried evicting Eugene from the castle at least once and B) Eugene was worried enough at one point that he checked to make sure she couldn’t do that 😂

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Hey, it’s, uh… It’s me. I know that I’ve been gone too long, and, uh… It’s- I just, I want you to know that it’s not about you and it’s not about our fight. Okay? Something came up, and I will… I will explain it all when I see you. I just… I want you to know that I’m not mad. I’m just sorry. About everything. I… I don’t want you to get hurt at all. And I don’t wanna lose you. Just make sure you heat up some real food. Not just Eggos. And I want you to eat all the peas, even if they’re mushy and gross. And… I will be home soon.

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I want you to know that I’m not mad. I’m just sorry. About everything. I don’t want you to get hurt at all. And I don’t wanna lose you. Just make sure you heat up some real food. Not just Eggos. And I want you to eat all the peas, even if they’re mushy and gross. And… I will be home soon.

“You’re our hero, Stanley”.