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anonymous asked:

In the wolf au, is Kirishima dating Denki, hanta, Mina, ect or is just kinda a wolf thing? Not that I mind either way I'm just super curious lol. Also it's so lovely, your work is so sweet.

Anon said: hello fran!! How are you? I hope you’re doing great!! sorry to bother you haha but I wanted to ask something!! So, in your wolf!kirishima comic it says that Denki’s pack and so is sero and mina, does that mean that they’re wolves shifters too?? And will we ever get to see them?? (also is there kamisero? Sorry my weak heart loves them yeet)

Ohohohohohohoho I’m glad you both asked about Kirishima’s pack cause boy do I have answers - okay first things first, Kirishima is only dating Bakugou and he’s the only wolf shifter in the pack (well, Mina is also a shifter, just not a wolf shifter)

In the AU pack dynamics are loosely based on how wolf packs work in the wild: in nature usually there’s an alpha couple (the “alpha male” and his mate) and the rest of the pack is made out of their pups! So by all means it’s just a family unit - once the pups are old enough to fend for themselves they leave the “pack” to form their own family - they’re social animals, so they need a pack to be happy and safe, and that reflects in the AU too. In this universe though it’s pretty normal for wolf shifters to date/marry non-shifters or shifters of other kinds, and when that happens the resulting kids might or might not have shifting abilities, which results in the process of forming a pack being a bit all over the place

In Kirishima’s case, he was born by two non-shifters who had shifter blood in them - as a wolf shifter his wolf side needed a pack to feel well (let’s say, other wolves to play with and learn from and so on) so as a kid he used to spend a lot of time with Fat and Amajiki (both wolf shifters!) who acted as a surrogate pack for the wolf in him - now he’s old enough to have his own pack tho! And while ideally that would mean he builds his own family with another wolf shifter, he ended up falling for Bakugou, who’s a non-shifter and a man, which means the family plan sorta went down the drain. His wolf still needs a pack to be happy tho, and that ended up meaning he latched onto Mina (a childhood friend) and Kaminari and Sero (Bakugou’s close friends) who by this point are as close to him as if they were actual family.

So in theory Kirishima’s wolf side sees the pack as himself and Bakugou as the alpha couple and Mina, Sero and Kaminari as the “pups” - practically though Kirishima’s human side has a perfect grasp on his wolf’s instincts, so all in all it ends up just being five pals loving each other like family, no power imbalance at all (…he does get clingy after his pack members spend time with people outside of the pack, but he doesn’t ever try to stop them from socializing outside of the group and cuddles and general close proximity are all he needs to make his wolf feel better!)

…as you can see, I spent more time on this AU than strictly necessary haha

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The Phantom Thieves of Legend

This is just a short little story that I couldn’t resist writing it’s mostly dialogue tho. It’s basically an AU where the Personas are human, and they’re alive during the same time period (around the 18th or 19th century). They’re basically like the Phantom Thieves we all know and love, and they get into all sorts of shenanigans. *A* I hope you like it!


“How long must we continue waiting, Lupin? You did give them the correct address, yes?” Captain Kidd huffed, impatiently tapping his foot as he gulped down a portion of coffee, the sour taste eliciting a disapproving scowl. The hushed shuffling of newspaper pages followed as he restlessly skimmed through it, feebly attempting to divert his attention.

He had rendezvoused with Arsène in France regarding an unspecified, confidential matter, and loitering on land for more than a few hours caused him great distress due to his notorious reputation as a ‘pirate’. The petite cafe they currently lounged in failed to do much in stilling his nerves, although the familiar company of Arsène was exceptionally cathartic to him.

Arsène absentmindedly raked his fingers through his wispy, raven hair, which somehow always remained swept back from his face. “Hm, did I? I wonder…” 

Upon noticing Kidd’s disdainful glare, Arsène elevated a pair of snowy, gloved hands in surrender. “Patience, dear friend. I am certain they will arrive shortly. In the meantime, would you kindly make yourself more presentable? That stubble upon your face along with your mangy hair adds many unfortunate years to you, I’m afraid.”

Kidd displayed no expression as he scratched the back of his chocolaty head, his shoulder-length hair presently tied in a small, messy bun. “Aye, I’ll be sure to gussy up nice and proper for the guards when they ship me off to be hanged. Perhaps I’ll wear a nice shade of lip color to match their red coats.”

Arsène folded his hands on the table as he smiled cheerfully, his brow and cheek slightly squeezing the monocle that rested in front of his right eye. He simply adored banter, and he would never deign to reject an opportunity to pursue it, for if there was one thing Arsène greatly delighted in, it was the temptation of a challenge. “Might I suggest a charming rose instead? It would look lovely with your eyes.”

“And a bullet would look lovely between yours,” the former privateer threatened halfheartedly; he had grown accustomed to Arsène’s quirky and playful nature, and he even deemed him a younger brother; although oftentimes he desired nothing more than to consign any and all custody of said ‘brother’ directly to the authorities. 

“I’m flattered; however, although I do look dashing in most everything, a bullet is something I’d rather not try-”


“Right, my mistake… I look dashing in positively anything and every-”

A vitriolic sigh slipped past Kidd’s lips, in addition to a thick Scottish accent. “Quit flappin’ your lips and pay attention, lad. It seems we’ve got company.”

Kidd’s observation was correct; a striking woman of magnificent allure had plastered her cyan gaze on the two men, and her loose, curly hair curtained over her shoulders like an onyx waterfall. She sported a lavish off-the-shoulder crimson dress, adorned with copious frills and ruffles, and she approached their table with an enthusiastic grin.

“Bonjour! How are my two favorite gentleman doing?” the gypsy inquired, eagerly perching herself in the chair Arsène had pulled out for her.

The thief pressed a delicate kiss on the back of her hand prior to seating himself once more. “Absolutely divine now that you’re here, mademoiselle Carmen.”

“Watch yourself, Lupin. She wants something,” Kidd warned, taking another swig of his coffee and quelling a wince. Although coffee was much too bitter for his palate, he couldn’t deny the rush of energy it provided, and he was certainly going to need it.

Carmen furrowed her brows and fashioned her ruby lips into a pout. “William, don’t be rude. Can’t a lady pay compliments without having an ulterior motive?”

“Aye, but you’re not the average lady,” Kidd countered pointedly.

The gypsy clicked her tongue scornfully as she crossed her arms. “Men and their baseless accusations… how is a poor woman like me to survive?”

“You’ll manage,” the pirate claimed smugly before continuing. “And besides, the only thing that’s poor about you is your confounding obsession with sweets, yet even that costs a hefty sum. I’m surprised you’re not wearing that gaudy necklace of yours.”

Carmen appeared indignant for a moment until a questioning expression shadowed over her face. “Pardon? I could have sworn I walked out the door with it…”

“Are you perchance searching for this?” Arsène promptly chimed, dangling a lavish string of gems from his index finger. The other hand was cradling his chin, and a goading smile danced on his lips.

Carmen’s hand shot up to her collar bone with a sharp gasp, only to grip naught but air. “When did you…?”

Arsène uplifted himself from his seat and strolled behind her, securing the jewelry around her neck as he chided mockingly, “You really ought to keep a closer eye on your belongings, dear; you never know when some sneaky thief might try to snatch them away.”

As Arsène returned to his former position, a smile as sweet as honey manifested on Carmen’s face, and her shy blue eyes glinted with malice. “Then perhaps the thief should like to repay me with a necklace composed solely of their grubby, scavenging fingers.”

Arsène innocently twiddled his gloved thumbs, but a smirk remained on his lips. “Then the only culprit here would be our dear William, as I’m certain he’s failed to wash his hands, and himself, for days on end now.”

“The only washing water I require is that of the open sea,” Kidd responded wistfully, then he narrowed his eyes at Arsène while drumming his fingertips on the marble tabletop. “Speaking of which, I’m running short on time, Lupin. What is this business you mentioned?”

Carmen rested her elbows on the table and interlaced her fingers as she inquisitively glanced at the thief. “Yes, I was curious about that as well. Do explain yourself, Arsène.”

He emitted a disappointed sigh as his inky eyes flitted to the cafe’s entrance. “I suppose it can’t be helped; the others are bound to be late considering their distance.” 

Arsène slowly leaned back into his chair and placed his hands in his lap, ambition twinkling in his eyes like stars. “I assure you, I have not called either one of you here for casual conversation. You see, using the information accumulated from our resources, I have discovered what will inevitably prove to be our most extravagent heist yet…”

Methods of Torture- A Remus Lupin Imagine (Part 2 of The Torturous Year)

A/N: Guess who’s back bitches! Yep, I finally got my shit together and wrote the next installment for y’all. It is a doozy. Over 3.5 k words here. I don’t know what happened, and it honestly isn’t perfect but I am just too excited that I don’t want to tweak it any longer. So sorry if it is kind of choppy in some areas. I also wanted to thank you all for being so patient with me. I hope to keep writing every day, although I am moving into my dorm in 2 days so we’ll see. Anyways, I hope you all enjoy! 

Previous Installments: The Torturous Year. (Part 1)

Originally posted by severusnapes-blog

Throughout the next few weeks after your return to Hogwarts, you tried to get control over yourself. It was a battle that you were determined to win because ‘no, you do not like him and even if you did, this needed to stop.’

So you did your best to ignore the spike of your heart rate whenever his arm brushed against yours in the halls, or how your hands grew clammy whenever he would lock eyes with you in the late hours of the night. Although, dear Godric did he make things difficult for you. The boy had methods of torture lined up for you, in every detail of his body.

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So here’s Jole, my take on Jay and Cole’s fusion, and not to toot my own horn but I think this turned out really good! I hope you guys like it too! If you guys really like it I will happily draw more Jole and other ninja fusions!

@dividedwecantfall @ninja-tiddy @sinnamon-morroll @americananime26 @garmacondrai and we don’t really know each other but I’m pretty sure you guys like bruiseshipping too so I’ll just tag you guys if that’s ok @ookamihanta @mc-mullet @itsjustperi95 @i-love-bruiseshipping

Someone: I don’t watch it only for Hiccstrid you know…

Dreamworks: *releases a clip which basically is Hiccstrid getting engaged or whatever these two kids are up too.* *Also that hug*

Someone: I can’t wait for The Hiccstrid show to come out on Friday.

In all fairness, I would be excited for a new season regardless of their relationship development. But I also think that seeing this was long overdue so that’s why people are so excited for it.

Also that hug.

Speaking off, I hope we see more development in the Snotlout/Hiccup department. 

Ending Dan's live show together | 22.08.17
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life-of-a-cherry-blossom  asked:

My church is considering the possibility of blessing same-sex marriages, and is having a discussion evening in about two weeks. I'm going to be doing a presentation about the LGBTQ+ community, and I could really use some prayers - that I know what to say, that I don't stress too much, and that people will be receptive to what I say

We’ll be praying hard for you and your church. Don’t worry, if your church is open to receiving this message, they’ll hear it whether you’re eloquent or not. Do your best and hope in God!

God who opens when we knock,
Thank you for moving this church community to consider the possibility of blessing same-sex marriages. Work on their hearts, softening and opening them. May they receive the education they need to believe that this is your will.
Send your Spirit of wisdom and courage upon this person as they prepare and give a presentation – may you put the right words in their mouth, and lead them to the resources that will inspire their church. And send your Spirit of understanding and right judgment upon the people who will hear them to recognize your Truth and discern your will.

anonymous asked:

For the Anon asking why natsu's parents don't work. Well this is not the case but a lot of parents here in Italy don't work. Not because they don't want but because they can't. They search everyday, go away from home and the family, work for only fede euros for months. Especially in the south, and sorry if I'm being salty but this is a very sensitive topic for me. We just have to go away from our country to have some hope and people even call us "lazy" or "inefficient " I can't stand it

oh yes, i know how you feel. i am from the south too.
my father is already old and had the chance to work during his life (even though the last few years were really rough on him) and it’s only because he worked on ships when he was young so he managed to save money to open a business over 40 years ago. and he had to close it because, aside the fact that he reached the retirement age, there was just no money anymore to keep going. and he heartbreakingly had to fire all his dependents because he had no money to pay them anymore

and now he can’t even let his children study in good places because he just doesn’t have the money. he already spent so much on us because education is so freaking expensive and even if i am here working i barely met the month’s ends. and they can’t help because they have the money for only one of us. man just thinking about it makes me want to cry 

                                                                                                                                 uumbrras submitted:

I was wondering what to draw today and decided to draw your lovely squid children as my custom dragon species (this would make a great au imo)! First up we have Arnick, who doesn’t seem too happy about being a dragon, then Daisy who doesn’t seem to mind, Belladonna who sees potential in this new form, and Marian, who is wondering how to use the new form in battle. I hope you like it! (ohgodihopethisisntoooutofcharacter I have more too if you want to see it.)

Ooh, these are cool and cute! I like them! Thank you!

Here’s a little drabble I put together for the solar eclipse flash event @sterekwritingroom is hosting. Also thanks @halesstiles for helping me brainstorm when I was in a funk yesterday! Hope you enjoy!!

Derek and Stiles were in the kitchen making cupcakes for the rest of the pack. Well, Derek was making cupcakes, Stiles was just eating the icing.

“Are you even going to try to be helpful?” Derek grumbled as he put a batch of cupcakes in the oven.

Stiles didn’t answer, too busy devouring the icing to listen to what Derek was saying. Stiles had to have a problem, eating that much icing without getting sick is not normal.

It was a few minutes later when Stiles spoke up. “We should do it while the planets are aligned.”

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This time last year i asked krissi to be my official unofficial girlfriend ,and she called me stupid and just said yes official , i couldnt have been happier i had the stupidest smile the whole way home from work 

theres been rough times and there have been perfect times 

all those assholes who said we wouldnt last a week look at us now , i hope your still jealous 

i cant think of much more too say except I Love you Krissi you have improved me and my life a million times over and im so lucky to be yours.

this fuckin tag

look omg YALL i was not gonna do this because i hate spamming everyone with tag memes so i resisted but then guess what!!! got tagged by @gayforgayle @endlessraj @hartfeld @violetflipflops @choices-aesthetic @zenobia-is-hot @daddyzigtrash @smartlillian @ohmymaxwell @chris-powell @zaddysloan AND @michellenguyens so here we are because peer pressure is effective my friends

Rules: Answer the questions & tag 20 followers you’d like to get to know better.

  • Name: sarah
  • Nickname: there is no nickname for sarah
  • Zodiac sign: sagittarius but like what does that even mean? idk shit about astrology so if anyone does can u tell me about it,, like what signs do we drag what signs are cool idEk
  • Hogwarts House: mothafuckin RAVENCLAW a bich been sorted twice to check and also i got a ravenclaw sweatshirt at harry potter world its v cozy
  • Height: 5′9
  • Sexual orientation: a boring straighty :(
Ethnicity: white bread altho not to be A White™ but i’m half scandinavian i literally had to go to the scandinavian festival in traditional attire in my youth and i know some swedish/norwegian 
Favourite fruit: the fuck kinda question is this, idk like peaches or some shit????
  • Favourite season: summer
  • Favourite book series: yike this is so broad oh dear,,, uh percy jackson of COURse the one love of my life, hunger games, obvs harry potter, THE PRINCESS DIARIES ive read them all like 15 times no lie
  • Favourite fictional characters: this question is stupid wtf does this even mean!!!!! pass
  • Favourite flower: bleeding hearts have y'all seen them??? get ur ass to google but remember to specify flower or u might get……. actual bleeding hearts lmao
  • Favourite scents: idk uhh baking bread i guess,, lilacs r nice
  • Favourite color: RED bitch!!!!!! also forest green and gold
  • Favourite animal: my dog and my cats (also flamingos and manatees)
  • Favourite band: look i gotta be real, i have terrible taste in music and i ACCEPT this about myself i aint mad!!!!!! my fave band is still one direction lmao #rip also i like john mayer and kesha
  • Coffee, tea or hot chocolate: fun fact im allergic to caffeine (in affective doses so i still got that yung chocolate life)
  • Average hours of sleep: i have an app that tracks mine and it says 6 :(
  • Numbers of blankets: one thousand
  • Dream trip: i really wanna go to australia someday, i feel that i am destined to meet my husband there but also its got SO many horrifying bugs
  • Last thing I googled: “bleedinf heart flower” i cant type and i wanted to remember how pretty they are. sorry this answer sux lmao
  • How many blogs I follow: 94, im a discerning heaux
  • Numbers of followers: 430 and i am in love with ALL OF THEM
  • What I usually post about: this is a Choices Only blog so like maxwell beaumont and #murderking and how much i hate drake/jake
Do I get asks regularly: honestly yea??? which is v new and exciting for me!! sorry if i don’t answer them right away its because i must gather my thoughts

im not tagging SHit for this because you all have done it by now and im tired, its nighttime and i need to do my laundry

When I find you, I’ll find me | Part 1 | Rating: T |  Word Count: 15,323

After tragedy strikes both Stark girls find their worlds turned upside down.  

Arya is left without options and is forced to come home, but what will she uncover when she gets there. And will those she left behind forgive her?

Sansa needs to get away: enter Jon Martell. The only way to be safe is to become someone else entirely, but who will she become once she’s walked among vipers

a/n: Here we are, I actually wrote fic for the first time in….too long. This is the start of an adventure and I hope you all enjoy it. Thanks especially to @clarkescrusade for being my sounding board, cheerleader, aesthetics commenter, beta all in one.  

anonymous asked:

Sorry you're getting hate for his friendship with Suvi (I mean being friends with someone does not make them want to be with them) and hate for Scott with your OC Anne. I really love your art and all your headcanons. I also love seeing Scott develop as a character. People tend to forget that characters from games don't start out the way we see them in games. I mean its why we see concept art after the game is released. Part1

Part2. Sometimes their romances are figured out early sometimes just before release. But we get to see your character develop completely. Which I love. We get to see him grow as a character. While in games we generally get the final ‘product’ Sorry for going off on one but I just wanted to say thanks and i hope they don’t discourage you too much. Your art and head canons really bring a smile to my face. Thank you.

Thank you for your message and you supportive words! <3 It’s a very good read.

I’ve always wanted to focus more on Scott Ryder and not the Pathfinder Ryder, you know what I mean? I think Scott is way more than his title and the fact that he has his own personal backstory now and can exist outside of the story of the actual game is probably the reason why I love him so much. <3

It took me months to figure out perfect romance for him and I’m not going to allow bunch of bitter people to ruin this for me.

stefdonyx  asked:

Oooh 11, 26, or 27 for the writing prompts with Jake x mc !! If you feel like it of course! 💕 (-stephschoices)

Hey, thank you for asking! @stephschoices​ 💕 I totally feel like it, hope you’ll like it 😄

Summery: Mc and Jake share a talk after spending their first night at the Vaanti’s village. With the prompts “Do you ever think about who we used to be?” and “Let’s just stay in bed all day”

Mc and Jake were laying in bed, curled up against each other. Mc could feel herself rise and fall with every breath Jake took, and wondered whether he fell asleep or not.
It was the first day they’ve spent in the Vaanti’s village, and now they have slept there, too. Mc knew it was hard for Jake to fall asleep in an un-known place so full of danger. He was a wanted man, after all, and that haunted him everywhere he went.
“Jake?” She finally dared to ask. “Mmhm, yeah, princess?” He murmured. “Do you ever think about who we used to be?“ She asks him. He blinks awake immediately, and she slightly regrets asking, Interrupting his peaceful sleep.
"Why do you ask?” He blinks at her. And all she thinks about is how beautiful he looks right now, hair messy and expression still so obviously sleepy.
“Princess?” He asks again, and she giggles. “I’m sorry, I meant, before the island. Do you ever think on who we were back then? I know it hasn’t been that long for us, but for the outside world, half a year has passed.” She clear it up, and he considers before replying. “I…” He still hesitates,
and she let’s him take his time. “Honestly, I do. I don’t want to, but I think about it, all the damn time.” He admits.
She caresses his cheek, making him look at her. When their eyes meet, he relaxes all at once, she just has that sort of effect on him.
“Before the island… I, well, you know, I was- I still am, a wanted man. And I’ve been on the run, for a while now. I never let myself get attached to someone, I never stay at the same place too long, apart from Costa-Rica, maybe. And I most defiantly didn’t think I’d stick my neck out for a bunch of snobby college kids.” He sighed. “This is entirely different than what I was used to. I don’t want to think about it, But if I’m being totally honest, I’m comparing myself not to who I used to be before the island, but even before that. I don’t want to dwell on what I couldn’t change, couldn’t do.” He says. ‘couldn’t save’ goes unsaid. “What about you, princess?” He asks. Mc thinks for a moment, before answering. She was the one who initiated the conversation, but she hasn’t, in fact, thought of what her opinion of that was. “Well, basically, I do. But that’s mainly due to how this island changed my life.” Mc explained.
“It changed all our lives.” Jake points out, not understanding the depths of MC’s sayings. “It’s not just that. I feel like… I came here for a reason. We all came here for a reason. I think I belong with you.” She added. “With me?” Jake wiggled his eyebrows. Mc laughed and hit him in his stomach, not too hard. “I meant with all of you guys. You know that!” Jake was being a narcissistic piece of shit, but she loved that. He laughed with her. “Maybe you’re right. Maybe we’re all destined to be here. I just hope we’re also destined to leave this place in one piece.” Jake agreed, and Mc felt a little lighter, now that he got her point. She didn’t feel like elaborating, and explaining about all the scenes that unfolded before her eyes, every time she touched an idol, she didn’t want to explaine how she had that special telephatic connection with Varynn, she didn’t want to mention all the things that made her sure, that she was, in fact, supposed to be there. Not to mention, she didn’t have much left back home. Who she was, before the island, was… basically a nobody, like she told Varynn that one time.
She often thought about who she was, before La-huerta, but she didn’t miss it.
“If you already mentioned our friends, I guess they’ll be waiting for us by now. As much as I don’t want to leave this bed, or your side… we should join them, shouldn’t we?” Jake suggested.
“I think I have a better idea.” Mc said, in a pleased tone.
“Oh, really? what is it?” Jake had the feeling he’s going to love that idea.
“You said it yourself, you don’t want to leave this bed. and neither do I. Let’s just stay in bed all day.” Mc told him, and Jake grinned.
“That’s a wonderful idea.”

ofthatcolossalwreck  asked:

You are such a globe trotter and I aspire to travel as much as your. Not gonna lie, like at least 70% of my motivation to get through nursing school and get a job that actually pays is so I can travel as much as you. Hope you have a lovely time in Sofia and that you don't get locked out too often!

i had a WONDERFUL time in sofia. a big write-up of the Balkan Shenanigans 2017 is coming soon! well, soonish. well, whenever i write it. hopefully soonish. in the meantime everyone should feel free to check out my instagram, which i have ruined with 7,000 pictures of mountains.

anonymous asked:

Hello. I am incredibly sorry to trouble you, but you seem to be a very knowledgeable, logical, and empathetic woman, so I was hoping that you might be willing to offer some advice regarding this situation, that is, if it isn't too much trouble. I am an INFJ, and a sophomore in college. My most trusted friend (and the girl for whom I have had deep romantic feelings since my freshman year of high school), is an INTP, and also a sophomore in college. We confide in one another frequently, though I

am ashamed to say that of that, it has primarily been me confiding to her, most often in a panic or a rage. My parents are extremely physically and verbally abusive, and I have cerebral palsy; due in part to this, I cannot drive, and thus cannot escape their wrath, so to speak. She is an incredible human being, and has been extraordinarily supportive. Despite my parents’ insistence that a long-distance friendship is not a real one, and that someone who takes several hours, or, in some cases, days, to respond, is worthless as friends go, I have accepted that taking a while to respond is simply a part of her nature, and, when she does, hers is typically a lengthy and thoughtful response that provides insight on every aspect of the issue at hand. My parents call this naïve and idiotic, believing that I make too many excuses for her, and for INTPs in general. Perhaps they are right, I don’t know. But I can confidently say that she is the most steadfast and dependable person in my life. 

Recently, though, I fear I may have alienated her. A few days ago, I expressed my concern for a mutual friend of ours to whom she is extremely loyal, a decidedly (and sometimes infuriatingly) inconsistent and fickle ENFP who is nonetheless very dear to both of us. I had been told he was doing and dealing drugs, and was deeply concerned for his safety. I told her as much. She did not respond. Two days later, I was informed that I would be getting kicked out of my home. I have no way of transporting my materials, no money with which to buy new ones, and a kitten (whose paperwork has yet to be processed, and so she cannot come onto the campus with me, something that has me very panicked) to consider. In a panic, I told her of the situation. She has not responded. She has said in the past that she will always be there for me if I need her, that she is willing to listen to anything I have to say, and that she does not find discussing emotional matters at length draining, as her type is adept at converting other peoples’ emotions into an object to analyze. But I cannot help but fear the worst this time. I am terribly afraid that I have pushed her too far, that I have overwhelmed her, and so she is quietly disengaging from the friendship so as to avoid further turmoil. I have tried to rationalize those thoughts away, but my mind cannot help but whisper that there may be some validity to them. I feel awful about all of this. What should I do? 

Wow. First of all, let me tell you I am incredibly honored that you’re asking me this important question. Secondly, let me advise you to try contacting her again. INTPs usually don’t end friendships over this sort of thing. In fact, I don’t think I’ve ever purposefully ended a friendship before, at least not that I can remember. I’m sure some INTP somewhere has, but, honestly, I think it would take a whole lot to offend us to the point of cutting off a good friendship, especially the close one you’ve described here.

Seriously, you should try contacting her again. If she is the closest friend you have to turn to, then don’t give up. It may be that she’s busy or hasn’t seen your message yet. There are times when a whole day goes by without me looking at my phone, and not because I’m ignoring people. Just because I’m distracted with other stuff. Maybe she’s having something going on, too.

Also, don’t be afraid to address the thing you’re worried about–namely, whether you alienated her because of your response to your mutual friend. You can always apologize if you think you expressed yourself incorrectly, although you don’t necessarily have to apologize for your point of view. I know it’s hard to bring up something that’s potentially divisive, but it might be a good idea to do so, just because we INTPs tend to appreciate it when someone is open with us about this sort of thing. 

I really hope that you can resolve this problem, my friend. Naturally, I hope this helps, and thanks for stopping by.


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