and treats her


My friend (marked in blue) posted her frustrations with being  called “girl” despite  being almost 30 years old, and how you wouldn’t call a man “boy”.
She expressed her anger towards being infantized…(which is so NOT a contoversial thing to say…It should literally go without saying WHY it’s not cool to talk to an adult like they are a child)….

….and two male family members just HAD to pounce in to mock her ….

One (marked in black)  being outright asshole-ish, the other (marked in red) kinda…goaded it on, like whooooaaaah LOL gonna make her so mad, LOLOL

I am just…so fucking tired of this…

So tired…

And my female friend just lost a father like 3 weeks ago, still mourning…and these male family members (who know she is mourning) treat her like shit…What the fuck? Can’t sexism and patriarchal bullshit EVER just take a break?

I am so tired of it….

But even after all this, showing this example of blatant sexism….I STILL have to reassure men that I don’t hate all of them…

So tired….

She’ll cry, and get over it, she’ll hate you, and then love you again, But one day she’ll leave, and she won’t come back.
Treat her like you’re still trying to win her.. That way you will never lose her
One day you’ll regret it and never find someone who loves you the same way.

anonymous asked:

I see people wanting a Keith and Lance as co leaders and I think it could actually happen as it seems their going down a path to allude to the original and in the original Lance was Keith's second in command

*sign me the fuck up good shit meme*

edit: honestly though i have 2 possible outcomes for the whole leader thing.

1) the exchange happens and keith pilots black, but to form voltron they still need a pilot and so allura steps in. a lot of people set her as the blue paladin bc of the original, but i don’t see why she wouldn’t be able to pilot red frankly. ok red is tempermental but allura is capable and headstrong. if lance has to leave blue, i’d be sad. blue chose lance and i feel like lance would just remind allura 24/7 “pls treat her well”

2) keith refuses to pilot black till they find shiro. he accepts however, to take the leader position of the group, but pilots red anyway. lance becomes eventually his co-leader.

honestly im just mad its not even like bc theyre never gonna put kara and lena together, thats obvious, im just mad that we have to watch kara be paired with THAT when even the person who is framed as her will they wont they villain repeatedly treats her better they treat each other better they genuinely are shown to like and enjoy each other like….. what in the fresh hell lol

anonymous asked:

Could I request an imagine where the RFA+V+Saeran are jealous of MC. Like they see someone flirting with her or see her treating someone with care and they just get really jealous?

okay this got way too long so i’m gonna put the rest under a cut after yoosung’s LOL i wrote freaking novels oh my god


  • he actually gets jealous really easily
  • never forget yandere yoosung
  • you visited him on campus once and a lot of his classmates got lowkey crushes on you
  • some had highkey crushes and worked up the courage to go talk to you they moved in packs cause they were nervous
  • “hey there, are you an incoming transfer student? ;)”
  • “ah, no… i’m looking for kim yoosung?”
  • their eyes went wide before they burst into smiles
  • “oooooh, so this is our yoosung’s infamous girlfriend? we almost couldn’t believe it. i swear, he never stops talking about you”
  • in the distance, you swear you heard feet stomping before yoosung practically threw himself between you and his classmates
  • noooo!!! she’s mine, my girlfriend!!”
  • you and them are all laughing as he shoos them away before leading you towards the entrance
  • then he starts apologizing a billion times 
  • “i’m sorry, did they make you uncomfortable? they’re good guys, though. really!” 
  • “no, they seemed friendly… do you really talk about me that much at school?”
  • he goes red in the face and starts stammering like a madman
  • “n-no, i mean… yes, but it’s all… i like talking about you! but if you don’t like it, i’ll stop!!”
  • you laugh and say it’s fine, you think it’s cute, and he starts blushing even more
  • turns out it’s lunch break so he offers to show you around the school
  • although he holds your hand the entire time and doesn’t let go
  • if an oblivious male student tries to make conversation, you can literally feel him bristling like a little porcupine next to him
  • you think it’s cute though, lowkey

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anonymous asked:

I don't think the show is trynna get people hate Maggie??? they just showed that she's not as perfect as Alex thought and that's okay, people can change.

it’s not that people can’t change, and it’s not that maggie is supposed to be perceived as a villain right now. it’s that every time they reveal something about maggie, or every time there’s some sort of conflict between maggie and alex, the show does very little work to present maggie as a sympathetic party. blame consistently falls to her even when she hasn’t really done anything wrong (2x07 and 2x09), and even when the show is trying to get you to sympathize with her, they do a really poor job of it because the entire narrative of the relationship is structured around alex (i.e. why people were so hard on her after 2x09 despite her being the one that was hurt, people coming after her for lying about the way her parents treated her). 

essentially, i take huge issue with the fact that the very little we know about maggie always seems to be tied up and presented as things she’s done wrong. it’s hard for the audience to really like a character when all they know about them is that they’ve lied about their past and that they’ve cheated on a partner they were with for 5 years. they’re just making it very easy for the audience to write maggie off as a bad person, which is counter to them actively doing the Absolute Most to make mon el look better than he is.

So Katie Cassidy will be back as regular on season six of Arrow and I don’t really know how I feel about it. I know she loves her character(s) and I still love them too. But both the writers and the fandom treated her so badly I would have loved for her to find a less hateful fandom. I’m not currently watching Arrow because I believe in stop watching what makes you uncomfortable/mad/unhappy but I will watch her scenes on youtube. Her love for this show, even after all the bullying and the poor writing and after being told that you character - for who you had drastically changed your body and trained and prepared - was written off like two episodes before the death of said character— she never chase to amaze me.
I hope that this fandom will be more welcoming this time around.
I still support and love my pretty bird ♡.

Robert and Liv have an accident...


* it happened when Robert met Liv in town. She’d gone out with Gabby, who had then left her there, so she text Rob, who headed down to meet her.

* It happened when they were about to cross the road back to the car. Robert had taken her for a coffee before heading back; he felt bad that she had been ditched and she hadn’t eaten anything so he treated her.

* When they were about to cross, Liv turned to say something to him, she stepped off the road as a car swerved.

* Robert didn’t even hesitate, he jumped into the road and pushed her out of the way just before the car hit him.

* Despite the pain in his obviously broken wrist and the blood dripping into his eye thanks to the cut on his head, he immediately got up to check on Liv. She had stumbled and had scraped up her arms. He immediately tried to comfort her, not realising how bad he looked and how it was freaking her out. He ignored everything but her. Making sure she was okay, she wasn’t hurt.

* The ambulance came when he was trying to calm her down, as the driver of the car was trying to convince Robert to sit down and wait for help.

* Liv phoned Aaron. When they were in the ambulance on the way to the hospital and the paramedics were giving Robert pain relief. They get annoyed at him because he keeps taking the oxygen mask off to tell them to take care of Liv.

* Aaron arrived ten minutes after the ambulance does. He may or may not have broken a few road laws to get there.

* He finds Liv first; Robert having been taken for an X-ray. She immediately runs into his arms and cries. He holds her so tight he was afraid he’d break her. He then asks her over and over what happened and all she can say is that Robert saved her.

* When Robert comes out of X-ray, Aaron goes to see him. He feels sick when he sees him, his arm is being held up as he waits for the cast, a big plaster on his forehead to cover the stitches and a nice black eye is forming. The first thing Robert asks is how’s Liv. Aaron immediately grabs him and kisses him. Making him hiss in pain. Aaron then just says “thank you” over and over before crying and telling him he had better not dare go anywhere. And not do that to him again.

* Robert falls asleep after the doctors put his cast on, the shock and pain killers finally setting in. When he wakes up, Liv is sat beside him, holding his hand. She has red eyes and plasters on her arms. As well as a nice bruise and scrape on her chin. He asks her how she is and she just smiles at. “I’m okay. Thanks to you.” He smiled at her and tells her, “well I had to save you didn’t I? Gotta have someone keep us all in line.” She just lets out a laugh and wipes her tear away before leaning over and kissing his cheek.

* Liv barely leaves his side as he’s in hospital. He’s only there two days as they had to wait and see if his arm needed surgery. Aaron and Liv stay the entire time.

* When they get back to the pub the Dingle’s are out in force, all there to toast Robert and what he did. As touched as he is, he really just wants to go to bed and rest. Liv tells them all to back off, making Aaron laugh as he helps Robert up the stairs and into bed. He leaves to make him a cuppa only to bump into Liv on the way up with one already.

* She fussed over Robert until Aaron has to tell her to chill. She then tells him she can’t- he saved her life. She needs to do something in return. He tells her that she doesn’t need to repay him in any way. He doesn’t expect that. Liv doesn’t believe him until Robert tells her the same thing. Tells her he didn’t stop the car from hitting her because he wanted something in return- he did it because she’s his sister as well now and he would do anything to protect her.

* She admits that she’s never been so scared to lose him. That she was in the hospital terrified that he wasn’t going to come out and she hated it. He hugs her (gently) and tells her that he’s not going anywhere any time soon. It’s gonna take a lot more than a car to get rid of him.

* She backs off a bit, but still checks on him, still worries, she still makes him tea and texts him. She even sits and watches stuff with them both. And once he’s healed and better she still tells him he’s her idiot brother who gets himself hit by a car to try and show off.

ffxv au where king regis maxed out his hand-holding ascension branch, luna didn’t actively let go of his hand, and she escapes tenebrae with noctis to grow up in lucis as a war refugee:

  • just…everyone helping lunafreya through her trauma at watching her kingdom and family fall instead of her having to grow up alone in a hostile environment
  • also like, luna being childhood friends with all the bros
  • this got long so the rest of it’s under the cut

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chapter 1 (part 2 of 3) -
your life and mine

She wakes up with a cough. It takes only a split-second for her to assess her surroundings, and she opens her eyes to find three people looking down at her. Two are kings. The third is a priestess, one who leans back as soon as Angela looks to her.

“How many fingers?” she asks, holding up her hand.

“Three,” Angela says, a little perplexed. She had prophesied, not passed out; everyone knew better than to treat her like spun glass, too. What exactly had happened?

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Took these 3 gorgeous ladies out for dinner yesterday in celebration of the Mother’s Day, which took place on March 26th in the UK. (And since we’re true Brits at heart, we celebrate it this day too.) Gorgeous ladies ain’t even the right caption for them though - most important women and mothers in my life might suit better. First of all, my beloved mother without whom I wouldn’t be here today, my incredible wife and mother to my unborn child, as well as her beautiful mum, who always treated me like her own son and thanks to whom I’m married to the most amazing woman in the world today.

Hope everyone of our fellow UK people here didn’t forget to show their mamas some love as well yesterday!