and this is where everyone starts unfollowing me

anonymous asked:

On twitter people hate on kala but they seems to like kalagang do you think their relationship more about wolfgang than kala it is so depressing to see people saying she doesn't help cluster anyway and she is so privileged except for kalagang there is nothing for her I finally got a indian character that makes so much sense I just wish people stop comparing her to sun nomi n Riley they went through so much n kala is strong in her own way this thing is so depressing for me

ok first of all, first rule to being happy on the internet: if somebody starts saying or doing things you’re not into, unfollow them. it’s that simple. you don’t need that negativity in ya life my dude

second of all, kala is amazing??? and kalagang is beautiful?? so live your life and let bitter people be bitter if they wanna be

third of all, reasons these people are Wrong (imo):

  • Privilege doesn’t make a character boring. What’s boring is a show where everyone is the same or has the same level of privilege. The whole point of this show is to help us see the different ways people live all over the world, and guess what? Some people are privilged. some people have money and complete, nuclear families and somehow don’t murder people on a day to day basis. I personally can’t relate to many aspects of some of the other sensates, but I can really relate to some of Kala’s because we share some of the same privileges. What’s great is that there is a bit of everything, so that many people can feel represented and identify with different characters.
  • Along the same lines and going off what you said above - everyone’s struggles are different. Each character’s initial, core struggle - separate from BPO and the narrative arch of the show, but tied to their story and sense of self - is different. Riley struggles with PTSD from her experience with Magnus and Luna. Sun struggles to juggle her promise to her late mother and the way her family and her world treats her. Nomi struggles with a transphobic family. And Kala struggles knowing a that marrying Rajan will bring her everything she has been taught to want - a loving husband, financial stability, a good job, social standing, etc. Except that she doesn’t want any of it. It doesn’t make her happy. But if she doesn’t choose Rajan, she’s turning her back on her family and the heavy societal expectations of her culture and heritage.
  • Kala is an Indian woman in an American show. How many indian actors play main characters in American television? I genuinely can only think of four - Aziz Ansari in Master of None, Mindy Kaling in The Mindy Project, Priyanka Chopra in Quantico, and, you guessed it, Tina Desai in Sense8. So while Kala the character is privileged, her existance is still a huge step forward in representation not just for Indian and Desi people, but for POC and WOC everywhere
  • Kalagang is 100% NOT all about Wolfgang wtf??? The whole POINT of Kalagang is that they’re perfect for each other, that they are both just exactly what the other needs. “You have something good and beautiful hidden inside of you. Just as there is something dark and wicked inside of me.” Wolfgang needs someone who will let him be good and beautiful, who will see the softness in him despite every dark thing he has been  through and done. And Kala needs someone to let her be dark and wicked. Someone who doesn’t hold her to an expectation of pleasantness, of niceness, of pristine-perfect-beautiful-wife. They are the perfect yin and yang, and to say the relationship is all about Wolfgang is to do both their narratives a huge disservice, and honestly, to have some god-awful reading comprehension tbh
officially starting major overhaul

i will be remaking lacus to start anew. 

i will follow anyone who likes this post ( once i am 100% finished! ) 

& i will be reblogging a promo post here too so everyone knows where to find me when i’m all done so don’t unfollow yet fam. 

hi guys !! it’s finally 2017 and i thought i’d write up a post on how to clean up your life + prepare for 2017 to ensure a “new year, new you!” (:

clean your laptop!
over the year, you’ve probably saved some random images, downloaded some random music, or just have documents from school that you honestly don’t need anymore! rummage through every folder and send everything you don’t need to the trash!

file everything
this kind of relates to my first tip but file everything! don’t let everything on your laptop linger in the ‘download’ folder. since i’ve gotten my laptop, i’ve set up a strict filing system for every single thing, and the stuff that don’t belong in any home go into the ‘misc’ folder where it’s cleaned out every once in a while (:

change up your bed
okay, i don’t mean buy a new bed frame or anything aha but change out the sheets, change the pillowcovers, sort through that entire bunch of plush toys you have and decide which ones you want to keep or give away/donate!! also, decorate your bed frame if you can (: i put up a bunch of xmas lights that my sister had (she used it for a halloween costume) which were bought from the reject shop for a couple dollars = makes my bed look cute + great

discover a new hobby
when i say this, i mean actively look for a new hobby. go online, search up some stuff and take up a hobby that interests you. examples include crosswords (my new hobby!), sudoku, swimming, learning chess, playing card games, writing your own book, vlogging and creating your own videos, starting a youtube channel etc.

clean out your clothes
it’s the new year and honestly, you know that half the clothes in the closet, you’ve probably never worn or don’t even remember buying! clean that shit out and either donate it or sell it!! some people out there may need it more than you do

clean out your bookshelf
kind of like my last tip but clean out your bookshelf!! i plan to do this over the next month but some books on your shelf, you don’t have any plans to read or have just read it already. donate those to any charity stores, or set up a stall at a local market to sell each for a couple dollars (extra points if they’re still in perfect condition!)

clean your social media!
i don’t mean revamping your whole image, but cleaning up that long-ass friendslist on facebook. some people just add everyone (safety concerns!!!! where they at !!!) and some people have never talked to who they’ve added. delete those people, and trust me, they won’t know.
other social media tips:
- go through your ‘liked’ tweets and unlike the ones you don’t really like anymore (did this last night with my friends, and it was really funny sharing some of our liked tweets!)
- if you have a linkedin profile, clean it up and add some of your new achievements
- go through your likes on tumblr and clean that up too
- unfollow on instagram!! and twitter!! and tumblr!!

start budgeting + set up saving goals
this is the inevitable finance tip where i tell you to save, despite me spending all my work money every week )))): but honestly though, budget (keep track of what you spend and how much you have) and set up saving goals for the new year to ensure you have some $$ at the end of 2017 !! there are many apps to help you keep track, and some banks allow their customers to set up saving goals for their card (:

get a new hairstyle or new style
2017 is the opportunity to revamp your look and have that 2017 glo up (: if you’ve had an inkling to change up your hair, do it. want to buy those new jeans you’ve been eyeing for the past freaking year? do it. the beginning of the year is the opportunity to restart and create a new you !!


i hope this post was helpful w/ helping you guys clean up your life for 2017!! i plan to complete all of this over the next week or so ((((((: but yes, remember that 2017 is a year all about you!! focus on yourself, stay healthy, work hard, and take good care of your body (: good luck all and my ask box/messages will always be open if you want to rant, talk, or ask any questions

- kimm

a list of things I, Tanaé, hate. According to a search through my own tumblr posts
  • when someone who’s just supposed to be a friend that I’m not attracted to at all starts flirting with me
  • when random mfs add me to their group chat on kik
  • everyone
  • people
  • when I’m just chilling, minding my own business and somebody points out the fact that I’m smiling for no reason
  • yall
  • people, so much
  • when stupid people talk to me
  • that I gotta unfollow some of yall
  • Laurent Bourgeois
  • taking naps
  • the way this guy’s chin looks
  • when people try to act like the movie Precious wasn’t funny just because of all the serious shit that happened
  • when people ask me if I remember where I was when Michael Jackson died, and if I cried
  • when I smell buttermilk biscuits then I go down to the kitchen and there’s no buttermilk biscuits
  • when I try to go back to my Chrome browser but I accidentally click on the Internet Explorer icon right next to it
  • the winter
  • attention
  • facebook
  • my mom’s taste in clothes
  • when I say something sexual thats pretty standard and some random nigga come outta nowhere and calls me a freak
  • not being thick no more after my period ends
  • quoting movies and nobody knows what I’m talking about
  • @younganddefiant
  • when job apps ask for my 10 year residential history
  • when men cut all their hair off once they hit their 30s
  • scenes in shows/movies when a couple is arguing and in the middle of the girl yelling, the guy kisses her
  • being in the dark
  • cold weather
  • messaging on snapchat for longer than 2-3 messages
  • the term “cummies”
  • dealing with people who always need my help for every little thing
  • when niggas ask me “so what you like to do?”
  • when I talk to new people and this little girly voice comes out of me
  • you all
  • so-called passionate movie kisses where people just press their lips together hard as fuck and move their faces around
  • when people go through all my pics on ig and dodge all my art but like all my selfies
  • when someone texts me something personal and I don’t know who it is
  • when the husband and wife been married for years and they still arguing over when they’re gonna have kids
  • the song “Last Night” by Diddy and Keyshia Cole
  • hearing the words “bloody pulp”
  • not knowing if I’m supposed to chill out or try harder
  • when my good bread runs out and I gotta eat this nasty ass bread my grandma buys
  • when I want advice on how to handle a situation,  but I don’t feel like telling the entire story behind it so I can get the absolute best advice
  • when people get  multiple tattoos in one spot and they don’t mesh
  • the low quality ass pics people give me to draw
  • old people
  • people who look good from every angle
  • when I don’t know whats happening
  • celebrities that only be fine as hell when they’re in character
  • yall…so much
  • Michael Jackson for making this sad ass song “Don’t Walk Away”
  • cleaning out the little thing that catches my hair when I wash it in the shower
  • when people in court say “numerous of times”
  • that I lose interest in guys so quickly
  • that whenever I fight in a dream, I’m moving in slow motion
  • coconut
  • when people try to console you by saying “death is apart of life”
  • Diddy
  • yall…sometimes
  • mushy shit
  • when people ask me to go look at their art and tell them if I like it
  • that I love “Flex” by Rich Homie Quan so much
  • that I don’t like to hurt people’s feelings even when it’s necessary
  • watching the clean version of Next Friday
  • my black and gray drawings
  • Wisconsin, so much
  • starting the day off on an annoyed foot
  • when I can’t stalk somebody pics on facebook cause we not friends and they got their privacy settings so you can’t see shit they post
  • having little thighs
  • reading old messages that don’t even mean shit no more
  • when people think I’m asking for help with something I don’t need help with
  • when a nigga say something corny under my post and yall actually laugh at it
  • doing voice overs
  • when family members that don’t know me comment on my shit saying things as if they know me

to be continued….

I cannot believe I am having to say this twice in one day.

Please… please, please, STAY OFF MY BLOG if you are a minor. It is ILLEGAL for people under the age of 18 to consume porn in any format. And you guys won’t be the ones who get in trouble. I will. I could be labeled as a sex offender for the rest of my life.

My blog, specifically, and many of the blogs I interact with on a daily basis, are SPACES for adults. And I will not cater to you all in any way, shape, or form. Adults should not have to stop being adults around other adults because young people wander in where they are not wanted or allowed. Tumblr is a place for all ages, so find people your own age to interact with until the day you turn 18. It is not because you can’t handle what we write and share pictures of–I reiterate, it is because WE could get in a lot of trouble.

This whole thing started because someone who clearly had her age of seventeen on her blog reblogged one of my NSFW posts. 18+ only is IN MY BIO. It’s right there, where everyone can see it. 

There are no exceptions to this rule. None. You don’t get to come on my blog, after I blocked you on another account, and tell me that you don’t want to “start shit” even though I have clearly stated that because of your age, you are unwelcome here. 

Obviously I can’t go to everyone’s house and make them hit that unfollow button. So please, if you do happen to be underage and on this blog, DO NOT interact with me at all. Do not reblog, do not like, do not comment, and DO NOT send entitled asks simply because you think you should somehow be allowed into an adult space. 

I love my followers, I do. I’m currently in the midst of a 1000 followers celebration. But if you are a minor, I ask you to please, respect my wishes, and if you don’t do the smart thing and unfollow, then do the other smart thing and do not make your presence known.

anonymous asked:

think she has some kind of personal vendetta against me bc she answers other asks? mine aren't under anon but she answers other people's who aren't on anon so idefk and i'm seriously considering unfollowing her but i just enjoy her stuff so much and don't wanna miss an update

3/3 uhhhhhh i kinda get where she’s coming from??? i do that too sometimes, because sometimes you don’t want to start a conversation with them? it’s nothing personal and this happens to everyone at same point but sometimes you don’t want to reply just in case they think you’re always going to reply? like idk if that makes sense. i don’t think she hates you. idk what’s up with her, but it’s all down the individual tbh.

The State of And Steven (or, ABOUT LAST NIGHT)

There’s something that’s been increasingly true of me and And Steven: I’m not really having very much fun anymore. I still love it! When I’m able to sink into it, pick it apart, savour each moment? It’s fantastic. This show is, in so many ways, custom made for me and the way I love to experience stories.

But then there’s everything else.

Oh, everything else.

Lately, when I think about And Steven, what’s coming to mind isn’t the wonderful characters or the intriguing story or the amazing humour. It’s the frustration, the entitlement, the lack of basic respect. More and more, the negatives of what I’m experiencing are outweighing the positives. Last night brought all these feelings to a head, and forced me to acknowledge that I’m coming to really dislike this show that I like very much.

That’s a problem, and I need to do something about it.

THIS IS ME DOING SOMETHING ABOUT IT

I have essentially two choices. One is to stop doing anything with it entirely. Just watch it on my own time. Quietly. Passively. But that’s a separate problem, because a huge part of what I loved and love about And Steven is digging into it, thinking about it, trying to put the pieces together. The liveblog is how I do that, it’s a huge part of why I liveblog at all. If I’m just sitting here and watching, I’ll … just be sitting here and watching. And when the moments come where I WANT to talk – which will be often, because I am me – I’ll be reminded that I can’t. And why.

If getting rid of the outlet won’t work, then, the answer is to change it.

Effective immediately and for the foreseeable future, my Steven Universe liveblogs will occur in a private, password-locked blog.

Those posts will not be rebloggable. I will not be putting them here. I will no longer be discussing And Steven on this blog.

FOR NOW. It may be that this doesn’t work out for me and I have to do something else. Maybe later, after I’ve been able to get some distance from the jumbled mess of unpleasantness, I’ll change my mind. Maybe after I catch up, I’ll be able to commit to watching it alongside everyone else and the atmosphere of it all will be different. I don’t know! Life changes and we change with it. I’ve been around too long to never say never.

But for now, and for as far as I can currently see, this is how it is.

AND NOW SOME BULLET POINTS.

  • Unless we’re personal friends or mutuals, please don’t ask for access. I’m not soliciting requests, because that’s only going to put both of us in a position where I have to start saying no, and that isn’t fun for anybody.

  • Please don’t ask if I’ve changed my mind or if/when I plan to make those posts public. I may not reach that point. If I change my mind, I will be sure to tell everyone. Badgering is only ever going to help remind me why I made this decision in the first place.

  • To anyone feeling upset, I apologize. If you need to unfollow, I understand. I know several of you are here for the And Steven, and I truly wish things hadn’t gotten to this point. Please trust me, I’m pretty disappointed that this is where we’re at, too. As always, I am 100% about people cultivating their online experience, and if it no longer includes me, that’s okay.

  • My feelings about spoilers remain the same. Unless and until I mention otherwise, consider that I’ve seen no further than “Lion 3″. HubbyShield™ will be on high alert, and won’t hesitate to immediately block anyone attempting to spoil.

  • Under no circumstances should anyone use these events to attack or lash out at anyone else. This is the result of multiple and repeated events stretched out over a long period of time, and can in no way be attributed to one single person or situation. EVEN IF IT COULD BE THAT IS NO EXCUSE FOR PERSONAL ATTACKS. Let this be a reason to treat each other with more kindness and respect, not less. Don’t attack people. Don’t do it.

If I think of anything else that needs saying, I’ll say it. Otherwise, for now and the foreseeable future, this is my last public word on And Steven

today i had to block more than half my family on various social media sites because my uncle heard through my cousins the “shit we were saying” and angrily threatened to pay for my family to leave the country so he didn’t have to hear our shit anymore. he dragged my dad into it, who is chilean and a naturalized citizen, and is an old man who barely posts anything on facebook. we knew my uncle and cousins were racist, but since my dad and i are white latinx we didn’t think it would extend to us, too.

i had to block some of my chilean relatives on the OTHER side of the family, too, after another cousin launched into an anti-semitic misogynistic rant in the comments of one of my friends’ public posts that i had liked. i had to find out through my two female jewish friends that someone with my last name was attacking people in my social circle, and apologize for him.

as a white person, but also a latinx person, a woman, a mentally ill person, and MOST OF ALL a trained social media professional, i have to insist that everyone DISENGAGE from these conversations. 

As soon as you see someone post an incendiary comment or try to start shit with you, do not pass go, do NOT collect 200 dollars, follow these steps:

- UNFOLLOW

- UNFRIEND

- BLOCK

- DELETE

- DISENGAGE

as an activist and ally i cannot stress the importance of calling out racism/misogyny/sexism/etc where you see it enough, but a flame war in the comments is literally DANGEROUS.

My family is being torn apart, AND my literal job is to watch this shit play out on social media all day long, so trust me when I say I have firsthand experience.

When you start a flame war, you are literally helping them. A comment is just like a like, it gets it higher in the algorithm. A quote tweet is just like a retweet, it gets more people to see it. It is also damaging to your wellbeing, especially if you are a minority yourself.

@ White people: call out racism and sexism IRL, spread correct information, and reblog/retweet/reshare the voices, writing, and content of marginalized peoples. Getting into a fight in the comment section will NOT help.

anonymous asked:

I like your blog, but there are some parts where you bring up race? Why is it everyone brings up race? When are all people going to start caring about all of the other Humans. When I see #blacklivesmatter I feel sorry for all of the other humans on the planet! Why can't we all come together as one, Humans. Humans need to stop segregating each other! Stop bringing up the past! Why can't people look to the future as everyone being a unified whole? Where is that kind of vibe at?

There’s also no vibe in stealing other people’s culture, heritage and history.. Or stealing and claiming ownership to someone’s history, whilst continuing to oppress them and when they have something to say, complain and silence the issue by saying “we are all humans, let’s live in peace” blah blah blah

Let Africans own their history. 🌻

And don’t get me started on your comment about #BlackLivesMatter Unfollow me if you want. X

anonymous asked:

Hello, I really love your blog! I love glimpsing into the accounts of CSers and Oncers but I fear that I have no clue how to go about Tumblr and joining fellow shipmates in the wonder that this site entails. Any pointers?

Well- first off- thank you!!!

Second off- now may not be the best time to tread into these waters- lots of unneeded drama over ships and what those different ships deserve.

I kind of came into this blind, but I was here for CS fan fiction so it was easy - I followed writers. Someone gave me a list of about 10 writers to follow and it grew a little from there. I still don’t follow that many blogs because you find your dash can get really repetitive with everyone reblogging the same gifset at the same time, but you do want to follow enough people to keep your dash interesting. That number is different for everyone!

I’ve become friends and friendly with a good number of people here and it has really, really enriched my experience. Now that replies are back, don’t be scared to leave a reply! Reblog and leave a comment in the tags! Leave feedback on stories of you’re reading fics! Writers love that (really we do!) all of these thinks will help you connect with others, and that’s really what makes tumblr great.

The downside- you’re going to run across people who post stuff you don’t like. Unfollow them. At first when I was here I thought there were people who I had to follow because they were bigger names in the fandom and everyone loved them. But their opinions and attitudes aren’t my jam. I unfollowed. And my experience has been so much nicer since.

This is your tumblr and you can use it however you want. Make it what you want.

If you want names of a few blogs of where to start– (and I hesitate to do this because I feel like I’ll be leaving people out and I don’t want to do this/ but this is just who comes to mind first)

@kat2609 - the first person to welcome me into the fandom after I joined tumblr - crazy nice
@lenfaz - just plain crazy about Liam jones
@ripplestitchskein - my brain twin
@nothingimpossibleonlyimprobable - watch the angst around this one
@mryddinwilt - all about the meta - she’ll break every aspect of the show down
@capitaine-odette - a CS and a ER and a wonderful person
@wheres-your-rum - absolutely fun and a great fic writer

As you can see I follow writers. There’s a great artist who always gets reblogged and crosses my dash who you should definitely add (trigger-the tenant?) fun OUaT artwork based on prompts.

Tons of great gif makers out there too!

I’m going to update this later maybe when I’m sitting at my computer and am not trying to do this from memory and can see everyone’s names in front of me- because I’m missing SO many others who would make your dash a better place.

Maybe someone could also reblog this with the list of fic writers that the book club compiled recently?

hello (its me thy lmao) it seems like yesterday I was making a post thanking you guys for 6k and now i’m back (3 months later), thanking you guys for 7k, which I think is crazy?!?!?! thank you guys for following this tumblr where all I do is cry over bangtan and park jimin lmao
honestly I never thought that so many people would follow me and I was excepting half you guys to unfollow after I started to reblog more of bangtan than shinee and vixx ;u; thank you guys for sticking with me and also thank you to the people that started to follow me because I started reblogging bangtan. also thank you to everyone that follows @jinseok-net (which also hit a milestone a while back!) 

#HAPPYBTS1000DAYS

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