and then somebody had to ruin it

I wish the world wasn’t so cruel and heartless. I wish not giving a fuck didn’t become a world wide trend. I wish people spoke with kindness and knew what it meant to be genuine. I wish social media didn’t take so many lives and ruin so much confidence. I wish money didn’t feed the rich and I wish the poor had a voice somebody cared about. I wish the world would wake up and do something about racism rather than speak on trending topics they know nothing about. I wish knowledge was as popular as followers. I wish Tupac was still alive, to inspire the ghettos’ I wish Martin was here to motivate the youth. I wish things were so different that I’m so consumed in my world wind of “what if’s”.

Food for thought

Maybe talk to someone privately if you have a concern or problem with their work, in a calm manner.
Maybe don’t call them out publicly.
Maybe don’t slander people’s name.
Treat people, no matter how you feel about them, with the same respect you would like to be treated with if you had made a similar mistake.
The point of a fandom is to support one another, to be civil with each other because we have a common love for something, because we too want to be supported. So be kind, support each other. Handle things in a way you would want someone to handle them with you.

And most importantly don’t ruin the entire fandom for somebody else.

anonymous asked:

Always-a-girl!Dick. Jason gets jealous when guys flirt with his Dixie

Okay, I couldn’t really write Dick as a girl, so I kinda had to do them both as guys instead. Sorry but here it is and I hope you enjoy.

Jason smiled as he reached across the table to take Dick’s hand. They sat in a tiny booth in a dingy Bludhaven diner. It was miles away from the usual high class, Michelin Star restaurants which billionaire’s son Dick Grayson was usually seen at. Neither of them particularly minded the difference, really. Before they were adopted, neither of them had lived lives of luxury anyways. And besides, Jason thought that the change presented a nice break. Those restaurants were always teeming with reporters and paparazzi, and nothing ruined a romantic moment more than being bombarded with flashing cameras and intrusive questions. One time, somebody had even asked them who was on top when they had sex. Jason had sputtered and turned bright red. Dick, on the other hand had grinned and given a witty response. It was at that moment that Jason had decided that he was going to try his hardest to avoid the paparazzi as much as possible. And so that brought them to a cheap diner, where they could at least get some privacy.

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@indreamswake I agree with this completely. I don’t like the double standard here at all and i hope they fucking fix it in the next episode….zilpha had every right to kill thorne and james has people he is keeping close to him who have done way worse than that. He better be protecting her or i’m going to be under pissed off

On reddit somebody said James probably did it to protect her but she will end up doing something stupid that will ruin his plans. It’s always a woman screwing everything up isn’t it? ugh. 

I can’t with people defending Thorne and trying to make Zilpha look bad. Also defending James actions with her. What James did was a major asshole move. He is in love with her for 10+ years, comes to London, declares his love, pursues her restlessly, has sex with her and then he is like “you know what? Forget it. Here’s a diamond for your troubles”. I wish people would try to put themselves on Zilpha’s shoes. She might be unstable but the way he played her was really cruel and he did that to somebody he claimed to love. If Zilpha finds a way to screw him over I will be rooting here. 

It Hurts.

So basically this whole idea came to me whilst I was listening to this song.

Particularly the line “Baby I’m not made of stone, it hurts.”

Summary: Reader and Bucky have been messing around for months but she is adamant that there are no feelings involved. But when she meets somebody else and Bucky decides to ruin her engagement night she is swiftly forced to reevaluate the whole situation. There are feelings involved but is it too late for her to act upon them now that she’s ruined everything with Bucky?

Warnings: Angst…So much angst! Potential for fluff..maybe?

Words: c, 2,283

Originally posted by buckypupbarnes

The first time you had fallen into bed with Bucky, you had told him this wasn’t love, this would never be love and as he pressed you into the mattress beneath his body, you felt like he had understood that.

When you found yourself repeatedly stumbling into his bed for almost a year and reiterating that it wasn’t love every time, he had kissed the words from your lips and you had always assumed that he knew that.

When he kissed you in the backseat of the cinema once, or once when you two went on a mission that was particularly testing on both of your bodies, you had always assumed that what you guys had was just two people finding comfort in each other, because well, it definitely wasn’t love.

You had an open and easy friendship that centred around flirting and teasing, and you had gotten mad at Steve for warning Bucky against you because Bucky knew the situation between you two, and it wasn’t love so no one was going to get hurt.

Bucky had taken other girls on dates, he had stayed out all night with other girls and it had never been a problem. You were what you were and it wasn’t your fault if Steve didn’t understand that.

You were curled up under Bucky’s sheets one night and he had an arm lazily wrapped around you when he suddenly spoke.

“Maybe we should go out on a date some time?” he suggested into the darkness and you had laughed.

“Why on earth would we do that?”

“You’re right!” he laughed along “It was a silly idea, why would we?”

You shook your head with a smile and settled down against his body “Goodnight Buck,”

“Goodnight,” he said softly.

When he woke up the bed was empty.

You weren’t sure what happened but Bucky seemed to become slightly guarded around you for a little while after that night. He started seeing more girls, going on more dates and staying out later and later.

It was odd behaviour and Steve seemed perplexed by it too.

“Did you guys have an argument?” he asked after a few weeks of this behaviour and when you wracked your brains you could honestly answer no.

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Dude! So many videos of my drunken ass shuffling and singing are going around campus. I didn’t see this coming at all. Not the getting drunk part. I knew that’d happen. I planned for it. At least I had fun. Go hard or go home, am I right ladies and gentleman? I hope I didn’t ruin anyone’s night with my shenanigans. If so, I apologize. I’ll make it up to you somebody, somehow. But I’m not singing for you again. I’m retired.

Anyway. Did anyone see the new Spiderman Home Coming trailer?! I’m so hyped to see it!

His heart dropped into his socks when he saw her, but he didn’t want to presume that she was ready to come back to more than that. I think the whole realm of emotions and loving somebody is very strange territory that he has largely avoided or had been robbed from him in his life, so he’s very cautious in terms of the way he acts with her.
—  Clark Gregg, trying to ruin me apparently
So I’m gonna need some answers

Somebody from the bowl explain to me why on my tinder date tonight he was telling me that multiple girls my age have been hitting him up asking him if he’s interested in a SD/SB relationship? WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK ARE YALL OUT HERE DOING?

BASED ON MY UNDERSTANDING FROM ESTABLISHED SB’S, the whole idea of vanilla sites is to use them as a form of fucking online freestlying. Ease them into the idea of being a SD. Hell they don’t even need to know. Just fucking get into their hearts and MILK THEM. WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU GUYS RUINING FUCKING TINDER TOO? SOON NONE OF THE 45+ MEN ARE GONNA WANT TO FUCKING DATE US. WHY WOULD YOU APPLY SA TACTICS TO MEN ON A VANILLA SITE I JUST DON’T GET IT? DO YOU WALK INTO A BAR AND JUST START ASKING OLD MEN FOR MONEY I DON’T GET IT. SOMEBODY HELP ME UNDERSTAND. HE SAID AT LEAST 3 GIRLS HAVE APPROACHED HIM IN THIS MANNER AND I HAD TO FUCKING SIT THERE AND PRETEND TO BE SOOOOOOO IN SHOCK. YALL ARE PUTTING THEIR GUARDS UP. I HAVE FUCKING SEEN SOME OF THEM EXPLICITLY STATE IN THEIR PROFILE TO NOT SWIPE RIGHT IF YOU’RE LOOKING OF AN SD. STOP FUCKING WITH MY MONEY

anonymous asked:

I think i might be in love with my fp. I know she doesn't love me back ( in romantic way) bc we are friends. I don't want her to abandon me bc of my feelings. What do you think i should do?

i’m not really good when it comes to relationships, because i tend to ruin every friendship i’ve ever had, and i’ve also never dated anyone before, but i’d say that maybe you should keep it to yourself for a while and ease into it. i would hate to see your relationship be completely ruined (so maybe it’s not to best to follow any of my advice lmao), but if you’re afraid it’s not the right decision, then take some time to think about it. she could express feelings for you first, or maybe after enough time has passed you might find somebody else??? all i’m saying is there’s no rush, and it might not be the best idea to rush because it could make things awkward.

i’m so sorry for this pathetic answer to your question, i tried my best but i’m just not having a very good day. i really hope this is somewhat helpful-ish, and i hope you have a great day and everything works out in your favor <3

@mancnfire

Barry was starting to get tired of trying to convince his family and friends that he was fine. He was pushing past the mess that had happened. Slowly. Sort of. He had managed to resist the temptation of trying to travel back in time. He hadn’t gone back to save his mom and change his dad’s life. He had let the horrifying moments of his life stay, despite every fiber of his being screaming to change it. Barry was fine.

When even Caitlin was starting to look at him funny, and gently suggest he try to move forward, go out and see somebody, well. Barry both got the hint, and wanted to go against what people expected. Everyone seemed to be pushing for Barry to go be with Iris. Because Iris was finally ready for whatever was going on between them. Barry wanted to run the opposite direction. He didn’t want to ruin things with Iris. He didn’t want his own cocky personality destroy her life as it had already destroyed his.

So instead he found himself at Saints and Sinners, the bar he knew Leonard Snart tended to frequent. The exact opposite of what people would expect. Barry glanced around the bar, not finding him, but catching sight of Heatwave, or Mick Rory instead. Before he could consider what a bad idea this might actually be, he found himself sitting down next to the guy, gesturing to the bartender for a beer and to get Rory another round of what he had.

“Hi. You’re Mick Rory right? I’m Barry…Barry Allen. I heard I could come to you to make a deal?” That was a complete lie, but it was better than letting the Flash business give himself away.

anonymous asked:

my bf left me for somebody else and probably gave me std (i had a test 2 weeks ago, the results came in today and they found something but i dont know what is it. at least yet, i will see my doctor later today). so basically he has ruined me emotionally and physically.

That’s fucking horrible, I’m completely sorry that he did that to you.. seriously would consider talking to family about it, hopefully someone can be there for you!! Hope the doctors figure out too

anonymous asked:

Calling somebody else fat won't make you any skinnier. Calling someone stupid doesn't make you any smarter. And ruining Richard Trager's life definitely didn't make me any happier. All you can do in life is try to solve the problem in front of you.

      Really? You don’t fucking say. ❜

     Laughter falls from his mouth, he can’t hold it in. It’s pathetic in his eyes. Everything he’d said and done had been well deserved. Fuck that place. Fuck every single fucker who had tried to kill him in there. 

      ❛ Ironically enough, I feel pretty fucking satisfied with the shit I did. Ruining that sick bastards life was the god damn highlight. I’m going to carry the mentally scarring memories of that place and a plus one for the rest of my life. At least I have the pleasure of knowing I took some form of revenge on at least one of them. ❜

@orderisoutofstyle

“It just haaaad to be magic,” Wally grumbled to himself, readjusting the settings on his goggles. The ruins he’d tracked down were setting of the charms Zatanna had given him like crazy. Fantastic…

Alright, zoom in, grab the artifact and zoom right back out! No problem! He could definitely avoid any boobie traps this magic stuff sent his way….yep…

“Come on, Wally. Just get in there!” he said clapping his hands together. He wasn’t frightened, per se, but this whole thing was sending shivers up his spine. Yeaaah, he’d understood why his teammates had sent him alone. There hadn’t been any activity in the area lately…but the league was more comfortable having the artifact than letting somebody else get it. (Apparently the thing could make souls or something else equally creepy)

So here he was. On a simple retrieval mission that he was absolutely sure he’d been assigned to simply so the team could tease him about it.

Wally raced towards the ruins at full speed, but  a small tingling feeling emitting from Zatanna’s charm alerted him to a new magical presence. “Wha-” he scowled looking at the bracelet. The thing could tell him what direction it was coming from, right?

And that was where he’d messed up. Wally stumbled over a rock. At normal speeds, it was just a small nuisance. At his speeds?

He heard the crack in his bone just a few moments before the pain registered. His body was flung some distance before he finally lost trajectory and came to a painful stop. With a groan of pain, the speedster flipped himself over so that he was lying on his back and glanced down towards the leg. Yikes. Definitely broken.

“Great!” he shouted up to the sky and laying back to cover his face with his hands. This would be a hilarious story to tell the team.