being a girl who likes girls is so hard.
especially when it’s so ‘normal’ and expected for girls to be naturally close and intimate in just a friendship.
like, are you holding my hand because we are friends? are we playing footsies as friends? are we hanging out every other night watching movies because we’re friends? are you playing with my hair as my friend? are you grabbing my arm while we walk as a friend?
because i’m having a bit of trouble distinguishing between platonic and romantic feelings as it is and i don’t need that added pressure in my life thank you very much.