and that makes me a liar

“Real love doesn’t mess with your head. Real love just is. Real love just endures. Real love maintains. Real love takes it page by page.” - Taylor Swift

Thank you, Taylor, from helping me move on from liars and cheating and for showing me how I deserve to be treated. Thank you for teaching me to love myself and to wait for someone who loves me the way a woman deserves to be loved. Thank you for teaching me what real love is supposed to look like and to have the patience to wait for it because it is so worth it. You were there for me through so many failed relationships - abusers, liars, cheaters, and just boys who didn’t treat me right. I am so happy to say i’ve found the love of my life and the man i’m going to marry. He goes above and beyond everyday to make sure I know how much he loves me. This love is worth every heartbreak and I’m so thankful I had your music to turn to for comfort through each and every one. Thank you @taylorswift for being you and for caring about me and for writing music.

How I see the Dragon Age protagonists
  • Hero of Ferelden: "I tried to help a cool old dude save the day and now some asshole has a bounty on me. I want revenge but sure, I'll save the world while I'm at it."
  • Champion of Kirkwall: "Oops. Fuck. Fuck! Shit. Didn't mean to do that. Guess we're doing this now. I totally meant for that to happen. Yeah, I'm totally a hero... GODDAMNIT, ANDERS, I SAID NO!"
  • Inquisitor: "I got lost on my way to the bathroom at the Conclave and now I'm in charge of a political movement and my hand glows. *deep breath* OKAY, I GUESS."
  • DA4 Protagonist(probably): "I did not make this mess. I did not ask for this. Who said I can handle this? That liar. ALRIGHT, EVERYONE! CALM. THE. FUCK. DOWN."

anonymous asked:

wait what did t*yler swift do to kanye?

It’s a 7 year long drama but basically Kanye dropped a song called Famous and in it there was a lyric that was like “I feel like me and Taylor might still have sex / I made that bitch famous” - and everyone was like “Yo Kanye, what the fuck man?” - but then Kanye tweeted and was like “By the way, I played Taylor that song, asked her if it was okay, told her if she had issue with it I wouldn’t do it, but she Ok’d it” (I can’t give sources because Kanye had like, a mental breakdown and deleted his social media).

Then Taylor steps up and denies these claims, saying she would never okay something like that, shows up to the Grammy’s and is like “On the way to success there’s going to be people that undercut you”, basically just drags Kanye and makes out like he’s totally lying about the whole thing, and that she’s been lied about and is the victim still. Taylor’s little group of over paid under talented friends step in and give their opinion on it, naturally supporting Taylor. Kanye doesn’t say anything else to defend himself, not much point doing anything else when Taylor’s got her whole squad dragging him.

Then Kim Kardashian West, who up until this point had kept out of it, is like “At this point, I don’t give a fuck, and I’ll do whatever it takes to protect my man” and so she drops the recording of the phonecall between Kanye and Taylor, where he quite clearly plays her the song, then asks her repeatedly if she’s okay with it, and says he wouldnt do it if she wasn’t, and she quite clearly said she was fine with it and that it was a joke and it was whatever. And so Taylor is exposed as a god damn liar, who literally does not give a fuck what she has to do to make herself look better. And that’s where the snake thing came from bc after that people spammed her insta and twitter with the snake emoji bc people were over her gross ass.

Like don’t get me wrong, Kanye has done many a shitty thing, but Taylor literally manipulated him and the situation so people would feel sorry for her. She preaches about “strong women” and yet she constantly tries to make herself look the victim so she gets the world’s sympathy. To conclude: she’s the fakest woman in showbusiness, potentially the fakest person regardless of gender, and I’m Over Her.

I still care about you, but I don’t want to. I hate what you did. I hate what happened. I hate all of it. But you won’t ever go away. You’ll always be there in the back of my mind. I can’t escape it. Whatever it was that I had with you, didnt just go away. I hate myself for that. My head is so fucked up because of everything that happened and I get angry when I think about it. I shouldn’t care about someone who constantly fucked me over and clearly didn’t give a shit about me.
—  But I do.

Things to say to abusers to block their attacks/lies/gaslighting/manipulation

  • This decision will affect me more than you, so I get to decide.
  • It’s not your call.
  • I think it’s been enough of me suffering the consequences of your decisions.
  • I’m not obliged to answer those questions.
  • You don’t have the right to say that to me.
  • Stop lying.
  • Not even you believe that.
  • We both know the truth.
  • Now why would you say such a thing to me?
  • That is not a thing you should be saying to someone you pretend to love.
  • You saying it over and over again doesn’t make it true.
  • You know you’re lying.
  • Sounds like whatever is convenient to you is always the truth huh?
  • You don’t have the right to demand this information.
  • Would it kill you to stop talking to me in this manner?
  • Is it hard to not insult people around you?
  • Who do you think you’re talking to?
  • We’re going to talk when you can adress me as a person.
  • Based on your track record, you don’t seem to know me that well.
  • And you know this because?
  • Oh yeah you really, really took in all the evidence before making that claim.
  • You expect me to believe that?
  • Evidently you’re too much of a liar to be taken seriously.
  • How about we focus on what you did wrong for a change?
  • Don’t expect forgiveness from me.

(I understand you can’t get away with most of this most of the time but here’s to dreaming)

His Warmth (M)

Word Count: 3532
Member: Jimin x Reader
Genre: Fluff & Smut
Warnings: Cum-play, Biting, Lots of cute bc I’m in love with Jimin

It’s been two months since your boyfriend went on tour and you haven’t been able to see him, so when you unexpectedly wake up to him in your bed you just can’t seem to keep your hands to yourself.

c.

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im so tired of fake friends..
and by fake friend I don’t mean friends that act cool to your face and then talk shit when you leave. No no no no. I mean something way worse than that.
I mean those “friends” who say they’ll always be there for you, the ones that tell you if you ever need anything you can always talk to me, but when you need them they’re nowhere to be found. The friends that make plans with you multiple times and make up some excuse for why they can’t come now or just never text you at all and you’re just stuck waiting until hours later they have some flimsy excuse as to why they never got back with you.
You know… those “friends”.