and now i made a thing for everyone to see it

anonymous asked:

Any cute OT!Grillby romantic relationship headcanons?

similar ask! 

✦ he really likes to hear you talk about earth. like, really, he’ll keep fixing drinks for everyone around the space bar but he keeps drifting back over to you to listen to you talk about how you’re free to breathe without difficulty 

✦ he’ll amp up the Space Charm to show you cool galaxy-esque drinks to that spin with stars in them, conjured up by magic. it’s one of the most expensive things on the menu, but he’ll let it slide to see the look in your eyes

✦ i like to think that, even though he’s made of Space Void now, he still has a bit of fire in him??? so when you’re around him he tends to Spark a little when he gets embarrassed (and if you’re in an oxygenated room, god help you because he will Burn Brightly and it’s painful to look at)

idk if this sounds backwards but coming out has made mee feel 1000% more dysphoric than before. before i just threw on whatever was around when i was home alone because whatever who cared. yeah so what i had breasts but no one ws around to see it. and evem when i went out i wouldn’t care if i wore that jacket that accentuated my curves, because so what, it was a jacket. and i wasn’t fooling anyone everyone thought i was a girl anyway. but now i’m out and i feel like everyone is just humoring me and nothing is going good and it sucks. being out sucks. and it’s not like life was better when i was closeted i had so many things i wanted to do, so much i was agonizing over. i came out because i wanted HRT but tht took forever to even find a clinic that could take me. and it just all sucks. i love being trans but being trans sucks.

Nightcrawler x ace!Reader -

Warning: Coming out story
Notes: Thank you to the anon who requested this! (I went with Kurt simply because I have written him before). Being asexual myself, this was really close to my heart to write. I understand that everyone has their own personal viewpoint/experience on being asexual; this was just based on my own journey.
Summary: You come out as asexual to Kurt

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The Amazing Tour Is Not On Fire | Dan and Phil’s Story of TATINOF

(made by two dorks on the internet, @danisnotonfire & @amazingphil)

I’ve been watching them for almost 6 years now and although I never got the chance to see them in real life, these two movies/videos really summed up everything I love about them and more. The performance was incredible (cringey but amazing) and the documentary brought tears to my eyes. Thanks to Dan & Phil for always making us constantly smile and inspired with everything you do! Also thanks to the Phandom for embracing me into this community. This is the most fun, I’ve ever had :’)!

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My bullet journal!! Everyone in the studyblr community is hyped up on the idea of the bullet journal and honestly i now know why.

It’s a fantastic tool that definitely helps when it comes to keeping track of tasks and work. Bullet journaling can start off very basic and strict to the rules. But you can change it to fit to your needs with ease!!

  1. I am currently using a black leuchtturm1917 grid notebook. I’d highly recommend this brand.
  2. My current index set up. Every month has a different colour related to it. This helps keep things visually pleasing and neat!
  3. As you can see i branched out my legend from the original. I didn’t really like the original set up to i changed things and made some new icons.
  4. This is how a normal week of bullet journaling usually ends up looking. Each monday gets a colour strip to represent a new week. 
  5. For the first two months this is how my monthly calendar looked like. It was a very clean and strict set up, which i love, but it lacked *~*charm*~*. 
  6. The bullet journal isn’t just for simple to do lists each day. You can create other pages like master to do lists for christmas break, a personal lexicon, recipes, quotes, grocery lists, personal goals, or grades.
  7. Since the original monthly calendar set up didn’t work for me, January looks a lot different. On one side i have my monthly tasks broken up by stickies (school tasks, home tasks, self care, and other). The other is calendar i made (send me a message if you want one, i’ll gladly send you a copy). I’m very visual and i like the idea of seeing the whole month and working with my original way of monthly planning. 

I’d recommend the bullet journal to everyone. It’s worth a try and i know you have have an empty notebook lying around wanting to be used.

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GET TO KNOW ME MEME » favourite male characters [3/10]:

➥ peter parker

“Hope you were watching, Uncle Ben. ‘Cause I did that for you. Kept everyone safe. Kept them from being scared. And I made it fun. It doesn’t matter that most of ‘em wouldn’t have lifted a finger for Peter Parker. That’s not why you do it. You do it 'cause it’s the right thing to do. Because it’s what you would’ve done. You were more than a father to me, Ben Parker. More than a role model… You were my hero. Now it’s my turn. Because from now on, I’m going to be yours! You’ll see. I’m going to give it my all! We’ll have fun! I’ll never quit– –and it’s going to be Amazing!” Amazing Spider-Man vol 3 1.5

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Lil’ Kim speaks about the struggles she endured after being Kicked out when she was only 15.

“ My raps aren’t all sexual as everyone thinks, I rap about the hustle and struggle, Loss & pain I experienced and lived, the real Brooklyn shit you don’t hear about now. ”

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“ Kim and her father didn’t have the best relationship, as they were getting older. He was A military man and lacked the essentials of being a father/parent to his kids. The military took away his parenting skills. Kim’s father was a good man, But wasn’t a good father.”

“The Police started knowing us by first names, because they were called so much. One occasion the fight got serious, It was a physical fight, One thing led to another… Eventually, someone’s going to swing first (Mr. Jones). The next thing you know, you see this little body flying from the couch jumping on her fathers back. Kim tore the place up whilst also protecting her brother. Kim was about to stab her father. ”

“Things got worse when Mr. jones got married to A woman named jackie. Kim & her father just didn’t get along more-so. They decided to buy A house in jersey, but they told kim she wasn’t welcome.

"The less attention her father gave her, she went to the streets to look for it. She dropped out of highschool, and started going to different houses, staying with friends for a while… and when that wore out, she’d have to leave and go to another house. That’s when she began to struggle.. Hard. ”

“ She really started doing real bad.. That’s when she started hustling. She ran with a crowd that was snatching them rings, take chains… She dated this one guy, Who used to beat her, He was a drug dealer, She had nowhere else to go,and eventually ended up living and working with him. She would have to take drugs for cartel guys, sell things for the guys. You date the drug dealers, You had to sleep with them… You had to transport for them, if you wanted money. ”

“ If somebody wanted Kim to do something for them in another state, Kim would be there… If there was money involved and kim could support herself and survive without having to go to her father, She’d do it.”

“I don’t think she wanted to be out there like that, ripping & running, having to do things for money that probably wouldn’t have done if she had that stable home… She had to do, what she had to do to survive.”

’- Lil’ Kims Childhood Friends, Cousins & Brother.

“The only way to reach him through phone calls and mail
Balloons stuffed with lah up in the chocha
Now my man in the can getting money and getting high
He used to keep my fly he had the 6 I had the 5
So you know a chick gon’ ride or die for her guy
At age 14 I was putting in work
At age 16 I was moving that work
Getting paid for driving state to state
Smuggling weight, praying I don’t bump into Jake
I traveled through a few places with the burners
in the suitcases, thank God for Big
Damn right I love the life I live
Cause I went from negative to positive and it’s all good” - Lil’ Kim “All Good”

oh man, ghostbusters (2016) has taken over my life for a good while now and i need to speak about one particular aspect of it for a second.

you have NO IDEA how refreshing it was to sit in a theatre and watch a ‘family film’ with a *most probably* openly queer character, just chilling. existing. building fucking insane ghost gadgets (which essentially saved everyone). flirting. killing the shit out of paranormal things.

i’ve been a massive fan of kate mckinnon’s for some time, so obviously i was going to be a sucker for holtzy anyway, but, seeing her up on that screen made me feel like a proud mom.

even though it was never confirmed within the movie that holtzmann was in fact a lover of ladies, the little hints here and there were enough to make my heart EXPLODE. she spent the majority of the movie lovingly gazing at all the other ghostbusters, goofily dancing to impress erin, “come here often?”, “i’d talk to  you at an AA meeting”, hell, she was even wearing a shirt which said ‘one of the boys’ on it in one scene. her slightly slightly androgynous dress sense.

it felt so damn good to sit in that room surrounded by people of all ages and genders and see someone so accurately close to me up there. the online haters can say whatever they wish but they’ll never change my opinion on this movie. i’m so grateful it exists. it’s so important. so feminist. SO badass. 

Like I’m so proud of DC right now. They could’ve done an boring, emotionless Batman like everyone expects but instead we see an angry, caring, human Bruce.They could’ve ignored all the problematic things with Superman but they make them key components of the movie. They could’ve made Wonder Woman a meandering sex object for man pain (if they even included her at all) but she’s fierce and intelligent and on the same plane as the boys. And they’re listening to their fans, bringing in key elements and stories from the comics (Death of Jason Todd) to make this movie a true love letter not only to the fans but to the characters they represent.

I honestly never got caught up in the whole “girl ghostbusters are gonna ruin my childhood” thing.
I am a ghostbusters fan from the original 2 films to the cartoons, video games, comics, etc.
Once I heard a new one was being made obviously I thought what everyone else did. “Who’s playing the ghostbusters?”
Will it be the original cast?
Will they cast younger versions?
Bottom line was I was gonna watch it no matter what.
Now I saw the movie opening night and I enjoyed it a lot. I actually wanna go see it again.
Now myself, my wife & kids all enjoyed it. Me being the only one who really knows the classics and can spot the homages paid in the new film.

My daughter…..
So my daughter asks me the next day if we are gonna see the movie again. I said sure, why did you like it that much?
She said yes. She liked that they were girls that were heroes.

Honestly up until that point I really didn’t think much of the role genders played in the movie. My daughter looked up to these 4 women and it got to me.

Today I was wearing my ghostbusters video game tshirt and my daughter asks me why don’t I have the girl ghostbusters on there? I told her I had the shirt around the time she was born but I would wear the girls if I had one.

These few moments really made me understand that the role a female plays in any form of broadcasting is important and shouldn’t be overlooked.

That photo speaks volumes.
Thank you to the cast and crew behind this movie.

the things we love destroy us every time

                                     - George R.R. Martin

//SCREAMING// I FINALLY GET TO TALK ABOUT THISSSSSSSSSS

So here’s a thing I did ages ago for the Spots and Claws Artbook project for Thomas Astruc. Now that it’s been sent off I can share it with you guys (YAAAAYYYYY)!!!

For new followers, this is my headcanon for Akuma!Ladybug, Black Widow. She uses a poison rope dart (not sure if you can see the black widow mark on that, but it’s there), and she turns people into akuma slaves with a kiss, so…

Also, sorry the colors are a little wonky, but printing, man.

You can’t purchase the book (we only made it for Astruc), but you can download the whole thing for free!! Tons of AWESOME people worked on it, so please check it out!!! You can also check out the blog for the project here.

Thanks to everyone who made this book possible!! I’m so excited for Astruc to get it ahhhhhhhhhhh

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Selena is one of the most genuine artists of our genuine and NOBODY gives her enough credit. I grew up watching her show and listening to her music and it was such a gift to see her looking beautiful and confident and authentic tonight. Her speech was much needed for me and I’m sure many others. I hope everyone will hear her loud and clear. She’s not broken anymore. Let’s stop talking about all of the things that made her feel that way, and focus on everything she has coming in the future.

Why Sonic Boom (TV Series) Is Actually the Best

1: You will never see Sonic nope more than in this show

2: Tails is the cutest thing in existence. It’s nice to be reminded that he is still a young kid, on top of being a crazy genius.

3: Knuckles, though yes he has been made less intelligent (in a way that I actually quite enjoy), actually has the most heart and appears to get along most with everyone he comes in contact with.

4: Amy has shown HUGE character growth and is not just a crazy fangirl anymore. Though I think we still have a lot more to see of her, she actually is often the first one to run IN to battle as opposed to waiting for someone to save her.

5: On that note, the relationship between Sonic and Amy has matured so much. The two still quarrel and Amy is still the affectionate one of the group (which yes makes me squee) but what once was annoyance is now a really good friendship, and Sonic appears to be a lot more gentle and tender with her in most cases.

6: Sticks is a hilarious, charming new character that I’m looking forward to learning more about!

7: You will see more to Eggman than you ever thought possible…

8: You will be given all the things you didn’t know you needed in your life

I cannot say enough how much I really love the show Sonic Boom. Yes, it’s silly and nonlinear and it uses characters in ways that maybe we aren’t used to, but isn’t that the great thing about a new series? Trying new things and giving you something to broaden your horizons? The show is lighthearted and whimsical but, despite how short the stories are, you learn a lot about the characters in the process. Please watch it!

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Hi everyone! I whipped up this project real quick after seeing the new hair from the patch! :)

I have 3 things for you:

  • The EA hair without flowers, but with the ribbon
  • The EA hair without flowers and ribbon, I redid some of the UVs because I thought this hair would be great to use to make more CC hairs!
  • I turned the flowers into a hat accessory, so now you can pick and choose whichever color you’d like!

Both the hair and flower accessory come in EA’s 18 colors
It’s for females and males, teen-elders
It is hat compatible! Just remember that the flowers are a hat accessory, so you will not be able to have both at the same time.

Download [Dropbox] [SimFileShare]

Credit to EA for the meshes and textures.
Made with Sims4 Studio.

TOU: Please do not reupload my meshes and claim them as your own. Please feel free to recolor. And if you want to tag me if you use it I would love to see your beautiful sims!

Note: If you are interested in using the flower crown mesh and editing it/uploading it, feel free to, just please give me credit!

And if you have any issues please let me know!

Update (10/1/2016): Hey everyone! I just wanted to let you all know that I have updated this hair to have a male version. When I did the gender conversion the mesh got a bit distorted, so I took EA’s male mesh and redid the UVs for it. You will find the male hair under the feminine tag. All the meshes also have custom icons now–I must have somehow forgotten earlier! Please redownload the files and let them overwrite the old ones.

Thank you for your patience! <3

Update #2 (10/1/2016): Hi everyone! Someone let me know that opposite frames were not working with the hairs. I tried several things and each time it lead to no solution. I reimported everything into a new file and I have finally been able to fix the issue–opposite genders and frames will now work properly with the mesh. However, because I no longer used the original EA files as a base, the mesh will have a small deformation at the back of the neck for male sims/male frames. Unfortunately, this is something I cannot fix as it’s the way EA meshes translate from one gender to the other. You can find the two new hair files in the download folder with the word “FIX” at the end. I left the originals in there because the original male hair was based on the EA male mesh and had no distortions and I thought that some of you may be fine with having that mesh and the new fixed mesh for when you use opposite frames.

Thanks again to the anon for bringing it to my attention, and I apologize for the inconveniences with these hairs! <3

I actually attack the concept of happiness. I don’t mind people being happy – but the idea that everything we do is part of the pursuit of happiness seems to me a really dangerous idea and has led to a contemporary disease in Western society, which is fear of sadness. It’s a really odd thing that we’re now seeing people saying ‘write down 3 things that made you happy today before you go to sleep’, and 'cheer up’ and 'happiness is our birthright’ and so on. We’re kind of teaching our kids that happiness is the default position – it’s rubbish. Wholeness is what we ought to be striving for and part of that is sadness, disappointment, frustration, failure; all of those things which make us who we are. Happiness and victory and fulfillment are nice little things that also happen to us, but they don’t teach us much. Everyone says we grow through pain and then as soon as they experience pain they say 'Quick! Move on! Cheer up!’. I’d like just for a year to have a moratorium on the word 'happiness’ and to replace it with the word 'wholeness’. Ask yourself 'is this contributing to my wholeness?’ and if you’re having a bad day, it is.
—  Hugh Mackay

My witchsona didn’t change much from last year. I don’t think I have any particular theme or power, but my familiars are my two pet hens (Miss and Lady) and I do the mori girl thing and scare kids. Lately I’ve been getting into drying roses and have some hanging above my monitor right now.

I took a photo of my dress in case you wanna better image of how that looks, but mostly because I want everyone to know that I absolutely do not fuck around when it comes to My Aesthetic. Also here’s the mask I made.

Do Not Let This World Cause Your Steps to Falter

I am here for all you motherfuckers that never made it onto the 30 under 30 list and are still secretly not okay about that. I see you who got to be the responsible one with all that entails, or who just got dealt bad cards and now you’re taking care of kids or parents or siblings or hell maybe all of them and when you rush into the coffeeshop because you’re already late doing things for someone else you see all the young faces in there tapping away at their macbooks and you think, I used to write. You can still. There is no expiration date. I am here for you who started 100 stories and haven’t finshed one yet. You will. Keep walking.

I am here for you, who did the things everyone said you should and are now washed up on the far shore with a dull ache in your chest and the lurking worry that you are so far from where you wanted to be. I am here for Raymond Chandler, who didn’t even start writing fiction until he was 44. I am here for Annie Proulx, who wrote short stories for 30 years before getting her first novel published when she was 57. I am here for all of you that will never see your stories published, and I am here for those of you that will and have your heart broken when they do not sell. I see you looking out the side of your eyes at other people’s lives, lives where bodies don’t hurt, that don’t seem to involve bills or shitty jobs or just having to give and give and give of yourself to others until there’s nothing left for you except that old composition book by the bed that you haven’t picked up in a week.

I am here for you freelancers where every day is a new war; I am here for you day-jobbers where it’s all the same old battle and then family at night and you’re too tired to work on the story and all you want to do is watch TV. I see you and I want you to know that you’re okay. That we all fight this battle in different ways, and I know you’re doing the best you can. Living is hard. Creating is harder. I am here for you on the weeks you write zero words and the weeks you only write 500 and the weeks it all flows out of you like salt water and you’ve written 10,000. I see you when you look back over it and wonder if any of it is any damn good at all. Keep it. It’s good. Keep going. You can edit when you are done.

I am here for you when the work is too raw, too personal, and you lay down your pencil in fear of what people will think. Writing is an act of opening, of empathy, of love. It is an act, above all, of hope. It traffics in feelings we are too scared to show in our public lives, and that is one of the great consolations of fiction: it reassures us that others feel like this, too. Do not shy away from these emotions; embrace them. Cause them. It is the greatest thing you can do with your pen: make people feel. Creating is a strange, teetering walk between a terrifying self-criticism, and not giving a damn what anyone else thinks. Go too far one way and you will never finish; go too far the other and what you finish will never improve. Listen to the whispers in your mind about the weaknesses in your work, but do not let them shout.

I see those of you waiting for permission to begin. Waiting to afford a course or read that How to Write book or improve your grammar or find a publisher or even just some assurance that your story is worth hearing in an industry dominated by loud people who don’t look or sound like you. I hereby give you permission: please begin. You need nothing more than a cheap notebook and a pencil and the contents of your beautiful, unique, experienced mind. We’re all faking it; we all stepped off the cliff and learned to fly on the way down. We’re still faking it every damn day. It looks scary but I promise you: you will fly. There is craft to learn but it can come later, once you’re flushed with the habit of putting words on paper as often as you can. Please begin. You have a voice that is made only the sweeter for being heard. You have a story that is all the richer for waiting.

I see you who begin over and over again, and then become tired or frustrated or stuck. I want you to forgive yourself.  I want you to let this be fun. You don’t have to be fancy. You don’t have to be literary. You don’t have to write the Great American Novel straight off the starting blocks. Be silly. Write smut. Write sci-fi. Write a sonnet. Put the big story aside. If you keep writing, the problems in the big works tend to unknot themselves on their own. It can take years, but one day you’ll be working on something else and have an extra scene and realise that’s what the old story needed all along, and all the pieces will cascade into place with a simplicity and a beauty that will stun you. Or maybe that old work will be the one lending scenes and moments to a newer, more confident story. Keep writing. Be excited for endings. Writing a great ending is one of the most satisfying creative experiences in existence.

I am here for you writing at midnight once everyone else is asleep, for you alt-tabbing away at work to a Google doc with a tenuous few sentences, for you tapping notes on the subway, for you just telling stories in your own head that you hope you’ll find time to write down later. I am here for you daydreamers and dawdlers and misfits, finding yourself on the page one difficult mark at a time. Whether your notebook holds poetry, cartoons, short stories, novels, fanfic, comics, essays, autobio, or anything else, the way you express yourself is valid and worthwhile. Do not hold yourself to popular forms; hold yourself only to your heart’s desires. You will probably never make money out of this so you might as well make yourself happy. Move towards joy, but know that there is also work. Do not be afraid of the work. Do not be worried about critics; once the story leaves your hands it begins a life of its own, apart from and no longer beholden to you. And you won’t mind to set this delicate paper ship onto the cold and contrary sea of opinion, because you’ve already started on a new one. 

I am here for you. There is no too late or too early. There is only now. 

It is time to begin.

honestly so happy I have a girl I’d die for, she’s my everything and I couldn’t even live without her. life’s just too good and she’s just too good to throw away. she’s the cutest thing ever and she’s made me into the cutest thing ever. I’d always try to change myself to get people to like me and I got her by being myself. I wish someone told me to find a girl who would embrace my individuality. everyone has such bad views on relationships in high school and at such a young age, I see everyone around me failing at love, except us. we got something real special. she’s real special. I can’t even imagine her with someone else because she fit me too well. too much of her is never bad, I can’t get enough of her. she’s everything to me. who knew I’d be this happy and find my true love now, I haven’t done anything to deserve it, but honestly this is my first break in life. I’m a million times happier than before, I was never happy before. I had no reason to live before. I hate my before, because she wasn’t even in it. I keep looking to my future, because she’s all over it and I’m grateful for that. I see her with me during everything. I’ve found the one for me. I never knew I would find the one for me. and especially now? thank you so much to whoever’s looking out for me. I can’t wait to give this girl my last name and have her mother our children. she’s mine and I’m her’s, forever and always.

I see a bunch of posts saying if your asexuality or aromanticism is caused or influenced by trauma or mental illness or neurodiversity or something, it’s still valid.

I see a lot of posts saying asexuality isn’t something that needs to be cured, that a-spec people aren’t broken and don’t need to be fixed. That people are naturally born this way.

I also see a ton of posts telling everyone it’s ok if their labels change, that sexuality is fluid and identifying as something different before or after or now doesn’t invalidate the person’s orientation at any point. That if it’s useful for the person now, they can use it.

But I don’t see a lot of posts, actually basically none, that actually address the point where those things intersect.

If your asexuality or aromanticism is caused or influenced by something, your orientation is valid, and it doesn’t mean you couldn’t have been a-spec without it. Maybe you were born this way, maybe you were made this way, but no matter how you got here, you are still a wonderful valid person.

You are not broken if you do not feel you are.

It is also completely OK for you to feel like you are.

If you feel your orientation is something that is only temporary, because of mental illness or trauma, and you had labels you identified as before and want to identify as them again, you are so valid.

It is ok for you to think something broke and for you to want to repair or mend it. If you have a bowl because the top part of a clay vase broke, it’s ok to want a vase again. Kintsukuroi creates beautiful art out of broken pottery people mended.

It is also so ok for you to feel like some part of you is broken, and to want to let it remain that way. You don’t have to fix it. People make mosaics out of broken glass, and they are far more beautiful than the beer bottles they came from.

It’s also ok to not know how you feel about it. To feel like some days there is nothing wrong with you and other days to feel that part of you is just shattered shards of something else.

No matter what, you are valid and your experiences and feelings about your orientation are valid.