and now i don't feel so bad about ... well anything

Sky Ferreira lyrics for the signs
  • Aries: "Try to teach me a lesson, I'll keep I'll keep you guessing..when it's with me you're messing, I'm gonna teach you a lesson.."
  • Taurus: "I can't keep up, he's locked inside my head, but he just wants to be my friend. It's always just stay, never just go..."
  • Gemini: "I kiss like I lie, you pray for a sign. Left you dumb, left you blind, left you limp in you hands. It's what you want from me.."
  • Cancer: "What did I do to make you so cruel? I've got this ache inside my heart--I know that it's you...."
  • Leo: "Is it because you know my name, or is it because you saw my face on the cover. Either way it's all the same--it's like talking to a friend who is trying to be a lover.."
  • Virgo: "My voice is silent, but my thoughts are loud."
  • Libra: "I wanna be free from the dark that is deep inside of me, free from all the eyes I see watching over me. Don't want you to be there, don't want you to care for me anymore--I wanna be free of the guardian....I am the guardian."
  • Scorpio: "Hurts so bad I don't know what you want from me, you know I'm trying.."
  • Sagittarius: "You said, 'I don't care what I'm thinking about, but I'm thinking of you right now'"
  • Capricorn: "I wouldn't feel anything when we burst into dust forever, and no angels will help us out 'cause they've all gone away..."
  • Aquarius: "How could you know what if feels like to be outside yourself, you think you know me so well, I just want you to realize I blame myself.."
  • Pisces: "When he picks me up, what was his intent--just to let me down again."

people around me: gay couples shouldn’t be allowed to adopt kids. the kids won’t know what a family is and won’t get as much love as with a mother and a father. and what should they do on mother/father’s day?

me: yeah, because two fathers or two mothers that can give you a loving home and take you out from an orphanage or away from abusive parents are so bad. because you can’t just turn mother/father’s day into two of the same. it’s people like you that make kids who have two same gendered parents feel bad about that and start to question it. get over yourself already, if you’d really care about those kids, then you’d be happy for them finding a good home, no matter if it’s a mother/father, two fathers/mothers or anything else.

people around me: well…

me: yeah exactly. now shut it, I can’t stand your stupidity.

my sister looked over at this and she just said “Well, I’m glad you like drawing”.
my old username was TheSlug64–now it’s Huroki

anonymous asked:

1/2 Is it an adhd thing that others peoples opinions can just completely ruin my day? Like I have a mock exam tomorrow and I've been revising so well, using half hour alarms, slowly covering everything, getting to bed early, being positive. And one of my friends said something about how I don't really need my adhd meds they just help, like smoking cigarettes would make her less stressed but you don't see her smoking do you. That was 2pm. It's nearly 2am and haven't picked myself back up again.

2/2 Now I’ve missed great big chunks of revision because I spent too long crying, and feeling so bad that I just slept. And it was just a side comment but it literally ruined me and now I’m so frustrated because I was doing so well and now I just don’t have anything left. It happens with negative comments from my mum too, just any sort of bad thing and then I just cycle in bad thoughts and i just can’t. And then when I can, I can’t because I’ve used up all my motivation/ attention.

Rumination (thinking about negative stuff over and over) is pretty common with ADHD. However, if this kind of thing is affecting you this deeply you may have something more going on, like depression or even simply being very sensitive.

What helps the most with this kind of thinking is learning to change the thought pattern. It’s not easy (not by a long shot), but if you can change the negative thought pattern you will be able to break out of the cycle sooner.

I’ll take a simple example since I’m not sure what kinds of thoughts were running through your mind in this particular situation.

So, for example, last week I made spaghetti for dinner and forgot to turn off the burner under the sauce. Wound up burning all the leftover sauce. :P It didn’t bother me (just made me go “oops, that was not what I meant to do”), but if I’d been in the wrong headspace I could have easily fallen apart and wound up thinking things like “I’m a horrible cook” or “I can’t do anything right.”

To change that thought pattern, I would have to take the sentence and reword it so that it’s more true. “I’m a horrible cook” might become “I’m usually a good cook, but tonight I forgot an important step. At least it was just the leftovers that got ruined!” and “I can’t do anything right” might become “I can do lots of things right, but sometimes I make mistakes or forget stuff. So does everyone else. I’ll do better next time I make spaghetti.” (And I did; we just had it and I remembered to double-check that I’d turned off the stove completely before going downstairs.)

It takes a lot of practice, and when I first started learning to do this I thought it was the stupidest thing ever. But as time went on, I saw that it was making a difference, and in fact I’ve found that changing those thoughts makes it possible for me to keep doing whatever I need to do even if I’m crying. The changed thoughts give me the strength to keep going, in some weird way, even if I can’t stop the meltdown.

-J

anonymous asked:

I don't know you give good advice so I like want your opinion?? So uhm my I met this girl a year and a half ago and now she's my best friend... Well her old friend from like 3+ years ago got jealous and is now fighting for her. Literally. She hits me, punches me, shoves me, etc and I'm like really passive I would feel bad to hit her back... No one does anything about it... Should I just like stop being friends with the first girl? Or what do I do??

I think your friend should be standing up for you/: have you ever talked to her about it? because it’s really not nice of the jealous girl to be shoving you. you’re friends with her and your friend likes you so what’s the deal? you should talk to your friend and if that doesn’t work, talk to the jealous girl yourself. she’s rude af and you don’t deserve to go through that x