i know someone is an adult when they’re 18/19/20 but the pressure some people put on their kids to get a job even when they’re actively searching for one should be considered abusive???
like parents who constantly put their kids down for not being able to find work and call them lazy even when they go to interviews and hand out their cv/resumes, etc?
also threatening to withdraw support when you know a young adult is financially dependent on you to control them comes off as abusive? like if it was a romantic relationship it would be abusive.