and most of them irl tbh

brutally honest descriptions of the mbti types based off my experiences with them via a very sleep deprived infp

enfp:

-commitment issues? haha i’ve never heard of those :))))

-will literally punch a toddler in the throat if they say they support trump

-so i took the mbti test 7 times and i got infp twice and entp once?? i don’t really know, because i kind of fit into the infj sterotypes more, but if you really think about it i’m kind of an enfj? but i also really relate to isfps, but then again i think i’m too opinionated and logical to be a feeler, so entp isn’t out of the question, but i also feel like the entj cognitive functions really fit m

-genuinely love animals and it’s so pure

-hi sorry for not replying, i was in prison :3 also i moved to norway lol

-actually just the 2007 taco xd random aesthetic irl

-“i just came up with another book plot” texts approximately every 2.3 hours

isfp:

-hi i’m melissa i’m a 23 year old art school dropout and i abuse prescription pills but it’s okay because i have 200 followers on my grunge aesthetic instagram account. rent me an apartment?

-(talking about veganism to someone at a party) i just don’t understand how anyone could put all of that stuff in their body :/ *bends down to snort a line of cocaine*

-actually really artistically talented but much like the infp they refuse to give themselves any credit for it

-my dream man is someone who goes to coachella with me, helps me align my charkas, takes sad candid pictures of me, is willing to backpack around europe with me and my philosophy class during the summer,

-*googles* why do i share a type with literally every indie musician that has ever breathed lol

-probably fucked your girl in the back of a vape shop

infj:

-if you manage to find one never let them go they are some of the best people you’ll ever meet

-huge harry potter nerds

-can manage to get you to spill out your entire life story to them with a concerned glance

-please actually care for yourself for once and a while literally you do everything for everyone else just take some time for yourself god dammit you deserve it

-CATS™

-could be literally the most talented person in the world but would never come close to admitting it

-hi i’m actually just jesus christ irl! nice to meet you :-)

intj:

-they know everything

-like seriously everything it’s kind of scary like calm down karl

- allows themselves to recognize exactly one (1) human emotion per year

-can read for hours on end without getting bored and genuinely loves learning

-are generally dicks tbh especially to the people they love the most

-wikipedia articles™

-they actually aren’t actually the emotionless robots tumblr seems to display them as, they are actually extremely emotional in my experience and tend to get offended/upset easily and over small things

-sci-fi, cats, and machines > humans

-superiority complex™

-cute when they aren’t busy throwing tantrums/crushing the souls of their enemies

esfj:

-hi i’m martha, i’m 32 years young, i like long walks by the beach, yoga, and judging my neighbors for not mowing their lawn :-)  

-tend to be extra™ parents and their kids can either turn out complete emotional wreck assholes because they’ve never been disciplined or the happiest child you’ll ever meet, there is no in between

-they may be complete snakes and have never came up with an original idea in their entire life but boy can they make a killer chicken parmesan

-kind of comforting in a mother-like sense when they aren’t busy being judgmental dicks

-will clean your entire house for you on a whim

infp:

-wow i love being an infj :)) top 1% haha :))

-will literally develop a crush on someone because they say they know what tumblr is

-find purpose in writing/creating in general

-ending toxic relationships?? haha what’s that??? :))

-constantly switches between their “you can’t control me it isn’t a phase mom go away >:(( my chemical pilots at the disco saved me xd i will literally punch a baby fuck the system i’m 2cool4school” persona and their “i’m such a smol bean :3 save all the animals <333 i love pretty girls and dogs :))” persona

-“can i txt you back in like 15 mins i’m having an emotional breakdown lol”

-actually genuinely empathetic and creatively gifted but gives themself credit for none of it

-intelligent but fails classes because their teacher said something that went against their morals

-playing the victim? never heard of it! :))

-secretly just meme hoarders

-attention whores tbh i won’t even deny it

-o v e r d r a m a t i c

entp:

-hi it’s 6 fucking am and everyone just wants to go back to sleep or die or both but i’m gonna start an argument with the professor over the origin of tangerines for no apparent reason

-*googles* how to permanently get rid of my fe in 5 simple steps

-follow my meme page xd

-so what if i love my dog more than i do myself and my entire family?

-this conversation is boring me i’m gonna go chug a bottle of vodka and binge bill nye the science guy™ peace out

-have low self-esteems but compensate through obscure dark web conspiracy theories at 3 in the morning

-shirley i didn’t call you back because you’re a fake ass bitch not because i didn’t like your lasagna at the block party

estp:

-why do i keep physically abusing my crush lol

-and why do i keep yelling i can’t even stop at this point someone please send help

-they love food more than they do themselves

-fuckboys™

-hi welcome to my prank youtube channel :3

-the type of people to show up to school with 37 puppies and a knife

-i’m not gay but 20 bucks is 20 bucks

entj:

-sorry i didn’t show up to school because you’re fucking stupid

-awe infp is so cute <3 i’ll destroy them last

-*on the floor, drunk, talking to their dog* you’re the only motherfucker in this town who can handle me

-what do you mean other people’s opinions/beliefs besides my own are valid lol??

-lowkey have daddy kinks

-what do you mean it’s physically impossible for me to control every aspect of my life??

-i mean if you really think about it voldemort was the victim,

-the type of person who could tell their crush they like them without flinching. terrifying

istp:

-wears d.a.r.e shirts ironically

-1990’s grunge aesthetic

-would walk into a burning building for the meme

-playing the hero?? haha never heard of it :))

-ew what the fuck man get those feelings away from me lol

-fuck da police

-following the rules?? that seems excessive lmao no thanks

istj:

-i once had one (1) original idea back in the summer of ’67. it was terrifying. i’ll never do it again.

-your scary math teacher that wears black socks everyday expects friday. then they jazz it up a bit with stripes. will mark your grade up if you say you like the same sports team as they do.

-understanding concepts outside of your own experiences? lmao no thanks?

-will make quizlet sets organize your desk for you

-my dream in life is to narrate a crime documentary and complete my george washington memorabilia collection.

-remembers all of their colleagues birthdays. doesn’t say happy birthday.

enfj:

-fucking get over your ex already he wasn’t that attractive calm down allison

-*googles* why do i relate to regina george from mean girls so much?

-the type of person who tells your boyfriend you have a crush on him

-o v e r d r a m a t i c

-gets your shit together for you. judges you

intp:

-dead inside

-if you can manage to find one that actually tolerates you they are some of the most loyal and true people you’ll ever meet

-horrible social skills, compensates through meme hoarding

-sends you links to conspiracy theory videos when you’re sad

-extremely intelligent but they get lost in their own house

-whoops i just remember i haven’t showered in 3 weeks lol

-i would laugh at that joke but i’m 3 hours deep into an existential crisis and i’m 100% convinced you are actually a robot created by bill clinton so not today jeff

esfp:

-yes homo

-cries over cat videos in public

-facetimes you in a grasshopper fursuit at 3 in the morning

-probably an alcoholic

-has 87 different crushes at once

-you haven’t talked to them in 7 years but they’ll show up at your birthday party and give you dog

-also attention whores

-generally has the personality of someone who just did 10 lines of cocaine

isfj:

-one sec let me just gather up all of the fake empathy i can muster for this particular situation

-that one kid in class who always has perfect notes

-shudders at the thought of… a… creative… thought….

-falls in love with an estp approximately every 23 seconds

-hi i’m karen, i’m 34, i love my family, cupcake baking, helping people of course until it interferes with my own personal comfort haha, christmas decorations, room layouts,

-probably has a studyblr

estj:

-your angry boss

-probably cyberbullies children on the internet 

-has an emotional breakdown when they don’t win classroom jeopardy 

-*googles* who is bernie sanders and why do i want him dead

-organizes your shit for you, regrets it later

-dead inside

the dear evan hansen fandom must be made aware of this adorable photo ft. cuddly ben platt and amused mike faist with black nail polish, that is all thank you for your time 

my impressions of the btob members after seeing them irl for the first time
  • eunkwang: he is really so cute irl and exudes warmth... his smile is so wide and genuine and he 100% has an undeniable positive vibe to him. he is extremely bright and just seeing him made me happy.
  • minhyuk: he has a very small face and looks just like he does in photos. his stage presence while performing is no joke and he was literally bursting with confidence up there. he was so sweet to us too.
  • changsub: i didn’t see him that close up since he wasn’t at the press conference but when he came towards my area he looked really soft and kind? like being with or near him you would be safe. he is also very funny without needing to try.
  • hyunsik: okay, wow. i can’t say if this is just my bias speaking here but hyunsik seriously took my breath away. he is absolutely stunning irl and his skin literally glows. cameras can’t even begin to capture how he looks irl. he is just beautiful and every time he looked my way i completely froze.
  • peniel: he has a small head and really broad shoulders. his smile is very cute and friendly and he talked to us a lot. he also seemed so comfortable (and confident during ‘that girl’!!!) which made me happy.
  • ilhoon: omg he is literally tiny irl... i mean most of btob are small anyway but he is noticeably small even with them. his sharp features really stand out and his eyes and smile in particular are beautiful. he quite often talked to us in english too.
  • sungjae: he looks exactly like he does in photos tbh he is very handsome and he really does have large hands. he also looked broader from working out and he made so much effort to speak to us even when he couldn’t figure out the words he wanted to say.
  • conclusion: every single member seemed genuinely warm and wonderful in person. the concert venue was not full by any means, yet they still said that more people had come than expected. they made numerous efforts to communicate with us through different languages although they had a translator, and as performers their stages were practically flawless. any time that they didn’t sound like their official tracks, it was because they sounded even better. they were everything that i thought they would be and more.

anonymous asked:

Do you have to deal with the "thank you" issue in real life as well as online? I have a new friend who thanks me for hanging out after every time we do anything and it makes me super uncomfortable but I feel like it would be super rude of me to just tell him to stop thanking him? How do you get people to stop it?

dkjfh man there’s no tactful way to say this is there…tbh I don’t usually have this problem irl bc most of the time ppl thank me it’s for stuff I actually deserve thanks for but when someone does thank me randomly I just try to be as polite as possible and be like “I prefer not to be thanked, I know it’s weird it’s just a preference of mine” and generally when I say it ppl are just like “oh ok what should I say then?” and then you can tell them and it’s all good

anonymous asked:

Not a request, but do you have face claims for your headcanons of everyone?? I love them and I was wondering if you saw them in any irl people

Okay my face-claiming process is a bit of a mess tbh, but here’s what I have gathered in like.. an hour of work lmao

HERE’s my LES MIS’s TATTOO GUIDE

Enjorlas:
generally I don’t use a reference for him, but I think this or this is what he’d look like as an actual person: very antinoous, very pretty, blonde, pointy nose. I usually draw him with longer hair in a ponytail and as a post-mastectomy trans man.

Grantaire: 
I usually reference most of his behaviour and poses from my boyfriend, but generally face wise he’s between Diego Luna and Oscar Isaac both with green ish eyes, well, younger.

Combeferre:
This Guy

Coureyrac: 
A mix of Ben J. Pierce, and something along the lines of this with a darker skin, like 2/3 tones darker. Basically Leo Valdez from PJO. Or Anne Hataway’s boyfriend in the devil wears prada (was he this guy?)

Joly:
he has the most specific design out of all of them tbh
this guy if we’re talking deer-eyes, otherwise kim myungsoo with round glasses and a prosthetic leg or a cane.

Jehan:
This guy with straight hair, so basically this. or just Ophelia by Millais

Marius: 
vague as fuck but kind of a younger Redmayne with bigger eyes and small lips?

Feuilly: 
I barely have a design for this poor kiddo I have no idea. My heart says this but my head says “whatever, kiddo”

Bahorel:
a younger but as buff Jason Momoa. That’s it.

Bossuet:
vague black and bearded black man in his 20s

Cosette:
basically this or Lupita Nyong’o

Eponine:
between this and this

Montparnasse:
either Ezra Miller or Ren from Nu’Est with that asian hipster hair
_____

THIS TOOK ME WAY TOO LONG OMG
hope you like them, let me know what your faceclaims are!!!

anonymous asked:

Looked over Guren's squad's birthday quotes and dear jesus. Sayuri's is about having her boobs groped and talking about her breast size. While Shigure says she wants curry for her birthday because that's what Guren would want.

There are reasons why I could never really get into Guren’s squad and tbh that’s pretty much most of them. They have some character traits, but most of them are overridden by their obsession with Guren, which is tiring but honestly not really surprising (given the fact that we always see a gaggle of women obsessed with a male lead in pretty much everything-hell, I’ve seen girls like that irl). I mean, I guess I can kinda see it if they weren’t so super obsessed with him because they kind of are in an apocalypse and Guren is apparently a suitable hunk of man meat in a world of inferior man meat but seriously girls? Basing your culinary preferences off that dick? Get a life. Or at least a better choice in a partner lol. 

softexodus  asked:

I genuinely love you, thank you for that post, there are just too many things with kaisoo that don't add up and it's like their hiding something. Same goes for the fact that SM don't promote kaisoo when it could make them loads of money, I feel like this is all just some da Vinci code/ illuminati level cover up. But anyway you are an angel and I love you <33

i love you too and thank you for liking my theory post :D 

[warning, shit is about to get delulu and also long, like usual, and it also perhaps will offend some people who aren’t fond of the idea that their oppas being shipped together for real–like really really real by an insignificant nobody from internet. you’ve been warn.]

ikr? so many things feel a lil bit odd between their very platonic relationship  

SM doesnt promote them for money often, the ones that promote them are other companies, like SPAO, Baskin Robins, Pepero, KFC (well not the marketing staff but one of their branch put kaisoo live-sized card board together), even Korean Red-Cross (i think it is korean red cross but i’m not sure) uses them together, oh also dont forget that soda commercial (maybe there are more companies but my brain doesnt remember any rn)

as far as i know, SM only promotes them few times; the big hit was when their official account announced Kaisoo being totally confirmed by dispatch as april fool “joke”, while the subtle ones were when they put kaisoo’s pillow together on the same shelf in SM merchandise shop (idk what it’s called), also they put kaisoo together in exo photobooks (the diejungs one and the one with soo leans his head on jongin’s shoulder), maybe there are more but i don’t know about it 

[OKAY UPDATE SM DOESNT DO THOSE THINGS ^^^ ON PURPOSE: that official account that tweeting the dispotch joke was fanmade so it’s not SM and the dolls were apparently not purposely arranged to be in kaisoo order, it’s coincidental, so sm didnt do shit to promote them, prob only those diejung photos but i dont think sm forced them to be glued together for that photoshoot hmm] 

those SM’s “moments” were just recently being publicized , mid-end 2014 , why didnt they promote them from the very beginning, in 2012 or 2013? SM started to promote them slightly when kaisoo has started to become more heated to be the “talk” (fans had already noticed them since their debut/mama era - it was the china fans that did so, then they started to dug out more about them and then it grew and spread wider, correct me if i’m wrong tho), meaning SM didnt plan about kaisoo at all - kaisoo happened bc of themselves, they made it, they invented it, or in shippers language: the ship sails itself

and even though now SM has recognized them (put a light on their spot) recently, the company still doesnt exploit the pair like crazy-money-starved-company-they-are (okay i know this sounds quite insulting, but come on some of their members had filed lawsuits bc of health-regarding-matters) and still kaisoo never once have a same schedule, like why? they’re only together if the whole members are requested to be together as whole team, but once the schedule requires them to be split up, they never being put together. i’ve noticed soo had been w/ other members (at least once) when they do mini-group schedule, yet never with jongin.

and maybe this is just me, idk maybe i’m seeing shit, but have you noticed how other members act around them when they’re having moments? just look at suho’s (especially suho, seriously if kaisoo havin moment and he is around quick look at this man’s face for his reaction) or chen’s face since they tend to be more obvious showing it, chanyeol and lay would quickly distract the attention (actually i think chanyeol third-wheeling them especially on the stage to stop the gheiness leak, this guy trying so hard to ship himself  w/ soo, what if he does this bc he wants us to see kaisoo as casual fanservice ship? like if he does it too w/ soo then kaisoo won’t be that obvious, ppl would think if kaisoo just the same with chansoo,  omg i feel so deluded rn /embarrassed/ ) 

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baek covered his mouth - was he smiling?

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did he need to stand up to point at him honestly? this kid basically had already said “i chose baek bc i had to (so everybody gets picked). by heart i wanted to choose soo” then he proceeded to stand up - to point at his waifu repeatedly as if he needed to assure soo that he meant it (he indeed wanted to choose soo), i mean, honestly? really? 

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suho giving the most obvious reaction here

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look at chen

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honestly look at chen’s face rn

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they were in their own world and chen could only sigh

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chen looked at jongin but jongin only had his eyes on soo

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chen said something but the two still in their own world

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suho and xiumin turned their head to see jongin

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jongin stopped smiling and be like -oh shit i forgot there’s camera- baek was like -of course you would say that jongin-, see baek’s laugh stopped and he looked at jongin for a sec (this gif is sped up btw)

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bet the MC is shipping them too

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chanyeol being a third-wheel like usual

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honestly chanyeol? soo only wanted to whisper to jongin

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sudden appearance of mr.cockblocker 

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yeol eyeing soo who was blowing jongin ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) then he grinned after it finished

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i guess this happened first

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then this, yeol to the rescue -must. separate. them. must. cover. them-

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but why?

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luhan and chen smiled

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that girl is totally shipping them now

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and this was how baekyeol reacted to kaisoo mating dance

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kris looked at them briefly then averted his gaze somewhere else

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look how lay’s head tilt to the side slightly when soo started hugging jongin - as if lay was looking at soo’s arms movement - and look at soo eyeing him

once again maybe this is just me being crazy and deranged shipper /sobs/, you prob dont see the same shit as me, and sorry if my explanations seem to be forced/fantasized but in all honesty i see them like that

also how the interviewers like to tease kaisoo, (like shindong, or that SINA’s girl) how sometimes they like to imply …things about them - maybe this is why the company doesnt put them together in mini-group schedule lol

ah i’m sorry for answering it too damn long, honestly there were things that i wanted to add but i forgot and i’m sleepy now, so i guess i’ll wrap this up, thank you again, you’re an angel too! /hugs you/ :) 

for non-shippers, i apologize if this annoy you somehow, i don’t mean any harm whatsoever, i just wanted to let the thoughts out of my brain and since this is tumblr - a blogsite, a site where you can write stuffs, where you can spill your thoughts - soooo, yeah…. just skip this delulu post if it annoy you, sorry again, okay? 

and for some of you think this post will ruin kaisoo image (tbh i was a lil bit afraid too), but just think about it, how big is the chance for that? i mean, basically all most used social medias have posted dozens of their recorded moments + fanarts (fanfics/videos/draws/etc), and somehow my word-vomits would do malice to them? i don’t think so tbh, plus i already stated that i’m a crazy/delulu/deranged/ nobody shipper (of course irl i’m just a normal and functional member of society) so IF somehow kaisoo’s image get tarnished bc of my post, their image still could be protected, just say: the poster had said that she’s delulu why would you believe a delulu person you dumbfuck???? so there. 

anyway have a good night/day, sorry for the long ass answer, sorry for the late reply bc college is a bitch, and sorry for the mistakes (maybe there are some mentioned names that are wrong,also the grammar and profanities too, hope my sentences make sense lel). there are a couple of unanswered asks, i’ll do them tomorrow. bye~

anonymous asked:

You're right about the statement thing but the problem is that you understand it since you're a fan, but a non-fan doesn't understand those things and neither he/she/it is interested in understanding. A non-fan the other day was wondering why Tay always transmits hateful and negative vibes, apparently she doesn't know other songs (maybe just bad blood). Everyone danced on SIO, I don't know what a big future LWYMMD will have tbh.

so like, in the effort of full disclosure, i have like maybe 2 friends irl that actually like taylor. most of my friends do not like taylor and i am constantlyyyyy teased about being her #1 fan lol. so, as you can imagine, when lwymmd came out of course there were a few convos to be had:

a friend to me: did you hear taylors new song? me: yes, did you? them: yeah i didnt like it and neither did __ me: oh them: it’s just really different and weird. it sounded like fergie me: ?? i dont even know what that means lol  them: its not a compliment me: oh lol them: idk ill have to hear the rest of the album when it comes out (sidenote: they didnt even know when it was coming) me: yeah i cant wait to hear the rest of the album them: yeah idk maybe im over taylor but ill have to listen to it. I’m sure that __ will still buy it though

a coworker to me: i heard your girls new song me: yeah? them: yeah it was fucking weird it didnt even sound like her except it was still annoying me: eyeroll okay them: i guess the old taylor is dead me: lol 

different coworker: hey i heard taylor’s new music me: cool did you like it them: uhh no. i was like, is she okay me: lol wdym them: she’s like angry or something me: lol, well… them: i guess taylor’s not playing nice anymore

three legit convos i had just before labor day weekend.

again i think the general point was to make her return known, to make a statement she wasn’t here to play, and to get people wondering what exactly she is doing with her music. and in those limited examples i think those things were achieved .. 

i would have a hard time believing someone knows bad blood and doesnt know a single other song or thing about taylor swift? in any case that seems like an exception not the norm. If someone is going to characterize her music, hateful is not the term i think most anyone would choose. maybe ‘hopeless romantic never taking fault for rs’s going sour’ i could see, but hateful and negative? removing bad blood from her catalog of songs i cant even think of another song that would fall on those lines except maybe dear john and better than revenge, but someone who only knows bad blood and doesnt know songs like ikywt, wanegbt, bs, sio, ls or ybwm prob wont know those old tracks at all. ???

and tbqh i dont think lwymmd is supposed to have a particularly huge future. it’s not a ‘shake it off’ type of song of the decade that everyone remembers, jmho

anonymous asked:

Idk why i love leo moons so much more than leo suns (well actually most of the people that bullies me are leo suns wtf) 2 of my best friends were like leo moons, i feel safest tbh. somehow i feel like i just want to dote on them. Like we give the "mom" role to each other, we take care of each other and help out the best way we can and i love it how leo moons could be spicy at times but that actually helped me. i miss them why do i have to be in different high school ffs -an aqua dom (sag moon)

I know like one other leo moon irl and he’s one of my besties, we always looks out for each other and when I was a bit of a nerd and he was the popular kid (before we got close) he’d always look out for me like honestly so pure

that one about me meme !!

tagged by: @eferalis  &  @teufelme  (  love  you  both  sm  !  )
tagging: (  most  people  have  done  this,  so  im  retagging  a  few  friends  just  to  let  them  know  i  love  them  tbh.  )  @saigeburt@obsidianvvings@blessedfate@welabitchek@piecesofacrow@magnusdecus@reincarnatum​,  @leonherz​ ,  @ari-rivaille-ackerman​ &  @iphigeneiia

REAL NAME: bethany.  (  everyone  always  asks  me  if  i  prefer  beth  or  bethany  every  year  &  it’s  just  whatever’s  easiest  for  you  chummy  !  :’)  )
NICKNAMES:  beth,  clarrie.
SEXUALITY:  bisexual  /  biromantic.
PRONOUNS:  she  /  her.
ARE YOU A MORNING PERSON?:  no. do  not  talk  to  me  for  like  half  an  hour  before  i  wake  up  because  i  will  give  you  the  most  filthiest  of  looks  &  grunt  in  your  general  direction.  i  am  not  the  girl  you  know  online,  because  i  do  not  come  on  &  post  before  i  have  woken  up. pls  &  thank.
WHEN SWIMMING, DO YOU PREFER TO DO IT IN THE OCEAN,  OR IN A LAKE?:  i  prefer  the  ocean,  because  the biggest  lakes  we  have  here  tend  to  include  big  boats  in  them,  so  it’s  pretty  unlikely  i’ll  ever  be  able  to  try  one  (  well,  i  nearly  did  in  france  &  that  was  an  experience.  too  dirty  for  me.  )  plus,  we  once  went  to  the  ocean  in  the  Caribbean,  &  once  you’ve  seen  such  a  clear  ocean,  you  never  go  back.  
ANYONE YOU WOULD LIKE TO MEET IN REAL LIFE?: tbh  there  are  a  few,  because  some  people  i’ve  met  really  have  had  an  important  impact  upon  me,  but  honestly  i  don’t  really  know  how  i’d  react  around  people.  i  laugh  nervously  &  miss  important  cues  &  i  can  be  shy  ?  like  awkwardly  so…  if  you’re  a  chill  person,  you  won’t  mind  it  i’m  sure,  but  if  you  need  tonnes  of  effort  please  give  me  some  time  to  work  up  into  that.
ANYONE YOU HAVE MET IN REAL LIFE?: well  a  long  time  ago  mine  &  @teufelme​‘s  mums  were  placed  near  each  other  in  the  same  workplace,  they  then  went  on  to  have  2  daughters  who  are  now  best  friends.  
WHEN DID YOU FIRST JOIN?:  end  of  oct   /  beginning  of  nov  last  year  !  can  you  believe  im  almost  coming  up  to  a  year  now?
YOUR CURRENT ACCOUNT(S)?:   @circumspects​,  @disscciative​,  @cfdevotion​,  @bogenschutze​,  @deathlost​,  @leistungs​,  @dcnchou​  are  the  most(?)  active. (  it’s  in  order  of  activity.  )
ANY PEEVES?:  irl:  people  who  walk  slow  &  then  conveniently  step  in  your  path  when  you  get  the  prime  opportunity  to  overtake  them.  /  rp:  people  who  are  too  harsh  /  critical  on  certain  characters  /  ships  etc  &  then  expect  people  to  still  interact  with  them  even  though  they  are  blatantly  /  repeatedly  rude  about  it.  ( E SP WHEN THEY ACT LIKE THE VICTIM.  )
UNPOPULAR OPINION:   BOI. pineapple  belongs  on  pizza,  more  than  pepperoni  does.  
DO YOU EASILY GET JEALOUS?:  yeah.  i  don’t  show  it  but  i  am  easily  jealous.  it’s  usually  something  i  hide  though  ?  cause  it  damages  things.  i’ve  gotten  better  now  tbh !
DO YOU EASILY GET ANGRY?:  see, i  argue  this  because  i  never  really  feel  pissed  ?  like  yeah  i’m  all  gah  !  but  it  takes  a  lot  to  really  piss  me  off,  in  the  sense  that  i  will  have  a  go  at  like  everything,  otherwise  im  just  annoyed  /  need  time  to  myself  for  a  bit.
ARE YOU EASY TO CHEER UP?:    na.  tbh  i  need  someone  to  sit  down  &  listen  to  me  rant  for  a  bit  before  im  truly  good.  i’m  just  a  difficult  person  &  more  pessimistic  than  optimistic,  but  after  some  time  i’m  pretty  good.  
ARE YOU GOOD AT HIDING YOUR EMOTIONS?: YES  &  NO.  i  like  laugh  whenever  im  feeling  awkward,  so  feeling  sad  is  also  a  time  where  i  laugh.  i  always  apologise  when  upset  /  angered.  but  honestly,  i  can  be  an  open  book  when  faced  with  the  right  emotions  /  big  bouts  of  it.  
WHAT’S THE VERY BEST WAY TO CHEER YOU UP?:  talk  to  me,  make  my  opinions  feel  valid.  to  know  that  someone  feels  the  same  &  genuinely  cares  about  my  emotions  really  helps  me  at  times.  i  also  like  hugs,  support  &  comfort.  i  love  it  when  people  give  it  to  me  tbh.
ARE YOU CURRENTLY IN A RELATIONSHIP?: i  married  @teufelme​  in  sept  2014,  so  not  really  looking  for  another  wife  rn  :)
DO YOU CURRENTLY HAVE A CRUSH ON SOMEONE:  jean  kirstein.  but,  i  mean  i  do  crush  on  real  life  people.  the  issue  is  that  if  you’re  nice  to  me  at  some  point  i  get  like  a  5  minute  crush  where  i  envision  the  “  what  if…?  ”  of  dating  /  marriage.  im  secretly  gross  lol.
DO YOU KISS ON THE FIRST DATE?:  if  they’re  nice  enough  to  kiss  i  s’pose?  it  involves  context.  i  have  nothing  against  it,  but  i  don’t  think  i  would  if  they  weren’t  the  type  of  person  i wanted  to  kiss.  
DO YOU PREFER GOING OUT,  OR STAYING HOME,  WHEN IT COMES TO DATES?:  mixed??  IDK  a  good  date  @  home  is  effortless  &  it  is  just  really  comfy  to  just  sit  &  watch  netlix  & chill  ,  but  then  i  love  dates  outside,  especially  when  it’s  just  the  two  of  us  sitting  around  &  looking  at  the  sky  /  a  good  scene.  you  can  always  win  my  heart  through  sunsets  &  good  food.  picturesque  scenes  currently  being  my  shit.  
FAVOURITE DRINK:  ???  starbucks  maybe?  but  then  cocktails  are  like…  really  good  im  a  sucker  for  coloured  drinks,  tbh.  anything  thats  nice  &  sweet,  if   it  looks  good  bonus.  &  anything  from  starbucks  has  to  be  topped w/  cream.
FAVOURITE FOOD:  pls  don’t  make  me  choose  ; - ;

Both Jude and Leia have fought for their lives, both Jude and Leia know what it is to experience trauma, loss, and to recover from those things, and to be completely frank, both Jude and Leia have their shit together WAY BETTER than most of us young adults IRL. They are on it.

So since that is the case, why are they mature enough to hold steady careers, be financially independent, and live on their own, but suddenly not mature enough to potentially hold romantic relationships with people who are, yes, older, but NOT MORE MATURE than they are? Putting aside that Jude and Leia are clearly stated to be adults in their universe (World Guidance Book says this, others their age hold careers (e.g. Agria), Jude is offended Milla calls him “boy” and says she’s not that much older than him, Jude’s father tells Jude’s mother that Jude is not a child and she should not coddle him anymore, etc), they act like it, too. They know what they want, they understand what it is that they want, and they clearly know how to take care of themselves in every way: financially, physically, and emotionally. Unlike characters like Elize, who clearly acts like a child and needs to be taken care of by guardians still (Driselle and Rowen), Jude and Leia support themselves and are very obviously functioning adults.

So when people balk at shipping them with characters like Milla, Ludger, or Alvin because of the age difference, it bugs me, because if they are old enough to hold steady careers and have independent living–something that most twenty-somethings IRL can’t do yet (no offense to twenty-somethings, life is hard as shit esp with student loans, but I’m making a point here)–then how the hell are they not old enough to make informed, rational decisions about their romantic lives? FFS, both of them are more mature than, for example, Alvin could ever hope to be tbh, so there’s no being taken advantage of here, this is just two adults making choices for themselves if those are the choices they want to make.

This is not RL, but even if it were, Jude and Leia would be light years ahead of the rest of us, let’s not kid ourselves. (And yes, I know light years measure distance. I mean like, they’re far ahead of us, in every conceivable way. When it comes to the ROAD OF LIFE, they are LIGHT YEARS ahead of us, for sure.)

anonymous asked:

who are your favorite female icons, like who gives you the most inspiration? im curious cause i think youre really cool and tbh youre one of my biggest inspirations sorry if that sounds dumb

i have a lot of female icons, honestly who i am is because of them - i don’t have a whole ton of irl good examples in adults so i sort of look up to a lot of artists and musicians as examples or goals. i will probably miss a few but i’ll try to list some!! also that’s not dumb that makes me beyond happy and honored to hear :’) thank you for telling me <3

kathleen hanna, brody dalle, otep shamaya, lynn breedlove, joan jett, carrie brownstein, corin tucker, laura jane grace, kimya dawson, lynz ballato, jessicka addams, kira roessler, kat bjelland, chantal claret, nadya tolokonnikova, kelli mayo, poly styrene, ivan coyote, frida kahlo, georgia o keefe, alison bechdel, valerie solanas, and the guerilla girls are some female icons that i feel very strongly about and look up to a lot!

anonymous asked:

I'm really happy I found this blog tbh because I thought I was the only once grossed out by this. I also recently found out that two of my close friends ship irl people (one ships phan) but I'm really bad with expressing my words/views so could you please give me a short argument for why its bad, so I can express it to them. Sorry if you've already done this!! And thank you in advance!

Sorry that your friends do that, anon!

Okay, so I’m just gonna list some reasons why shipping real people is bad:

  • It’s very dehumanizing
  • The main reason why most of these ships exist is because of how often relationships between Gay White Boys™ are fetishized
    • Seriously there’s so many unhealthy ships that only exist because of the *~yaoizzz~*
  • Because a lot of these ships are often between people that already have relationships with someone else, the other person often gets harassed
    • I think @torielagainstships says it best in this post
  • A lot of the people being shipped have said that they don’t want to be shipped (could only find one link right now, sorry)
  • (specifically for ph@n) In a lot of Dan and Phil’s tumblr tag videos, a lot of ph@n is shoved in their faces (including porn!! which counts as sexual harassment)
    • Most of the time they seem very uncomfortable when seeing that stuff

Yeah, so that’s all of the arguments that I have for now! Good luck!

anonymous asked:

hello I'm kinda new to the fandom but. is shipping yongguk and daehyun a thing???? bc I saw a pic of them together side by side and oh boy did they look like HAWT couple!!! so it got me wondering,, anyways. love your blog! bye <3

hii welcome! hope you’ve been enjoying yourself :D

I think so yeah? some people do. bangdae are known for being a bit awkward together irl so I don’t really see it (tbh I’m not really in with shipping in the romantic sense anyway, I just like seeing how the members interact with each other depending on their personalities). on the other hand those two are arguably the most popular members so that might be a factor for some people? idk but yeah some people do ship them! 

and thank you!

anonymous asked:

I keep getting anon hate bc my wife is a lesbian and I'm a trans guy and tbh I keep laughing. Most of them are something along the lines of "she isn't lesbian or she just doesn't see you as a man" and I'm just??? She's the one who outed me to my OB bc she couldn't stand hearing the doc use fem pronouns with me (which is what started my transition) and is the only irl friend is have who uses he/him when talking about me! If that's not seeing me as a man, idk what is. - Lilac

i have a similar situation, where my SO is straight, but he’s with me so i pick on him and make gay jokes at him but he tells people that ask that he has a boyfriend and that makes me extremely happy

-Darastrix

anonymous asked:

leesh i wanna ask you something which i know is a sensitive subject so i'm not sure how to word this but what do you think about some people who are in their 30s and 40s and call h sexual names and write smut and stuff like people who are 3, 4 maybe even 5 years older seem normal to me because that's not a huge gap and it's something that could happen irl i guess but when someone is having sexual thoughts about someone who is 10-20 years younger than themselves it seems super creepy to me idk

tbh, i’ve never really put a lot of thought into this because i’ve mainly only thought about how weird it is when underage fans super sexualise him. like, i was in a group chat once where most of the girls were underage and i had to end up leaving because they just super sexualised harry so much and talked about what they wanted him to do to them… it made me so uncomfortable and why i no longer follow any underage fans. it’s all just a little too uncomfortable for my liking.

as for older fans… i guess i’ve only really thought about it from the larries standpoint because so many seem to be married with children. like, sharon go look after your children and stop focusing on two boys that don’t even know one another at this point. don’t even get me started on the doll lady. that’s just fucking creepy. the amount of time and energy and MONEY she puts into her own narratives is insane. buying domains such as freddiereign.com is one thing, but buying and creating all these dolls for some dumb videos is just plain dumb to me. where’s that gonna get you? ugh, she makes me so mad.

sorry, this wasn’t at all what you asked omg but tl;dr i guess it’s not really something i’ve thought about until now and i do low key kinda think it’s weird that someone who is old enough to be his mum is painting him in such a light and i can’t imagine he’d be too comfortable with the situation either.

anonymous asked:

Um, can I ask how you get into these kinds of tickling scenarios irl? Like, I haven't a clue how I would even go about looking for people who'd be interested...

i meet people off tumblr, ticklingmediaforum, and fetlife

but ive had the most luck thru tumblr tbh. you just have to find people that are in your area, and talk to them and get comfortable and become friends yo

hey i know im usually a shitty and negative person but honestly the amount of love i have for all my friends???? both irl and online??

honestly they are all so different and its so amazing to me because most of my life ive mostly interacted with the same type of people fsr,,, and now its like,,, every person i talk to has a different aesthetic, different sense of humor, different way of speaking and doing things and tbh some of my friends are like,,, really bad people but i love them all so much

anonymous asked:

tbh. idk what it is but internet friends always mean so much more to me than irl friends?? like we're always closer. old people were dead wrong abt the impact of technology on children lmao

yeah lmao like?? my online friends have always been so much more caring and closer than any irl friends ive had honestly