and more but too lazy to tag

Questions for the Blogger!

I got tagged by @queerlaurabarton

Rules: Answer 30 questions and tag 20 blogs you are contractually obligated to know better.

1. Nicknames: Beej


2. Gender: Female


3. Star sign: archer thing I’m too lazy to spell


4. Height: 5’4


5. Time: 8:23 am


6. Birthday: Nov 23


7. Favorite Bands: Foo Fighters, No More Kings, The Hush Sound, Bastille

8. Favorite solo artists: Dessa


9. Song stuck in my head: Ahead of Myself by The Ambassadors 


10. Last movie I watched: the Addams Family


11. Last show I watched: Lucifer


12. When did I create my blog: this one was around March 2015


13. What do I Post/Reblog: mostly sci fi’s, Star Trek, Star Wars, Mass Effect, Stargate, Dark Matter, Overwatch….and really just a ton of other fandom stuff with some critical comments here and there


14. Last Thing I Googled: the weather


15. Other Blogs: sapphicstartrek


16. Do I get asks: yup, these days it’s mostly hate which is…fun


17. Why I Chose My URL: I needed to take a step back from trek and have been replaying mass effect


18. Following: 150


19. Followers: 2,064


20. Average Hours of Sleep: poor


21. Lucky number: 3


22. Instruments: I know technically how to play guitar, flute, piano, and trumpet but I’m pretty tone deaf


23. What am I wearing: boring work clothes


24. Dream job: Starfleet. or idk, these days I’d kinda love to get to work in the gaming sector but really I just want a job now where I’m not the only girl on help desk because that’s getting tiring


25. Dream Trip: I wanna go back to the Emirates


26. Favorite Food: shawarma


27. Nationality: Canadian


28. Favorite Song RIGHT NOW: The Sky is a Neighbourhood by Foo Fighters


29. Last Book Read: Not Your Villain by C.B. Lee


30. Top Three Fictional Universes You’d Want to Join: Star Trek, Mass Effect, Star Wars

tagging, if you wanna: @sidewaystime, @omegastation, @celestialziegler, @rowdyravens, @spacerhapsody, @vulpixmew, @whitemaege, and @transbat

Tagged by lovely @plsshutuprichie so why not give it a try?

Name: Lidia

Gender: Female

Star sign: Libra

Height: 5′5 

Sexuality: bi with leaning to boys

What images do you have set as your desktop/cell wallpapers? On my computer I have eulcs team G2 but just because I’m too lazy to change this and I don’t use computer often and on my phone it’s Owen Teague

Have you ever had a crush on a teacher? Nay

What was your last text message? Okay, noted - to my brother because we tell each other what do we want for our birthday and stuff (I’m getting Pennywise t-shirt y’all :O!!)

What do you see yourself doing in 10 years? If survive this much I will probably work as a doggie trainer living beautiful life with my rats in my own home baking my own cakes

If you could be anywhere else right now, where would you be? Australia, cuddling koalas and capybaras

What was your coolest halloween costume? It wasn’t realy for halloween but I dressed up as Batman to school and it was low budget cosplay but I think about it with tear in my eye

What was your favourite 90′s show? I’d choose X files

Who was your last kiss? your mo– no, seriously I’ve never kissed

Have you ever been stood up yas, recently a guy stood me up for my brother’s wedding

Favourite ice cream flavor chocolate!!!

Have you been to Las Vegas? well, I’ve never been abroad so I think that speaks for itself xD

What’s your favourite book? how am I supposed to choose one??? This time I’ll go with “Needful things” by S. King

What’s the stupidest thing you’ve ever done? I accidentally bought 1kg of cheese and cried about it. That was wild day

What loser: Stan and Eddie and Richie (and Mike and Ben and Bill and Bev)

tagging: @trashrichie @pennywise-fucker @reddieairconditioner @ricardotrashmouthtozier @lotusgirl16 @ i don’t know, anyone who wants to participate feel like i tagged u!! also, no need to do it!!

IMPORTANT REMEMBER THAT

YOU ARE

A pedophile if you are sexually attracted to REAL LIFE prepubescent children

A rapist if you force sex or anything of a sexual nature onto A REAL LIFE person without their consent

A abuser if you physically beat A REAL LIFE person or emotionally abuse someone

YOU ARE NOT

A pedophile if you ship characters together that are younger or a ship something with a age gap

A rapist if you ship something considered “problematic”

A abuser if you post/draw/write about a ship that is considered “problematic”

AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST

Understand the difference between FICTION vs REALITY.
One thing Anti’s like to say to counter people who ship “problematic” thing is that

“oh well if you want representation in fiction or that when a /insert thing here/ is wrong you get all upset!!! See fiction does effect reality”

I need you all to know that yes shows or books and things like that do effect reality to a point, but just because things CSI or Criminal Minds or any horror movie ever made exists doesn’t mean that all of a sudden crime and murder just started happening more. Why should I hate and not support things like Killing Stalking just because it shows “problematic” things?
This is where the fiction vs reality thing comes in to play.
Just because you see a movie/show/video game or anything do something
IT DOESN’T PEOPLE ARE GOING TO DO THOSE THINGS
Yes there are very very impressionable people out there who see something like GTA and are like “yup I’m gonna steal a car now” but just because a few people are stupid doesn’t mean we should censor everything and act like art is something that must be moderated.
If someone sees some fluffy fanart of JD/Veronica and genuinely thinks that their relationship is something completely healthy and normal then they probably take a second and then learn some things about the real world.
Does this mean we should get rid of that nice fluffy fanart because a few people are too stupid to understand that’s not how things actually work?

N o

We shouldn’t punish and shame and hide art because it doesn’t fit into a few peoples ideal.
Everyone has the right to draw or write anything they want as long as they can tell the difference between their art and the real world.


FINAL POINTS

You don’t need to have been raped or abused previously to ship “problematic” things because its a “coping” method.

Understand the difference between lines on a paper or pixals on a screen from a living, breathing, actual human being.

Don’t tell someone to “kill themselves” or that their “rapists” “abusers” “pedophiles” because they ship something you don’t like.

Don’t tell people who just say they don’t ship something that their “attacking people” or anything like that.

If someone ships something you don’t like or you see something that triggers you
BLOCK THE PERSON
BLOCK THE TAG
B L O C K
That mechanism exists for a reason.


Ship what you ship.

Don’t ship whatever you want.

Just don’t actually hurt or attack anyone

Stop being dicks to each other and just get on with your life.

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internalised misogyny: *slut shaming girl groups for sexy concepts but celebrating boy groups for sexy concepts*

internalised misogyny: *believing male groups are superior purely because they are male*

internalised misogyny: *attacking girl group members simply just for being in your male bias’s presence*

NOT internalised misogyny: *stanning a boy group*


can we abandon this narrative that all boy group stans hate women?

i spent too much time on this– so I’ve been toying with the idea of an RPG!AU! Despite the fact that I know next to nothing about D&D or fantasy/RPG settings… (fhkdjs blame my nerris muse for this…) The colours are in no way final, either. Preston gave me a hell of a time…

They’re all older as well! Anywhere from mid-late teens/early-20s. I have most of the cast’s classes and alignments sorted out; I would’ve started out with the main 3, but Max and Nikki are harder for me to nail a design for.  Hit me up if you’ve got some thoughts on this or would like to know about the other characters before I draw them!

I’ll put all my current headcanons for these 3 under the cut ↓ ↓ ↓ (Classes are loosely based on the many from D&D, but I wanted to keep things flexible so m(_ _)m) 

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