and its ace

liveswiththebigfeet replied to your post “correct me if I’m blatantly wrong, but asexuals can be heteroromantic…”

If someone can’t be het and ace then they also can’t be gay and ace which is bullshit. Your logic has to be consistent

its not that they cant be het and ace, its that when when people say “cishet ace” they really mean “I’m completely ignorning your asexuality in favor of pointing out that you’re cisgender and heteroromantic.”

these are the same people who will then say “its okay if ur gay and ace” when they really mean “I’m once again ignoring your asexuality in favor of focusing on your being gay.”

i have only ever seen “cishet ace” be used an insult and an implication that a person is actually a cishet trying to be a special snowflake*. 

*special note that all aces and aros are snowflakes because theyre friggin beautiful and sparkly


CONTEST RESULTS: Psychic/Fairy Ace

Our fifth gym will be, as previously discussed, a Psychic/fairy dual -type gym, the first of four two-type gyms of that ilk! Its ace, as determined by you the community, will be the fully-evolved form of this moon-rabbit themed line by apostlecrow!

Now, we know a few things about this line already. Its type, for one thing, will be Psychic/Fairy or Fairy/Psychic in its evolved form. Which will it be, though? For that matter, what should the type of the pre-evvolved form be? And what about this proposed ability for the evolved form, Phases, which “lets it switch between..Form 1 [which] would be primarily offensive, able to summon crescent-shaped boomerangs as weapons… [and] Form 2 [which]would be defensive, able to summon a bubble around itself/disk in front of itself as shields.”

POLL A: First Stage’s Type

A1. Same as the evolved form (Fairy/Psychic or Psychic/Fairy, determined by Poll B)

A2. Psychic

A3. Fairy

A4. Other (please include a suggestion)

POLL B: Second Stage’s Type

B1. Psychic/Fairy

B2. Fairy/Psychic

POLL C: Phases

C1. Keep this ability and method of form change

C2. Change it (please hold off on suggestions for now until we’re done this set of polls)


realizing you’re on the ace spectrum like

“I’d hit that.” “You… you don’t even know them though??”

“Oh come on, everyone has a list of celebrities they’d totally have sex with if they had a chance.” “Haha yeah ok” *internally* what

"Ya so like for the past few years I’ve felt zero attraction to people I wasn’t friends with first?? Lol what’s up with that”

Why did you have to have sex with them?? Couldn’t you just hold it?? Like pee??

“You’ll meet someone who makes you feel like that someday, don’t worry” “……sounds fake but ok”

“Sex is an important part of a relationship! Everyone has sexual needs!” “….sounds fake but ok”

“Dude that girl is so hot” “I know right?? Look at her fucking eyeliner. Goals. The fuck.” “No I meant like… look at that ass” “Are we looking at the same person are you really focussing on her ass look at how visually appealing her outfit is and dont you dare fuckin tell me that eyeliner isnt fierce as hell

“Aesthetic attraction and sexual attraction are two different things” *puzzle pieces vERY RAPIDLY FALLING INTO PLACE*

*staring at the ceiling at two-thirty in the morning* i could die a virgin and i would regret absolutely nothing

“What’s your ideal girl like?” “Uh… my best friend?” “Oh cute, you want your girlfriend to be the one who knows you best!” “No I meant I am literally only attracted to my best friend she is my ideal girl please help I am dying”

“We’ve been dating for six months and we still haven’t had sex!!” “Have you marathoned Star Wars together yet?” “Yeah we did that like two weeks ago” “Well what more do you want

*thinking about an attractive woman* *dissecting my entire personality and sexuality to figure out why I’m attracted to her this time* is it the muscles. Oh my god is this a sex thing. Oh my god what the hell is this. Oh my god what the fuck is the wtf the fuck the fUCK

*Next day* Zarya could punch me in the face while eating me out and I’d let her but only because she’s a fictional character and therefore could literally never do that


(why is that tho. maybe i should look into that *doesnt look into it*)

“What do you find most attractive in a girl?” “Gotta love those strong emotional bonds” “No I meant like what’s a turn-on for you?” “DID I McFUCKING STUTTER”

*staring at the ceiling at two-thirty in the morning again* sexual attraction should be added to the cryptid wikia

“Yeah sex sounds like a great stress reliever and a nice way to strengthen the bonds between you and your partner(s)” “Well there’s more to it than that…” *The Arctic Monkey’s Do I Wanna Know starts playing in my head* “Haha ok buddy”

"There’s more to being ace than just not being interested in having sex or not feeling sexual attraction. In fact there’s a whole spectrum. You may even feel sexual attraction sometimes but still be ace. You can also be gay and ace at the same time.” “…bro.” “Also it’s totally normal.” *sobbing* “…bro. Bro there are words for it there’s an entire list oh my god-”


All A-spec people belong. 
We are all deserving of love, respect, acceptance and community. 

I wasnt able to include all of the flags/identities I wanted to in this, but hopefully the message is still clear. I might re-do this one day to be even more inclusive/include all the flags I missed. Maybe with a second ring or something.

Image Description: The picture is an a-spec positive drawing with the words ‘All A-spec people belong’ in big letters inside a ring of hearts and flowers. 

The hearts in the ring are coloured to resemble a-spec flags: 

  • Two asexual flag hearts - black, grey, white and purple stripes
  • Two demisexual flag hearts - a black triangle on the side with white, purple and grey stripes
  • Two aromantic flag hearts - dark green, light green, white, grey and black stripes
  • Two demiromantic flag hearts - a black triangle on the side with white, dark green  and grey stripes

Between each heart in the ring there are (8) flowers. Each flower is coloured uniquely to resemble a different lgbt+ flag. This is meant to represent how a-spec people can also have varied non a-spec identities that are just as important to them/the variety of different identities among a-spec people. 

The flags seen on the flowers, starting from the top of the circle and going clockwise, are: 

  • The pansexual/panromantic flag - pink, yellow and blue stripes
  • The bisexual/biromantic flag -pink, purple and blue stripes
  • The lesbian flag - different shades of pink stripes 
  • The gay flag - a rainbow/red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple stripes
  • The polysexual/polyromantic flag - pink, green and blue stripes
  • The transgender flag - stripes in the pattern: blue, pink, white, pink, blue
  • The intersex flag - yellow with a ring of purple in the middle
  • The non-binary flag - yellow, white, purple and black stripes

So I lowkey used klapollo for my part in @jinglejongle‘s upcoming Valentines Day PMV MAP (im so weak for these two gdi) Watch the finished part here!