and it's completely ignored

elizabethkween  asked:

red x lizzy - dance with me

Maybe this is enough: Lizzy in his arms, twirling and smiling, hand in callused hand. He lingers, trailing his fingers down her spine to rest at the small of her back, and if she shivers, if the tips of her ears burn red, if her eyes suddenly dart away from his gaze—this is enough, he reminds himself, and doesn’t dare search for deeper meaning.

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send me a pairing/character + prompt/AU and i’ll write you something in five sentences or less // ship list

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Took key less than two seconds to roast Taemin’s reality show as soon as he got the chance 😂😂

Everyone is focusing on Jace moving into Magnus and cock blocking Malec but why is no one focusing on Jace has been essentially kicked out of his home? He’s been turned on by his people? The people he refers to as his family, the people he’s grown up with, don’t trust him? He went from being physically and mentally abused by Valentine to being treated like a criminal to being forced to leave the Institute? He’s given up. Alec turning up at Magnus’ to talk to Jace isn’t to tell him to move out so he could have Magnus to himself, but because he wants his brother to come back. He wants Jace to fight and not give up. I’m not bashing anyone for the jokes, the cock block jokes are absolutely hilarious, but no one seems to care about this. Why does no one care about this?

It always really bothers me when I see “cute” dog pictures on here where the dogs are actually distressed or owners are promoting things that can cause reactivity.

Examples:

Pictures of dogs and babies together.

Yeah, sometimes there are some cute ones, but then you see pictures like this one.

The dog isn’t happy about this situation. Ears back, forehead wrinkled, showing the whites of its eyes, leaning away.

This isn’t exactly cute because the dog is not wanting to be in this situation. At all. I wouldn’t even let this situation happen if I had a baby. No matter how good a dog is with things like having its jowls lifted, babies aren’t gentle because they can’t be. They don’t have the motor control to be gentile. Also, the baby is a relatively new addition to the household that the dog doesn’t know well and can often be uncomfortable with in the first place because it’s loud and strange. Having a baby do this to a dog just isn’t safe. If the dog gets to a point where they are extremely uncomfortable, they will try biting after giving warning signals like this and growling. If you ignore that a dog is uncomfortable at this stage, it can escalate.

Another set of pictures where uncomfortable body language is even more obvious:

Lip licking, showing eye whites, ears back, tense body posture, looking away. This is really scary to me. This dog is having its warning signs be completely ignored, and I wouldn’t be surprised if it tried biting soon in order to be more obvious it wants the situation to stop.

And no, dogs that bite in this situation aren’t “bad”. Biting is an extreme reaction to say “STOP”. Dogs start with body language cues saying they’re uncomfortable, then if the thing they’re uncomfortable with continues they will growl, but only if they haven’t been punished for growling (it’s a huge problem to punish growling because then the dog may decide not to use that warning signal, and growling is a super obvious warning signal that many people recognize, so it can be dangerous to get rid of). Then, if the thing they’re uncomfortable with still continues, they’ll bite. It’s all how dogs communicate. The body language, the growling, the biting. This is how dogs communicate.


Pictures where people have cut holes in their fence so the dog can look out.

Having dogs be able to do this can cause barrier frustration. If there’s a person or a dog or a squirrel, or really anything your dog may want on the other side of the fence, the dog will likely become frustrated that they can’t get to it.

Barrier frustration can lead to severe reactivity. It’d start with the dog barking and making a fuss about something on the other side of the fence. Then, maybe when you’re on a walk and they see a person on the other side of the street and start barking and lunging.

This type of behaviour where a dog is that overexcited can lead to redirection as aggressive behaviour. Ever hear about a “bite out of the blue” where a dog jumps a fence and bites the first person they come across? That started as barrier frustration, then escalated to being so wound up that when the dog finally tried jumping the fence they redirected all of that energy into aggression and attacked the person that, usually, they were running back and forth barking at on the other side of the fence.


Basically, learning about canine behaviour has made it hard to really enjoy a lot of photosets of dogs because, whether it’s one of the above examples or something else, usually there’s some body language in there somewhere that shows a dog is very stressed or it involves a bad idea that could result in serious reactivity issues.

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Our task is to construct an image of the man. We don’t yet know him. But we will.
└ for @johnsmoore ♡ (The Alienist, 2018)

pandiigirl  asked:

82 + 29 jungkook please?

Originally posted by jjeonguk

Prompt: “I was in the neighborhood.” + “Well, what do you want to do?”

Word Count: 3.1k

Genre: Fluff + bestfriend to lovers au

Warning: slight swearing (but not anything too explicit lol)

prompt list :)

“I’m coming over.”

As the three words left his mouth, you shot out of your bed, your blankets falling over to the floor as you exclaimed, “What do you mean, you’re ‘coming over’?!” 

“Well, I was just taking a drive and I was in the neighborhood, so I thought I’d come over to see you.” he said nonchalantly over the phone. 

Blinking your eyes in confusion, you repeated, “So your coming over? Right now?” 

“Yes, goodness, are you deaf? Be ready, I’ll be there in two. I wanna show you something.” he said before ending the call abruptly.

As you got out from your bed, slipping into your comfortable house slippers, you muttered to yourself, “He’s crazy. We just saw each other yesterday in class and he wants to meet again? What am I, his girlfriend?” 

Not that you’d mind that, would you now?

Scowling, you pushed away the voice in your head as you quickly threw on a sweatshirt you found draped across your chair.  

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“Hey there beautiful.” Jungkook grinned as you opened the door, a grumpy look on your face. Slipping on your sneakers, you grabbed your things and quickly locked the door behind you. 

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psa: its not hypocritical to criticize a system you’re dependent on. like if i had a dollar for everytime ive been called a hypocrite for critizing the psychiatric system while relying on it to help me; id be a rich man by now. its such a nasty way to make sure that the ppl most affected never get to be listened to, its also completely ignorant of how a good portion of psych patients are either directly forced or coerced into recieving said treatment

angelycdevil  asked:

YES LET'S TALK ABOUT STEVE AND HIS PAIN BECAUSE MY POOR BABY HAS BEEN THROUGH SO. MUCH. AND THEY KEEP ASKING HIM MORE. He's already emptied out, given the world his heart, his future and his life. WHAT MORE DO YOU WANT AND LET'S TALK ABOUT HIS PTSD AND DEPRESSION AND HOW HE GREW UP ALMOST DYING EVERY OTHER WINTER AND HOW HE KEPT FIGHTING AND HOW MUCH *SHIT* NEEDS TO HAVE HAPPENED THAT HE DOESN'T WANT TO FIGHT ANYMORE. LET'S TALK ABOUT HOW HE REALLY ONLY MADE ONE FRIEND, SAM and how alone he is

YES!!!!!!! Well, for friends I’d also say Nat’s a friend. And I think even in the movies she’s kind of shown she’s aware of Steve’s depression/ptsd/anxiety HOWEVER she’s no better either. 

I mean, we all makes jokes about Steve and the parachute thing and yeah he’s a superhero and he’s fine but like, there are signs when you’re suicidal. And a lot of that is recklessness. You just don’t care anymore and if something goes wrong you’re like ¯\_(ツ)_/¯¯\_(ツ)_/¯¯\_(ツ)_/¯

The only selfish thing Steve does is when he knows Bucky’s alive that he actively goes “you know what, no, I’m actually do something for once.” If AoU did anything right with Steve, it was showing his “I’ve given up  myself” side. “Guy who went into the ice…” He’d given up. Everything he wanted “died” with him when he crashed his plane. And Avengers? God, I wish they hadn’t cut his scenes about how “out of place” he felt. Those little snippets showed so much in such a small amount of time. Though, I think they did great with the punching bag scene. So there’s that. 

I don’t ask that fics have Steve be depressed and sad and it just focus on his recovery. I don’t say that people can’t just focus on other aspects. That’s totally fine! But it does kiiiind of rub me wrong when Steve is just fine and Bucky’s a mess. I think it’s great if they both help each other. Because as we’ve all kind of stated, there’s an almost unhealthy degree of co-dependency they have on each other. And I think having a duo recovery fic would be a really nice thing to read, if we’re going to play with the recovery aspects. Like, if you don’t want to touch the recovery at all? No worries :D that’s fine! Focus on something else. But when I’m having to sift through recovering!Bucky after recovering!Bucky and each and every fic has Steve this solid sturdy dude, I’m like 

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Terrifying

i also hate people who feel the need to rain on every parade that is not for them like i get the urge i really do!! it sucks when something you don’t quite get or think it deserves the praise and attention it is given becomes popular but part of being an adult is letting go of those feelings and getting over your own damn self!! let people have their fun as long as they don’t hurt anybody because frankly who needs all that negativity around fam? focus that energy on fighting isis or white supremacy instead. this has been a psa

My dad’s reaction to voltron,,

Pidge

Me: this is Pidge

Dad: He looks like a young Shaggy from Scooby Doo

Me: She’s a girl,,

Dad: That doesn’t change my option

Lance

Me: Okay what ‘bout him

Dad: I dont like his smile, hes up to something

Me: He probably is tbh

Keith

Dad: HE LOOKS LIKES MICHAEL JACKSON. is he?

Me: No, he’s Keith he sassy.

Hunk

Me: This guy’s Hunk

Dad: Does he have cookies in that picture? He looks nice, I like him. But his name is weird…

Shiro

Me: Shiro the space dad

Dad: Whats wrong with his legs? They’re too long I don’t like it.

Ships

Me: People ship Lance and Keith together, 

Dad: Are they in space or something, where’s their helmets? Are they both guys?

Me: Yeah

Dad: …What ever makes a cartoon happy, if they want to die without their helmets then its fine with me I guess.

((he completely ignored the gay ;)))

I wish people took glinda’s character seriously and valued her like they do elphaba

I really don’t like the changes to Mercy. As a player, it doesn’t make her more fun to play, it’s just more frustrating. Her Rez cooldown is too long to make a difference and can hardly help anything.

For me, the appeal of Mercy was that I didn’t have to aim. It makes me feel like im actually helping the team rather than popping an ult and being useless.

Few actual Mercy players hide only in a corner during a whole game after getting their ult. More times than not, the Mercy is in the heat of battle flitting from person to person trying to stay alive. Her ult is mostly used for 2-3 man rezzes, any more and she is incredibly lucky.

Overwatch is catering to the people who insist that support isn’t all that necessary to win. Its catering to a population of people who think DPS is everything in a game, ignoring healing, tanks, and defenders completely.

Its really frustrating that Blizzard doesn’t seem to take into account the people who love playing these characters and that, if people are complaining, they need to learn how to counter those characters.

triggerfingeronthegun  asked:

Niggers are disgusting, lol. But even they don't deserve your fetishizing ass. nasty.

“Reylos are the most behaved part of the fandom” Leave me and the other antis alone you low life, you literally told an anti to kill themselves, that’s just very low, delete your account and never come back. Oh and good job showing your racism.

  • me: i'm 19 and i can confirm that people my age view 15/16 year olds as children. there is no reason a decent person my age would be with someone that young romantically.
  • ot*yuri shippers: um?? but its only a 3 year age gap?? which is perfectly healthy?? gosh stop hating omg you don't know what you're talking about