hands up if you agree that being in a rut is the worst
feeling ever. it just sucks to be in a rut, wanting to do things but
just cannot get yourself to do them. but don’t you worry
friend; I got you.
step one : acceptance
first thing you got to do is accept that you’re
in rut. you’re in a rut but you want to change that, right? let’s begin!
step two : figure out why you are in that rut
here are some general reasons and solutions for you being in a rut :
1/ you have had a couple of rough days because of some issues say relationship and family issues -
solution :call up on a close friend and take a day off with him/her. you
might also want to talk it out with that person because talking helps; i promise.
2/ you are stressed about upcoming deadlines be it exams or assignments -
solution : study for the exam or work on that assignmentnow, yes now. after you’re done, take a day off to do your favorite thing,
whether it is shopping, or going out with friends, do it; you deserve it
3/ you’re burned out, stressed and/or tired -
solution : take few days off. you won’t be able to focus at all, and
taking rest will do wonders. you might also want to de-stress (by yours
truly) and do some self care (by @stuydies)
4/ you are dreading a event in the near future -
solution : yo fam, stop worrying now. you have no control on that event
whatsoever and it won’t help stressing about it. what will come, will
come and when it comes all i want you to do is embrace it.
step three : getting back to reality
now that you’re done resting, its time to get
back in track with your work and something you want to do when you’re in
a rut is to go baby steps.
here’s some things you can do to get into
that ‘get-shit-done’’ mood -
clean your room; vacuum it, dust those curtains and fluff up those pillows.
go for a long walk or a run to get your blood pumping
dance to some music with fast beats
write down the things you got to do
break all those above tasks into really really tiny tasks (say,
a - write down the topic, b - find the first point to write about and
then just say “she believed she could and so she did” and just dive right in, you got this!
step four : those laid back days
these are so essential, I swear. this is especially important when its
just been days with you getting out of a rut.
you can, for example, work
for one day and you take the next day off. after a few days of this,
you can change it a bit say, you work for two days then take the third
day off and so on. most importantly, don’t hurry yourself. go slow and
be patient, you’re going to do great things lovely.
and that’s it, it’s a wrap! if you’re in a rut - trust me,
you’ll get out of it soon enough. I hope this helped you in some way,
remember to stay wonderful love! :’) x
you have any questions regarding anything I said up there, feel free to
send in a message!
go check out my other masterposts here and you can always send in a request
is always open!!
Kyouka…is about to start a massacre in this war. If that comes to pass, she will never fulfill her wish of “living in the world of daylight”. Such is the fate that has befallen me. Lad…please help Kyouka.
LMAO so I read every tag on my artwork and someone left the ANGRIEST TAGS!!
LIKE? HAHA? OK?
oh no no klance here
op’s intentions DEfinitely weren’t to make it klance (they were. straight up added extra blush bcos i wanted keith 2 look more gay for lance. guess it wasnt enough. guess i needed to put MAXIMUM blush. theres literally always a backstory to my art when i draw - ie what was happening before the drawing took place. this was straight up klance. cool beans.)
I wont try to kill myself anymore.. and I dont want to self harm again.
I have been feeling so much better since I got out of tumblr, I want this feeling to keep going.
I dont want to stop posting my art online tho.. I still want to animate something that makes people happy.. I want to grow up as an artist and I want to keep growing up as a person. I want to keep learning and I want to find a style for me.
I dont want you (people who has supported me through the years) to be sad bc you wont ever be able to see my art.. I know some people got smiles whenever they saw me in their dash, so I wont be away from you, I know many people discovered that datfeli was me (yep. it was me. I didnt do a big effort hiding it tbh.. What a surprise. But good job to everyone who found out..? idk im surprised,,).
I am still on Internet tho.. I dont post drawings as often tho.. and I’m watching SU again (just wont interact with the fandom by drawing shipping, or drawing so much of it,, I just will maybe draw new charas and enjoy the show’s excllent character design.) I wont get back in tumblr in a long while (idek if i will ever come back tbh) but I am in another social media: Instagram. If you find out what my username is there, youre free to ask if its me i guess. I still dont know if I will be open about it there on IG, but, still you can ask, I have nothing to hide.
Also, I’d like to give you a clue for what the account name is.. it also has “feli” on it, and atm it has 3 posts.
And yeah.. my name is Florence Felipe.. heh. also yesterday (january12th) was my bday and it was quite nice!
I also want to mention someone: @wal-uigi, for being one of my most active followers, thank you so much for always being so nice to me. Im sorry I left,, but dont worry, Im ok, as in your dreams, and Im posting my art again. Thank you for being a loyal follower who could always agree with me, and defend me, even tho I used to have a bad behaviour in the past.
I know there’s a lot like them, but I hardly remember many names of many people, I have some of you in mind, but I cant remember the exact url, so i cant mention you,, im sorry.. but you gotta know that I love you, and I want to thank you for being there for ne when I needed you.
I dont know what else to type, so, bye, and thank you all for understanding. I might have forgotten something, but if i remember, Ill type it in a new post.
Marinette remembers getting the idea, getting caught up in her anger at Chloe’s selfishness. But now as she stood backstage waiting, she suddenly had second thoughts…
Maybe this was a bad idea?
Adrienette month is coming to a close, and you know who has been absolutely KILLING IT!?!?! yeah, you know who I’m talking about!! @yunyin has consistently posted the most amazing and gorgeous fanart this month every freak-fracking day!! AND JUST WOW!!! it’s definitely been the highlight of my month!! so thanks to @adrinettemonth and yunyin for being awesome ^^
THAT BEING SAIIIDDDD… its coming up to our favourite onion artist’s birthday sooon!!!!!! and as an early bday present for yunyin here’s a short drabble to show my appreciation, it falls under day 8th’s prompt, disney AU and is based on thispost by yunyin
**whispers** ***audreys birthday is on March 7… consider sending her all your thanks and well wishes and gifts galore!!!***
Marinette peeked out from the rich red expanse of the stage curtain, taking in the entire school sitting down in the auditorium for the annual end of school assembly. Her hands shook, listening, but not really hearing the drone of Principal Damocles as he stood behind the center podium. His words became a mere muffled background rumble, soundtracking Marinette’s unease as her eyes roved over the audience.
Prompt: @snow-morning asked: hi hello its my bday today so i was wondering if u could write a day6 jae fluff scenario where they spent the day together and idk really cute and soft
A/N: happy (blated, oops) birthday dude! I hope this is what you were looking for, i hope it wasnt too much r anything lmao. also big shout out to my computer for crashing, deleting my entire final draft :-)
Henlo happy birth I come with a tiny terumob scenario if thats ok. Its Teru's bday and he's been trying to contact Mob to ask him ti hang out but when he finally gets to call Mob the other boy says he has stuff to do. Teru is actually really sad but doesn't show it and spends the rest of the day in his house, watching tv until around 6 pm Mob comes knocking at his door with a present and explains he had been trying to gater up money working extra hours to buy Teru a sweater that ( 1/2)
(2/2) he had been wishing for for a lon time. Teu is super moved but the surprise doesn’t end here because Mob wanted to take Teru to the carnival in town to celebrate and of course Teru accepta and they spend the whole evening together just bein happy ahskdl I’m shitty with scenarios but I thought this was cute so happy birth
a/n: im not sure exactly how to categorize this but
there’s no smut or anything violent/ triggering. id mark this as fluff
but it really isn’t that either. inspired by this post
fufu💗💗🍑🍒 happy bday 2 my favorite darlin
shout out to Sora @blckwlk for always reading my works n supporting me
lov u LOTS💗💗💗
Hey! This fic has been driving me AROUND THE BEND and you guys are my last hope at this point. Okie dokie, I'm looking for a fic where D&H live together (platonically), it's raining and Hermione wants to go puddle jumping (or some other miscellaneous rainy day activity) and goes to invite draco, but *oops* he comes out from the shower in his bday suit (shameless, I know). Please, dramione gods, help a girl out?
Puddle JumpingbyRZZMG - M, one-shot - Flatmates, but not lovers. Draco Malfoy wants to change that fact, but he’s a man with too many vices & not enough bravery to jump the puddles of his miserable life to get the girl he wants - Hermione Granger. Will an outing with Hermione one rainy afternoon change everything for them, though? Dramione. Romance-Drama. 2013 DramioneLove Spring-Summer Fest #2 entry. COMPLETE!
Tho I would love a Choi Twin Bday Dlc, I have a strong feeling it's not... Usually w/dlcs, Cheritz releases them way before the event (valentines Christmas + April fools) so if it was a bday dlc I would have expected it to come out weeks ago. It's gotta be Mysme related, so (I think) it's either a new character or something for saeran or v (tho it might not be a new route). sry im speculating too much but cheritz is making me anxious haha! (plot twist: it's actually Elizabeth the 3rd in a suit)