I was wondering if you had a good spell/ritual that could be done with relative no needed extras (crystals, candles, etc.). I'm a pagan in hiding that has been dealing with a some-what bad breakup for several months. We didn't end it badly (in fact, me and my ex are still very good friends), but I am still in love with her, but she does not feel the same way. Are there any spells you can think of for moving past this? Blessed Be! -Mare
There are definitely options for limited supplies!
- One of the most classic, simple spells out there is to focus your energy, write down the thing you want to stop doing on a piece of paper, then quickly tear it up or burn it and throw it away.
- Something I have found that really helps me overcome spiritual and emotional blocks in life is to just sit outside with my back to a tree and feel the energy move through it and really think about my situation. Being out in nature really shows you how precious your life is. Nature always seems to go on regardless, and it can show you that you can as well :’)
- Meditation is really great for this kind of stuff. If you can, get into a meditative space in your head and try to go deep into the parts of yourself that still hold these feelings. Closer contact with them will help you evaluate them and start to move forward.
- Cleansing rituals are bomb. If you lack incense or any method of smoke cleansing, you can just do this in your bathroom. On a full moon, feel the energy of the lunar night come down and fill your body. Then take a bath or shower and visualise the water and the moonlight still inside you washing the hurt away, leaving you with a clearer head. Using ya favourite shampoos and bathstuff is nice for this also.
A non witchy thing I can suggest as a fellow human who has been in a similar situation to you in the past is to try to talk to ya buddies more often and to pick up a new hobby. Distraction can be the best medicine.