and im very conflicted by it

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This is a friend over on Instagrams doing!! She posted a pic of Varric smiling and I had to see what smiling Solas looked like… So yeah! This is what he would look like if he really liked showing us those gnashers… 🤔 I feel very conflicted… Nice to see him smile and all but hmmm…. Also, I think we should all ignore the fact that he looks a bit like Gargamel in the bottom left pic… Yes… As you can see, I have had a very productive morning and got many, many important things done… *pats self on back*

As a response to season 4 starting today, here’s Clarke as Queen of the Ice Nation from the story The White Queen Running - by @entirelytookeen

Commissioned illustration by Irene Koh @prom-knight, artist for the upcoming graphic novel sequels to Korra, The Legend of Korra: Turf Wars.

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Make Me Choose

  • Anon Asked: Kenny Omega or AJ Styles 
MBTI Types as Waterfalls

 im sorry everybody has already done all the cool stuff! but u guys can send me ideas on what to do next!

ESTJ: Dettifoss. Europes most powerful waterfall!

ISFP: Plitvice. So picturesque! Bursting with colours!

ENTP: Blue Nile Falls. Definitely something new and some of it is being used for a power dam. Its local name means ‘smoking water’!

ESTP: Tugela falls. Have to do a lot of climbing but it’s worth it!

INFP: Nohkalikai Falls. It changes a lot. During summer it’s quite tranquil but during winter its very… violent? im at a loss of words, just like i would be when my INFP sister gets mad

ISTJ: Niagara. Quite possibly the first waterfall everbody thinks of when they have to name a waterfall. (the classic)

INFJ: Detian falls. quite nature-ish. pretty private too. (only opened up last year due to border conflicts)

ESFJ: Huangguoshu. It’s very interactive and open. Visitors can even touch the water! (due to a cave formed at the back)

ENTJ: Kaieteur Falls. Powerful. REALLY POWERFUL. Also looks quite impressive. (its in the middle of a rainforest. but that doesnt compare to how hard it is to find an ENTJ that likes you)

INTJ: Victoria Falls. Its indigenious name means The Smoke That Thunders. This relates to the INTJ cause THEY KEEP SHOUTING AT PEOPLE WITH NO PROOF. also it has a reputation that its the biggest and widest but its not

ENFJ: Gocta Cataracts. 2 waterfalls in one and easily accessible (unlike all the others). 

ESFP: Igazu Falls. A lot of fun. Sunny nature. Also it has a fall called Devil’s Throat and for some reason that reminded me of ESFPs.

ISTP: Gullfoss. It is fed by glacial runoff, making it very cold. ISTPs too are fed by glacial runoff and are cold.

ENFP: Jog Falls. Many waterfalls emerging from the same river (line of thought). Amount of water depends on the season (moodswings).

ISFJ: Angel Falls. A literal angel.

INTP: Dragon Gate. Intensely reserved. Not very popular but super cool nonetheless.

i wish people stopped using callout posts as a means to resolve arguments between friends

like i’ve seen SO many posts along the lines of ‘tumblr user nuttingforkomaeda deliberately ignored my messages when i was online despite knowing i have mental health issues, reblog and block them’ like that isn’t………. that’s something you need to be resolving among yourselves, not trying to publicly shame someone for what amounts to an interpersonal conflict

im especially seeing this behaviour among very young (13-15) bloggers and it’s very concerning.

Otome games be like

Heroine: i love white dresses
Guy: oooh wow just soo pure ahhh like an angel’s wings white YASS !!!!!

Heroine: ouch i pricked my finger
Guy: well better carry you.

Herione: hi ! Im new-
Guy: don’t mind but i just realized i am in love with you.
Heroine: ohhh nice to meet you too !
Guy: but
Heroine: yeah ur r a very nice person.
Guy:…
Guy:  D:

Guy 1: do u love me
Guy2: or me ????
Heroine: yes .

Guy: I LOVE U
Heroine: but i dont feel the same way right now.
Guy: ok i understand , but i will make you fall in love with me.
Guy: *proceeds to have no chill for the next few years*

Dragon Age Zodiac
  • Fenrir: 20th Wintermarch – 18th Guardian
  • Resourceful, brave, calm, loyal, secretive. Can sometimes be extremely fierce or seem old despite their years. The sign of transformation and regeneration. Can easily become distrusting and manipulative.
  • Kios: 19th Guardian – 20th Drakonis
  • Curious, idealistic, energetic, full of wonder. Craves change and new experiences. Enthusiastic and extroverted, with a strong desire for freedom. Can be tactless, impatient, or promise more than they can deliver.
  • Eluvia: 21st Drakonis – 19th Cloudreach
  • Artistic, intuitive, gentle, wise. Willing to help others without promise of return. Empathetic, faithful, and caring. Known for being extremely tolerant. Introverted and quiet. Can become isolated or martyr themselves for others.
  • Equinor: 20th Cloudreach – 20th Bloomingtide
  • Co-operative, diplomatic, gracious, peaceful. Lover of harmony, gentleness, and nature. Balance and symmetry, justice and equality. Can be indecisive and avoid confrontation, and sometimes carries grudges.
  • Fervenial: 21st Bloomingtide – 20th Justinian
  • Progressive, original, independent, energetic. Extremely adaptable, looks at the world as full of possibility. Strong desire for freedom and change. Can shy away from emotional expression, or be temperamental, uncompromising, or aloof.
  • Solium: 21st Justinian – 22nd Solace
  • Courageous, determined, confident, enthusiastic, passionate. Competitive, a natural leader, desires action and challenges. Pushes themselves hard. Can be impatient, short-tempered, impulsive, and aggressive.
  • Bellitanus: 23rd Solace – 22nd August
  • Reliable, patient, practical, responsible. Loves everything good and beautiful, very creative. Determined and protective. Known for their stubbornness, dislikes sudden change. Can be uncompromising.
  • Servani: 23rd August – 22nd Kingsway
  • Creative, passionate, generous, warm-hearted. Natural leaders, dramatic, creative, confident. Full of love, able to unite people easily. Can become arrogant, stubborn, self-centred, and lazy.
  • Toth: 23rd Kingsway – 22nd Harvestmere
  • Loyal, kind, hardworking, practical, methodical. Pays close attention to detail, conservative and organised. A creator. Desire to serve and please others. Can become overly critical, anxious, or prioritise their work to an unhealthy degree.
  • Satinalis: 23rd Harvestmere – 21st Firstfall
  • Affectionate, curious, adaptable, expressive, quick-witted. Sociable and communicative, fascinated by the world and desiring new experiences. Creative and musical. Inquisitive and fun-loving, but can be indecisive or inconsistent.
  • Tenebrium: 22nd Firstfall – 21st Haring
  • Responsible, disciplined, efficient, conservative. Practical and scrupulous, known for being very serious. Independent, ambitious, hates lack of control. Often aloof and unforgiving, can also be stubborn and pessimistic.
  • Silentir: 22nd Haring – 19th Wintermarch
  • Intuitive, empathetic, persuasive, imaginative, loyal. Good at solving conflicts, strong determination for harmonious relationships and well-being of their friends and family. Can become suspicious, pessimistic, or manipulative.

okay first of all… lets not talk abt this collage!!!! U GUYS!!!! i cant believe i have this blog for only a month and a few days like ??? ive met so many amazing ppl, made so many friends and most importantly LOVED HOSEOK ENDLESSLY lol so this is a big shoutout to u guys, thank u so much for keeping up with my emo ass!!! LOVE U <3

this is a big thanks to all of my mutuals, u guys r srsly THE BEST and im Blessed!!! i was very conflicted while doing this bc honestly everyone i follow is amazing but yeah lets do this!!!

bold = mutuals

✨ = fave blogs!!

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anonymous asked:

im very conflicted because you make some pretty good posts and are generally a good guy, buuuttt.... you are a literal fucking furry so i should unfollow you because who wants to follow a legit furry. what's your opinion baku????

awoo

anonymous asked:

hi sinmom! can you help me? i have a crush on a girl in robotics with me, but i've always considered myself straight. it's more of an emotional attraction, i think. after i met her i was terrified. i couldn't stop thinking "i want to cuddle with you/smash my face against yours" and it's so scary? my parents are very homophobic and religious so i don't really feel safe telling them about what i'm feeling. some days it's "bi is me!" and other days it's "heh, you're not bi, idiot" please help!

I know where you’re at right now, I’ve been there, and I’m lending you all my strength. <3 Finding out you might not be straight is a simultaneously wonderful and scary experience, and I wish I could tell you the “questioning” phase goes away eventually, but if it does I have yet to encounter the end of it. 

Coming to terms with any non-straight sexuality can be confusing, but bi-ness in particular I think comes with an added measure of confliction. This is mostly because “same sex attraction” (and I’m using this term very loosely) is something that frequently comes and go in bi people, as well as differ on a person to person basis. Bisexuality is a finnicky mistress, and when you combine that with the popular narrative that bi people are just “confused” or “secretly gay/straight and faking for attention”, it’s easy to fall back into that pit of “maybe im not really bi what the heck is wrong with me”. 

In the end, I think it’s important to remember a few things:

  • You can be bi if you love men and women equally. 
  • You can be bi if you’ve dated 100 men and only one woman.
  • You can be bi if you’ve only ever dated people of one gender.
  • You can be bi if you’ve never dated anyone!
  • If you are attracted to more than one gender, you are bi. Regardless of how sporadic/uneven your attraction may be <3

Also, dont feel pressure to come out of the closet??? Like… figuring out your own sexuality with yourself is hard enough, and under no circumstances are you required to share that with anyone else. Take your time. Breathe. Do some thinking and find some peace. Then it’s up to you who deserves to know that information about you.

anonymous asked:

Toby tbh Im really unsure about season 3, because the writer seems to focus on Keith again(they only metioned his character arc in ss3 on twitter) and Im not ready for another keith-centric season. I dont want to grow tired of him, he's cool and all. But I also want to see if they do a proper development for Lance or not. Very conflicted indeed.

honestly i feel like the writers are just trying to direct our attention towards keith so we think that it’ll be about him again when in reality the next season is gonna be more focused on lance and they wanna surprise us

i’ve been hearing rumors about how Jeremy shada said at the wondercon panel that Lance is going to live up to his hype, so…

tbh if this next season really was just going to be focused on keith again, it’d be bad story telling. with the way they introduced the characters in season 1, everyone is a main character. not just keith. and the writers said that, i think? they said that they want the show to be about all of team voltron, not just focused on keith like it was in the old show.

don’t worry, i’m sure that lance will steal some of the spotlight in season 3! it’s the perfect moment for him to as well, what with the team having to switch around lions and Lance’s insecurities being built up over the course of season 1 and 2.

hang in there!

(#abuse)

The lie that annoys me most isn’t “abuse makes you accommodating and kind” but “abuse makes you wise beyond your years” or “abuse makes you grow up fast,” cause ime, abuse, especially early and chronic abuse, hinders the development of communication, conflict resolution and daily life skills associated with maturity. 

Many victims are isolated and taught broken rules during their formative years. They lacked a safe learning environment. They lack ‘common sense’. They might lack common cultural knowledge. What we learned not only doesn’t ‘work’ in the ‘outside’ world, but doesn’t make any sense to anyone else. Most victims develop coping mechanisms (numbing, avoidance, substance abuse, eating disorders, emotional unavailability, ‘forgetfulness’, ‘pathological’ sexualities, etc) very much associated with immaturity. Most develop trigger reactions also very much associated with immaturity (being ‘bad’ at criticism, being ‘bad’ at competition, being ‘bad’ at rejection, being ‘bad’ at coping with inconveniences, being ‘bad’ at judging a situation accurately, etc). Attempts to hyper-correct and to keep up appearances for self-protection also quickly look ‘immature’ (trying ‘too hard’, hiding mistakes, lying, making things unnecessarily complicated, making light of trauma and abuse, etc). Many have at least some trouble with ‘adult’ achievements and virtues like working hard, education, building stable relationships, communities and families, reciprocity, physical and emotional intimacy, independent living, foresight, which, again, is seen as immature, and past a certain age, immoral.  

There is an ableist fiction that people who lack abilities and knowledge do so because we let them get away with it for too long, maybe even encouraged them. If they were forced into disaster, if bad enough things happened to them, so the story, they’d (be forced to) learn how to do all these things they struggle with, and also stop doing all those other things they shouldn’t be doing. Effects of maybe severe abuse and control and disadvantage so get magicked into being effects of being too spoiled, too sheltered, too privileged, lacking life experience, while the abuse suffered becomes a metaphor, only applicable to hypothetical others.

loyaltrencher  asked:

Could you do any aus/prompts on angels and demons interacting (the good, the bad, the funny, the romantic... Anything!) Thanks! 😄

Sorry this took a while!
Person B is a demon who is actually a cinnamon roll and is low key helping person A keep their job as Person C is a corrupt angel who is trying to get all competition for a new open job out of the way, by any means possible.

Person A being a demon with a hellhound and B, a naive angel, not realising its a hellhound or that B is a demon.

Fallen angel person A being protected by B who pretends they are also a fallen angel when they are actually a powerful demon whose high up in the hireachy but doesnt want to intimidate A.

A getting a dog and finding out its a Black shuck (Black demon dog) that has lost its owner and now being conflicted on finding B the owner (a demon) or sending this dog to a place where they can not harm anyone

“Okay but like get OUT OF HEAVEN- YOU DON’T BELONG HERE- noYOU CANNOT HAVE MY NUMBER-”

C:Hey A whats the most embaressing thing you’ve ever done-
A: Im not comfortable with-
B: *Explodes in* THEY-
A: DONT YOU DARE-

Demon prison for particularly annoying low level demons- like B- problem is B is very good at escaping and so A has to watch them constantly.

Do you like my wings-
They’d look better splayed out on my bed-

B a shadow manipulating demon keeping A, a demon safe from hunters/harm with their abilities and A completely misinterpretting what B was trying to do, thinking B was trying to harm them.

Person A being a demon with a hellhound and B, a naive angel, not realising its a hellhound or that B is a demon.

A a demon works in IKEA which is a prime place to make individuals distorted and confused-

“Just because I am a demon does not mean I am going to shop lift!”

Angel accidently summoning a demon.

“Love your wings, dear.”
“Oh, thanks I got them done at- Hang on a minute your that demon who graffitied on my hous- GET BACK HERE-”

One twin is a demon the other an angel.

A wanting a break from being a general nuiscance to people but B won’t get off their back about it.